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Village Hall Wedding
ExpensivePinkConfetti319, 14 June, 2015 at 15:42

I wondered if anyone had any ideas best way to organise a DIY Village Hall Reception Wedding Do, 120 guests. The setting up is worrying me as is how to plan taking tables down etc for the night do....

PadBin, tuesday 16-Jun-15 3 1,383
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Decorating venue staircase
Leelee85, 15 June, 2015 at 17:32

Hi Ladies, I would like some creative input if possible. Our reception venue has a beautiful staircase which we are allowed to decorate how ever we want (with the exception of balloons and candles)....

Leelee85, monday 15-Jun-15 3 2,760
yorkshirekiwi
If you could get married anywhere......
yorkshirekiwi, 14 June, 2015 at 04:43

I'm getting married in NZ. Over here, as long as the celebrant is licensed then the venue doesn't matter. You can literally get married anywhere. So, if you could choose any location, where would you...

I-go-by-many-names, monday 15-Jun-15 10 2,673
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Not invited to church friends wedding
jashley, 13 June, 2015 at 18:19

I am so upset, this friend from church is having a wedding and they have deleted me from Facebook and they only way I found out she was engaged was by a mutual friend. So I am pretty sure I wont be...

jesikab4u, monday 15-Jun-15 15 3,792
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wedding cake costs!
tash&ste, 14 June, 2015 at 12:24

Hi all. So, we were originally planning to just buy 3 m&s tiers and stack them ourselves but I've been thinking so much about my dream cake so I got in touch with a cake maker who has quoted me...

Karen84, monday 15-Jun-15 15 5,122
PrettyFlower90
So confused about wedding dress!!
PrettyFlower90, 13 June, 2015 at 21:34

So I tried on wedding dresses for first time this week! Been to 4 wedding dress appointments, 3 were today, and I've tried on about 25 dresses and I can't decide! I'm so confused.. Everything I tried...

MrsWebberToBe, monday 15-Jun-15 8 2,620
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Church farm ardeley
willow_rose , 15 June, 2015 at 07:35

Long shot; any one got married/getting married at church farm in Ardeley, Hertfordshire. Thanks again ladies.

willow_rose, monday 15-Jun-15 421
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My seating plan inspiration- DIY advice please!
MrsLloyd2b, 13 June, 2015 at 09:51

I'm going to start collecting bits and pieces for my seating plan as I see them in charity shops and boot fairs etc but not quite sure how I will assemble it. Have a look at my inspiration pictures...

gingeremmie, sunday 14-Jun-15 2 957
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Grey bridesmaids, blue groomsmen, orange flowers???
MrsLloyd2b, 14 June, 2015 at 20:06

We're having a peachy orangey colour theme, as we both love orange, however I decided not to put my bridesmaids in peach as it didn't quite suit them as they are pale and one is a red head. They said...

AnnaMolly, sunday 14-Jun-15 3 2,213
intrysthire
First Dance Song, current or classic?
intrysthire, 9 June, 2015 at 17:00

Who has the final say over the first dance song, the Bride or Groom, especially if you have two different tastes in music. For your first dance what songs are on your list? Does it have to be a modern...

The Wedding Singer, sunday 14-Jun-15 19 2,772
cez1987
Stag do
cez1987, 12 June, 2015 at 22:30

So out of all the wedding planning, I have left my OH with the job of planning his stag do but after weeks of him moaning that he can't think of anything to do and the best men being chocolate tea...

cez1987, sunday 14-Jun-15 16 2,290
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Head dress - have you used this company ? Flutterby weddings
lindabelle66, 14 June, 2015 at 07:11

Im looking for a simple but stuning head piece and found this company online https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/FlutterbyFrippery It really appeals to me because I can have the piece made in the colours of...

lindabelle66, sunday 14-Jun-15 377
MrsV-wasMissB
Anyone whos had a Lindy Bop dresses, are they true to size?
MrsV-wasMissB, 12 June, 2015 at 21:45

Any alternatives? My eyes are square now from Googling :/

TheOtherMoof, saturday 13-Jun-15 8 11,081
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How do I sit in my wedding dress?
RomanticRedHair152, 12 June, 2015 at 08:36

When I had my final fitting i tried to sit down in my dress... which I could... but suddenly it was as if my boobs were underneath my chin because of all the boning pushing them up! It's a corset back...

Scottish_Sarah, friday 12-Jun-15 6 7,029
MrsV-wasMissB
norethisterone has turned me into a demon!!!
MrsV-wasMissB, 11 June, 2015 at 19:53

I suffer PMDD anyway but usually have my "control mode" particularly in environments like at work. I can also usually keep my panic attacks at bay too, they happen 1 in every 4 - 6 months. I have...

lilbeth, friday 12-Jun-15 26 18,369
Pink Roses
Signing the register...with your old name or new one!?
Pink Roses, 11 June, 2015 at 21:50

Hi everyone, I've asked everyone I know and no one can tell me whether when signing the register do you sign it with your 'old'/maiden name or do you sign it with your 'new' married name!? I just...

