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MrsV-wasMissB
Bridesmaid Gift for a 16 year old girl! HELP!
MrsV-wasMissB, 2 June, 2015 at 16:53

I literally have NO idea. She likes reading, drawing, art. She doesn't like noise, girlyness, " pointless things". I did think a book and a drawing set but that's a normal birthday type present! ...

pink & glitz, tuesday 2-Jun-15 6 1,002
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Second hand wedding dresses?
Little_MrsA2B, 1 June, 2015 at 19:36

Hi wonderful hitchers! I think I now need to be looking for a dress, eeek! I'm not fussed about a new one (or the cost!) and plan to sell it straight away afterwards. Just wondering if anyone else had...

Little_MrsA2B, tuesday 2-Jun-15 6 1,678
CornishBride89
The Great RSVP Wait
CornishBride89, 29 May, 2015 at 09:37

Good morning all! So who here is joining me in the great RSVP wait, and those who have had all their replies, how long did they take, and did you have to chase? I'm really anxious/excited to get...

celticcurl, tuesday 2-Jun-15 33 2,951
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Favours for teenagers help please
Tracey H2b, 1 June, 2015 at 14:37

Hi We've got about 20 children coming to our wedding ages ranging from 3-17 and I'm stuck on favours to give them. For the adults we're doing a tea and biscuits theme but I don't think they will be...

AuntieBJ, monday 1-Jun-15 5 2,677
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Nabla dresses
FutureMrsMarshall, 1 June, 2015 at 15:47

I had my very first dress shopping appointment today... phew! Much more fun than I expected but sooooo exhausting, I could sleep for a week now... Does anyone have experience with Nabla dresses?...

FutureMrsMarshall, monday 1-Jun-15 560
Mrspanda18
OH's changed his mind
Mrspanda18, 25 May, 2015 at 19:17

My OH has decided he doesn't want to get married ? He is happy to be engaged and continue to be engaged but doesn't want to get married, he set a date for a 5 year engagement which I was OK with........

Mrspanda18, monday 1-Jun-15 186 14,066
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Paying photographer/other suppliers in full before wedding?
ExpensiveBrownDiamonds329, 31 May, 2015 at 12:53

I hope I'm posting this in the right place... Is it normal to pay photographers, videographers and other suppliers in FULL before the wedding? My fiance and I have found a photographer whose portfolio...

Daisy Bell, monday 1-Jun-15 10 3,637
Ddpunk
Michelle Keegan wedding dress
Ddpunk, 31 May, 2015 at 11:55

Well, what do we all think? I think the dress was what I was expecting. Not my cup of tea but great for her cracking figure. She's stunning. Surprised she didn't do more with her hair though?

halloweeny, monday 1-Jun-15 16 5,517
PrettyFlower90
Wedding dress shopping alone?
PrettyFlower90, 30 May, 2015 at 19:35

Just wondered if anyone on here has ever went to try on dresses alone? I'm from NI so can't really go with mum and family, they are gonna come over, but I'm hoping to have a shortlist ready to show...

JenCTR, monday 1-Jun-15 13 2,492
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Wedding belt or not?
firsttimebride83, 31 May, 2015 at 17:55

My dress :-) My mam reckons I need a belt to bling it up a bit? What do you think? (Bad picture I know -I've lost a bit of weight so will be having it taken it) x

Chucklevision, sunday 31-May-15 7 1,643
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Best friend refusing to come to my wedding
Aishab2201, 31 May, 2015 at 11:09

I have been with my partner for almost 3 years, and we literally just in the last month started planning our wedding. it has been up and down for various reasons, but I love him to bits and can't wait...

MadamRed, sunday 31-May-15 3 1,437
MadamRed
Battle of the Brides
MadamRed, 31 May, 2015 at 19:00

Just watching the one with the Slovakian girl and the same-sex wedding. Warwick Castle looked gorgeous, as always, but WTF makes people go on these programmes? Surely they know in advance what it's...

MadamRed, sunday 31-May-15 358
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Dress dilemma
mkw, 30 May, 2015 at 13:16

Mum and I have spent the last couple of days shopping for my wedding dress, and I am now completely confused about what I want. I always thought I wanted a relatively traditional lace wedding dress,...

BubbleBees, saturday 30-May-15 3 1,008
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pre-marriage counselling
Leelee85, 28 May, 2015 at 14:37

Hi Everyone. Has anyone here done pre-marriage counselling and would you recommend it. My Mr and I are doing our pre-wedding pre course with the catholic church but its not the same as one on one...

halloweeny, friday 29-May-15 14 1,675
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First post! Help me decide on a wedding ring.
Strickfusswedding, 27 May, 2015 at 15:33

Hello everyone I'm knew to this sight. It's a bit early to be buying our wedding bands but there's a sale coming up with 20% off so we said why not. I've found 2 that I've fallen in love with and...

samwillow, thursday 28-May-15 14 2,971
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Combining two cultures
FutureMrsMarshall, 26 May, 2015 at 17:50

Anyone else part of an international couple? I'm Dutch, OH is English with Welsh family and we're getting married in England (although possibly we'll do the legal bit in Holland). Obviously the...

