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IGBMN's planning thread ***obscene amount of flashes***
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 19 August, 2014 at 12:42

So I thought it was about time I did a planning thread, seeing as our wedding is now just 7 months away and not 2 years away as originally planned. Notice that many of these flashes are 'inspiration'...

lovelaurajane, tuesday 19-Aug-14 12 2,223
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which of these 2 live bands would you prefer?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 14 August, 2014 at 14:26

As a guest would you prefer these: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEq6b4TaI6M&list=RDyEq6b4TaI6M#t=8 or these: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVxIduktHGU My OH and I want to book a band for our...

lc93, sunday 17-Aug-14 12 1,327
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band recommendations northern England
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 13 August, 2014 at 21:01

Hi, does anyone have any recommendations for a decent party band (playing pop/rock/soul/generic party stuff) who would play in Newcastle around £**** ish? Thanks!

katie80uk, thursday 14-Aug-14 486
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Bringing the wedding forward - advice please!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 11 August, 2014 at 22:19

I'm freaking out a little and would really appreciate some advice. At the weekend my fiancé and I talked about bringing the wedding forward, from August 2016 to early next year. This is mainly because...

Sambarine, tuesday 12-Aug-14 9 1,798
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how do I get the best possible price for a dress? UPDATE- I now have my dream dress [:D]
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 7 August, 2014 at 12:00

I have fallen in love with a dress that is over budget at £1257 rrp. It is harmony by enzoani from the spring 2013 collection. I have already called round all stockists of the dress local to me and a...

alexandrawedding@hot, friday 8-Aug-14 31 3,033
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Trying on this stunner tomorrow, excited! UPDATED WITH FLASH
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 24 July, 2014 at 21:20

There is a bridal studio near where I live but I've never been due to the fact our wedding is still 2 years away. Walked past today and OMG I love this dress!...

Sarah_88, friday 25-Jul-14 13 1,483
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Anyone had/seen gold wedding dress?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 30 June, 2014 at 18:27

The more I look at dresses the more I want a different colour other than the standard ivory/white. Problem is I'm not really sure where to start. I really like this:...

HeavyMetalMaiden, tuesday 1-Jul-14 15 2,587
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what am I supposed to do as a bridesmaid?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 6 June, 2014 at 16:04

I am going to be bridesmaid for my FSIL and I was just wondering apart from the usual helping out on the day, walking down the aisle etc is there anything else I am expected to do? Do I buy her a...

Erin8, monday 9-Jun-14 9 1,173
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Buying wedding items from China
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 11 May, 2014 at 18:18

Just came across this article, may be helpful for anyone considering buying items from China: http://offbeatbride.com/2014/04/ebay-wedding-dress-made-in-china

I-go-by-many-names, sunday 8-Jun-14 12 2,243
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mini tree bargain
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 30 May, 2014 at 08:21

We are having bonsai trees as centrepieces but still have 2 years to wait. My OH caught sight of these which are being sold at Aldi from next week and only £7.99 (cheap compared to some, a venue...

I-go-by-many-names, friday 30-May-14 258
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Tent-based reception and thunder storms?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 8 May, 2014 at 18:36

We are attending a family wedding on Saturday, the reception is based in big 'yurt' style tents (with a decent reputable company) and it is forecast heavy rain and thunderstorms! The bride and groom...

I-go-by-many-names, friday 9-May-14 5 959
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Should we have a humanist ceremony?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 2 May, 2014 at 16:52

I'm a teacher in a secondary school and have a Humanist contact who sometimes comes into school to talk about Humanism with my students. She was in today and the more I see her and hear about the way...

HeavyMetalMaiden, monday 5-May-14 7 1,121
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please can I have advice on timings?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 15 April, 2014 at 09:49

We have loads of time to sort this (see ticker) but I'm a worrier and really unsure of how to time our day. Our civil ceremony and reception are at the same venue so travelling between is not an...

MartinC Photography, wednesday 16-Apr-14 10 1,686
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Seeing the groom before the end of the aisle
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 6 April, 2014 at 19:10

How many of you are seeing your groom before you get to the end of the aisle at the ceremony? I'd love to know what your plans are, especially if you're not one for tradition like us. We are almost...

lilbeth, monday 7-Apr-14 18 2,113
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what would you advise a newly engaged couple?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 9 March, 2014 at 13:41

My best friend rang me today to say she and her boyfriend are engaged :-) I'm so happy!!! I am going to send them a card asap but was thinking of giving them some light hearted non patronising tips...

DrBuffles, thursday 13-Mar-14 16 1,682
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Need insurance policy to cover mum's long term illness- help???
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 3 March, 2014 at 19:46

Hi, I wonder if anyone has come across a wedding insurance policy that covers existing illnesses of close relatives, as the ones I've looked into so far e.g. John Lewis only cover illness if it starts...

