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MadamRed
Battle of the Brides
MadamRed, 31 May, 2015 at 19:00

Just watching the one with the Slovakian girl and the same-sex wedding. Warwick Castle looked gorgeous, as always, but WTF makes people go on these programmes? Surely they know in advance what it's...

MadamRed, sunday 31-May-15 358
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Dress dilemma
mkw, 30 May, 2015 at 13:16

Mum and I have spent the last couple of days shopping for my wedding dress, and I am now completely confused about what I want. I always thought I wanted a relatively traditional lace wedding dress,...

BubbleBees, saturday 30-May-15 3 1,008
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pre-marriage counselling
Leelee85, 28 May, 2015 at 14:37

Hi Everyone. Has anyone here done pre-marriage counselling and would you recommend it. My Mr and I are doing our pre-wedding pre course with the catholic church but its not the same as one on one...

halloweeny, friday 29-May-15 14 1,675
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First post! Help me decide on a wedding ring.
Strickfusswedding, 27 May, 2015 at 15:33

Hello everyone I'm knew to this sight. It's a bit early to be buying our wedding bands but there's a sale coming up with 20% off so we said why not. I've found 2 that I've fallen in love with and...

samwillow, thursday 28-May-15 14 2,971
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Combining two cultures
FutureMrsMarshall, 26 May, 2015 at 17:50

Anyone else part of an international couple? I'm Dutch, OH is English with Welsh family and we're getting married in England (although possibly we'll do the legal bit in Holland). Obviously the...

MartinC Photography, wednesday 27-May-15 6 1,522
CornishBride89
Traditional fruit or sponge cake?
CornishBride89, 27 May, 2015 at 12:01

I just wanted to know what the general consensus is. We're going for three different flavours of sponge because we both hate fruit cake, but my OHs parents want to add a small traditional layer! (My...

Teal, wednesday 27-May-15 8 829
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Wedding Planning Guides & Books Recommendation
PurpleDayDream, 27 May, 2015 at 16:17

Almost a year of planning... and I think I've finally found a book that would have really helped from the start. Law Pack - Wedding Planning http://www.lawpack.co.uk/cohabitation/product839.asp I...

PurpleDayDream, wednesday 27-May-15 302
Karen84
Help with booking a wedding DJ
Karen84, 12 January, 2015 at 13:40

Hi all, this might sound like a silly post but I'm a bit stuck as to where to begin when it comes to booking a DJ and would appreciate any advice or guidance. What sort of questions should I be asking...

green-claws-entertai, wednesday 27-May-15 10 1,505
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Hair and Make up - separate or both?!
kimster, 25 May, 2015 at 21:58

Hi all, I'm totally clueless about hair and make up - I have had the same hairstyle / used the same hair products for about 10 years! I'm not really a girly girl, I'd like to be but going to the...

kimster, wednesday 27-May-15 11 1,981
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Wedding planner from hell
LuxuriousIvoryCakes259, 26 May, 2015 at 21:14

So I am holding my reception at a private members club that I am a member of. They have their own planner who has been really nice and helpful, until recently. Contracts were signed back in feb along...

Paula @ Ollievision, wednesday 27-May-15 1 891
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Red Routemaster Bus
Sophie C, 26 May, 2015 at 14:45

Hello, Does anyone have any experience of Red Routemaster - http://www.redroutemaster.com/ We are looking to book them to take our guests to the reception but struggling to find any reviews of...

conway13, tuesday 26-May-15 2 973
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Wedding Dress shops in London that don't charge for weekend appointments
StefyM, 23 May, 2015 at 08:51

Hello, I am new here but I am quite stuck. I usually work a 6 day week and I have managed to take a Saturday off to go try on Wedding dresses but a lot of shops in London charge for weekend...

Sam&Louise, tuesday 26-May-15 8 8,121
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Flower girl dresses *FLASH*
mrs_w_to_be, 24 May, 2015 at 13:21

OK so I'm currently trying to find dresses for my two flower girls, ages 5 and 7 These are my bridesmaid dresses (I have 2 adults and a 13 year old) I've seen these and I think they are cute and will...

mrs_w_to_be, monday 25-May-15 12 2,526
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Bridesmaid slippers and toiletries bag - bargain price
celticcurl, 24 May, 2015 at 17:51

Home bargains have these for sale at £6.98. They had dressing gowns as well but sold out really quickly. I suspect they will get more. Just posting in case anyone is looking for this type of thing. ...

AlmostMrsS, sunday 24-May-15 2,231
gingeremmie
New to wedding planning and think I've made a newbie error already, Debenhams flower girl dresses
gingeremmie, 22 May, 2015 at 13:04

So I'm just starting to plan our wedding, going to see the proposed venue on Thursday, I happened to be talking to my 3 yr old daughter about it all, and was telling her about wearing a pretty dress...

MrsShep, saturday 23-May-15 19 3,024
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Help...No Speeches - Ideas please?
ExpensivePinkStationery301, 22 May, 2015 at 01:16

Hi All! I am the groom to the wedding and I will be totally honest I am a total wreck about making a speech, I suffer with social anxiety. My wedding is over 12 months away and I already cant sleep...

