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MrsCWB
Glasses or contacts? *includes FLASH*
MrsCWB, 10 April, 2014 at 07:51

I have worn glasses for about 15 years. I have dabbled in contact lenses, but never really stuck to them. I just prefer the ease of use of glasses. I can't see much without them. The whole world goes...

SecretlyEloped, sunday 20-Apr-14 33 2,885
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Alfred Angelo BM size chart
brideoffrankenstein, 20 April, 2014 at 10:39

Anyone got a UK version of AA bridesmaid dress size chart? I can find the US version but I am getting confused! I have a BM who measures 34-28-38 and is normally between a 10 and 12. Not sure how the...

brideoffrankenstein, sunday 20-Apr-14 463
MrsToffee
Dads' Suits
MrsToffee, 18 April, 2014 at 19:28

Two questions really-- do both dads wear same suits as groom/groomsmen and is it expected that the cost for these is covered by the couple? Thanks!

*Mini*, sunday 20-Apr-14 10 1,574
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11am wedding timings help!
ExpensiveRedDiamonds58, 18 April, 2014 at 23:26

Hi, Just trying to sort out timings etc for the day. Service starts at 11am (super early - groom's choice!) and we are getting married in a lovely, grand tudor mansion so having our photos taken there...

Helenia, saturday 19-Apr-14 4 1,076
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wedding venues in Essex - so overwhelmed!
SunnyBrownDiamonds138, 17 April, 2014 at 01:14

Hi, I got engaged last week and have been looking at venues in Essex over the last few days. Getting so confused with all the prices and keeping track. Has anyone got any suggestions? We are looking...

Ohwhatatuesday, saturday 19-Apr-14 17 2,021
emabee
Where can I hire an Aunt Sally photo board? (London area)
emabee, 18 April, 2014 at 15:12

Hi, I'm desperately trying to find one of these to hire for my wedding in Greenwich or someone who can make me one. Preferably hire though as I realise it will be much cheaper. I can't find anything!!...

emabee, saturday 19-Apr-14 2 2,225
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Finished the Gypsophila and origami bouquets - flash
sophiesofa, 17 April, 2014 at 23:48

I'm getting married on Saturday and to try and help me get excited I'm doing my first flash. We finished all the flowers half an hour ago. What do you think?

Ohwhatatuesday, saturday 19-Apr-14 12 2,138
goldpants
***Our wedding pub quiz is complete!***
goldpants, 8 February, 2014 at 19:40

So it is finished! Our wedding pub quiz is all done! We plan to print two/three question papers per table, which will be given out after the speeches (which are before our meal) and everyone will have...

Ohwhatatuesday, saturday 19-Apr-14 19 12,143 2
Ohwhatatuesday
Did you bother/are you bothering with confetti and cake boxes/bags?
Ohwhatatuesday, 16 April, 2014 at 19:21

Sorry stupid last minute decisions and random questions. I can't decide whether to get some confetti or not. Part of me thinks it would be nice (and would look nice in the photos), the other part of...

Kjay, thursday 17-Apr-14 22 1,901
Mrsjtobee
I think my wedding car company has gone bust.....
Mrsjtobee, 17 April, 2014 at 17:49

I booked out wedding car over a year ago and paid a £50 deposit...they confirmed this by email which I still have and said the final payment would need to be paid on the 17th April (today!!) I sent an...

Bruce Neville Photog, thursday 17-Apr-14 4 951
MrsToffee
Chinese Bridesmaid Dresses
MrsToffee, 16 April, 2014 at 20:03

Sorry, second thread about BM dresses in a week but am desperate! Has anyone used one of the chinese sites for bridesmaid dresses? I basically want 3 purple cocktail dresses with a similar 'look' but...

MrsToffee, thursday 17-Apr-14 6 2,473
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If you are after tree/log slices for a 2015 wedding
MOMB, 23 March, 2014 at 22:14

After some disappointment on the split log slice front over the last year we have now sussed how to get them for next to nothing (see £35 examples on ebay!!). Don't cut this year's timber into slices...

EMS2905, thursday 17-Apr-14 728
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Wedding rings - engraved or not?
MrsACF, 12 February, 2014 at 10:38

Having a moment of indecision. Can't decide whether to get them engraved or not, and if yes - what with? OH is, at best, ambivalent - he's not exactly thrilled with the idea of wearing a ring as it...

MrsACF, thursday 17-Apr-14 22 3,621
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Where did you buy your wedding jewellery from?
rach_S_, 12 April, 2014 at 16:54

Afternoon All, I have searched quite a lot and really struggling, I don't want anything too over the top, something simple and classy. Any ideas? x

3d jewellery, thursday 17-Apr-14 10 1,626
Trish2014
Snapped engagement ring :o(
Trish2014, 16 April, 2014 at 16:11

I've had a day off work today and couldn't decide whether to take my car to the car wash or to make the most of the sunshine and wash it by hand. I should have been lazy but instead I decided to wash...

Trish2014, wednesday 16-Apr-14 2 661
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Wedding dress alterations Help!
Natalielousie, 15 April, 2014 at 22:59

Hello ladies, I currently live in Australia but am moving back to the UK in 4 weeks! Yay! I have bought my wedding dress here but don't want to get any alterations done here as I want to do in the uk...

