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Mrs_Conduct
Wedding Planning Thread 03/06/2017
Mrs_Conduct, 25 June, 2016 at 18:01

I've read lots of these and couldn't resist doing my own, hope you enjoy and feel free to share ideas Just a little bit about me and the OH. We met through a friend and started 'going steady' (the...

Mrs_Conduct, thursday 15-Dec-16 6 3,346
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Father Daughter Dance Advice Needed
katie_1818, 14 December, 2016 at 07:35

Hi everyone can you tell me your thoughts on the father daughter dance please? When do you usually do it? Is it before or after the first dance? Our first dance is quite a fast song and we want...

thespectrumband@hotm, thursday 15-Dec-16 5 2,534
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Essex Barn Wedding Venues
SunnyBlueConfetti755, 15 November, 2016 at 14:01

Hi everyone, Please bear with me as I'm very newly engaged (November 2016) and am just starting out with my Wedding Planning, eeeekkkk! Ideally we'd like to hire a barn in Essex where we can do...

ExpensiveGoldConfett, thursday 8-Dec-16 10 1,556
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Bridesmaid due around wedding date
RomanticBrownCars693, 2 December, 2016 at 12:31

Hello everyone, I am looking for some advice. My bridesmaid has just told me she is pregnant and by the calculations she will be due around the wedding date. I don't know what to do as I already have...

DreamsComeTrue2015, tuesday 6-Dec-16 5 4,539
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Foam flowers or real flowers - discuss...
Nic78, 5 December, 2012 at 22:12

I am about to order my wedding flowers which are red foam roses, I have always planned on having artificial flowers as we live in the Midlands but are getting married in Ilfracombe and so just wanted...

LuxuriousBrownDiamon, tuesday 6-Dec-16 11 9,093
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Sound limiter at venue (Northbrook Park)
MayBohoBride, 30 November, 2016 at 12:22

Hello! I am newly engaged and this is my first post We are hunting for venues at the moment and keep finding places which unfortunately have a 'sound limiter' for music in the evening. One of our...

Bands For Hire, monday 5-Dec-16 3 2,931
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Need a veil for a beaded dress
MrsTtobe22717, 23 November, 2016 at 16:20

I'm getting married in this gorgeous dress - https://www.justinalexanderbridal.com/wedding_dresses/8799 and I'm so excited!! Only problem is, I've got my heart set on a cathedral or chapel length veil...

Lilacbouquet, monday 5-Dec-16 3 1,100
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Dress Shopping in Newcastle upon Tyne
LisBee, 26 September, 2012 at 21:27

Hi could anyone recommend good bridal shops in Newcastle please? We have a very tight budget so looking for bargains! Thanks. ?

BrideintheToon, saturday 3-Dec-16 19 8,288
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Struggling to afford - advice needed!
HappyRedStationery700, 28 November, 2016 at 16:57

So this is my first post here, and I really need some advice! We had originally planned our wedding for May 2016, but due to health issues and time off work after the surgery I needed, we ended up...

HappyRedStationery70, friday 2-Dec-16 21 5,015
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Newbie needing help with wedding venue
MrsPennyfathertoB, 9 August, 2016 at 22:29

Hi everyone I am newly engaged and this is my first post on the forum. So I guess the first thing I need to do is find somewhere to get married, but that seems easier said than done. I have a list of...

NathalieSB, friday 2-Dec-16 7 2,392
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Prosecco instead of champagne for toast??
FutureMrsCC, 28 November, 2016 at 16:59

Hi, Is it ok to have prosecco instead of champagne for the toasts and speeches? I don't really like champagne and prosecco is much cheaper. Just wondered if anyone else had done this? Thanks, Nic ...

LuxuriousOrangeStati, wednesday 30-Nov-16 10 4,445
BrideintheToon
Altering a dress 2 sizes?
BrideintheToon, 27 November, 2016 at 23:25

Hello fellow brides to be! I had an appointment at a bridal shop at the weekend and found the dress I want - this Essense of Australia one -...

BrideintheToon, wednesday 30-Nov-16 4 3,025
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Wedding wine - how much to buy and red/white split
FutureMrsCC, 29 November, 2016 at 10:06

Hi, We're buying all the wine for our wedding breakfast and i'm just trying to work out quantities. I've estimated 3 glasses per person, based on 6 glasses from 1 bottle. Then 2 glasses of prosecco...

Chapples, tuesday 29-Nov-16 1,492
Sweeties
All done and dusted
Sweeties, 22 November, 2016 at 20:08

Hi all, just wanted to drop by and say thanks for all the help you guys provided. We were married on 5th November and it was a wonderful day. We actually met around 2001, but we didn't start dating...

Chapples, monday 28-Nov-16 11 3,437
Firefly0410
Filling out a large venue space
Firefly0410, 23 November, 2016 at 13:17

I think we've picked out venue (Ashbourne Hotel near Grimsby if anyone has been), and we love it, only problem is we're wondering if we won't have enough guests! We're looking at a total of about 40...

Firefly0410, saturday 26-Nov-16 4 1,274
Bacchant
Dress + accessories dilemma
Bacchant, 21 November, 2016 at 11:26

I’m having a bit of a dilemma about my accessories, and whether to go for an overskirt or a veil. When looking at dresses I wanted one which was a fitted mermaid but with a thin overskirt (like the...

