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Fussy eaters
Oct2015Bride, 15 August, 2015 at 22:10

Ok I need opinions please. I'm getting married in October and my fiancé and I have decided on a menu with 3 starters, 3 mains and 2 desserts for everyone to choose from. Starters and Mains have a...

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Bridesmaid Dress Flashes and Help Please!
NoMoore, 18 August, 2015 at 09:29

I have bought my 3 adult bridesmaid dresses (Lori Ella maxi dresses in navy from Coast) and now my dad and 14 yr old sister have booked their flights, I need to get my sister a dress. I don't fancy...

samwillow, thursday 20-Aug-15 11 1,776
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Cupcake price - dont want to offend!
MrsLBtoB, 17 August, 2015 at 12:22

Hi All After some advice please...... I've asked family friend (who is invited to the wedding) whether she would be able to make cupcakes for us for our wedding cake. She is an amazing baker and I've...

MrsLBtoB, thursday 20-Aug-15 10 1,632
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Wedding gift - money
HappyBrownCakes385, 15 August, 2015 at 13:30

Many of our guests are asking if we will have a gift registry or gift list, we haven't yet sent out the invitations and don't want to offend our guests but rather then gifts, for those who insist on...

ExpensiveBrownDiamon, wednesday 19-Aug-15 14 2,478
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Song lyrics to use around the venue
History man, 17 August, 2015 at 14:02

I am in the process of making some little signs to go around the venue for different things and I am trying to use song lyrics wherever I can - but I'm a bit stuck. E.G. Table with dressing up props...

overtherainbow, tuesday 18-Aug-15 21 2,042
Justkeepswimming
Save the date etiquette
Justkeepswimming, 16 August, 2015 at 19:48

Do you send save the date cards to everyone or just the daytime guests? We are having a weekday wedding so want to give people plenty of notice by sending save the dates, however I don't want the...

Justkeepswimming, monday 17-Aug-15 6 1,043
DreamsComeTrue2015
Edinburgh Castle
DreamsComeTrue2015, 14 August, 2015 at 10:09

We are taking our time organising the wedding stuff - I've been hovering around here long enough to know not to rush into anything haha! We've talked back and forth about doing it just the two of us...

DreamsComeTrue2015, monday 17-Aug-15 8 747
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How far in advance to book?
HappyBlueHair179, 16 August, 2015 at 22:12

Hi all. How far in advance did everyone book in advance for their weddings? In wondering how long is too long. Thankyou.

shelleyw21, monday 17-Aug-15 12 5,306
laurafish
Help with my groom!
laurafish, 6 August, 2015 at 12:08

Hey guys, Hoping to get some advice on a bit of a demanding groom. My OH seems very set on all of his grooms party (2 dads, 2 best men and 2 - possibly 3 - ushers) looking exactly the same. I am a lot...

Steepdene, monday 17-Aug-15 14 5,801
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My (flat) wedding shoes have arrived! Flash
MrsLloyd2b, 14 August, 2015 at 07:05

As silly as it sounds, pretty much as soon as we got engaged I started to panic about what I would wear on my feet! I only wear flat shoes and don't own a pair of heels and this is nothing to do with...

MrsLloyd2b, sunday 16-Aug-15 9 2,694
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Dummy wedding cake?
November11thwifey, 14 August, 2015 at 17:32

I have a really small budget but want a fabulous cake. Has anyone seen dummy cakes? Would have like 6 or 7 tiers and only the top 2 would be cake the others are just iced polystyrene. Am all for this...

November11thwifey, saturday 15-Aug-15 9 2,805
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Hoop advice for pronovias dress with lots of Netting
Clairej20, 14 August, 2015 at 12:45

Hi I have a pronovias dress which I love but has lots of layers, i'm looking for a hoop to take the dress away from my legs. From looking online I think my best bet is a jupon 116, nylon petticoat...

Future*mrsP, saturday 15-Aug-15 1 1,099
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Unresponsive bridesmaids - help
Sondy, 13 August, 2015 at 23:39

Hi, It's almost a year until we wed (21st) and today I went to visit the venue for the first time- really exciting. I'm having a bit of trouble with contact from my 5 bridesmaids. I set up a facebook...

Aspenlady, friday 14-Aug-15 16 2,721
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Real or fake (silk) flowers?
kay_, 13 August, 2015 at 20:39

Hi everyone! I've been researching flowers today as this is one bit of my wedding that I haven't even researched and tbh I'm not sure where to begin. I've had a tiny look on M&S at the bouquets...

overtherainbow, friday 14-Aug-15 14 3,938
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Rainbow shoes?
Pooba, 30 July, 2015 at 17:07

Quick question: has anyone bought 'Rainbow' shoes for their wedding? The bridal shop I got my dress from stock them and I tried some on during my fitting. They were comfortable (for the 20 minutes or...

carrotbroc, friday 14-Aug-15 23 3,534
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Guest List, old school friends
lucdafox, 11 August, 2015 at 22:37

Hey, I'm new to the forum so hopefully I'm putting this in the right place Basically i'm starting to try and get an idea of a guest list, for numbers really. I'm hoping to keep our wedding to around...

