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KJHC
Found my dream dress while on holiday in the US!
KJHC, 10 July, 2015 at 01:13

OMG - I just went to a bridal shop while on holiday in the US (my mum lives in FL so was only really going so she can be involved in the dress picking process) and I found my perfect dress!...

KJHC, saturday 11-Jul-15 24 3,376
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Photographer Cost
MissBtoB, 29 June, 2015 at 20:49

Hi. We have just been quoted £2000 for photography. This is way over what I was thinking and had only wanted to spend £600 max. Please can someone tell me what a realistic cost would be. I'm now...

BriertonBride, saturday 11-Jul-15 37 7,758
RogueSnowflake
DIY placenames flash!
RogueSnowflake, 7 July, 2015 at 16:52

This is the only thing I have DIYed for the wedding and it doesn't fit with a theme or anything else but I really wanted to do origami place names. We got a stamp from ebay with individual letters on...

AKWedding, friday 10-Jul-15 10 1,728
Tiny3003
Love Letter Bowls
Tiny3003, 6 July, 2015 at 13:41

Saw some fabulous china bowls that spelt out the word LOVE but they were quite pricey. Happened to come across these from Tesco of all places at just £7.50!!! I ordered them and they are really nice....

k.j.w, thursday 9-Jul-15 4 1,461
YellowDiamond
Venues in Berkshire - help!
YellowDiamond, 7 July, 2015 at 22:23

So I'm on a venue hunt for our reception. The church that really matters to us is in maidenhead so we don't want to be too far from there for the reception as we don't want people having to travel for...

excited bride2015, wednesday 8-Jul-15 1 448
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Personalised M&Ms
SunnyPinkConfetti310, 27 June, 2015 at 12:36

These were suggested to me by my fiance's cousin and his wife and, as were doing a candy buffet, they seemed like quite a cool gimmicky things to do. However, they're very expensive so I thought "no,...

SunnyPinkConfetti310, tuesday 7-Jul-15 5 1,348
NYE_Bride
Wedding guest hotel room welcome bags
NYE_Bride, 6 July, 2015 at 09:54

Hi everyone, I am going to put together a welcome bag for each hotel room and am looking for some ideas and inspiration for what to include. I have checked with the venue and they are happy to put...

NYE_Bride, tuesday 7-Jul-15 7 1,342 1
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Bridesmaid Dilemma!! Any experience letting someone down??
Bektoria, 6 July, 2015 at 14:03

Hi Folks, I have what feels like a HUGE problem.... I'm wanting 4 bridesmaids at our wedding, 1 is my sister, 1 is my sister in law to my brother, 1 is a close family friend and the other is my sister...

Jade8, tuesday 7-Jul-15 8 2,199
RogueSnowflake
Hotel Fully Booked
RogueSnowflake, 6 July, 2015 at 14:31

Hi gang, I'm just a bit down today. We booked a large hotel for our reception as we have so many people travelling from far away. However, we had a call from a guest last night to say the hotel is...

RogueSnowflake, tuesday 7-Jul-15 2 817
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Reid Rooms, Essex. Any fellow brides? Package vs DIY?
drbride, 6 July, 2015 at 20:27

We've chosen the Reid Rooms as our venue and are really excited! We are now having the dilemma of package vs sorting out catering/drinks/DJ ourselves, however. The main sticking point is the drinks...

MrsB88, tuesday 7-Jul-15 1 799
I-go-by-many-names
No nice occasion dresses :-(
I-go-by-many-names, 4 July, 2015 at 10:24

This is my first post for a while, being an OM and all, but i wondered whether you hitchers could help. My husband and I are going to a wedding in Italy in less than 3 weeks and i have nothing to...

MrsShep, tuesday 7-Jul-15 21 2,783
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Who gets Save the Date cards?
Chale, 6 July, 2015 at 13:16

My OH and I were pondering this the other day. We had originally planned to send one to everyone on the guest list, but then I thought: hang on, if I'd received a StD and then only got an invitation...

Inspyre, monday 6-Jul-15 7 993
mustard_mitt
Bridesmaid gifts?
mustard_mitt, 2 July, 2015 at 17:27

I'm really confused! I've just bought our bridesmaid dresses - three of them for £100 each. I wanted to make sure they were dresses they could all wear again for other occasions and I always said we...

Kellym81, monday 6-Jul-15 14 2,602
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Non-Alcoholic Toast Drinks
Mrs-Riley, 2 July, 2015 at 09:47

So we've finally booked our venue for after out church ceremony! So excited! Having a gorgeous two course meal, and serving our cake as dessert. We also have a beautiful veranda, that overlooks...

Teal, monday 6-Jul-15 33 5,797
CornishBride89
Only 90 days to go, excited *Flash*
CornishBride89, 6 July, 2015 at 13:09

Wow, time goes so fast! Okay so I've never done an everything flash before so fingers crossed this works for you all to see! ? This is my Mori Lee wedding dress: The hair trial: Inspiration for the...

MrsToffee, monday 6-Jul-15 10 1,841
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Singing waiters etc...?
NoMoore, 3 July, 2015 at 13:36

So H2B would like surprise singing waiters... so I'm trying to work the cost into the budget and decide if it's naff or good fun. I've found one that seems to do songs that aren't cheesy and also...