Bacchant, thursday 24-Nov-16 5 1,966
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Davids bridal - bridesmaid dresses
vgbride, 27 October, 2016 at 13:47

Hi, Just wondered if anyone has been to David's bridal for bridesmaid dresses? Am planning to visit the Stratford store but have seen a few bad reviews Thanks

MrsTtobe22717, wednesday 23-Nov-16 4 2,237
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Help - Ceremony music ideas needed!
, 21 November, 2016 at 09:53

Hi everyone! I am having an issue coming up with songs for my ceremony. We need one for walking down the aisle, two for signing the registar and one for walking up the aisle. I know what I am walking...

Tidal Wave, wednesday 23-Nov-16 11 2,084
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I feel like nobody cares about our wedding :(
HappyOrangeConfetti548, 17 November, 2016 at 21:56

Hi everyone, My partner and I have been engaged since March and have booked our venue and photographer. We're excited but whenever I talk about our plans with family they're not interested. Family...

haltonmummy, sunday 20-Nov-16 9 3,058
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Top table issues
lucyjo, 15 November, 2016 at 09:34

Is anyone doing anything unusual for their top table? Like a lot of people, mine and OH's family set-up is complicated, so the traditional parents/best man/bridesmaid etc arrangement just won't work...

lucyjo, thursday 17-Nov-16 9 2,474
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Difficult mother and sister in law :(
MrsHadleyToBe2018, 14 November, 2016 at 23:14

Hi guys i just wondered if any of you could give me advice... before me and my OH were planning on getting married i asked his sister if she would be bridesmaid and said possibly maid of honour...

Lilacbouquet, wednesday 16-Nov-16 2 1,016
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Sophia Tolli Robin
Much_ado_about_weddings, 13 November, 2016 at 21:01

Eeek- finally bought my dress today! Went for the Sophia Tolli 'Robin' which I've been eying up for a while! Anyone else worn/planning to wear this dress? Any advice on alterations? Wondering where to...

Chapples, tuesday 15-Nov-16 3 896
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Venue corkage
Kanlak17, 8 November, 2016 at 11:03

I am looking to book my wedding at Froyle Park next year and wondered if anyone had used the venue recently on a dry hire basis? They are telling us that we can provide our own drinks for the meal and...

lucyjo, thursday 10-Nov-16 2 1,404
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Bridesmaid dress for 11yo
Daffodil2017, 27 October, 2016 at 22:05

Hi all! I only have 2 bridesmaids, my little sister (11) and my best friend. My friend is going to wear a bridesmaid dress that she wore to her sister's wedding, as its perfect for ours and will save...

Mrs_Conduct, thursday 10-Nov-16 9 1,909
MetalBride
Fed up.
MetalBride, 7 November, 2016 at 20:40

Seriously fed up with everything to do with wedding planning, tired of family complaints, tired of the over the top price brackets and fed up that my mother is trying to avoid altering my ivory damn...

MetalBride, tuesday 8-Nov-16 8 1,360
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Afro-Caribbean Brides
Winterflower91, 8 November, 2016 at 18:39

Hi This is my first post. I'm getting married in February 2018 and I know that's ages away but i'm starting to panic about finding someone who will be able to style my afro-caribbean natural hair and...

Winterflower91, tuesday 8-Nov-16 490
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contracts with venue / sound limiters
HappyIvoryConfetti714, 7 November, 2016 at 15:20

Hi Our venue has now installed a sound limiter at the venue and it has been set prohibitively low. Now, this wasn't even mentioned in our contract that and the venue have signed so am I right in...

thespectrumband@hotm, tuesday 8-Nov-16 7 1,650
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Dress shopping - going it alone!?
SoontobeMrsS, 7 November, 2016 at 14:12

I want to go and try on a very particular (floral!) dress I've found online which is in London (so, with tubes, probably only 35 mins from me but still a little bit of a trek). I'll probably try more...

Chapples, tuesday 8-Nov-16 13 2,116
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String quartet - what to do during hymns?
Purplecake, 7 May, 2015 at 15:17

Hi all, We have a string quartet booked for the church ceremony. They will play whilst guests are seated, both ways walking down the aisle, and signing of register. However we also have to have 2...

SunnyBlueCakes703, tuesday 8-Nov-16 7 3,675
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Family drama
SunnyGoldCars700, 5 November, 2016 at 01:38

Hi, I'm really hoping I can get an opinion on what to do in my situation. I've recently gotten engaged to the person I've been with for quite a few years. Unbeknown to me, his sister then announces...

Mrs_Conduct, monday 7-Nov-16 4 1,229
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Worried we made a mistake with guest list
Daffodil2017, 4 November, 2016 at 11:38

Hey all. I've started seriously doubting a decision we made when we sent invites. Our wedding is on quite a small budget, and the venue itself is small too, so we can't invite everyone. Originally we...

SoontobeMrsS, monday 7-Nov-16 8 2,304
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Serving wedding cake
SunnyGreenConfetti675, 4 November, 2016 at 10:15

I always thought cake got served after the speeches or is it before the first dance? Also not sure on the size of the cake to order? I was going to have it just for the day guests. However now I am...

Jayne E, saturday 5-Nov-16 8 3,068

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