MrsCWB, wednesday 16-Apr-14 753
yorkshirekiwi
Feeling Sad and Lonely
yorkshirekiwi, 9 April, 2014 at 09:29

So, tomorrow my Mum and Bridesmaid are going bridesmaid dress shopping......without me! I live in NZ and they and the wedding are in England, we have all talked loads about colour schemes and styles...

yorkshirekiwi, wednesday 16-Apr-14 22 2,143
daffodilly
backup Bridesmaid. ... help
daffodilly, 15 April, 2014 at 18:50

I'm in a bit of a dilemma... here goes... i have 1 adult bridesmaid and two flower girls. my cbm is planning on having a baby as soon as possible and has said that she will happily be my bridesmaid...

daffodilly, tuesday 15-Apr-14 8 1,509
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80's song for Father, Daughter dance
sam1603, 15 April, 2014 at 16:49

I'm really struggling to find a good upbeat song from the 80's to use for my first dance with my dad. He loves the 80's but all the songs I've seen suggested are to slow or more appropriate for me and...

AuntieBJ, tuesday 15-Apr-14 1 2,938
emjjarvy
Alternative to canapes??
emjjarvy, 15 April, 2014 at 11:41

Hello! Some advice / ideas please!! We are heading to our venue this weekend (in SW France) and have a menu/wine tasting booked amongst other things! CANNOT WAIT!!!! Will likely do a mega flash when...

emjjarvy, tuesday 15-Apr-14 8 1,594
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Table plan - help/advice needed
Mrs EtoB, 14 April, 2014 at 16:41

I'm hoping for some opinions/ advice re: a table plan. Neither me or h2b are create souls so we are really struggling to think of how to do a table plan. I had come across these multi frames and...

Mrs EtoB, tuesday 15-Apr-14 11 2,424
Lizzywills
Bridal belts in London?
Lizzywills, 14 April, 2014 at 10:04

Hi all. I really want to have a look at some bridal belts but don't want to go through the palava of making separate appointments at different shops. I'm going to London to see my mum today and was...

pammy67, tuesday 15-Apr-14 3 507
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How to invite the Bride to her own hen party!?
c12d34, 14 April, 2014 at 18:23

My friend is getting married in July and I have organised her hen party for a month before. She knows what weekend it is going to be, but I wanted to think of a way to tell her without leaving it...

Hisgirl, tuesday 15-Apr-14 10 36,371
bliss_balloons
Getting a ring dipped?
bliss_balloons , 14 April, 2014 at 13:55

I'm going to be wearing my Gran's wedding ring but it's yellow gold, which won't go with my engagement ring so I want to get it dipped in rhodium. Any know anywhere that does this and how much it...

LittleSnowflake, monday 14-Apr-14 7 10,168
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wine on tables?
loopy_linzi003, 14 February, 2014 at 18:39

Hi everybody, is anybody or has anybody put wine on their tables and if so how many bottles? My venue have decided to change my bespoke wedding to a package wedding that doesn't cover drinks on the...

ClaireD*, monday 14-Apr-14 6 2,002
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Help please ....photographer gone into liquidation.....too late for insurance?
getmetothechruchontime, 13 April, 2014 at 14:22

Hello lovely brides and grooms My photographer has gone into liquidiation so I need to find a new one who is available in Manchester on Halloween if anyone can recommend a company. Also is it too late...

Dewan Demmer Photogr, monday 14-Apr-14 12 1,731
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Cravat and tie help pleaseeee..
Shely, 14 April, 2014 at 09:37

So i posted a while back that i did'nt think the cravat and ties matched my bm dresses (too bright) so i returned them. However since we have been looking for suitable ones in a really, really pale...

Shely, monday 14-Apr-14 12 1,540
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More than 1 wedding party at venue
BVID , 12 April, 2014 at 14:48

I'm looking for a venue for wedding reception and have seen a couple I really like, however, they both have more than 1 wedding on at a time and am worried about seeing another bridal party. The...

Mrs C, monday 14-Apr-14 12 2,174
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is anyone wearing control pants under their dress?
Sash87, 13 April, 2014 at 07:30

I am thinking about wearing contol pants under my dress as i need all the help i can get with my bum but im concerned about getting hot and sweaty. is anyone else going for contol pants?

MrsA2B2014, monday 14-Apr-14 10 3,131
beccak
Flowers! What are you having & how did you choose florist?
beccak, 11 April, 2014 at 21:53

The last thing I have left to sort is a florist. I'm probably not going to have any floral decorations so only need a bouquet for me and my one bridesmaid and buttonholes for the men. Knowing very...

overtherainbow, saturday 12-Apr-14 14 2,177
HelenSomerset
Seamstress recommendations - Bristol / North Somerset
HelenSomerset, 11 April, 2014 at 22:41

Evening all! I wondered if anyone could recommend an experienced seamstress in the Bristol or North Somerset area? I have bought a bridesmaid dress for my prospective sister-in-law and the neckline...

Mrs Bass, saturday 12-Apr-14 1 983
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guestzilla!!
Nicola_25, 10 April, 2014 at 20:24

My sister in law to be has told her husband that she is leaving him and taking her child because of my wedding! (her husband is my h2b brother) she has a huge problem with her husband staying with my...

Sash87, friday 11-Apr-14 16 2,779

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