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Just to update I barely used this forum but been married for 9 months now and we had a great day. We now have a baby girl too.

Really at a lost tbh. We have paid the deposit for the registrar, the venue and the photographer, we have paid 1000 of the venue and still have about 5000 left to pay for the whole wedding. We decided...

Im kind of at a lost of what to do here, theres a few issues and i want to sort them because venue needs a rough idea of our wedding numbers soon for day and evening. 1. I have a half brother. I've...

Hello Hitchers, I'm meeting my dad tomorrow for the first time in 3 years (he lives down in England somewhere). We don't have much of a relationship and he's never made much of an effort to be in my...

I went for a job interview and I got it it's doubling my money a month, sounds such a good job and i can't wait to start! Full time permanant, start end of june/july So excited! Means we don't need to...

Paying off half the wedding venue today Trying to scatter costs, our day isn't for 1 year and 7 months but figured if we pay it over that time we wont realise how expensive it is lol! We are tryng to...

Okay so here's the problem... We have hired to very good (very expensive) photographers for our wedding. Me and my OH are very private people and have decided that we do not want any photos taken...

Just about to start...we made a rough guest list when we first got engaged and now going to start thinking properly about it for save the dates! Bought some paper for the save the dates that I'm going...

Hi, I have been looking for a post like this but haven't been able to find one so sorry if it has been done? I just thought it would be nice to start getting to know some other brides to be? Name (or...

Have your parents met your OHs parents? Mine have not. We live near my parents. OH parents live a few hours away. They have not met, and its one of those things were should probably of done it ages...

What's your main wedding colour? ? Just for fun! H2b and me were discussing most popular colours, I think it's pink or purple, but he thinks blue, so I thought I'd ask! ?What's yours? x

Hi guys, this is abit awkward but I'd love your views? Are everyone's parents contributing towards their wedding even if it's just a little bit? reason I ask is, me & my partner always intended to...

Just as title says, deposits are mostly paid for the wedding, lots paid off already, the whole reason we chose to have a wedding was so our family could be there and see their loving faces but...

Hi, my dad died last year, he was always a good gardner and he planted loads in the flower bed in our front garden. Well they started growing again, ones that musnt have grown last time? We didn't...

So we went out last night to drop off our wedding invitations and it all turned into a bit of a nightmare. My other half mum decided to kick off at the fact that not every single one of her siblings...

Hey all I have just found put I am pregnant - I will be around 9 weeks gone on the big day! We have been trying for years and were due to start IVF in May. We are totally surprised as we had given up...

All the legalities of marriage confuses me. Can someone give me an idiots guide to the order to do things and when? Like when to book registrar, when to do the notice of marriage, what other legal...

I wanted to do something that would suit everyone so am thinking of planning Horse riding (just an hour or something for anyone who wanted to come) I m really horsey and so are lots of my friends...

So it's 5 weeks before my wedding and my bridesmaid txt me to say she won't be able to come to the wedding unless she brings her daughter (6 yrs old) the friend who was meant to have her can no...

Why....are table plans such a nightmare?!!! We sat down last night to do the table plans and the disagreements started about the top table...nevermind the guests!! OH wanted all kids including our own...

Where is relatively cheap and hot in december? No clue, if we can't find something we might just settle for a week in a cabin here in scotland but i love heat and sun!

Hi, I need some advice of you lovely hitchers, i need to know if i am being a cow!!!! My lovely laid back sometimes horizontal OH has this friend who he has known from childhood, i don't know him...

Hi, we are trying to book a lot of the things for our wedding now so we can spread the cost and make it easier to pay. So far we have booked the venue deposit. (includes disco, food and drinks) Our...

Hi, have been stewing and stewing for some time about a few comments that have been made by a "friend" We are getting married 150 miles from home so understand that not all people could afford to...