Kr@zyburd23, friday 22-May-15 11 4,156
CornishBride89
Different Bridesmaids Dresses?
CornishBride89, 20 May, 2015 at 13:53

Hi all, I was just wondering whether any of you thought I was mad, or whether this is a good idea? I have four bridesmaids who are all different shapes and sizes. Due to the budget, they've agreed to...

CornishBride89, friday 22-May-15 15 3,419
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Last meeting with the vicar.
jesikab4u, 21 May, 2015 at 16:56

So on the 9th of June we have our last meeting with the vicar, the next time will be the rehearsal 5 days before the wedding. We haven't organised much about the ceremony yet, do we need to have...

jesikab4u, friday 22-May-15 3 1,161
bliss_balloons
Garden games
bliss_balloons , 21 May, 2015 at 09:45

I can't find anywhere decent to hire them so I've been buying a few but trying to get one's that aren't too expensive and people will actually want to use. Those of you who are are having them what...

bliss_balloons, thursday 21-May-15 5 1,068
MrsV-wasMissB
Bit of a dilemma with the “entrance” to ceremony…
MrsV-wasMissB, 18 May, 2015 at 09:45

OK so as it stands this is the order of entry for the females of the bridal party. We have a ‘rehearsal’ (family get together) 2 weeks before so everyone knows their place and when. All outfits...

MRSLUXTON2B, thursday 21-May-15 11 2,101
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Speeches and Top Tables
Mrs-Riley, 20 May, 2015 at 14:52

So although we're not at the point of doing a table plan yet (still firming up where we're actually going to have our venue after the church) I was talking a little bit about the top table with my...

pammy67, thursday 21-May-15 11 2,042
Daisy Bell
99 Days To Go *Big Flash*
Daisy Bell, 17 May, 2015 at 15:23

We hit double digits today and now only have 99 days to go until our wedding on 24th August!! I'm so excited! It's been a productive 3 1/2 months of planning so I thought it was time for a big flash...

Daisy Bell, wednesday 20-May-15 20 2,896
MrsV-wasMissB
Hitched Stationery - 50% sale....
MrsV-wasMissB, 19 May, 2015 at 19:46

So in Jan I took advantage of this fantastic offer and ordered all my invites, rsvps, menu cards, and posters from here. Amazing product, at a fair price. Now, I would like to have my O of the D done...

zoe@hitched, wednesday 20-May-15 4 1,035
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Boudoir photoshoot
Bridally, 19 May, 2015 at 15:45

Has anyone done (or thinking of doing) a boudoir photoshoot? I'd like to do one for a gift for my H2B but the prices seem extortionate if you want more than one or two images. Help!!

kimiu, wednesday 20-May-15 11 1,587
Miss-b
Top Table/Sweetheart Table help and opinions wanted!
Miss-b, 19 May, 2015 at 10:47

Hello! I need peoples opinions/ thoughts please, as I'm starting to do my own head in thinking about this.. I'm probably over thinking it!! Both myself and OH's parents are divorced and...

Miss-b, wednesday 20-May-15 12 1,692
BriertonBride
Legal side of marriage......confused! ?
BriertonBride, 19 May, 2015 at 14:06

Hi, Sorry I if this makes me sound really silly! I have searched on here and on the Internet and still feel slightly confused! My h2b and I are getting married in a maor house in June 2016. I am so...

MrsRees2B, tuesday 19-May-15 6 1,584
Kittylove
Mother of the Groom Hair & Makeup
Kittylove, 17 May, 2015 at 23:09

I think I need a bit of advice, and then maybe a little rant. First the advice. Does anyone know if it is tradition or expected or anything for the Bride to sort out the MOG hair and makeup as well as...

Kittylove, tuesday 19-May-15 24 11,299
Daisy Bell
Wedding favours for female guests only?
Daisy Bell, 18 May, 2015 at 09:43

I was originally planning on doing favours for all guests, now just got a text from FMIL saying only female guests get wedding favours. Is this what's traditionally done? Is it still done or do most...

MrsFitt2B, tuesday 19-May-15 21 5,593
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Reading Ideas
AmyMay92, 12 May, 2015 at 12:35

Hi all, I'm really struggling to find some non-religious readings for our ceremony that my H2B and I both like. We're not really into cheesy poetry or anything like that, and every website I've been...

AmyMay92, tuesday 19-May-15 6 2,310
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how much is a videographer?
Princess Bride 2013, 12 May, 2015 at 08:32

I know that all are not the same price, I was hoping for an average. I get married in under 4 weeks and I just realised I feel I will really regret it if we don't have it filmed. Have also thought of...

Princess Bride 2013, monday 18-May-15 9 1,986
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Alteration Fear
Starsaef, 16 May, 2015 at 19:53

I am having nightmares over my dress alterations. Has anyone ever had a gown with an elaborate beaded hem and graduated beading from the waist altered. My gown does not have a seamed waist so I have...

Starsaef, monday 18-May-15 8 1,756
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Cheese instead of Cake - opinions please
MrsJFC2be, 14 May, 2015 at 21:34

This seems to be a new thing but has anyone had a cheese tower instead of a wedding cake? If so how did it go with guests? Me and my fiancé love the idea as we are more savoury than sweet and love...

Chale, monday 18-May-15 14 2,362

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