yorkshirekiwi, thursday 13-Aug-15 7 1,791
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Guilt over not inviting cousins I haven't seen in years...
abi3009, 11 August, 2015 at 11:49

Hi there... my fiancé and I have only recently got engaged, but are looking at getting married June next year... I've already upset my mum as we don't want to get married in the village church where I...

pink & glitz, wednesday 12-Aug-15 14 9,168
Cupcake26
Did your OH see your hair and make-up trial?
Cupcake26, 11 August, 2015 at 21:11

Got mine Saturday morning. Did your OH see what you had done? Does it matter? Dunno how it can be avoided apart from take it all out/off before I come home?! Not keen on that! xXx

Lui, wednesday 12-Aug-15 20 1,967
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Pretty wedding folder for readings?
Choods87, 12 August, 2015 at 10:51

Hello ladies, My boss is doing a reading for my wedding in a months time (he's like a second father really) and came up with the idea to put the reading in a pretty folder that we could keep as a...

Choods87, wednesday 12-Aug-15 5 2,016
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Mother of the groom issues
MrsLBtoB, 11 August, 2015 at 17:41

So we've had a few ups and downs with my mum and well as my OH's mum but really not sure how to tackle this one or if I'm being a bit over sensitive and unreasonable. I'm not a selfish person at all...

MrsLBtoB, wednesday 12-Aug-15 23 4,679
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Tipi wedding
, 30 June, 2013 at 17:29

We are hoping to have our wedding reception in a tipi. I was wondering if there is anyone who has done this before who can give me a breakdown of the cost. I know there will be a lot of add ons:...

Sam&Louise, tuesday 11-Aug-15 23 35,499
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Wedding flowers cost?
MrsLBtoB, 10 August, 2015 at 14:04

I have no idea about how much to budget for flowers and need some help!! Luckily centerpieces are included in our wedding package so that's all taken care of. However, there's my bouquet & the 2...

MrsLBtoB, tuesday 11-Aug-15 11 4,928
Arpee
Insurance for a wedding without a legal ceremony
Arpee, 11 August, 2015 at 12:24

Just about to insure the wedding, saw something on a website about insurance not necessarily being valid for weddings over multiple days. Our venue isn't licensed, so we are planning to have a...

Jade8, tuesday 11-Aug-15 4 1,051
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Wedding dress disaster
blue28, 10 August, 2015 at 14:53

Hello, I've had lots of problems with the shop I ordered my wedding dress from. They were lovely until I paid my deposit, then I didn't hear anything again. I emailed a few times to ask for delivery...

Jade8, tuesday 11-Aug-15 8 1,946
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Floating cake stand?
Lexi_K, 9 August, 2015 at 11:19

Hello, I'm just wondering if anyone knows of somewhere you can buy a floating cake stand from? We'd like to have a mixture of cake flavours including a small fruit cake, however I know you can't stack...

MrsSDtobe, tuesday 11-Aug-15 9 1,664
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Wedding planning anxiety
LauraLtobe, 10 August, 2015 at 09:25

Hi, I'm new here so thought I would introduce myself and pose my first question. So, my OH proposed a fortnight ago! We've been together for a year and a half and living together for about half of...

Jayne E, tuesday 11-Aug-15 5 830
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Booking a registrar - help.
ror100, 7 August, 2015 at 22:01

Help, we think we might have messed up Booked our venue back in January for our wedding in June 2016, the venue suggested we book the registrar from January onwards. Now that we have told our friends,...

Jayne E, tuesday 11-Aug-15 10 1,817
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Just booked our honeymoon!!
Michaela525, 4 August, 2015 at 18:38

We have just booked our honeymoon, so excited! We are going to be travelling round the west coast of America, San Fran, Yosemite, Mammoth Lakes, Carmel, Santa Monica, San Diego, LA and Vegas. If...

MrsJFC2be, monday 10-Aug-15 19 1,803 1
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Hymn ideas please
RomanticEmeralds, 8 August, 2015 at 23:28

Hi, Beginning to think about hymns for our ceremony. We would ideally like two appropriate hymns that people who aren't regular church goers might recognise. Any suggestions ladies? Thanks?

MrsEdisToBe, monday 10-Aug-15 14 2,393
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Groom has fallen in love with a bright blue suit - help!!
DiscoCat, 9 August, 2015 at 08:48

Hello everyone I am getting married at the end of October to my wonderful fiancé whom I have been madly in love with for the last 33 years. We are having a very small wedding for 25 guests at a...

HelenSomerset, monday 10-Aug-15 23 2,378
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Who pays for the Hen?
Sondy, 6 August, 2015 at 17:00

Hello! I'm pretty clueless over here having never been to anybody's hen do. My friends are located in opposite ends of the country so I'm going to end up having two hen dos - one in the north and one...

Fleur88, friday 7-Aug-15 12 14,391
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Anxious Groom-to-be??
becki5328, 5 August, 2015 at 16:37

Hi All, This is my first post, so please do bear with me if this has already been covered in another thread somewhere. I'm after a little bit of advice. My fiancé (still not quite used to that)...

Pooba, friday 7-Aug-15 8 1,814

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