InkedDoll, friday 12-Jun-15 6 3,043
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Help - Modern/instrumental wedding music
*SoonToBeMrsC*, 11 June, 2015 at 09:31

I am trying to find the right tone for the wedding ceremony music. We are having a civil ceremony and I quite like the idea of having modern music in played in a classical way. I was talking to a...

*J9*, friday 12-Jun-15 4 1,256
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Junior/Tween Bridesmaids Dresses
SunnyPinkConfetti310, 11 June, 2015 at 07:35

I've just added my OH's cousins to the bridesmaid line up. I'm not dressing them the same as the adults, because I'm not paying the exorbitant price of the kids version of the dress. The adults are...

SunnyPinkConfetti310, friday 12-Jun-15 6 2,137
Summer87
Veil and train etiquette? With flash
Summer87, 11 June, 2015 at 06:44

Hi all, I wonder if you could let me know wether there's any etiquette or best practice for the following; my veil is very long so I was wondering whether to wear this during my meal? We'll be having...

Summer87, friday 12-Jun-15 3 1,286
bliss_balloons
Buttonhole help!
bliss_balloons , 11 June, 2015 at 10:01

Oh has seen lego men attached to buttonholes and now wants to do this. I have no idea the best way to attach them though and am worried about ruining the flowers. We're picking up all the flowers from...

bliss_balloons, thursday 11-Jun-15 5 1,930
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Table Plan for small wedding
dinks29, 11 June, 2015 at 08:11

Hello, I am looking for some ideas/advice on a table plan for a small wedding. My partner and I are having a small intimate wedding with a total of 18 guests, we spoke to the venue and they said we...

pammy67, thursday 11-Jun-15 6 1,223
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Veil colour!
Kfalla, 10 June, 2015 at 22:16

Hi, I have ordered my veil but not sure if the colour will match! Ive ordered a white veil as I find ivory veils look dirty. My dress is light gold. If it's any help it is Ronald Joyce Benedetta! The...

Fairycake135, thursday 11-Jun-15 4 1,367
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Ceremony Seating Plan
Kr@zyburd23, 10 June, 2015 at 17:31

We have a really small venue for our ceremony, there are 20 seats (2 rows of 6 and 4). We need to have a seating plan really to make sure that those involved in the ceremony are at the front to that...

Kr@zyburd23, thursday 11-Jun-15 6 2,115
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Help to stop tarnished silver jewellery
2016bride88, 8 June, 2015 at 21:58

Hi ladies, I don't get married til February and I found a bargain for my bridesmaids gifts. I bought them bracelets sterling silver and the lady said to keep an eye on them and to take them out of the...

lisaloulou, wednesday 10-Jun-15 7 1,410
Yvetterob
Goodies through the post
Yvetterob, 10 June, 2015 at 17:41

I love it when you order stuff an the forget you have ordered it. Love the surprise in the post. To I revived my wedding garter, I wanted a custome made one and it's awesome. Will try and see if I can...

Yvetterob, wednesday 10-Jun-15 330
Karen84
Fascinators - yay or nay?
Karen84, 9 June, 2015 at 14:28

Speaking from a guest perspective - are these still a thing? I quite like them to finish the 'look' but I rarely see anyone wearing them in wedding pictures anymore. Do you wear one to a wedding? OMs,...

Kr@zyburd23, wednesday 10-Jun-15 29 2,245
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Feeding photographer...?
RomanticRedHair152, 9 June, 2015 at 13:38

My caterers have just asked whether we are planning on feeding our photographer and I have no idea! What's the norm? xxx

jesikab4u, wednesday 10-Jun-15 18 2,321
TheFutureMrsB
Church bells ringing, how much?
TheFutureMrsB , 9 June, 2015 at 22:09

Our original quote to have the church bells ringing after our ceremony was £40, just had an email to say this has now increased. How much is everyone roughly paying please? Thanks :-)

CornishBride89, wednesday 10-Jun-15 11 4,127
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Bride and Groom can't agree.........
, 9 June, 2015 at 19:46

I have been engaged for 9 months or so and my groom and I can't decide on a wedding. I am not comfortable with a lot of people so my preference is us to pick four people each and take them off some...

soraneko, tuesday 9-Jun-15 5 1,731
bliss_balloons
Final meeting with venue
bliss_balloons , 9 June, 2015 at 12:37

I haven't booked this yet but time is fast approaching when I'm going to need to! I've got an idea of a few questions to ask but feel like I should have spreadsheets or lists to give to them. We're...

bliss_balloons, tuesday 9-Jun-15 7 1,219
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male wedding guest wearing kilt - opinions please.
celticcurl, 6 June, 2015 at 11:38

OH is wearing a kilt for our wedding in 7 weeks time. It has been made to measure in his clan tartan and it's beautiful. My cousin is travelling from Ireland to photograph our wedding. This cousin is...

SRECOWBURN, tuesday 9-Jun-15 23 10,916
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best man crisis
excited bride2015, 8 June, 2015 at 17:31

So less than 2 weeks to go and my OH has fallen out with his best man. Was the stag do at the wknd. The best did not organise in fact i did it in the end, so my OH didn't know until he hadn't. He...

soontobeMrsDavey, tuesday 9-Jun-15 10 1,903

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