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Live band + Sound Limiter? Will the reception be awkwardly quiet?
HappyBlueHair628, 11 August, 2016 at 16:33

My two favourite venues have sound limiters installed - the first venue refuses to have any amplified music and no drum kit AND has a sound limiter. The second allows these things but limits noise to...

thespectrumband@hotm, sunday 14-Aug-16 3 1,008
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Hair and makeup recommendations in West Yorkshire
LuxuriousIvoryDiamonds550, 8 August, 2016 at 15:21

Hi all! I'm after some recommendations for hair and makeup for myself, my 4 bridesmaids and the mother of the groom in the West Yorkshire area. I've had a search around on google but it helps if...

SAL127, saturday 13-Aug-16 4 1,339
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Bridesmaid gifts
JadeyPops98, 3 August, 2016 at 07:49

Morning all, so I was planning on buying my bridesmaids a necklace each and giving it to them on the morning of the wedding. However my sister mentioned that she thinks it's traditional to give the...

SunnyOrangeFlowers60, thursday 11-Aug-16 26 4,577
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Guest book alternative
MrsDecemberBride, 22 August, 2014 at 01:59

Hi, just wondered whether any of you are having a guest book alternative? im torn between a large photo of us in a frame with a large border so guests can sign that, or I've found a 'drop top guest...

Bridally, thursday 11-Aug-16 41 9,153
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West Midlands recommendations?
angeljade, 9 August, 2016 at 14:53

I've just started looking at everything and the prices are making me cringe. I don't want a cheap wedding, but I can't afford much else! All venues seem to be £5-9000. Can anyone recommend any venues...

Stephisaur, wednesday 10-Aug-16 1 663
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North East Wedding
, 6 August, 2016 at 19:26

Hi there, We are getting married at Beamish Hall next Autumn, and are looking for recommendations for the day. We are looking to book a photographer and videographer soon, which from looking will be...

kimberleylorimer@hot, wednesday 10-Aug-16 3 698
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plus size wedding dress shop near liverpool
confusedabouteverything, 7 August, 2016 at 17:45

Can anyone please point me in the direction of some good bridal shops that are either specifically for plus size brides or carry a lot of plus size dresses within their stock? thanks in advance...

confusedabouteveryth, tuesday 9-Aug-16 6 1,418
kizzi10000
Registry office music - anyone else been asked this?
kizzi10000, 4 August, 2016 at 19:05

Just had a text from the OH saying he'd had a call from the registry office about our music, and would we be sending what we wanted to them before the day, or taking the chance it would play on their...

Shelly70, monday 8-Aug-16 4 1,898
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Buying bridesmaid dresses online
Oldbarnbride, 3 August, 2016 at 19:23

Hi everyone Been looking at a few websites online for bridesmaid dresses and just wondered if anyone had ordered theirs off the net and if so what were they like quality wise? Ive seen a few I like on...

LuxuriousIvoryDiamon, sunday 7-Aug-16 14 6,936
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RSVP deadline been and gone and hardly any replies :(
Annaangeluk2016, 6 August, 2016 at 17:17

We sent out our evening invitations right at the beginning of July with a deadline of 1st August for the rsvps. Wedding is in November but we wanted numbers quite early to sort stuff out plus people...

soraneko, saturday 6-Aug-16 2 1,306
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Guest list help!
SurreyBridetoBe, 2 August, 2016 at 13:29

Hi everyone! I got engaged last month so have just started the whole planning process with my fiance. We have drawn up a provisional wedding guest list, but while I have quite a small family (less...

BuryBride, saturday 6-Aug-16 4 872
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Signing off as a Miss!!
Beckcible, 6 August, 2016 at 06:13

At 12.30 today I will be walking down that ailse and finally becoming a Mrs! After 18 months the nerves have finally set in.....see you on the other side! ?

MrsR2B18, saturday 6-Aug-16 4 803
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Field to hire or venues with outdoor space in Bucks
HappyRedBridesmaid664, 2 August, 2016 at 12:24

Hi all, Recently newbie engaged lady over here! All very exciting but I'm struggling a bit with venues in Bucks. I want to have our reception outdoors which obviously means a marquee which is...

FutureMrsPayne, friday 5-Aug-16 4 2,011
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Hair and make up cost
Purpleshoes13, 4 August, 2016 at 18:23

I've been itching to do some wedding planning, so thought I would get some quotes for hair and make up. When sending enquiries I've tried to give a little detail about what my 3 bridesmaids, my mum...

katieJ2b, friday 5-Aug-16 5 3,289
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Do you know Etiquette (quiz)
1987RAF, 3 August, 2016 at 14:03

I found this little quiz online today about decorum and etiquette according to Debretts, the go to agency for such matters. https://www.buzzfeed.com/tabathaleggett/how-good-are-your-wedding-manners I...

Tidal Wave, thursday 4-Aug-16 13 1,388
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Just can't find a dress I like, Aaaargh
HappyYellowDecor636, 1 August, 2016 at 21:31

Hi, After 17 years together my other half and I finally decided to get hitched, Yay! We've decided to just have a very small wedding in the registry office followed by a meal at a nice local...

