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I-go-by-many-names

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Had my hair and MU trial today **FLASH**
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 10 January, 2015 at 18:43

So pleased with the result. I'm only flashing my hair as I want to remain as anonymous as possible incase anyone I know sees it. She's also lovely and made the effort to get to know me and my mum. She...

I-go-by-many-names, friday 16-Jan-15 29 2,990
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Poor RSVP rate? :-(
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 13 January, 2015 at 17:35

Of the 73 invitations we sent, we have had 44 replies. We gave a massive window of opportunity to reply, they were sent out at the beginning of November and the deadline is this Friday 16th January....

jesikab4u, tuesday 13-Jan-15 12 2,179
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first DIY buttonhole attempt **FLASH**
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 January, 2015 at 22:28

Needs perfecting but not bad for a first attempt I think. Any feedback would be appreciated.

MrsShep, tuesday 13-Jan-15 3 785
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Nice but cheap patterned paper/wallpaper?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 January, 2015 at 18:33

We are having Japanese inspired decor at our wedding and our colours are pale pink and dark/navy blue. For our table plan I have bought a very large (A1 size) picture frame. The idea was to put a...

pinkypoo85, tuesday 13-Jan-15 7 1,317
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possible to negotiate on tailored suit prices?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 6 January, 2015 at 21:59

I need some advice please from anyone who has been to a proper tailor for the groom's suit. My OH has been to see a tailor today and he has come away feeling very good about the experience, however...

I-go-by-many-names, wednesday 7-Jan-15 5 1,450
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bit of a random one- nail varnish recommendation?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 4 January, 2015 at 00:17

I would really like to find a nail varnish that is genuinely chip resistant in a rosey pink colour and I'm willing to pay a bit more than average if needed. I found Chanel's 'Bengal' on Pinterest...

CBeckford, sunday 4-Jan-15 12 1,457
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how much to buy for sweet buffet? advice please
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 29 December, 2014 at 18:29

Hi all, We are going to do our own sweet buffet at our evening reception as we aren't doing favours and there is only snack food for the evening reception so wanted to put something out for those who...

I-go-by-many-names, wednesday 31-Dec-14 6 6,339
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just gave notice and a bit grumpy
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 22 December, 2014 at 09:19

Just gave notice of marriage, my OH is in there now doing his bit. When the registrar asked my fathers name and occupation I asked if I had to give it and if I did could I also give my mother's...

Sparkly Bear, tuesday 23-Dec-14 20 3,036
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Am I right to feel a little hurt by this?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 15 December, 2014 at 13:22

I am getting married 2 months before my friend. We are both part of the same group of friends that have known each other for years. Her hen do is costing £140 for accommodation only. Nothing else is...

bliss_balloons, monday 22-Dec-14 40 4,610
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Just booked our mini-moon!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 December, 2014 at 21:33

Today is a good day for wedding planning and I'm sorry for bragging but I've had a crap week and now I can be positive about something!Got my Rachel Simpson shoes at a (slightly) reduced cost and have...

I-go-by-many-names, saturday 13-Dec-14 4 943
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Rachel Simpson sale!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 December, 2014 at 19:06

Rachel Simpson have a 'sale' on. Reason for the inverted commas is there isn't actually much discount, but enough to persuade me to order a pair of Mimis! Now I just have to sell my Vivienne Westwoods...

pammy67, saturday 13-Dec-14 416
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Shoe wobbles? Help!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 8 December, 2014 at 16:05

I bought some Vivienne Westwood shoes for the wedding and have now gone off them. Here they are: However I am due to get my alterations to my dress soon and need to have the shoes I am wearing on the...

Melancholie, monday 8-Dec-14 4 816
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boudoir TOG recommendations- updated, have now booked, eek!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 1 December, 2014 at 20:51

So I've been thinking about this for a very long time and have decided that I will go and get some boudoir photos done. I've lost well over a stone since the engagement and it will be a treat for my...

Bruce Neville Photog, monday 8-Dec-14 20 2,536
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we have a VOG!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 29 November, 2014 at 16:36

A wedding video was never on the cards for us, it just isn't our thing. But since my mum has got really poorly we want a plan b if she can't make it on the day, so she can watch what she missed. Then...

RoseArcana, sunday 30-Nov-14 4 776
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So annoyed at Debenhams, grrrr -UPDATE I now have my dresses!!! **flash**
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 18 November, 2014 at 09:26

I've had my eye on this dress for my bridesmaids for a while, and every so often I will check to see if it has gone in the sale. I think it was Saturday when I looked and it was reduced, so excitedly...

