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MrsMac2be
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Wedding's Off

MrsMac2be, 16 November, 2011 at 19:08 Posted on Planning 0 60

Hi All

Just to let you know that I have decided to call the wedding off, my mood for it hasnt been the same since everything kicked off in September.

Would just like to say thank you to everyone who supported me through this time, and to the people that I have met IRL along the way... Smiley smile

and to those people who will be quietly (or not to quietly) slating me now, hey whats new? hehe..

Lots of lovely things going on for sale soon so please do keep an eye out for a bargain to be had!!

Best of luck to those weddings that I would love to see, but unfortunately wont be able to from now on.

Ta ta ?

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Latest activity by Mrs Whippy, 18 November, 2011 at 09:04
  • vicster
    Beginner December 2011
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    Hugs.... a very tough decision to make i'm sure. hope you are doing ok and good luck to you both for the future.

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  • 50's pin up bride
    Beginner July 2012
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    I have only been on 'hitched' since October so I've missed whatever has happened, but nevertheless I'm sorry to hear that - any break up is difficult, whatever the circumstances, more so when a wedding is in the plans. ☹️

    I'm in Lincolnshire too, so will definitely keep an eye out for any bargains ?

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  • A
    Beginner May 2012
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    Sorry to hear your news, here's to happier times for you!

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  • avintagebride
    Beginner March 2012
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    KBS,

    I'm sure this was a difficult decision for you and I applaud your bravery. I doubt anyone would be cruel enough to 'slate you' and you don't deserve or require slating!!!! Good luck in everything, Ta-ra x x

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    You've done the right thing K.x

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  • quackers
    Beginner August 2013
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    Big hugs hun, hope things get better xxx

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  • Soybean
    Beginner March 2011
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    I was only thinking of you yesterday. A brave decision but the right one in the circumstances. Wishing you the strength to cope with what you are going through and the wisdom to make any further decisions you need to make with your relationship. ?

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  • cookiekat
    Beginner August 2012
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    Take care KBS xx

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  • Pinky6
    Beginner June 2012
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    WTS. It must have been a tough decision. Best of luck to you xx

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  • Spangler
    Beginner September 2010
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    Wishing you all the very best, lovely. You know where I am if you need anything!x

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    Wishing you all the best KBS. Its a tough decision to make and I applaud your bravery. I hope you have a good support system of friends and family around you xx

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  • filoftus
    Beginner November 2012
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    KBS

    A brave decision but i think that you have made the right one in the circumstances, I wish you all the best for the future,

    As my best friend said to me and she was right, you have to kiss loads of frogs to find your prince charming

    and she was right.

    xxx

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  • filoftus
    Beginner November 2012
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    KBS

    A brave decision but i think that you have made the right one in the circumstances, I wish you all the best for the future,

    As my best friend said to me and she was right, you have to kiss loads of frogs to find your prince charming

    and she was right.

    xxx

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  • skyrocket
    Beginner July 2012
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    WSS

    Hope you're ok, thats all that matters. Who cares what anyone else thinks.

    xxx

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  • moonpie1985
    Beginner July 2012
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    Really sorry to here it KBS.

    I am sure you are doing the right thing and you will look back in a much shorter time than you ever expected and realise how much happier you have been since.

    You are very brave, and not everyone can be as strong.

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    Im sorry to hear that KBS, Hope you find the strength to move onwards and upwards eh?

    One day you will look back and see this as a good thing I am sure- just probably seems a long way off at the moment- remeber everything happens for a reason.

    xxxx

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    Beginner August 2012
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    Big hug KBS. I think you are a very brave lady and should keep your head up high. You made the right decision for you and that's all that matters.

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    Beginner August 2012
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    Oh I'm so sorry to see this KBS. As others have said, you have been so brave and dealt with the whole situation with such dignity. Must have been such a tough decision to make, but I'm sure it'll be the right one for you. Hugs x

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  • celticgoddess
    Beginner March 2012
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    Just wanted to re-iterate what the other girls have said. It's a very brave thing to call off a wedding (I did the same 6yrs ago) but in your heart of hearts you know it's the right thing to do. Time really is a great healer and you will be all the more stronger for it. Take care if yourself and to hell with what anyone else thinks x

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  • Michelle772012
    Beginner July 2012
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    I'm so sorry and cannot believe anyone would slate you for making a decision that effects you and you alone, good luck with whatever you do next you truly deserve happiness and i wish you all the best big hugs from me xx

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  • Little Miss Tweety
    Beginner August 2012
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    Aww I'm sorry!

    Competely understand why you feel like that and hopefully as time goes on you will be able to enjoy planning a wedding in a better frame of mind.

    Hope everything works out and you can be happy, whatever decisions you make.

    x

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  • *Bea*
    Beginner October 2011
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    It must have been a hard decision to leave him but hopefully with time and the counselling you will be able to work through your issues and live a happy life. Hopefully you can now make a fresh start.

    Take care

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    Have you split up K or have you just decided to take your time with things?

    Either way then hope things work out for the best, although it might not feel it now. I think you've made the right decision (whichever one you've gone for) to do what's right for you.

    Take care x

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  • Red Baroness
    Beginner July 2012
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    What Tricks said. Hugs x

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  • mrscrowther2b
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    Sorry to hear hun hope your ok xxx

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  • hopefulmum2b
    Beginner August 2012
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    So sorry to hear this...im wishing you the best of luck for the future x

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    You have made the right decision for you in your own time and at least you tried to make it work. Good luck for the future.

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    Exactly what Sange said.

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  • LoveSka
    Beginner October 2011
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    Big hugs for you KBS, I agree with the others that this must of been one of the toughest decisions you have ever had to make. You must know in your heart that this is the right thing to do but it doesn't make it any easier. Happier times lie ahead, stay strong and you will find them. xx ( get me, I sound like a clintons card ) LOL, , , keep smiling xx

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    Beginner February 2012
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    Sorry to hear this, i know that this must have been a decision that was taken after a lot of time and consideration and i hope you feel stronger for making it. Whatever you choose to do in the future good luck and i hope you feel happier now that a decision has been made that it right for you

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  • MrsMac2be
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    I cant even begin to describe the feeling of relief I had when I made the decision to cancel, a huge weight of uncertainty released from my shoulders.

    We are still "together" if together means co-existing and trying to pretend that everything's ok...?!

    Time will tell, this weight off our shoulders (the wedding) will either make us realise that we can work this out without all the added stress or indeed drive a wedge between us.. we shall see!

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  • Rizzo
    Beginner July 2011
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    I am so sorry that this has happened and I wish you all the best in the future.

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