Anyone help with a Woe Is Me chat?

It's not so much scared here and now, it's scared of what will come from it. I've kept you both up long enough, forget it all and get to bed!

Thanks

xx

Im not going to bed Im not even tired so you cant get away that easily mrs!

Please keep talking to us if you really cant phone

Fear of the unknown is understandable. But believe me when I tell you that I think you've bypassed that fear. You've talked to us (relative strangers) tonight - you can make one more 'post' by telephone.

Meep, I shall sit here until 10/11/12/1/2/3/4 whatever o'clock tomorrow - please just dial the number.

I spoke to Kate and she told me that they cannot ring without 'invitation' if you like. However, if you ring her - she can help - more than me or Zoe or hitched.

I agree she can help more than we can Meep xx If you cant work out what to say just read this whole thread to her

Firstly.... Will all of you edit your posts to remove your e-mail addresses? Bad move for any number of reasons.

Then Ms. Meep (I meet remarkably few Beaker fans) Do what Eric says.

You've got yer dander up now.... Get things rolling before anyone has a chance to chage your mind.

Think about New Year.

You can either spend it (and hence a part of every other New Year after (New Year's like that) thinking about the fact that you sorted yourself out and started living again.... Or you can spend it regretting not doing so.

You know what you have to do.

Make someone happy (are you old enough to remember Busby?) In this case... You.

Hurry now, or I shall deploy the pillow!

Dont worry its not my email address, will edit out in a min wanted to make sure she got it

I hope the lack of reply from you Meep means you are on the phone xx

I'm hoping that as well Zoe

How are you doing Eric, anymore problems from your ex?

Meep if you are here and lurking please talk to us x

Not really Zoe - he's makes an effort to be annoying every once in a while but I'm past caring frankly. ?

Great I am pleased, at least he's not making an impact even if he does try to make a pest of himself

☹️ Shes not showing as online anymore I really hope she is ok.

Oh he's very trying.

I'm having the time of my life - it took me a while to realise that I could turn the TV off - imagine! But apart from that the whole process has been seamless. ?

I think shes gone to bed - I hope shes sleeping. I might ring to see if shes rang....

Good idea at least we would know if she called.

I hope shes getting some rest and isnt doing something silly. I saved her hotmail address so will email her tomorrow.

Re the Tv. You mean the TV has an off button? Where is that pray tell?

Actually I dont want to check up on her. But I hope she has rang.

Meep, if you see this in the morning and you haven't made the call yet - do it first chance you get. ?

Yes Zoe - the Telebox has an off switch - it gets rid of the drone. Its wonderful. ?

Yes once I thought about what I had said I think you are right, it would be wrong to spy on her poor lass. The worry took my fingers before I had thought about what they were saying.

Do they have an email service? I wonder if that would be better for her?

I'M SURE THEY DO ALTHOUGH i CANT FIND IT ON THE WEBSITE - THIS IS THE WEBSITE BTW /health

Woah - caps lock - sorry

I found this one *******@*****************.***.** but not sure if its for actual help IYSWIM

Just read the first couple of pages but I'd like to offer a virtual ?

Meep, hope you managed to get on the phone. I'm sure your husband may have a few redeeming qualities but I can't quite see how any will cancel out what you've said ☹️

Oh bless you Meep. I hope you're ok and I hope you feel strong enough to ring the number Eric gave you.

Eric and Zoe, you are both amazing. xxxxx

How are you this morning, Meep? You're not invisible on here, and if you want to talk this through more, or someone to virtually hold your hand while you phone women's aid, then shout. I felt so sad for you reading your posts ?

Oh Meep, your posts have made me so sad/mad for you in equal measure. FWIW, I recognise you on hitched, you're a worthwhile human being and sound utterly lovely.

Do what Eric says, make that call, it will change your life for the better. I promise ?

Meep, I "know" you on here too - I make a point of trying to stalk all the Glasgow-ish hitchers ?

I am worried about you lovely. I am just outside Glasgow and on mat leave at the moment so free to meet up for coffee/a chat or anything with you any time. I mean that I wouldn't offer if I didn't. In the meantime, hope you are OK ?

Oh, Meep, reading this has made me sad and angry in equal measure. FWIW, I know you- your username is one of my favourites, as is your avatar- and you seem like a lovely person. I do hope you managed to make that phonecall honey.

Eric and Zoe- you guys rock!

Meep, I hope you've managed to get some sleep and you are able to take on board what the lovely insomniacs Eric and Zoe have been saying to you. You sound so sad and you don't deserve it.

I like what ONE said about being able to spend all your future new years being able to look back at this year being the year you took control and made your life better.

Meep - please ring the number. Please make the first steps to sorting out your life - you deserve so much more.

Zoe and Eric - you're amazing!

Totally agree with everything already said - Meep hope you are ok and have made that call.

It won't help but I was there once too, an ex had slowly cut me off from all my friends, made me feel worthless without him, fat and ugly and would never attract anyone else.

Do you know? That first step away was the hardest but I felt like the whole world had lifted from my shoulders!

And I met DH 6 months later who wasn't in the least bothered by my size and made me realise just how much my ex had done to knock any self esteem I had.

I really hope you find the courage to step away and enjoy the life you deserve to have

Meep, whatever you are doing, I hope you are ok

Another person who "knows" you Meep (and loves your avatar)

I can't add to the sound advice you've already been given. I just hope you're ok and have found the strength to make that call. A whole new year and new future is just around the corner for you and you deserve the chance to have it.

Take care of yourself. You have so many people here for you x x

Meep - you're not invisible, just unhappy. Please get some help, he's not going to change but you can. ?