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Beckalina
Using a hire car instead of a wedding car
Beckalina, 6 November, 2015 at 20:27

I'm looking at transport from house to church to venue and I begrudge paying hundreds of pounds for something I'm not massively bothered about. I don't want to turn up in a taxi but at the same time,...

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Help! Small intimate wedding venues in Essex
Shelley Grimes, 4 November, 2015 at 16:54

We have decided to get married, just the 2 of us with 2 witnesses. I understand it is likely to be in a registry office and have been thinking about Chelsea Registry office as it is an iconic building...

Shelley Grimes, friday 6-Nov-15 3 1,115
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evening venue dressing
, 6 November, 2015 at 08:05

Hi, If you've seen any of my posts you may know I'm having 3 venues, ceremony/meal/evening. I still haven't gotten round to chasing the meal venue as I've been run off my feet but going to chase this...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 6-Nov-15 1 532
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Ye Olde Plough House Bulphan
Christie91dan, 1 November, 2015 at 18:46

Hi, we are looking for wedding reviews on Ye Olde plough House in Bulphan, there are mixed reviews online. We have been to have a look around and it looks beautiful but just wondered if any one has...

Christie91dan, wednesday 4-Nov-15 1 764
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Anyone not having a traditional wedding dress?
Belle2007, 27 October, 2015 at 11:46

This is second time around for me (and him). We are having a small civil ceremony in the day (just 30 guests) followed by a big party in the evening. I really don't know what I want to wear. Whatever...

RachD90, wednesday 4-Nov-15 11 2,754
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Looking for tall gold trumpet vases
Sarahguni, 29 April, 2014 at 20:21

Hi All, I am on the look out for tall (atleast 70cm), slim gold trumpet vases for centrepieces. I have seen a picture on the net of a vase like this with the 'baby breathe' flower, and it looks...

BlossEm, wednesday 4-Nov-15 3 1,476
TheFutureMrsKay
Reception buffet
TheFutureMrsKay, 1 November, 2015 at 10:52

I got married 2 weeks ago and it was, for the most part, a truly magical day and everything that I had wanted. One of the issues that occurred on the day was to do with the evening buffet. We asked...

Jayne E, wednesday 4-Nov-15 13 2,244
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Help! Wedding fail!
Kcatnip, 25 July, 2015 at 21:51

Hi Everyone, I am really hoping to get some ideas and advice. My wedding is in 11 weeks. I found out last week that I have a tumor on my femur bone that need removing pretty quickly (non aggressive...

Runnergirl, wednesday 4-Nov-15 29 4,893
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Wedding Registry/Gift List
ExpensivePinkCars201, 3 November, 2015 at 09:19

We're looking at sending out our invites this month ? and wanted to put details of our wedding gift registry inside, which means it's time to actually choose a registry! We were actually considering...

Jayne E, tuesday 3-Nov-15 11 2,027
kizzi10000
Live bands and sound limiters
kizzi10000, 2 November, 2015 at 18:52

The OH is looking at getting some friends of his (a girl band trio) to do the reception music, but the venue has a sound limiter. Has anyone had a band at a venue with a limiter? Is it likely to keep...

kizzi10000, tuesday 3-Nov-15 8 1,713
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Bar company vs DIY
RomanticGingerDesire, 2 November, 2015 at 11:53

Hey we are planning a at in the village hall venue do we a) hire a company b) buy our own booze & get someone in to man the bar & charge £2 a drink

kizzi10000, monday 2-Nov-15 8 1,271
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Singing waiters...and reception entertainement alternatives
Jade1990, 27 October, 2015 at 10:35

Hi all, Looking for a few ways of surprising our guests on the big day at our reception, and wanted to know if anyone has any ideas, or has done this type of thing and what you did/how it went. With...

Bruce Neville Photog, monday 2-Nov-15 15 2,840
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Registrar question....
BearFeb2016, 1 November, 2015 at 09:13

Hey Ladies, We've had our "wedding pack" from the Registrar for a while but haven't gotten round to send it back yet (I don't like having a multiple choice selection for our vows- feels to me like...

Pooba, monday 2-Nov-15 4 1,082
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CAKE
Chaffinch, 30 October, 2015 at 16:53

? Wasn't planning on having a cake ....but this is sooooooo tempting

BriertonBride, sunday 1-Nov-15 9 2,331
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Alternatives to a traditional wedding breakfast
NutMeg87, 20 October, 2015 at 20:42

Evening Hitchers!! We are yet to set a date or book a venue but am looking in and around Essex with the view of getting married in April 2017. We have looked around a few venues and also done a bit of...

ktb30, sunday 1-Nov-15 19 5,444
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How much did your flowers cost?
LuxuriousRedConfetti412, 1 November, 2015 at 09:34

Hi Everyone We had our first quote for flowers yesterday. The woman was lovely but we're going to have to look around a bit more. I just wanted to check first though whether our quote is high like I'm...

kelly17687, sunday 1-Nov-15 2 7,540
Cache13
Cache35 Wedding Report - it was the BEST DAY EVER
Cache13, 3 September, 2015 at 16:56

PART 1: Hi everyone, We got married August 1st – I cannot believe that’s over a month ago now – so I thought it was about time I wrote you lovely brides a report. My Husband (eek!) and I have been...

