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Use of racist terms unintentionally/racism generally
Headless Lois, 21 January, 2009 at 13:20

If someone you knew used the terms coloured or the dark person to refer to black people, would you remind them that it is more acceptable to say 'black' these days, or say nothing? The person saying...

DaisyDaisy, wednesday 21-Jan-09 54
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There is no poverty in Britain just 'bums'.... (debate)
Mistletoe_Tiger, 21 January, 2009 at 12:13

This is what my colleague has just said to me. 3 of us in the office and 2 think bums - I think poverty but cannot explain why....

R-A, wednesday 21-Jan-09 18
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My OH is threatening to kill himself.
Steph73, 9 January, 2009 at 23:08

I don't know what to do or where to start. He's an alcoholic we have three young children I finally threw him out last October. I don't want to take him back, he wants to come back and tonight his...

Rache, saturday 10-Jan-09 26
Iris
Can anyone recommend a holiday cottage or company please?
Iris, 9 January, 2009 at 18:49

For various reasons we're holidaying in the UK again this year. We fancy Devon, Dorset or Cornwall. We'd like to be nearish to a beach. We went to Gower last year so we have been a bit spoilt in the...

Duck, monday 12-Jan-09 20
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IABU - wedding abroad - update on1st pg
Viva Suzi, 8 January, 2009 at 15:43

Well my SIL2B has finally decided about where she is going to have her wedding day. Above all she wants it to be different that other weddings she has gone to....so where does she pick?.....Australia...

Zo�, friday 6-Feb-09 139
RuthG
has anyone got underfloor heating?
RuthG, 6 January, 2009 at 22:42

We're buying a house that currently has no heating system. MrG suggested the possibility of having underfloor heating, but I've no idea on the cost. Has anybody had it fitted? It's a 3 bed, 2...

jason.baptiste, wednesday 23-Dec-09 17
Ostrich
Crap gifts. Tell me yours.
Ostrich, 29 December, 2008 at 11:21

My in laws are elderly and therefore depend on their daughter (my SIL) to buy gifts for all the family and they reimburse her. Since I met my H he has told me his SIL is notorious for buying absolute...

Sunset21, tuesday 30-Dec-08 55
Eric
Things I've learnt this year...
Eric, 25 December, 2008 at 22:32

Might be a bit premature but I think I can waive the last week... Trust is very precious - dont waste it on everyone. Money doesn't really matter - better to be poor and happy. Children are very...

Eric, friday 26-Dec-08 8
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cat wwyd?
tea and toast, 24 December, 2008 at 10:35

Our wee cat had diarrhea at the start of the week and vomiting maybe once a day too. I thought it had passed but she was sick again this morning. I rang the vet and he said that if she seems bright...

tea and toast, wednesday 24-Dec-08 7
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Made me smile.....
Eleda, 22 December, 2008 at 23:49

https://b3ta.com/challenge/uktv/popular/

Eleda, monday 22-Dec-08 213
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pet insurance - a cautionery tale
Eleda, 22 December, 2008 at 17:37

We had 3 cats and for years they were all insured together. Last year we lost one of them and got a new kitten. The new kitten wasn't insured - I got her microchipped and neutered but when I tried to...

baublegirl, tuesday 23-Dec-08 5 794
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Do you "look down on" people for their job/career?
Sparkly Boots, 16 December, 2008 at 15:32

I was thinking about this the other day and was moved to post because of the Sun topic posted by "The 12DaisyDaisy's...". If you are friends with someone who works in a cafe or shop, or is a cleaner...

blossom, thursday 18-Dec-08 119
MrsB
Things people say/words that irrationally annoy you
MrsB, 14 December, 2008 at 09:59

Go on, we haven't had one of these for a while have we? my pet hates atm "pound" instead of 'pounds'. 'It cost me thirty pound!' Grrrr. my husband does this. I think it sounds so awful. 'hubby'. Just...

Iris it could be chr, monday 15-Dec-08 165
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What's going on here?
Eleda, 14 December, 2008 at 18:23

We're going to call the plumber tomorrow, but there's something wrong. When we flush the toilet, the cat jumps in the bath and stares down the plughole. This has been going on for a couple of weeks....