MrsShep, monday 24-Nov-14 19 3,029
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how are you wording your invitations?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 1 November, 2014 at 15:10

Please could I have some feedback on what I have at the moment for our day invitations, and also some suggestions of how to change the wording for evening guests. This is what I have at the moment, my...

kimiu, saturday 1-Nov-14 5 906
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romantic cottages for our mini-moon, recommend any?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 27 October, 2014 at 23:56

Exactly this, we would like to book a mini-moon, preferably in the north of England or Scotland. Maybe 3-4 nights in a romantic cottage or self catering apartment with hot tub or spa facilities. Does...

Rach16273, wednesday 29-Oct-14 10 1,810
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Please can you help me swerve a faux pas?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 23 October, 2014 at 17:59

We are finally getting round to the guest list with just over 5 months to go. We think we have a pretty solid guestlist apart from one big issue... my cousins. OH's cousins are all coming and are...

Knees, friday 24-Oct-14 9 1,473
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what do you think of these? *flash*
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 15 October, 2014 at 22:54

This is going to be scanned and used on invitations, seating plan, order of service etc... And this is our fingerprint tree... I'm not sure about the heart in the roots, OH likes them but I need...

pinkypoo85, friday 17-Oct-14 8 1,433
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OH actually cares about the wedding, so happy!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 5 October, 2014 at 12:03

Bit of a silly and self indulgent post really but I have often expressed my woes on the forum about how disinterested my fiancé is about the wedding. Sometimes it gets me down because he never gets...

MrsB88, sunday 5-Oct-14 5 739
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any registrars/lawyers? witness signing issue
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 1 October, 2014 at 16:56

After much deliberation I have come up with an idea for involving my mum in the wedding, she is going to be a witness. She can't hold a pen due to her illness so I have contacted the registrar who has...

yorkshirekiwi, wednesday 1-Oct-14 3 1,219
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any skeptics/humanists out there?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 23 September, 2014 at 22:32

My OH and I are humanists and my partner in particular is a strident atheist. It was never on the cards to have a church wedding and we are doing away with quite a lot of the traditions that weddings...

ricepudding, tuesday 30-Sep-14 18 3,879 1
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dress train etiquette?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 22 September, 2014 at 16:57

Silly question but what does one do with one's train? My dress has a loop to put round your wrist for when you don't want it trailing, at what point in the day does a bride do this? I am having a...

Jayla, monday 22-Sep-14 7 1,208
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finally found a BM dress- should I buy? opinions please
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 21 September, 2014 at 23:40

I have just come across this gorgeous dress, and even better, it is in the sale at house of Fraser. However I am concerned that the reviews mention that it is very long. Neither of my BMs are...

pammy67, monday 22-Sep-14 5 925
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involving ill Mum in the wedding
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 19 September, 2014 at 00:18

My mum is 56 and for 7 years has been suffering from an incurable progressive neurological disease that has left her virtually immobile, unable to speak, and most recently, eat and drink. She is a...

Paula @ Ollievision, friday 19-Sep-14 6 962 1
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OMs, please recommend a band, north England
I-go-by-many-names of Just Married, 13 August, 2014 at 21:57

Did anyone have an amazing band at their wedding? I'm looking for recommendations for our wedding in Newcastle next April. Our budget is around £****. Thank you!

Sevenyearhitched, thursday 18-Sep-14 2 701
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More DIY- pomanders *FLASH*
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 16 September, 2014 at 19:36

What do you think of these for pew ends?

I-go-by-many-names, wednesday 17-Sep-14 3 656
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Opinions on DIY fingerprint tree *updated FLASH*
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 10 September, 2014 at 20:31

I'd like to know 1) if this looks really obviously DIY and amateurish, 2) Whether it is the right shape/size/enough branches for 100-110 guests. It is supposed to be a bonsai tree. It looks a bit...

I-go-by-many-names, tuesday 16-Sep-14 24 2,324
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Need some kind words please
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 7 September, 2014 at 18:29

I could really do with some advice/support about something quite personal and not really to do with wedding planning at all. I feel embarrassed doing this on here but I'm not sure where else to turn....

I-go-by-many-names, sunday 7-Sep-14 6 1,027
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the surname dilemma (again)
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 28 August, 2014 at 08:51

This has been debated many a time but here goes. In the interests of promoting equality and seeing an end to one of the misogynistic and old fashioned traditions that marriage entertains, my OH and I...

MrsShep, tuesday 2-Sep-14 56 4,025
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should I book this hair and mu lady?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 1 September, 2014 at 08:11

I am having trouble finding someone to do my wedding hair and mu. Everyone I have emailed is either booked for my date or too expensive. One of the ladies I emailed has recommended this other lady and...

I-go-by-many-names, monday 1-Sep-14 10 1,358
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do hair and MU stylists have contracts?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 26 August, 2014 at 23:02

I have found a hair and MU stylist and I would like to book her for my wedding. She has asked for £50 deposit to be transferred to her account but does not have a contract for me to sign. Just...

ExpensiveGoldDecor16, wednesday 27-Aug-14 4 595

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