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My SiL-to -be is insisting that the father of the groom should have the same suit as the groom, best men (2), usher and my father, but I think it will look silly having so many people dressed exactly the same. They are wearing black morning suits...

We are having a civil ceremony at a registered venue and wanted to have a blessing done afterwards, which the venue are fine with. Has anyone been to a wedding when this was done or have any ideas on the best way to structure it - I don't want guests...