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40k budget!!
Toyaht, 13 December, 2014 at 23:07

Hi were getting married in june 2016, we have not chose our venue yet but we're hoping to get thorton manor in cheshire. we've worked out that venue will most likely cost us around 20k including...

katieJ2b, tuesday 5-Jul-16 131 20,530
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Having Hen Night at home...ideas please!
spartacusathome, 18 September, 2008 at 21:52

Hi, so many web sites are dedicated to going somewhere for a hen night. All I want is a party at home! Is this odd? Has anyone else done this and any suggestions or ideas? I am not a twenty something...

Bobbys_Girl, tuesday 5-Jul-16 28 51,978
BubblesKM
Maldives honeymoon anyone? - Best way to book?
BubblesKM, 22 June, 2013 at 15:16

Hi I am getting married in Oct 2014 and we are planning on going to the Maldives start of November. I need some advice please? Kuoni are rip off and I refuse to pay double the price because it is...

RomanticIvoryDecor57, tuesday 5-Jul-16 9 4,722
MetalBride
Budget vs dress
MetalBride, 1 July, 2016 at 19:07

Ok so I posted a little while back with a picture of a dress I liked that was red and a full ball gown, I didn't buy it because it was so far over my budget. Today I tried a dress on in white that I...

Jayne E, monday 4-Jul-16 13 1,660
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Wedding dress shopping - can't find "the one" :(
FutureMrsCC, 25 June, 2016 at 17:41

After visiting 4 wedding dress shops and trying on numerous dresses, I just don't feel like i've found "the one". I've found 2 which I really like but people always talk of the moment where you just...

Jayne E, monday 4-Jul-16 22 10,881 1
hanaroo
Professional Hair and Make-up?
hanaroo, 28 June, 2016 at 15:01

Is it worth it? Do I just pay for myself and not MOB and Bridesmaids or if I have my hair and make-up professionally done should I pay for my mum's and my bridesmaids to have theirs done? If I pay for...

Lucy Jones - Make-up, monday 4-Jul-16 9 3,054
Mrsjones2024
Suit hire?
Mrsjones2024, 18 June, 2016 at 16:19

Hi all, Where are you hiring your suits from? We were planning on hiring the suits from a local, independent tailor on the high street. I have just checked their website and they charge £165 per suit...

Mrsjones2024, sunday 3-Jul-16 16 6,725
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Mayor's Parlour, Islington Town Hall – experiences? Reviews?
BenIslington, 2 July, 2016 at 14:09

We're going to have an extremely intimate wedding ceremony with just 12 guests, and are considering the Mayor's Parlour at Islington Town Hall. The location is perfect and it looks good in photos, but...

BenIslington, saturday 2-Jul-16 411
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When the most annoying person is...the groom!
lucyjo, 30 June, 2016 at 12:50

Is anyone else having issues getting their OH interested in wedding stuff? I expected to have to do 99% of the organising myself, but there were a few aspects of the wedding day I thought he'd be...

SunnyPinkConfetti310, saturday 2-Jul-16 6 1,364
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Bridal shoes!!
MrsMarshall2B260517, 28 June, 2016 at 14:41

Hello! I have completely fallen in love with a pair of Rachel simpson shoes in powder blue, the only problem is they're £180! which seems a lot to me, especially as I have a full length dress so they...

MetalBride, saturday 2-Jul-16 11 3,079
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Wedding Flowers!
MrsMarshall2B260517, 30 June, 2016 at 16:46

Hi everyone, So I'm going to see a florist at the weekend to talk flowers, I'm a little nervous as I have no idea what kind of prices are reasonable/realistic. Ill be looking to have my bridal bouquet...

Tidal Wave, friday 1-Jul-16 9 1,785
Tigsy87
Want to sell my dress - advice
Tigsy87, 22 June, 2016 at 09:37

Ok so I have decided that my dress isn't "the one". It was £1800 and I have only £200 left to pay. Deposit was £1000. If I decide not to proceed with the dress am I entitled to my money back (minus...

Jayne E, monday 27-Jun-16 3 1,484
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Buying veil from eBay
Much_ado_about_weddings, 22 June, 2016 at 16:01

Hi everyone has anyone bought a veil from eBay? I'm after a cathedral veil and have found the most gorgeous one which seems to be sold from China by a number of different sellers. It's only going to...

Mrs_Conduct, monday 27-Jun-16 9 3,552
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Running away to get married!
, 24 June, 2016 at 23:11

Have any of you just went away the two of you and got married with no friends or family there and just had random people as witnesses? The more I read about the stress, hassle and cost of weddings the...

Jayne E, saturday 25-Jun-16 12 4,393
Jayne E
JayneE's background, planning and wedding report thread. lonnnng.
Jayne E, 31 December, 2015 at 13:56

The start of our wedding. From background and planning to (soon) Lapland the wedding. To keep me distracted from the dreaded nerves. It will be long. You will need drinks. It's not compulsory to read...

Jayne E, friday 24-Jun-16 41 5,032
Sweeties
twilight designs and irregular choice!
Sweeties, 19 June, 2016 at 13:54

Ooo so very happy. My mom saw a headband for me a couple weeks ago, took some pics and bought it. I tried it on this weekend, and it just looks fab. I asked her the make on the tag and it said...

MetalBride, friday 24-Jun-16 6 1,355
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Pre-wedding skin care regime? Affordable facials? (London/Oxford)
fatbunneh, 17 August, 2013 at 15:44

I used to think that, once I was out of my early twenties, my skin would calm down and I could say goodbye to spots forever. Hmm. Doesn't seem to have happened. In comparison to my early twenties (I'm...