Eleda, sunday 14-Dec-08 258
Ginger
Irrationally irritated (or am i?)
Ginger, 14 December, 2008 at 16:40

I am about to have a moan, so if you don't wish to read a bit of a whinge, click away now. I have had a difficult relationship with my MIL, it was horrid when i left her son, but got better again when...

Doughnut, sunday 14-Dec-08 7
WifeyLind
My cat has a cold :0( Any vets about?
WifeyLind, 14 December, 2008 at 15:33

My cat has a cold. As a persian she is prone to snuffles and on Friday I noticed that she had started sneezing however on inspection she didn't have any discharge from her nose, so I thought that I...

Monkey Mavis, monday 15-Dec-08 4
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Mick, Jo, Freya and Coco, thankyou.
Eleda, 14 December, 2008 at 15:27

Thankyou for your Christmas card. I'd send one back if you can tell me who the feck you are. But ta, anyway!?

Melancholie, sunday 14-Dec-08 234
RubyBlue
Would you like this as a gift?
RubyBlue, 12 December, 2008 at 22:56

I thought it would be quite nice to book tickets for Hairspray the musical for my mum and sis, just found tickets in the stalls for £40 each. It will be a Fri in Jan...I'm 99% sure they won't have...

(Mrs) Magic of Chris, saturday 13-Dec-08 16
Petunia
Sex Discrimination at work - views needed
Petunia, 12 December, 2008 at 19:41

Hi I could really use another perspective on this to help me decide what to do. Could possibly be sensitive - not sure. I cant have children naturally, I will need IVF, this is a definite. My previous...

Roobarb the Red Nose, friday 12-Dec-08 14
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Hitched organise me: Books
Eleda, 10 December, 2008 at 19:45

I seem to have aquired a LOT of books. Loads. 700ish. I'm running out of space and my H is running out of patience. I need to get rid of some and organise the rest. WWYD? Where would you sell them? I...

Eleda, thursday 11-Dec-08 11
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Prolapsed uterus
Eleda, 8 December, 2008 at 12:36

My mum, aged 63 has just called and casually dropped into conversation that she's got a prolapsed uterus. Her doc diagnosed it with an examination and also with some sort of a swab. She wants her to...

oldspeckledtam, monday 8-Dec-08 8
Maxiletoe & Wine
Hitchers missing in action
Maxiletoe & Wine, 6 December, 2008 at 22:53

Where did they all go.. I'm thinking; Luthien and Braw Wee Chanter. I know Mariets said she wouldn't be coming back a few weeks ago. Do any of you lurk, if so ?

seraphina, sunday 7-Dec-08 8
Ethel
Can I tell y'all a little secret? (sml update pg2)
Ethel, 5 December, 2008 at 17:44

It's killing me not being able to talk about it IRL.. Hal is currently on his way to a job interview for the most perfect amazing job and there is a great chance he will get it, being that it is...

Ethel, saturday 6-Dec-08 29
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What were these chocolates??
Eleda, 2 December, 2008 at 22:40

My grandma every year used to get a box of chocs at Christmas. They came in a white square box and said on the top something like "a selection of chocolates and candies" and they had chocs in there,...

Eleda, wednesday 3-Dec-08 12
Oriana
AIBU and SISS
Oriana, 3 December, 2008 at 14:47

Hi We have recently moved across the county and as we couldn't sell our old place in time, we left the keys with H's parents to show people round if anyone wanted to view the property. I wasn't 100%...

We 3 kings of Ori-ta, thursday 4-Dec-08 25
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Post flood insurance renewal
Headless Lois, 1 December, 2008 at 11:31

The annual amount for insurance has gone down. There's a £5k excess on flooding! Bleurgh. L xx

Headless Lois, monday 1-Dec-08 2
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I need someone to talk to
Slut, 30 November, 2008 at 14:57

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Julia., sunday 30-Nov-08 15
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Life is cruel
Sandie, 30 November, 2008 at 05:16

I have not been on here very much the last year or two so i just want to say hello to everyone i used to talk to. I cant get my head straight. I was due to get married in 4 months time. Life was good...

NeoShoegal, monday 1-Dec-08 113
Redbedhead
Telling work what you think of them?
Redbedhead, 29 November, 2008 at 15:20

Has anyone else been tempted to tell their work what they think of them when they leave a job? H and I were talking about it (I am being made redundant) and wondered if anyone had actually done it. I...

Eleda, sunday 30-Nov-08 12

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