NoMoore, monday 6-Jul-15 12 2,439
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Looking for a secluded beach wedding venue in Cornwall...please help.
Qwarri, 24 June, 2015 at 04:07

For max 50 guests. Doesn't need a licence as we are going to have a humanist ceremony. Not a hotel. Our budget is £2,500 max! Thank you in advance.

LuxuriousIvoryCakes2, sunday 5-Jul-15 4 1,174
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Outdoor Tipi Wedding!
Saraaa86, 30 June, 2015 at 22:28

Hi have been engaged a few weeks and wedding planning is under way for next September. we saw a Tipi at a wedding fare and have decided that's what we want for the reception, it's proving difficult to...

Simply Ceremonies Uk, friday 3-Jul-15 7 1,485
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Photographer cancelled 2 weeks before wedding!
BrideLeanne, 28 June, 2015 at 02:04

Hi all, I'm new here and looking for advice so hoping you can help please. I had an email at 11:30pm from my photographer who has said she now cannot attend my wedding as she was just informed a...

Neil Gratton Photogr, friday 3-Jul-15 45 8,735
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Wine on tables?
Jade8, 2 July, 2015 at 22:31

At our reception we are planning on providing a glass of wine each for during the meal. However what's the best wine to go for? White or red? Neither of us are massive wine drinkers so your advice...

Minna Rossi Photogra, friday 3-Jul-15 16 1,841
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5th november wedding, no fireworks theme?
stomlinson20, 2 July, 2015 at 22:34

Hi brides!! I'm so excited as just booked my wedding for the 5th of November 2016!! Can't believe it's actually happening!! I feel like I need a little reassurance though - it's the 5th of November...

Karen84, friday 3-Jul-15 5 2,669
Lui
Bored At Work... Edited - 121 days!
Lui, 30 January, 2015 at 13:26

Hi Ladies, I’m trying to pass my day away at work, I don’t really have much work today (I do but procrastination) so I thought I would flash! The Venue: Thisi s the main room and the colours will be...

bananacatdance, thursday 2-Jul-15 33 3,557
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West Ham United Wedding
HEAL2016, 4 June, 2015 at 14:29

Hi, I am a newbie here and I wanted to ask if anyone has had a wedding at or been to a wedding at West Ham United? My H2B is a massive fan so I have agreed to go all out on an East End wedding but...

HEAL2016, wednesday 1-Jul-15 7 2,361
cez1987
RSVP stress
cez1987, 29 June, 2015 at 08:53

Ok so I sent out invitation about a month ago and most of my OH family have replied and said they are coming. My family on the other hand are something else. My parents haven't even replied and my...

Manda79, wednesday 1-Jul-15 17 2,648
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My sister ruined my hen party
LuxuriousPinkConfetti380, 29 June, 2015 at 16:32

This Saturday was my hen party. My sister and my bridesmaid organized it. I really see how much effort they put into planning is so that I like it. And I really appreciate it. But my sister could not...

AKWedding, tuesday 30-Jun-15 5 4,151
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Entertainment Ideas
MissBtoB, 22 June, 2015 at 21:42

Hi. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on entertainment. We are going to have two gaps of an hour each during the day and I want to keep everyone occupied. We will have about 25 children and...

The Wedding Singer, tuesday 30-Jun-15 2 591
daisymoo86
Wooden Heart drop guestbook
daisymoo86, 24 June, 2015 at 10:57

I keep seeing these and love the idea of them however the ones I've seen range from £60 -£120 and it seems a lot for something that you could essentially put together yourself. I've found the laser...

Bridally, monday 29-Jun-15 8 8,239
AKWedding
Does your workplace know you are getting married?
AKWedding, 27 June, 2015 at 11:58

Hi, Just wanted to find out what other brides' workplaces are doing and some tips on how to navigate a potential minefield. Does your workplace know you are getting married? Are you expecting a...

Erin8, monday 29-Jun-15 19 8,132
bliss_balloons
Does our ceremony room need decorating?
bliss_balloons , 29 June, 2015 at 11:21

We're getting married in the room below then having the wedding breakfast in a marquee. I've put loads of thought into decoration for the marquee but haven't really got anything for the ceremony room....

FutureMrsMarshall, monday 29-Jun-15 8 1,882
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Wedding venue and noise limit
Kerrypug, 27 June, 2015 at 13:24

Just hit our first snag in wedding planning and the groom is furious. We found out from the venue that the noise limit is 89db and when it goes over this the sound will cut out. When we told our band...

Kerrypug, monday 29-Jun-15 10 7,380
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Northbrook Park - Farnham
, 16 May, 2012 at 14:36

Xx

Sophiejenna18, sunday 28-Jun-15 112 27,395
Cache13
Bridesmaid dressing gowns
Cache13, 17 August, 2014 at 09:47

Hi all, I bought some transfers for my bridesmaids to go on dressing gowns the morning of the wedding as a gift, but I'm struggling to find inexpensive dressing gowns anywhere! Ideally soft light ones...

MrsB88, saturday 27-Jun-15 6 2,138

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