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Buzzee
Sweet Buffet Tongs!
Buzzee, 23 August, 2011 at 14:02

Ah, the things we stress about in planning! Just wondered where you got your tongs/scoops from for your sweet tables. I think i'm drawn to tongs over scoops (if one can be drawn to such things ?!!!)...

Mynnie the Moocher, tuesday 23-Aug-11 5 1,502
Nenas
Tulip buttonholes..?
Nenas, 23 August, 2011 at 13:18

Mine and BMs bouquets will be tulips (mix of purple and white, along the lines of the pic in my avatar), and OH and I would quite like to have tulips for the men's buttonholes (just the wedding party)...

Nenas, tuesday 23-Aug-11 4 4,223
Banana88
Suit/Cravat Help ... please :)
Banana88, 22 August, 2011 at 21:44

Right ladies ... and gents. I've just been asked by the lady who is making my BM dresses if I want cravats/hankies making in the same material, which I do. Just been speaking to OH trying to get an...

Samantha2704, tuesday 23-Aug-11 15 4,347
Pinky6
Wedding Rings...
Pinky6, 22 August, 2011 at 16:31

I'm really confused about where is best to get these from! The place OH bought my ER from (H.Samuel) offers 10% off WR if we buy from them but they don't have a lot of choice. He just wants a plain...

Kooks, tuesday 23-Aug-11 11 1,574
C
tog/music recommendations oxfordshire please!
carolineT, 19 August, 2011 at 18:54

Hello, We have booked our wedding for 2 june next year, but i'm starting to panic because we haven't found a tog or evening band yet, and i'm worried by the time we find one we like, they will already...

sgreen, monday 22-Aug-11 11 1,392
panda2011
Personalised bikinis?
panda2011, 22 August, 2011 at 12:43

I saw a thread on here a couple of weeks ago where someone recommended a nice company for things like personalised bikinis with things like Mrs Thorne or Bride stuck on in diamantes. Can anyone with a...

pandorasbox, monday 22-Aug-11 2 1,099
Holly-Jayne
The White Company - Sale
Holly-Jayne, 19 August, 2011 at 19:01

Heya, Just wanted to let everyone know the white company have got up 80% off online and I just bagged myself a whopping £56.85 saving on table decorations and social stirrers ? And its free delivery...

LoveSka, monday 22-Aug-11 15 2,516
BowlingBride
Flower ideas for a September wedding - help please
BowlingBride, 20 August, 2011 at 10:13

I'm meeting a florist next weekend to talk about flowers for my wedding September 2012. I know nothing about flowers so want to do a bit of research before i meet her. Has anyone got an idea of the...

Sherrie H, monday 22-Aug-11 7 5,213
germaki
Monday weddings?
germaki, 21 August, 2011 at 20:18

Hi all, I'm new here!! My name is Emma and I got engaged in Feb, and we're starting to plan our wedding. We have decided on October 2013 but due to budget we've started to consider a Monday...

Gillykins, sunday 21-Aug-11 4 1,194
lovelygirl
Wedding quiz???
lovelygirl, 12 January, 2011 at 12:50

As an ice breaker for the reception i plan to put out cards one for each couple one side with a sort of advice to the married couple with spaces for them to fill in as they see fit hoping for some...

judeclarke, sunday 21-Aug-11 16 5,292
DaffyB
Anyone with IBS?
DaffyB, 18 August, 2011 at 10:49

Does anyone else suffer from IBS? And how do you plan on preventing it from interfering with your day? I ask because we went to my brother's wedding at the weekend and after eating the 3 course meal I...

tizmelou, saturday 20-Aug-11 13 4,654
tizmelou
Bad engagement reactions
tizmelou, 18 August, 2011 at 16:11

Anyone else had nbad ones or have a really nasty mother in law to be? My OH told her 2 tuesdays ago that we'd got engaged. Hr words were - did you buy her a diamond ring and he said yes and she said...

*Mini*, saturday 20-Aug-11 36 4,704
LeedsBride
Registry office wedding?
LeedsBride, 19 August, 2011 at 21:44

I haven't posted on here for a while (but I have been lurking ?) I was just wondering what you guys thought of registry offices as a venue? what are the pros and cons? We are considering it as we both...

Civil Ceremonies, saturday 20-Aug-11 5 3,015
saspip
Pantone swatches - where to get them?!
saspip, 18 August, 2011 at 20:43

Hi hitchers I recently ordered my bridesmaids dresses from Dessy and despite paying a fortune they don't come with a swatch of fabric. I really need a swatch for the cake / invites etc but the only...

saspip, friday 19-Aug-11 15 3,467
colldel1981
The Turquoise Holiday Company
colldel1981, 19 August, 2011 at 08:43

Morning all, Has any one you used this company? if so what did you think of them!? thank you coll xx

Tina Teaspoon, friday 19-Aug-11 5 3,543
Sparkly Bride
25th august 2012 Brides xxxx
Sparkly Bride, 18 August, 2011 at 22:09

Nearly at the year mark ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxx

Sparkly Bride, thursday 18-Aug-11 3 436
1234ABC
Just Married Ugg boots!
1234ABC, 18 August, 2011 at 14:49

How awesome do these look? Or is it just me. Think i really want a pair!

