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village hall hire near Glasgow
weejen21, 22 July, 2012 at 20:37

Hi, We would really appreciate some advice! We're looking for a really simple wedding, no fuss etc and very informal. We never wanted to have to pick and choose what friends/family we can invite so...

weejen21, monday 30-Jul-12 5
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Wills, interfering exes and parents and complicated children set up... help!
Toblerone, 2 September, 2009 at 09:26

Ok so the problem is my husband has a boy (22) and girl(14) from previous marriage, I have 2 boys (20) from a previous relationship and we have a son of almost 4 together. His oldest lives with his...

Toblerone, thursday 3-Sep-09 17
Lady Vixen
The release of Abdelbaset Ali al-Megrahi
Lady Vixen, 20 August, 2009 at 16:02

Can someone please explain to me what the decision has been taken to release the 'Lockerbie Bomber'. I know it is on 'compassionate grounds' as he has terminal cancer but I've not heard of the...

teenybash, friday 21-Aug-09 34
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Could you Forgive & Forget?
Forgive, 30 July, 2009 at 15:04

Please excuse the anon - all the usual OH knows i am a member, i have a few friends on here bla bla....If you guess my identity please dont 'out me' Anyway to the point. Me and OH have been together 6...

MarineGirl, thursday 30-Jul-09 34
ashke_again
What's your average spend on food in a month?
ashke_again, 30 July, 2009 at 18:00

Just trying to work out budgets and looking at the last few months we're probably spending nearly £260 (on average) on food for 2 of us. That's a bit much isn't it? Caught the start of the article on...

PoppetK, saturday 1-Aug-09 64
Mrs Magic
Wootton Basset - repatriation of deseased troops
Mrs Magic, 28 July, 2009 at 14:58

It started with the locals, along with former troops and the British Legion. It was seen as a beautiful mark of respect. Then as word spread, more and more arrived to pay their respects. Then along...

Old Nick Esq., wednesday 29-Jul-09 29
Sparkley
Has anyone tried to bathe a cat?
Sparkley, 28 July, 2009 at 11:41

Hmm, I think I need to bath my cat ? she always keeps herself clean, but I have noticed her fur feels a little bit greasy and dull. Probably something t do with her being on or near me all the time,...

HaloHoney, tuesday 28-Jul-09 32
Hugo Brambles
Has anyone issued the 'marry me or leave me' ultimatum?
Hugo Brambles, 27 July, 2009 at 17:09

Or has anyone been issued that ultimatum? If so what was the outcome?

Minardi Forever, sunday 16-Aug-09 85
shoegal01
What do you and our OH argue about?
shoegal01, 27 July, 2009 at 10:23

Mostly our arguements are about - 1) who gets to watch what on TV 2) How LAZY he is 3) Decorating - whenever we are decorating we ALWAYS argue!! This weekend we were decorating and all we did was...

cheska, monday 27-Jul-09 42
Ginger
question for those that are down wiv da kidz
Ginger, 24 July, 2009 at 17:05

What is this new txt ssssssssssssspk sssstufffff where they add lots of letterssssssss to wordsssss, is there a rule about this? i don't get it

Melancholie, saturday 25-Jul-09 32
Hoobygroovy
Swine flu - vaccinations for all?
Hoobygroovy, 12 July, 2009 at 17:38

Https://www.msn.com/ I'm not sure I want to be vaccinated. I've never had flu in my life and, having seen both my 'at risk' parents become very unwell after flu jabs, I'm inclined to continue to take...

JK, sunday 12-Jul-09 6
Madwife Nightingale
Does anyone know anything about housing benefit?
Madwife Nightingale, 10 July, 2009 at 22:10

And I do mean really know lol? H lost his job almsot 3 months ago and whilst we have applied for the mortgage subsidy, I wondering where we would stand if we sold our house and rented instead. I am...

pom, sunday 12-Jul-09 22
Roobarb
F U C K what do I do now?
Roobarb, 19 June, 2009 at 09:53

I have posted before about the couple who owned this house before us. They were property developers and owned a couple of limited companies and we were still getting all their mail, which I was pissed...

Sare, friday 19-Jun-09 22
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Cat advice please
Julz, 31 May, 2009 at 13:46

I'm normally more of a BT'er, but have read a few cat posts on OT before so hope no-one minds me picking your brains. We have two cats and an issue with our new neighbours. The house we live in was my...

Holly Bags, sunday 31-May-09 7
Melawen
Another cat question I'm afraid...
Melawen, 31 May, 2009 at 13:56

We have two cats who over recent weeks have started to take it in turns to wake us up early (eg 5:30am). One cries at you and the other climbs things - or more to the point tries as we've moved stuff...

tahdah, sunday 31-May-09 5
Melancholie
Do you carry ID?
Melancholie, 24 May, 2009 at 14:10

I was asked for ID last night and didn't have any so wasn't allowed into the pub. In my whole life I've only ever been asked for ID three times, and two of those have been in the last month! I'm...