LuxuriousOrangeCakes, thursday 23-Jun-16 11 2,735
TrixieSaurus
Bridesmaid dresses (hopefully!) sorted AT LAST. And we have OH's ring!
TrixieSaurus, 21 June, 2016 at 11:06

So..... wedding in 2 months yesterday, and I *think* we finally have bridesmaid dresses sorted! ? Been a long time coming as 2 of my 'original' BM choices are unable to do it: one is very unwell, the...

Jayne E, thursday 23-Jun-16 9 2,196
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Wedding Lingerie Practicalities
Mrs-Riley, 22 June, 2016 at 15:21

So I am now starting to think about getting my wedding lingerie, as I need it for my final dress fitting on the 23rd July. I really like the idea of a body suit, as opposed to a basque and have found...

Karen84, thursday 23-Jun-16 2 1,179
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ARGHH! Fiancé hates my dress!
Much_ado_about_weddings, 22 June, 2016 at 20:44

ARGHHH! While I was looking at veils online this eve I tried on my dress again for my fiancé (we're not traditional in the slightest!) as I really wanted his opinion as I've been going back and forth...

MadamRed, wednesday 22-Jun-16 1 956
MadamRed
Woah, this is a whole new level of Bridezilla!
MadamRed, 22 June, 2016 at 13:08

My mate just emailed me a link to this. I've heard of bridezillas before, but this is just...wow! https://www.mamamia.com.au/bridesmaid-dilemma-friendship/

2BMrsC, wednesday 22-Jun-16 6 1,569
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Song instead of a reading
1987RAF, 20 June, 2016 at 21:35

So tonight, we have been going through the the order of things, picking our contradicting words etc for the registrar and neither of us want readings as they are all naff. We both like Elle Gouldings...

1987RAF, tuesday 21-Jun-16 5 1,566
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Heaven DJ Sammy (cendlelight version)??
HappyGoldConfetti513, 19 June, 2016 at 21:59

Hi everyone, been trying all songs/music that we love for ceremony entrance but nothing feels quite right. Have been listening to Heaven, just came across by chance and quite liked it. Its a small...

Shelly70, monday 20-Jun-16 2 1,050
Stephisaur
PP - I tried my dress on again :D
Stephisaur, 12 June, 2016 at 18:02

Just wanted to share some pics of me in my dress. This was with my shoes on. It's still a teeny bit long, but I love the way the lace lays so I don't think I'll have it shortened It's the Mori Lee...

Stephisaur, monday 20-Jun-16 28 3,883
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'Best Man' is proving to be a bit useless
Mrs-Riley, 17 June, 2016 at 09:22

I'm so frustrated with my H2B's best man ☹️ Bit of background - me & H2B don't really have many friends and if anything we just have our work friends, who we haven't known that long. We're both...

1987RAF, saturday 18-Jun-16 9 4,193
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Venues for humanist wedding in Manchster
HappyIvoryDiamonds568, 17 June, 2016 at 10:37

Morning all! Finance and I are looking to get married next year. Does anyone know of any non-wedding wedding venues in Manchester/Cheshire? We're trying to keep the costs down as much as possible....

Catlady28, friday 17-Jun-16 649
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Struggling with venue?!!
Ker2018, 9 March, 2016 at 20:36

Hi!! Ok so we started the hunt for a venue for our 2018 wedding - I don't know about anyone else but I am struggling to find venues I like enough online to go and look at! We went and saw Gaynes Park...

CantwaittobeMrsDavie, friday 17-Jun-16 41 8,479
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My Dress is going Rusty before the wedding, PLEASE HELP
LuxuriousPinkDecor608, 15 June, 2016 at 16:15

hi Ladies, I have a brand 'new' DREAM wedding dress in which I have collected last month from the shop. My wedding was going to be in 2 weeks but we had to postpone it to September. I've noticed that...

Ash953, friday 17-Jun-16 5 1,527
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Crochet Wedding Bouquet
Womanonabudget, 14 June, 2016 at 14:02

Hi all I have seen a lovely crocheted wedding bouquet on Pinterest and I thought it would be ideal for my bridesmaids and it would save some much needed cash. I have just finished a crochet blanket...

Womanonabudget, thursday 16-Jun-16 6 3,094
TrixieSaurus
Hair and make up trial was a disaster
TrixieSaurus, 11 June, 2016 at 12:40

As above... Wedding is in 10 weeks and I went for my trial yesterday. After 3 hours my hair has dropped and my makeup looks awful. Don't understand how the woman has raving reviews all over the place...

LuxuriousPinkDecor60, wednesday 15-Jun-16 9 2,444
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Help! Torn between 2 venues!
LuxuriousRedCars610, 14 June, 2016 at 13:59

Hi, I am so stuck right now between Birtsmorton Court near Worcester and Ardington House near Oxford. Let me list my pros and cons for each and hopefully I can get some opinions on here! Birtsmorton...

LuxuriousRedCars610, wednesday 15-Jun-16 7 1,578
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"Bake off" style dessert table - caterers not keen
Eat drink dance love, 13 June, 2016 at 17:41

Hi all, We're getting married in Surrey next year and really want to do a "bake off" style dessert table and get about 10 friends to bring cakes which everyone can judge/award prizes to. The venue...

DewiCloughWeddingPho, wednesday 15-Jun-16 9 2,004

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