Rizzo, thursday 18-Aug-11 27 9,463
sapphire_22
Photobox and how to display my boudoir pics
sapphire_22, 18 August, 2011 at 14:23

Wrote about this on here before and a couple of people suggested photobox. The terms of use state no pornographic images can be uploaded. Most of the photos is just me in nice underwear but in a...

sapphire_22, thursday 18-Aug-11 6 5,207
ajdown
Operation WhiteCake - the world's shortest engagement?
ajdown, 16 August, 2011 at 18:36

Found this video which I thought was interesting, about a groom that spent a year planning a wedding in secret, and everything and everyone was organised but kept quiet from the bride. She thought she...

MandM90, thursday 18-Aug-11 30 3,150
B
Bridesmaids - who pays for what?
, 16 August, 2011 at 17:14

Hi everyone! Just wondered what other people are doing in terms of bridesmaids and who's paying for what? Dress, shoes, jewellery, hotel room etc. My OH's ushers and best man will be paying for their...

MandM90, wednesday 17-Aug-11 23 5,274
colldel1981
Struggling to find nice bridesmaid dresses
colldel1981, 17 August, 2011 at 13:15

Hi All, Please can I have some advice.I'm really struggling to find any nice bridesmaid dresses,especially as all my bridesmaids are different sizes,? Colour I'm looking for is a royal/cobalt blue...

ex-lurker, wednesday 17-Aug-11 15 6,153
knitting_vixen
For those who had/are having a cheese buffet
knitting_vixen, 17 August, 2011 at 12:54

How much cheese did you buy? We are eating the WB late and therefore will not be having a full on buffet... we do want to do a cheese buffet of 3 different cheeses, home made chutney, bread (actually...

Peter, wednesday 17-Aug-11 2 870
nicnol
Getting your engagment ring cleaned...how long did it take?
nicnol, 17 August, 2011 at 14:36

H2B bought my ring from Ernest Jones and they offer a free cleaning service within a year of buying it.....that year has now passed but they said they would still honour it seeing as I get married...

MandM90, wednesday 17-Aug-11 10 12,893
Beehunnee70
Wedding etiquette for a bride of 42..?!
Beehunnee70, 15 August, 2011 at 17:33

Hi guys.. When we get married next November '12, we will have been together 3 years. I will be 42 and my fiance will be 34 (I know, lucky girl, right!).. It is to be my second marriage and his first....

jojo2, wednesday 17-Aug-11 20 1,956
LottaVictualia
Mini Cooper hire in the South West?
LottaVictualia, 15 August, 2011 at 09:24

We are looking to hire a (vintage) mini cooper as our wedding car and 'do a Will and Kate' (OH's words) from the church back to the venue. I am having trouble finding one though in the area. Does...

hannioli, wednesday 17-Aug-11 4 1,931
Toastcat
budget for flowers
Toastcat, 13 August, 2011 at 08:53

Good morning all, hope everyone is well and hasn't been affected by the riots happening this week. I was curious as to what people's budgets are for flowers. Ours is 400, which would need to include...

mytinyvintagewedding, wednesday 17-Aug-11 16 7,350
X
civil services - how to fill the gaps?
xmasbride11, 16 August, 2011 at 21:24

My friend got engaged a while ago and is having a civil service. I've never been to a civil service and I'm just wondering what do you do to fill the gaps instead of having hymns etc.

judeclarke, wednesday 17-Aug-11 7 1,084
P
Dress not ready (still!)
Petal_62, 16 August, 2011 at 21:24

So... I was supposed to pick up my dress last week but it needed taking in again so I've been back today and still needs another alteration... I'm getting married next Friday, should I be worried? I...

Petal_62, tuesday 16-Aug-11 2 1,044
Kooks
Round tables - are you making the 'top' table stand out?
Kooks, 16 August, 2011 at 13:26

We're having 5 round tables and no top table as such. Are you making your table stand out or decorating it the same as the others?

jules40, tuesday 16-Aug-11 11 1,430
Rod
Help..Child Friendly poem / reading
Rod, 16 August, 2011 at 13:38

My 8 yr old stepdaughter asked me on Sunday if she is still reading a poem at the wedding. Christ knows when i told her this but she is adamant that she is. HELP! I need something that she can read...

onion1975, tuesday 16-Aug-11 13 40,060
*Mini*
How do you sack the best man?
*Mini*, 15 August, 2011 at 18:49

The September wedding thread has made us think...MrMini wants to sack his BM- he has been useless and isnt even now coming on the stag do (which he fialed to organize) How do you suggest sacking...

*Mini*, tuesday 16-Aug-11 8 2,206
Hollie1984
For those having page boys
Hollie1984, 16 August, 2011 at 11:39

Will your page boy suits match the groom & bestmans suits?? The men will be in grey suits, My first thought was to get them a similar style suit but now i have found a page boy suit that i like...

judeclarke, tuesday 16-Aug-11 6 2,798

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