Jade

We’re getting married abroad, and can’t decide if it’s better to do a pre wedding drinks gathering once everyone arrives a day or so before the wedding. Or do a post wedding gathering day after the wedding.

What is the right thing to do? I can’t have everyone at my wedding due to costing a fortune! Would it come across rude if I invite people to my hen that I haven’t invited to the wedding? Or would it be fine if I explain I can’t afford to have you all...