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Not on the high street wedding gift list
Vicki2015, 27 July, 2015 at 13:05

Has anyone used this gift list service? Any feedback on it? we are trying to decide between this and debenhams.

MrsEdisToBe, monday 27-Jul-15 1 595
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Wedding venues in Essex- preferably barn/vintage locations with good value packages. Any advice?
drbride, 22 June, 2015 at 17:38

My partner and I have looked at only 2 so far: The Lawn, Rochford- too expensive for our budget, although very beautiful, but too grand for us! Ye Olde Plough House, Bulphan- liked the fact it was a...

Bruce Neville Photog, monday 27-Jul-15 16 2,704
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First we lost a bridesmaid ... now the best man
TheNewHyacinth, 27 July, 2015 at 14:16

Just a bit of a rant to be honest. Firstly, on my hen do 2/3 weeks ago I ended up falling out with one of my best friends of 13 years and we haven't spoken since and i've made the decision to cut her...

Arpee, monday 27-Jul-15 807
hollyhollytree
Wedding registrar for civil ceremony
hollyhollytree, 26 July, 2015 at 18:32

Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum! Really bad time for me to be having a wobbly as it's Sunday evening and absolutely nothing I can do about it until tomorrow but I'm having a real panic about booking...

hollyhollytree, monday 27-Jul-15 20 2,410
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mark lesley 7078
SunnyBrownCars246, 26 July, 2015 at 22:45

Does anyone has this dress - how are you wearing your hair ? I was gonna have my hair in low sort of bun mainly because i'm always tieing my hair back plus the back of the dress is very detailed and I...

HelenSomerset, sunday 26-Jul-15 638
Justkeepswimming
Help! Bridesmaids dresses. And accessory etiquette?
Justkeepswimming, 23 July, 2015 at 19:21

I'm having 4 bridesmaids and had the (naive?) budget of £100 per dress. I was hoping to find them on the high street but can't find any like what I had in mind. There's some nice ones online but they...

Teal, sunday 26-Jul-15 15 2,358
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bridesmaids getting engaged after me and planning wedding before me! help!
, 24 May, 2015 at 08:25

So me and my Fiance got engaged over a year ago and are planning our wedding for next April, we were engaged for over a year before we booked our venue and are saving up for the wedding ourselves we...

Runnergirl, sunday 26-Jul-15 33 8,884
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Wedding without evening do?!
Suzbishal, 25 July, 2015 at 21:40

Hi, I was wondering if anyone had planned a wedding with no evening bit. We are planing on have intimate rustic barn wedding without the traditions of speeches etc. We want a ceremony, welcome drinks,...

Ash953, sunday 26-Jul-15 9 1,451
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Bridal party robes
Tracey H2b, 19 July, 2015 at 16:40

Hi all I love all the personalised bits and bobs and was thinking of buying "Bride/Matron of honour / bridesmaid " robes to wear while we are getting ready but the ones I've seen so far are really...

Pure-Treats, sunday 26-Jul-15 8 4,032
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Bridesmaid problems!
maddychamonix, 12 February, 2013 at 16:43

Hi girls, I'm getting married in August, out in my new home of Chamonix. I'm very excited about having all my friends and family out here for the wedding, but in the past couple of days I've started...

halloweeny, sunday 26-Jul-15 31 4,123
BubbleBees
Pointless Extravagance, or a Petrol-head's Dream?
BubbleBees, 17 July, 2015 at 12:24

Yesterday I was struck by a whim. We're staying and marrying at the venue - there'll be no big arrival, and we're staying an extra night after everyone else leaves so no big departure either. We both...

VegasBride2015, saturday 25-Jul-15 26 2,253
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Flameless candles
Vicki2015, 24 July, 2015 at 09:15

Hi there, Can anyone recommend a flameless candle that is a realistic colour? We are having our wedding in a listed building so we are not allowed real candles. I'm not a massive fan of fake candles...

NYE_Bride, saturday 25-Jul-15 7 2,005
Inspyre
Dress shopping, dress regret and tears! (Mega flash!)
Inspyre, 23 July, 2015 at 11:56

I posted last week or so about going dress shopping with my mum and BM and being a bit concerned about their reactions. I loved the dress I already had (especially with a petticoat and sash on) and it...

Happy Polly, saturday 25-Jul-15 17 2,588
missqueenvee
Advice for slow replying venues etc
missqueenvee, 23 July, 2015 at 18:56

Hi ! Just wanted some quick advice, ive booked my venue, my reception venue and my room dresser. The reception venue take AGES to reply to emails, sometimes up to a month. Would you class this as...

Chris Giles Photogra, saturday 25-Jul-15 9 2,907
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Need advice on weekday wedding!
gillshaw15, 6 February, 2014 at 12:16

Hi - I'm new to posting on here, but need any advice on weekday weddings! Me and my OH have been together nearly 10 years and got engaged about 6 months ago and are planning to get married in 2016. We...

Jade8, saturday 25-Jul-15 48 8,481
TheOtherMoof
Ideas for subtle horror themed table names...
TheOtherMoof, 23 July, 2015 at 20:37

Hi! As I mentioned in my introductory post, my OH and I are still in the veeeeery early stages of wedding planning but I got a little bit carried away with thinking of possibilities for the big day!...