HappyYellowDecor636, tuesday 2-Aug-16 5 1,557
Mrsjones2024
Getting ready timings on the day
Mrsjones2024, 30 July, 2016 at 22:36

Hi all, My hairdresser has a friend's wedding on the same day as my wedding. She has just contacted me to ask what time I am thinking of having my hair and make up done so that she can plan her day....

Justkeepswimming, monday 1-Aug-16 10 2,359
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Wedding dress has arrived & is unflattering
ExpensivePurpleBridesmaid569, 1 August, 2016 at 08:37

My wedding dress has arrived & is unflattering & I'm devastated. Ive gone from being giddy with excitement about the big day to feeling nauseous, stressed & dreading the walk down the...

ExpensivePurpleBride, monday 1-Aug-16 2 1,637
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Mega cheap wedding needed please
LuxuriousGoldHair642, 30 July, 2016 at 20:23

We have done our notice to get married and assumed a registry office would not cost much but it's looking like we were assuming very wrongly! We are wanting to get married but apart from our kids do...

Paula @ Ollievision, sunday 31-Jul-16 2 1,109
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Advice May Bank Holiday Wedding ... Good idea ?
Caramel18, 20 June, 2016 at 12:52

Hello So we have planned our day with the vicar for 5.5.2018 and confirmed it with our venue, however after getting home we quickly realised that this fell on a bank holiday (Saturday). Initially we...

ExpensivePurpleHair5, sunday 31-Jul-16 17 4,004
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Warning about Debenhems wedding gift lists!
, 28 July, 2016 at 18:06

Looked at my friend's gift list on the Debenhams website earlier on this week and had decided on a teapot priced about £60. When I went to buy it yesterday the price was up at over £70! When I phoned...

soraneko, saturday 30-Jul-16 4 1,423
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Two weddings, one venue - Does it bother you?
Mrs-Riley, 26 July, 2016 at 10:35

It's a question I've thought about a lot during my wedding planning. We've had one venue reject us because we were too small a party and they wouldn't be able to have another wedding on the same day...

FutureMrsT17, saturday 30-Jul-16 9 3,024
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Wishing Tree instead of Guest Book
Pink Sparkle, 27 July, 2016 at 19:48

Hello Me and OH have decided on having a wishing tree instead of a guest book. Have any of you used a wishing tree - did it work? Is anyone else planning on using one? I think I have found some tags...

Pink Sparkle, saturday 30-Jul-16 6 1,231
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Can you have 2 maid of honours?
SunnyIvoryConfetti628, 26 July, 2016 at 15:17

I have 2 good friends and I can't choose between them one of them has been my friend all my life (26 years) and the other one has been my closest friend for the last 6 years so can you have 2 and has...

SunnyIvoryConfetti62, friday 29-Jul-16 4 4,051
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Name change - who needs to know?
Mrs-Riley, 28 July, 2016 at 15:58

So, I've had my electoral roll thingy through today and it's spurred me on to make a list of who I need to notify that my name has changed - so far I have the following; - Electoral Roll (requesting...

Mrs-Riley, friday 29-Jul-16 8 1,273
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Wowzer - Wedding Cake Costs
1987RAF, 25 July, 2016 at 17:12

With literally just over three months left, I have been knuckling down and started looking at cake. Holy undercrackers Batman! I was expecting £150 - £200ish tops to feed around 60 people. Everywhere...

Lilacbouquet, wednesday 27-Jul-16 19 5,816
kizzi10000
Signing the register - how long does it take?
kizzi10000, 24 July, 2016 at 08:44

I'm sure I've read a similar post in the past, but I can't find it ☹️ Have finally pinned the OH down to discuss music, and we've come up with a few songs, just not sure how to allocate them. Got...

Wedding Photography, wednesday 27-Jul-16 8 12,331
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Groom's present box for the morning of the wedding... any ideas girls?
MrsPtobe2016, 25 July, 2016 at 14:10

Hi all! My OH and I decided that we would like to leave each other a gift to open on the morning of the wedding and OH suggested a budget of £100 (!) I am racking my brains trying to think what to get...

Ginguar, tuesday 26-Jul-16 12 7,178
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Morden Hall
LuxuriousOrangeFlowers651, 22 July, 2016 at 23:21

We're thinking of booking Morden Hall for 2017, I can't seem to find many reviews or experiences of the venue online as it's quite a new venue. Anyone booked here, got married here, been to a wedding...

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Skipton Castle wedding
rachietown, 25 July, 2016 at 09:56

So on Saturday I married the love of my life at Skipton Castle in North Yorkshire. It was a perfect day and we're still feeling totally overwhelmed and overjoyed by the whole thing. Before we jet off...

Karen84, monday 25-Jul-16 4 1,364
daisymoo86
July 2016 Brides (and Grooms)
daisymoo86, 5 February, 2015 at 11:33

Hello to all July 2016 Brides (and Grooms) I decided that as the 2016 general thread seems to be getting very full with almost 100 hundred pages that I would start a thread for those getting married...

Karen84, monday 25-Jul-16 563 35,612
Pookie8911
Premier Inn for guests
Pookie8911, 24 July, 2016 at 18:46

Hi All, In the throws of moving house, so been a little quiet (wedding planning is at a bit of a halt ☹️ ). Our venue is within 10 minutes of two Premier Inns in the Manchester area, and figure it's...

katieJ2b, monday 25-Jul-16 4 5,523

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