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Sambarine
Sambarine's Wedding Report!
Sambarine, 26 June, 2015 at 10:20

We got our wedding photos through yesterday, and I'd already written a long letter to my grandparents giving them a wedding blow-by-blow, so here it is - another epic of a wedding report!! The run-up...

AKWedding, saturday 27-Jun-15 26 3,093
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Bridesmaids Paying For Their Own Dresses
ExpensiveBrownDiamonds1257, 24 June, 2015 at 16:25

I'm an American marrying a lovely British man who has requested that his younger sister be one of my bridesmaids. I'm fine with this, although I'm not sure how to handle the bridemaids' dresses. In...

ExpensiveBrownDiamon, friday 26-Jun-15 15 3,918
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First Dance Song
Moonbeam88, 26 June, 2015 at 11:05

I know there have been numerous posts about this but i'd really like to get some more ideas for first dance songs...what is everyone having? We're thinking Dream a Little Dream of Me or Gabrielle...

sarah.jones, friday 26-Jun-15 6 1,949
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Help - Mother of the Bride Outfit
lamurphy27, 25 June, 2015 at 10:36

Hi! I would be very grateful for any recommendations for places to shop for an outfit for my mum for my upcoming wedding in September. Choosing my own dress was a breeze in comparison to finding an...

Manda79, friday 26-Jun-15 5 1,026
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HELP!! Wedding thank you ideas for Bridesmaids, Flower Girls and Page Boy......
MrsLBtoB, 23 June, 2015 at 13:11

So at our wedding, we have 2 bridesmaids who are actually my (much) younger half sisters and they will be 17 and 13 at the time of the wedding, we also have 3 flower girls who will be 10, 7 and 18...

KJHLee, friday 26-Jun-15 5 1,166
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Where Can I Buy A Wedding Photo Album?
MrsWebberToBe, 25 June, 2015 at 10:04

As I'm not having a professional photographer (stepdad and OH's uncle are very good photographers with all the gear, therefore doing the photos), I was wondering where I can buy a really nice wedding...

lpcr, thursday 25-Jun-15 6 1,217
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Looking for celebrant
FutureMrsMarshall, 21 June, 2015 at 23:16

Does anyone have any recommendations for celebrants (or those to avoid!) who would work around Salisbury? I'm looking for someone who is happy and able to perform a quite traditional ceremony, mostly...

Simply Ceremonies Uk, thursday 25-Jun-15 3 749
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Table linen , napkin etc hire
ExpensivePinkConfetti319, 21 June, 2015 at 17:54

Any advice for sourcing these cheaply/but quality. We are in yorkshire

celticcurl, thursday 25-Jun-15 3 1,136
Chucklevision
Blondie
Chucklevision, 22 June, 2015 at 18:48

As the 4th July brides are closest to my date, I wanted to set up your good threads. Well it's come round quick, I hope you have a fab day and it's what you hoped and dreamed it would be . please...

Lui, wednesday 24-Jun-15 4 577
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Registry Office Music
MrsWebberToBe, 22 June, 2015 at 12:21

Anyone else having a registry office wedding? What music are you having? My husband to be suggested we have instrumental versions of songs we both like, so we're having :- While guests are waiting -...

MrsLBtoB, tuesday 23-Jun-15 7 4,070
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Surprise Hen Night...........
MrsFitt2B, 23 June, 2015 at 10:28

Some of you might remember that I've posted about not having a clue what my BM's have organised for my hen night? Well, it was this weekend and I had a fabulous time! They took me to Brighton and on...

MrsFitt2B, tuesday 23-Jun-15 2 793
MrsG_to_be
Pregnant bride - the dress! Flash
MrsG_to_be, 22 June, 2015 at 17:14

So now I've come to terms with giving up my dream dress and being 8 months pregnant, I'm feeling okay about my dress now! I don't love it but think it looks acceptable considering I'm only 5ft and the...

MrsWebberToBe, tuesday 23-Jun-15 16 2,119
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Candy Buffet Quantities
SunnyPinkConfetti310, 21 June, 2015 at 20:48

I'm doing a DIY Candy Buffet instead of favours, and will probably have about 120 guests. Does anyone know what quantity of sweets I need to order? Online suggestions vary between 1/4 and 1/2 pound...

MrsWood2b16, monday 22-Jun-15 7 1,987
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UK Online Officiants - where can they marry?
MummyWifeyBoo, 21 June, 2015 at 22:22

And how does it all work!!? Hi, this is my very first post (am on my iPhone, and cant seem to find the function to search the forum?!) - I really want one of my very best friends in my wedding party...

Simply Ceremonies Uk, monday 22-Jun-15 8 24,775
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Small Venues Edinburgh and Glasgow
19801981, 22 June, 2015 at 13:53

Hi All, I've just joined this website and am looking for some advice as to venues in Edinburgh and Glasgow. Myself and my HTB live down south and are planning to take a trip up to Scotland in August...

Zozo222, monday 22-Jun-15 2 670
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Sweetie buffet jar issues.
SunnyBrownDiamonds138, 21 June, 2015 at 22:18

Hi, I was counting on this jar as my centre piece for my DIY sweetie buffet but homebargains haven't had it in for months and I can't find it anywhere else!! It was only £8 . Can anyone help me? I you...