I-go-by-many-names, monday 3-Mar-14 1 553
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Colours
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 23 February, 2014 at 23:42

There's a woman at work who keeps asking me if I've decided on colours and has used the term 'palette.' I'm not very artistic and not sure where to start on choosing wedding colours- any tips? How did...

Cupcake26, sunday 2-Mar-14 18 3,307
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I have a ticker! WOOOO!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 21 February, 2014 at 16:38

Utterly pointless post, sorry, just rather excited to have set a date...

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Finally set a date- check out our venue! ***MEGA FLASH***
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 20 February, 2014 at 18:38

OH MY GOD I am so excited I could burst! Have secured the registrar and just need to pay the deposit on the venue. Saturday 13th August 2016. I keep telling myself to calm down as it's so far away but...

DaffodilWaves, friday 21-Feb-14 9 1,543
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Anyone else think this is rather rude?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 15 February, 2014 at 14:54

I have emailed a wedding dress shop and they offered me an appointment but since then have asked when I am getting married. When I said summer 2016 they replied with (word for word minus their...

Soon2BMrsJ, tuesday 18-Feb-14 15 2,492
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Rant- Wheelchair users and weddings
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 16 February, 2014 at 15:32

My mum is wheelchair bound and as such we have to ensure our wedding day is fully wheelchair friendly. I have to say it is depressing how many businesses in the wedding industry just haven't thought...

Wedding Photography, monday 17-Feb-14 16 1,913
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Help from North East brides please?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 13 February, 2014 at 20:56

My MOH called me yesterday and has suggested we start bridal/BM dress shopping. I thought it would be too soon (not even booked yet but will probs be marrying August 2016) but as I hardly ever get to...

I-go-by-many-names, saturday 15-Feb-14 2 597
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Suppliers/TOGs cheaper on Fridays?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 February, 2014 at 17:38

My fiance and I are at the stage where we are ready to book our venue. We've talked about numbers and the guest list and have narrowed down dates to August 2016, however we are still unsure whether to...

I-go-by-many-names, thursday 13-Feb-14 13 1,270
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Am I a b****?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 10 February, 2014 at 20:31

So... my Dad remarried when I was at uni to a woman who I mostly get on fine with but at times she can be a bit prickly about some things and I doubt she is going to be OK with the fact that I am...

venart, tuesday 11-Feb-14 15 2,165
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It's getting real! Appointments to see venues :-)
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 13 January, 2014 at 16:59

No replies needed I just wanted to share my excitement as we are finally going to see some venues! The Hancock Museum (aka the Great North Museum)- some of you may remember me getting a bit ranty...

I-go-by-many-names, tuesday 14-Jan-14 11 748
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Can't decide on a date- what would you do?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 12 January, 2014 at 10:39

Hi everyone, I hope you can help me and my fiance pick a wedding date in 2016. The main problems we have with choosing are to do with my job and where we want to go on honeymoon. I am a teacher and...

F&GBride, sunday 12-Jan-14 10 1,648
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Shall I quit trying with this venue?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 8 January, 2014 at 17:53

OK so a couple of weeks after we got engaged I emailed a venue, just something really unpushy like 'just got engaged,..came across your venue...are you planning any open days in 2014?' After over a...

Peter, thursday 9-Jan-14 12 1,484
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Upset by OH's comments- rant
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 2 January, 2014 at 11:40

Apologies in advance that this is a bit of a depressing and ranty post, but I was just wondering if anyone was going through the same and if you had any advice. We got engaged in October and although...

I-go-by-many-names, thursday 2-Jan-14 16 1,988
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Christmas card 'To my fiance' - impossible
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 13 December, 2013 at 19:21

Has anyone else found it difficult finding a Christmas card with 'fiance' on? I normally pick up cards in supermarkets due to convenience but I have been to 3 different ones and they all seem to...

Wifeytobe88, tuesday 17-Dec-13 25 2,885
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*FLASH* Look at what my amazing FBIL sent us!
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 15 November, 2013 at 14:49

SORRY IF HUGE THIS IS MY FIRST EVER FLASH!!! I am seriously so touched by this and had to share. OH's brother is notoriously disorganised and generally not that thoughtful, just gets on with his...

becca030713, saturday 16-Nov-13 10 1,509
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New to wedding dress shopping - how much do those things actually cost?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 11 November, 2013 at 20:01

As I am recently engaged I thought I would spend some time browsing dresses online and could literally spend hours doing this. To narrow it down as well as making sure I am only looking at dresses I...

hannahgosney, wednesday 13-Nov-13 15 3,016
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Ring issue, would you complain?
I-go-by-many-names of Planning, 9 November, 2013 at 13:49

I have ordered a bespoke engagement ring with a very local jeweller, so far he has been amazing and even offered to resize the ring my fiance proposed with for free. Trouble is I just got the resized...

alabastamasta, sunday 10-Nov-13 5 852

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