MartinC Photography, wednesday 27-May-15 6 1,522
CornishBride89
Traditional fruit or sponge cake?
CornishBride89, 27 May, 2015 at 12:01

I just wanted to know what the general consensus is. We're going for three different flavours of sponge because we both hate fruit cake, but my OHs parents want to add a small traditional layer! (My...

Teal, wednesday 27-May-15 8 831
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Wedding Planning Guides & Books Recommendation
PurpleDayDream, 27 May, 2015 at 16:17

Almost a year of planning... and I think I've finally found a book that would have really helped from the start. Law Pack - Wedding Planning http://www.lawpack.co.uk/cohabitation/product839.asp I...

PurpleDayDream, wednesday 27-May-15 302
Karen84
Help with booking a wedding DJ
Karen84, 12 January, 2015 at 13:40

Hi all, this might sound like a silly post but I'm a bit stuck as to where to begin when it comes to booking a DJ and would appreciate any advice or guidance. What sort of questions should I be asking...

green-claws-entertai, wednesday 27-May-15 10 1,505
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Hair and Make up - separate or both?!
kimster, 25 May, 2015 at 21:58

Hi all, I'm totally clueless about hair and make up - I have had the same hairstyle / used the same hair products for about 10 years! I'm not really a girly girl, I'd like to be but going to the...

kimster, wednesday 27-May-15 11 1,983
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Wedding planner from hell
LuxuriousIvoryCakes259, 26 May, 2015 at 21:14

So I am holding my reception at a private members club that I am a member of. They have their own planner who has been really nice and helpful, until recently. Contracts were signed back in feb along...

Paula @ Ollievision, wednesday 27-May-15 1 891
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Red Routemaster Bus
Sophie C, 26 May, 2015 at 14:45

Hello, Does anyone have any experience of Red Routemaster - http://www.redroutemaster.com/ We are looking to book them to take our guests to the reception but struggling to find any reviews of...

conway13, tuesday 26-May-15 2 973
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Wedding Dress shops in London that don't charge for weekend appointments
StefyM, 23 May, 2015 at 08:51

Hello, I am new here but I am quite stuck. I usually work a 6 day week and I have managed to take a Saturday off to go try on Wedding dresses but a lot of shops in London charge for weekend...

Sam&Louise, tuesday 26-May-15 8 8,135
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Flower girl dresses *FLASH*
mrs_w_to_be, 24 May, 2015 at 13:21

OK so I'm currently trying to find dresses for my two flower girls, ages 5 and 7 These are my bridesmaid dresses (I have 2 adults and a 13 year old) I've seen these and I think they are cute and will...

mrs_w_to_be, monday 25-May-15 12 2,527
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Bridesmaid slippers and toiletries bag - bargain price
celticcurl, 24 May, 2015 at 17:51

Home bargains have these for sale at £6.98. They had dressing gowns as well but sold out really quickly. I suspect they will get more. Just posting in case anyone is looking for this type of thing. ...

AlmostMrsS, sunday 24-May-15 2,232
gingeremmie
New to wedding planning and think I've made a newbie error already, Debenhams flower girl dresses
gingeremmie, 22 May, 2015 at 13:04

So I'm just starting to plan our wedding, going to see the proposed venue on Thursday, I happened to be talking to my 3 yr old daughter about it all, and was telling her about wearing a pretty dress...

MrsShep, saturday 23-May-15 19 3,024
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Help...No Speeches - Ideas please?
ExpensivePinkStationery301, 22 May, 2015 at 01:16

Hi All! I am the groom to the wedding and I will be totally honest I am a total wreck about making a speech, I suffer with social anxiety. My wedding is over 12 months away and I already cant sleep...

Kr@zyburd23, friday 22-May-15 11 4,160
CornishBride89
Different Bridesmaids Dresses?
CornishBride89, 20 May, 2015 at 13:53

Hi all, I was just wondering whether any of you thought I was mad, or whether this is a good idea? I have four bridesmaids who are all different shapes and sizes. Due to the budget, they've agreed to...

CornishBride89, friday 22-May-15 15 3,419
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Last meeting with the vicar.
jesikab4u, 21 May, 2015 at 16:56

So on the 9th of June we have our last meeting with the vicar, the next time will be the rehearsal 5 days before the wedding. We haven't organised much about the ceremony yet, do we need to have...

jesikab4u, friday 22-May-15 3 1,161
MrsV-wasMissB
Bit of a dilemma with the “entrance” to ceremony…
MrsV-wasMissB, 18 May, 2015 at 09:45

OK so as it stands this is the order of entry for the females of the bridal party. We have a ‘rehearsal’ (family get together) 2 weeks before so everyone knows their place and when. All outfits...

MRSLUXTON2B, thursday 21-May-15 11 2,101
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Speeches and Top Tables
Mrs-Riley, 20 May, 2015 at 14:52

So although we're not at the point of doing a table plan yet (still firming up where we're actually going to have our venue after the church) I was talking a little bit about the top table with my...

pammy67, thursday 21-May-15 11 2,043
Daisy Bell
99 Days To Go *Big Flash*
Daisy Bell, 17 May, 2015 at 15:23

We hit double digits today and now only have 99 days to go until our wedding on 24th August!! I'm so excited! It's been a productive 3 1/2 months of planning so I thought it was time for a big flash...

Daisy Bell, wednesday 20-May-15 20 2,896

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