Sah, monday 25-May-09 32
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Are there particular quiet times in swimming pools?
SAM83, 20 May, 2009 at 18:36

Want to go swimming again but I severely lack confidence. I have checked timetable of our 2 local pools and one one does a ladies only sesh (which I thought would be answer) but its at 9pm on a Sunday...

Charlie, tuesday 21-Apr-26 44
em-ster
AIBU - Kids in gym changing area / showers...
em-ster, 17 May, 2009 at 15:08

Now, I'm not normally one to grumble and can totally appreciate parental needs, but can I run this you? I go to a fairly 'nice' gym with good wet and dry facilities which attract family membership. I...

Hecate, tuesday 19-May-09 184
Missus Jolly
Grim weddings
Missus Jolly, 30 April, 2009 at 18:04

Sort of inspired by Emmanumbers post. We went to an evening reception recently. We really should have thought twice when we received the invite. The couple had added a little letter asking for...

WIseMonkey, friday 1-May-09 41
Hugo Brambles
The increase in pets being dumped as people can't afford to feed them?
Hugo Brambles, 28 April, 2009 at 16:05

I know things are really bad at the moment, lots of people loosing their jobs and as a small business myself I can totally appreciate the pinch people are feeling. I can't even imagine for a second...

(pf), friday 1-May-09 56
janeyh
morbid question - have you thought about/specified where you want to be buried etc
janeyh, 28 April, 2009 at 22:27

Mr j just asked me i really dont care - but suppose i should specify something so it isnt an onerous decision for whoever has to make it my view is that it is all just compost and they can do whatever...

Nun, wednesday 29-Apr-09 31
Smiley
Those who have or are considering extending house, how did you finance it?
Smiley, 27 April, 2009 at 09:51

We live in a 2 bed semi detached, and have been looking to move, but the house prices around where we are are ridiculous for 3 bedrooms. So, the easy (?) option seems to extend if we can, as we have...

The White Rabbit, tuesday 28-Apr-09 12
Zebra
"I think swine flu is very different from a normal flu because I just couldn't get out of bed."
Zebra, 27 April, 2009 at 11:27

Says the woman in this BBC interview. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/8019832.stm Clearly she's just never had any kind of flu before. FFS, you'd think they'd have edited the interview so she...

Mrs Magic, tuesday 28-Apr-09 140
janeyh
can i have a sanity check? aibu - overprotectiveness of children
janeyh, 23 April, 2009 at 19:25

Mine that is ? can i just see what people think walking around by themselves/playing on the street/crossing roads alone, sleepovers with people you dont know very well - at 9 (just turned) i feel...

essexmum, friday 24-Apr-09 39
JK
Talking of Man B
JK, 16 April, 2009 at 17:14

I dreamt of Alan Rickman last night. A little Googling reveals he's approximately the same age as my dad. Which makes it all a bit creepy, doesn't it? ? (We were dancing BTW. And he had a tattoo,...

Stargazerlily2626, thursday 16-Apr-09 14
Clairy
Do you have a plan B?
Clairy, 15 April, 2009 at 16:31

In case your marriage doesn't work out? I do, quite a detailed one. I have worked out what my income and expenditure would be, what amount I'd have for rent / mortgage and consequently where I could...

Kali, monday 20-Apr-09 121
hazel
The Hospital: C4
hazel, 14 April, 2009 at 21:10

It's going to be another corking programme. Teenage mums. This second one has done her homework - good on her!

Hyacinth, wednesday 15-Apr-09 47
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UPDATE PG 3 - Wedding guest dilemma - not really a WWYD but what do you think?
alison76, 2 April, 2009 at 13:30

Re-posted - hopefully more readable now! Here's a novel dilemma for you all. I'm going to the wedding of a close uni mate on Saturday. There's a massive group of uni mates going to it. We got a text...

Melancholie, monday 6-Apr-09 75
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Do I need to get a computer bod in?
Headless Lois, 1 April, 2009 at 19:06

Had yell.com in last week and whilst looking around, clicked on another local photographer's website which seemed to be virus ridden. Since then pc keeps hanging, google doesn't work properly (oddly)...

Headless Lois, wednesday 1-Apr-09 1
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Tax Credits - huh?
Ruby 2, 31 March, 2009 at 16:23

Will be cross posting this on Baby Talk too, for the Child Tax Credit element. Basically, we've found out we're entitled to a certain amount of both Child and Working Tax Credits. We could really,...

texasgirl26, wednesday 1-Apr-09 7
DebbieD
Car insurance for teenagers - any suggestions?
DebbieD, 31 March, 2009 at 07:53

My teenage step-son has recently passed his driving test and has bought himself an old Fiesta. When he passed, he was given a book with ads for loads of insurance companies who specialise in...

Nooniepie, tuesday 31-Mar-09 18

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