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pinkypoo85
Might be a silly TOG question......
pinkypoo85, 28 October, 2014 at 15:01

I have contacted a few TOGs to start seeing what they offer in their packages and style of photography etc but what else should I be asking them? Might be a really silly question but I am not sure!...

Bruce Neville Photog, wednesday 29-Oct-14 17 2,106
Cupcake26
Bridesmaid dresses *flash*
Cupcake26, 28 October, 2014 at 13:07

Amazing fit on all 3 of my very different shape bridesmaids! They looked stunning and i'm so happy they all liked them! Another thing ticked off the list -thought this was going to be one of the...

Cupcake26, wednesday 29-Oct-14 4 1,613
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What have you chosen for your wedding breakfast?
Aquiescence*, 29 October, 2014 at 10:26

Hello, Just out of interest really..... We had the initial idea of antipasti sharing platters for a starter (cold meats, cheese, olives etc) and a sharing roast meat joint on the table for guests to...

MissJag, wednesday 29-Oct-14 18 2,371
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Wedding day timeline - confused!
Rose25, 28 October, 2014 at 15:26

Hi folks I received some really useful advice on here last week when I was stressing about the size of my engagement ring, so thought I'd pick people's brains on my latest concern - figuring out the...

Rose25, wednesday 29-Oct-14 8 2,567
I-go-by-many-names
romantic cottages for our mini-moon, recommend any?
I-go-by-many-names, 27 October, 2014 at 23:56

Exactly this, we would like to book a mini-moon, preferably in the north of England or Scotland. Maybe 3-4 nights in a romantic cottage or self catering apartment with hot tub or spa facilities. Does...

Rach16273, wednesday 29-Oct-14 10 1,807
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The Gruffalo/Gruffalo's child...
HeavyMetalMaiden, 28 October, 2014 at 16:15

Believe it or not, this is wedding related.. My son and I have fallen in love with these Gruffalo films (and books), and at certain points in the films, the acoustic guitar playing in the backgroud is...

Paul & Dawn, wednesday 29-Oct-14 4 1,308
Bubbahumpska
R & Z World Bridesmaid Dresses? (Birmingham Dress Lady)
Bubbahumpska, 21 October, 2014 at 13:01

Has anyone had bridesmaids dresses from there? I have see n mostly positive reviews but was wondering if anyone could flash me dresses they have bought? Thanks xxxxxx

auntiejo1, wednesday 29-Oct-14 6 2,445
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Westmill Farm / Three Lakes Ware
joeyno1, 25 October, 2014 at 22:23

Hi all, new to the forums so will be hopefully getting lots of ideas and advice! After being engaged for nearly 2 years thought it was about time to set a date! Looking at the Westmill Farm venue near...

joeyno1, wednesday 29-Oct-14 13 3,032
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Cheap outside wedding caterers - West Midlands
emandzakwilliams, 5 October, 2014 at 22:06

Hi, We are looking to get married in the midlands and are thinking along the lines of Tipis/Marquee. We are trying to compare the cost to all inclusive venues concerning food -as we have heard it is...

DaffodilWaves, tuesday 28-Oct-14 8 1,806
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Bridemaids dresses - custom made recommendations?
JessyLW, 28 October, 2014 at 09:35

Hi, I have four adult bridesmaids and am a little worried about getting dresses to fit them all. Their clothes sizes range from a 6 to a 16 and height from 5ft to 6ft. I very much doubt I am going to...

Little_MrsA2B, tuesday 28-Oct-14 4 1,135
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Those of you having an outdoor ceremony
Little_MrsA2B, 21 October, 2014 at 15:26

I have a question for you. I would absolutely LOVE to get married outside however, I am of course concerned about the Great British weather! Did/do you guys have a contingency plan in case it rains...

Forever&always, tuesday 28-Oct-14 11 1,453
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How did you pick your bridesmaids? Not sure about whether to ask one or not!
a-cheap-date, 25 October, 2014 at 13:31

I don't know whether to ask one of my friends as a bridesmaid and so would like some advice! I feel a bit of a loser in that I don't have a "best friend" that I call about everything, but a few really...

a-cheap-date, tuesday 28-Oct-14 2 1,377
CrazyRatLady
Got our pictures back! Small amount of flashing :-)
CrazyRatLady, 27 October, 2014 at 12:05

So we finally got our pictures back, thought I would share a few with you to go with my report (which was so long ago it has fallen off the face of the earth but hey ho).

yorkshirekiwi, monday 27-Oct-14 8 1,770
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Storing dress before the big day
Future*mrsP, 26 October, 2014 at 20:46

Not sure if this is a stupid question. I bought my dress home a couple of days ago (well actually its at my mums to stop me trying it on daily! ). We get married in Sept 2015. I bought a breathable...

halloweeny, monday 27-Oct-14 10 9,178
Carpe Diem
Cost and difficulty making a brooch bouquet?
Carpe Diem, 17 February, 2013 at 11:13

Hello! I am considering making a brooch bouquet as I have 2.5 years so plenty of time! Has anyone made one and how much did it end up costing them? Was it very difficult to do? I am quite crafty. I...

DarkElegance, sunday 26-Oct-14 19 23,154
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How did you pick you wedding music?
rambosmum, 23 October, 2014 at 16:30

I'm walking down the aisle to Wagners wedding march, I never considered anything else but I just wondered what, and how people have chosen their entry and exit music (one friend walked down to I'm a...

