Activity of Bethmdoyle

Is it too early for save the date cards? My partner and I were never engaged, we have lived together for 3 years and have a gorgeous little girl. We just sat down one day and decided "lets get married." So it will be a big surprise when people open...

I was just wondering how much everyone is spending? And what aspects of your day are costing what? I had originally thought I would have a small wedding (I only have 4 family members and a few close small group of friends) so thought I cold get...