I-go-by-many-names, sunday 1-Nov-15 31 3,762
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Wedding invites - can I state no hats please?
ExpensiveBlueConfetti423, 29 October, 2015 at 16:48

Hello, i'm having an April wedding, which unless we are lucky with the weather I envisage will be mostly indoors. We are also not wanting our wedding to be too formal, neither of our mum are wearing a...

Kriek, saturday 31-Oct-15 12 4,211
rockabird
a bit of an alternative wedding!
rockabird, 15 October, 2015 at 18:31

Hello! We are planning a slightly different wedding and have set the date for May 2017. I'm struggling to keep positive about the whole thing as majority of family are completely horrified that my...

Jayne E, saturday 31-Oct-15 33 3,290
*MrsKtobe*
Eloping to Brighton
*MrsKtobe*, 29 October, 2015 at 09:39

HI, My OH and I are planning to elope to Brighton next August and I was looking for recommendations for photographers, hair and make-up, and any hotels. We have been a few times but only stayed in the...

Laura Ellen Photogra, saturday 31-Oct-15 4 2,214
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What to do, Dad's Partner and Mother's nose...
Chris's_mrs, 26 October, 2015 at 15:55

Hi there This is my first post so go easy on me! My wedding is based on 2 colours (4 bridesmaids 2 in each) we've got ties in the colours too - Grooms side in one colour, my dad and Groom in the other...

Lapland2015, saturday 31-Oct-15 33 3,926
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Civil Ceremony- What song are you walking down the aisle to?
BearFeb2016, 22 October, 2015 at 13:14

I'm completely stuck for a song/piece of music to walk down the aisle to, what are you girls using?

2nd_timer, friday 30-Oct-15 33 6,002
rach_217
Question - Suit Hire!!
rach_217, 30 October, 2015 at 16:24

Hey Hitchers!! This may be a really stupid question but where do you start with suit hire?! I've been looking online, and we kind of know what we want but there are so many suppliers! I done the...

rach_217, friday 30-Oct-15 6 774
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diy barn wedding venues???
sarasaurus, 27 October, 2015 at 22:48

My partner and I would like a proper diy wedding. We are in south manchester and have family in west yorkshire, but we are struggling to find a venue with the right look and flexibility for 2017. We...

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Surrey and Hampshire Wedding venues
Claire's Wedding, 22 October, 2015 at 16:28

Hi, looking to get married in September 2017. My partner and I do not have a huge budget and so would really like a cute venue possibly a Barn or Orangery around Surrey or Hampshire. Can anyone...

kay_, thursday 29-Oct-15 12 1,419
Justkeepswimming
What is an appropriate RSVP date
Justkeepswimming, 27 October, 2015 at 00:08

How far in advance before the wedding do you need to know the final numbers? For example I am getting married next July, and sending my invites out in the next few weeks,what RSVP date should I ask...

kay_, thursday 29-Oct-15 16 13,512
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Accommodation dilemma - advice
4monthstogo, 27 October, 2015 at 11:13

We booked our wedding venue (The Dairy, Waddesdon Manor) around 5/6 months ago under the impression we would be able to book rooms in the hotel next door (The Five Arrows) - they have fobbed us off...

ktb30, thursday 29-Oct-15 10 1,343
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Chicken or beef?
Pooba, 27 October, 2015 at 12:03

So I'd like some opinions please! We've gone through catering options and pretty much figured what we want... but need advice on main. I'm going by memory here for details (curse me for leaving my...

MadamRed, wednesday 28-Oct-15 24 2,682
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Inviting Family Kids but not Friends Kids
RomanticIvoryDiamonds239, 27 October, 2015 at 15:55

Hi, has anyone else just invited the children from their family to their wedding but not the children of their other guests?? We have 2 children ourselves, and 9 nieces and nephews who are all...

Bobbys_Girl, wednesday 28-Oct-15 16 4,274
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English/Indian fusion wedding
Soontobe22, 27 October, 2015 at 16:24

Hi, I am wondering if anybody could provide me with some inspiration. My partner and I are getting married next year, he is Indian Asian and I am British white. Neither of us are religious so are...

jesscaar, tuesday 27-Oct-15 1,365
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Winter wedding
Jade1990, 20 October, 2015 at 15:59

Whats peoples thoughts on winter weddings? I've looked at summer prices and they are extortionate, and I dont want to cut costs by having a less than perfect venue, so thought why not have my perfect...

clareio, tuesday 27-Oct-15 69 4,192
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Village hall reception
RomanticGingerDesire, 26 October, 2015 at 11:41

Is anyone planning their reception in a village hall We are trying to keep costs low Our wedding is next November & want to go for an afternoon tea/vintage theme serving traditional pie &...

kizzi10000, tuesday 27-Oct-15 14 1,542

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