MrsWebberToBe, monday 22-Jun-15 5 1,521
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Elopement Ideas
SunnyBlueStationery353, 21 June, 2015 at 19:43

Hi, I'd really love to Elope in Northumberland but I just can't find ANYWHERE that offers this kind of service. What are other people experience of eloping? Where would you suggest in the UK to elope?...

MrsWebberToBe, monday 22-Jun-15 2 1,333
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Back Fat
mrsh2b89, 20 June, 2015 at 15:38

Hi! I put a deposit down on my dress back in august last year, have my first dress fitting booked for 8th July. I've had an accessory appointment at the dress shop this morning. Dress fitted perfect...

Aspenlady, sunday 21-Jun-15 11 2,358
Paul & Dawn
Guests with funny requests!
Paul & Dawn, 18 June, 2015 at 21:29

We can all do with a laugh sometimes so I had to share this... A wedding guest of mine (old school friend) who is booked into stay at the venue the night of the wedding (we exclusively hired the venue...

Scottish_Sarah, sunday 21-Jun-15 6 8,398
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Venue and food cost...
TwinkleToes1984, 14 June, 2015 at 13:28

Hiya guys and gals! I've just started attempting to plan my wedding for 2017. Like most girls I've had a view in my head of what I've wanted for about 100 years but after starting to do some serious...

katiepoppycat, saturday 20-Jun-15 16 4,505
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vegas last minute very small cheap wedding help!!
Victoria1992, 18 June, 2015 at 11:17

Hi there My partner and I are going to vegas for a competition in september ... less then 3 months away!! we decided why not just get married while we're there?! we really don't have the money to...

Lucky2015, friday 19-Jun-15 8 3,727
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Menu Planning Tips and Kids meals
winterwedding121215, 17 June, 2015 at 20:42

Hi We are meeting at the venue next week to finalise our menus and drinks, so any questions I should ask would be appreciated! Also unsure what to do about the kids meals. The venue said a kid is...

jayannfernandez, friday 19-Jun-15 9 2,428
BubbleBees
On Wedding Insurance - slightly preachy mini-rant.
BubbleBees, 18 June, 2015 at 09:45

I'm sure this has been said before, but I'm going to say it again. Buy Wedding Insurance! I had planned to take out a policy months ago and didn't get round to it. If I hadn't dithered the policy...

bliss_balloons, thursday 18-Jun-15 12 1,818
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Going away outfit - do people still wear them?
KimmyP84, 17 June, 2015 at 18:25

I was talking to my mum and she asked if I had a going away outfit sorted. I hadn't planned on wearing one, in fact it hadn't even crossed my mind. We are going to a B&B on the wedding night, but...

overtherainbow, thursday 18-Jun-15 4 4,425
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Veil placement and hair accessories
winterwedding121215, 31 May, 2015 at 16:10

Hello.. I want to have my hair half up half down, something like below... but I also would like something like below central... I don't know if you can have a veil which is obviously held in with a...

Wedding Photography, wednesday 17-Jun-15 5 1,778
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Blush wedding dress
SophJB, 15 June, 2015 at 10:53

Hi there I have ordered a blush wedding dress and wondered what people's thought were on colours for the bridesmaids and mens suits etc? I was thinking pastel colours - possibly light grey? Has anyone...

Tigsy87, wednesday 17-Jun-15 12 2,517
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Lace Bolero
Emilyjane5, 16 June, 2015 at 22:15

Hello All! Would any body be able to help me? I am getting married the beginning of September 2015, and planning is getting intense! I love my dress but to really make it look amazing I am looking for...

Karen84, wednesday 17-Jun-15 1 1,315
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I want to cancel wedding and elope, he doesn't.
xchristy_bbyx, 15 June, 2015 at 11:49

Really at a lost tbh. We have paid the deposit for the registrar, the venue and the photographer, we have paid 1000 of the venue and still have about 5000 left to pay for the whole wedding. We decided...

Calella, wednesday 17-Jun-15 13 5,049
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Anyone having a "sten" or "hag" do?
mkw, 17 June, 2015 at 11:40

Quite a few of my closest friends are male and I had originally been thinking of having a separate "stag" do to celebrate with them (pretty much just a trip to the pub but a good excuse to see them...

Karen84, wednesday 17-Jun-15 3 736
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London wedding singer and DJ
Michaela525, 6 May, 2015 at 21:03

Hi everyone, We are getting married in London in April 2016 and looking for a wedding singer who will DJ between sets, does anyone have any recommendations of singers or where to look? Have tried a...

Moonbeam88, tuesday 16-Jun-15 2 724
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Help! Oyster & Ivory Dress - what do i do for bridesmaids?
b2be1, 15 June, 2015 at 04:57

I tried on and fell in love with a Justin Alexander dress which is Oyster with an Ivory lace overlay. I absolutely LOVE it but I'm starting to freak out a bit about bridesmaid colours. I had my heart...

b2be1, tuesday 16-Jun-15 7 3,994
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Stag do weekend before the wedding?
mkw, 15 June, 2015 at 20:42

My OH mentioned the other day that he is considering having his stag do the weekend before the wedding and asked if I would mind. Assuming they don't shave his head or anything I'm perfectly fine with...

*J9*, tuesday 16-Jun-15 2 1,198

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