Mrs Bass, friday 24-Oct-14 18 2,243
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Help needed- thinking of cancelling the big wedding for a smaller wedding
ExcitedB2B16, 16 October, 2014 at 11:10

Hi, I am new to the forum and just really needed some help and advice. I've been reading the forums for a while and just plucked up the courage to write my first message. We got engaged early this...

Lapland2015, friday 24-Oct-14 39 4,870
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Church wedding & also giving notice?
Purplecake, 23 October, 2014 at 12:56

Hi, appreciate any help to make sure this is correct! We're getting married in a catholic church, but i think we still have to give our notice to the council. The booklet the church gave us detailing...

LRsoontobeLH, thursday 23-Oct-14 5 1,961
cinnamon009
Weddign aprons - practical or tacky?
cinnamon009, 22 October, 2014 at 11:41

My OH made a very good point last night (he has his moments) about eating at the wedding breakfast. He asked me as a joke if I was having an extra big bib to cover my dress. I have no idea how I miss...

yorkshirekiwi, thursday 23-Oct-14 13 1,819
MrsCWB
Wedding on Sunday and I can't stop eating!
MrsCWB, 20 October, 2014 at 19:03

I know I am comfort eating because I am stressed, but yesterday I had a McDonald's (hangover food from my hen night) and today I have ordered Chinese. I have 5 days until the wedding and I HAVE to fit...

HelenSomerset, wednesday 22-Oct-14 9 2,355
Benjaminsmum
Wedding Day underwear practicalities
Benjaminsmum, 20 October, 2014 at 19:26

So I bought myself some big 'hold me in' knickers for my wedding day to wear under my dress (nothing at all sexy about them), however I had a sudden realisation yesterday that the top of the knickers,...

Miss-b, wednesday 22-Oct-14 14 2,267
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wedding for shy people
captainslowly, 20 October, 2014 at 00:22

Hi all after ten years with my partner i asked her to marry me ? and she said yes (i know i should have done it years ago but....). i am now terrified and regretting asking her, not because i don't...

kimiu, tuesday 21-Oct-14 7 3,396
SillyWrong
Guess the dress - I AM THE WINNER! *flash*
SillyWrong, 21 October, 2014 at 14:12

At Not the prettiest picture of the two of us but it's the only one I can find that shows her whole dress (I only just realised all our guest's pics of us are from the waist up!) I WIN!! I can't wait...

rambosmum, tuesday 21-Oct-14 2 618
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Best Man Suit
Rebeccafcr, 20 October, 2014 at 11:32

Hello ladies, quick question. traditionally, who pays for the best man's suit? Is it us? Or does he buy it himself? thanks

Rebeccafcr, tuesday 21-Oct-14 2 1,041
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Anyone used Angel Brides in horsforth Leeds? Not the best experience
MrsB2015, 20 October, 2014 at 11:38

Hi All I ordered my dress on Saturday from here as they are one of a few Sophia Tolli stockist in west Yorkshire, I didn't have the best of experiences so was thinking of sending this email to the...

overtherainbow, tuesday 21-Oct-14 6 3,759
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Booking the Registrar for Dummies
AmyMay92, 17 September, 2014 at 21:38

Hey everyone, I'm a newbie here - my OH and I have been engaged for 4 years nearly and have finally decided to look at wedding venues and get things moving. We looked at a wonderful venue earlier this...

AmyMay92, monday 20-Oct-14 9 13,435
samidolls
How to break the news of not being a bridesmaid?
samidolls, 19 October, 2014 at 07:58

I have chosen my bridesmaids (3 in total) my 2 best friends that I have know for the last 15 years and my cousin. The issue I have now is that i have to break it to my future Sister-In-Law that she...

Sparty, monday 20-Oct-14 6 1,816
Charliebob
I don't want her to be my bridesmaid anymore!
Charliebob, 19 October, 2014 at 12:00

So we used to have a large group of friends 6 of us including myself. Us girls would meet up all the time and have a laugh. However we have gradually started to drift apart. Either new jobs or babies...

Sparty, monday 20-Oct-14 4 3,855
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Struggling with a table plan
rambosmum, 20 October, 2014 at 14:26

I have a grandma, aunty and uncle and their two grown up children. I'm putting the 'children' with my sister and her partner (their cousin) and my brothers but I don't know where to put my g'ma, aunt...

rambosmum, monday 20-Oct-14 2 640
cinnamon009
Are you feeding your suppliers?
cinnamon009, 17 October, 2014 at 17:28

As our venue is in a small village so not close to anywhere our suppliers could go we have paid for supplier meals for them on the day - a two course meal from the same selection as our guests. We...

thespectrumband@hotm, monday 20-Oct-14 17 2,145
cinnamon009
62 days to go. More weddingy DIY finished.*flashes*
cinnamon009, 20 October, 2014 at 11:36

So had a productive weekend starting some of the DIY projects. For lurkers I have put down some info on where everything is from in case anyone needs some help with theirs: Favours: Bought the bottles...

alexandrawedding@hot, monday 20-Oct-14 2 1,201
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Jon Richard jewellery
Purplecake, 18 October, 2014 at 17:02

Has anyone ever bought Jon Richard jewellrey? (stocked in Debenhams & his own website..i think he's a bridal exclusive range?) I've found some gorgeous pieces that i really want but for earrings,...

Purplecake, monday 20-Oct-14 5 1,830

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