TheOtherMoof, friday 24-Jul-15 7 2,115
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Getting hitched - Help!!
, 21 July, 2015 at 11:47

Hi, Thought I would introduce myself as I start to read the boards. I got engaged on Saturday, was a complete surprise to me. My fiance (LOL) spent all day on Sunday looking at venues - he wants to...

HelenSomerset, friday 24-Jul-15 12 1,460
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Candelabra Decoration Help!
NoMoore, 24 July, 2015 at 13:38

Hello all.. Happy Friday! We have candelabras included in our wedding package. I was going to get them covered in foliage but I think it's going to be too pricey.. the photo below is the same venue...

Calella, friday 24-Jul-15 14 7,113
AnnaMolly
What's your guaranteed get up and dance song?
AnnaMolly, 17 July, 2015 at 11:22

I'm thinking about songs that I want to be played by the DJ and I want people to dance! So for inspiration, what can you not resist having a boogie to? One of mine is N-trance Set you free. Apparently...

Vicki2015, friday 24-Jul-15 33 2,579
IanStuartBride
White napkins on an Ivory tablecloth- is it okay?
IanStuartBride, 24 July, 2015 at 08:28

Hi Again, This may sound like a boring topic but I just want some quick advice on whether it's okay to have white napkins on an ivory tablecloth at my wedding? I'm planning on hiring linen because the...

CornishBride89, friday 24-Jul-15 613
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Hen party inspiration
BrideMMD, 22 July, 2015 at 18:19

I'm trying to pick where to have my hen do but am struggling to decide! I'm thinking staying in this country just to make it easier/ cheaper for everyone even though I'd love to go abroad really. My...

HappyOrangeStationer, thursday 23-Jul-15 9 1,173
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circus/ carnival/ fairground theme wedding help!
cupcake baker, 20 May, 2015 at 11:43

Hiya Im having a carnival / fun fair/ circus themed wedding and struggling to find fun fair games and decor bits. It seems everything I like or find is only available in America! Its a tricky theme...

Justkeepswimming, thursday 23-Jul-15 7 1,480
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How much are you spending on flowers?
Clairej20, 22 July, 2015 at 12:08

Hi Girls, just wondering how much you girls are spending on flowers? Im not sure if my budget is very realistic so curious as to what others are spending thanks

misslynx, thursday 23-Jul-15 23 3,734
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Bridesmaid Speech HELP!! * Any Spice Girls Fans Look Here!!*
emmalou1212, 22 July, 2015 at 15:11

Hi my sister was always a huge spice girls fan. i am doing a speech on her wedding day and really wanted to incorporate spice girls songs/lyrics into a speech. eg 'we're looking forward to you both...

Kellym81, wednesday 22-Jul-15 4 5,763
MrsStanleyToBe
Is 52 Too Old to be a Maid of Honour
MrsStanleyToBe, 22 July, 2015 at 12:05

Hello All You Hitchers I'm new to posting, so please be gentle with me ? Me and my partner got engaged in January and I've been scouring Hitched ever since and finally plucked up the courage to post ?...

LittleMissPanda, wednesday 22-Jul-15 6 2,003
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How to deal with a MomZilla
SunnyBlueFlowers390, 20 July, 2015 at 11:15

Hi everyone, I need a little advice on how to deal with my fiances mother, who is taking over the wedding and causing unnecessary stress. My fiances parents are contributing to the wedding heavily -...

DreamsComeTrue2015, wednesday 22-Jul-15 8 1,650
MrsG_to_be
Wedding report of MrsG_to_be - the pregnant bride!
MrsG_to_be, 18 July, 2015 at 23:26

We got married two weeks ago. Will try to keep it brief! background We have been together three and a half years. I was dating someone else when we met but when that relationship broke up he took two...

NoMoore, wednesday 22-Jul-15 21 2,829
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Female usher issues
Excitedbridetobe87, 21 July, 2015 at 19:18

Hi everyone I have got 1 maid of honour for my wedding,1 bridesmaid and 1 female usher.I am paying for all of he MOH,bridesmaids outfits,jewellery,shoes,hair and makeup,which I personally feel is the...

Excitedbridetobe87, tuesday 21-Jul-15 5 1,007
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Readings. Suggestions please?
nikki noo noo, 21 July, 2015 at 11:24

So we picked our romantic reading last night. We're having two. One sweet and one funny. I love the sweet one because it is very us. We were high school sweethearts but broke up when I went to uni. I...

imabusybee, tuesday 21-Jul-15 5 1,456
Barnett2015
My Yorkshire Barn Wedding Report
Barnett2015, 19 July, 2015 at 14:46

I wasn’t planning on doing a wedding report as I was/am more of a lunch time lurker than a fully fledged member of the Hitched community but I posted a flash shortly after we got married and a few...

MrsShep, tuesday 21-Jul-15 26 2,996
mustard_mitt
4 year old - bridesmaid or flower girl?
mustard_mitt, 11 January, 2014 at 11:10

I already have my bridesmaids sorted: my sister, his sister, three close friends and my niece, who'll be four by the time we get married. Does it honestly matter if she's designated as a bridesmaid or...

samwillow, tuesday 21-Jul-15 4 2,197
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Wedding cake from M&S/Waitrose/Tesco ?
lindabelle66, 19 July, 2015 at 21:27

My friend was going to be making my wedding cake - unfortunately she has got carpel tunnel syndrome and is having an operation which means she wont be able to do the icing and the decorating :-( I...

LeighB3, monday 20-Jul-15 12 14,176

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