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rufus

United Kingdom · From June 2002

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24 January, 2007

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J
Repressed - self-pitying post sorry!
JK2B, 13 August, 2009 at 16:40

Don't really know where to begin with this post but here goes. I used to be such a happy go lucky person, very silly, articulate, fun to be with, carefree, confident, outgoing, and generally didn't...

rufus, thursday 13-Aug-09 4
princess layabout
House movers and/or shakers - a question
princess layabout, 13 August, 2009 at 17:05

Don't know what to think - this is driving me demented! People who viewed our house on Wednesday made us an offer, which we turned down. They came back with a revised offer which we've accepted. As...

princess layabout, thursday 13-Aug-09 5
Melancholie
Just got a glimpse of what you've all been talking about...
Melancholie, 12 August, 2009 at 11:43

I've not been seeing the problems that everyone else seems to be having with Hitched running slowly - until this morning. It just took 16 minutes to load the page to reply to a thread! But now all...

l0vaduck, thursday 13-Aug-09 25
firsttimemum
Long shot - re interior magazines
firsttimemum, 8 August, 2009 at 22:44

Whilst out shopping in the last couple of weeks i was browsing the magazines for home decor and one front cover in particular caught my eye - white furniture, pink cushions and maybe lime green or...

firsttimemum, monday 10-Aug-09 5
LizBjk
Phobias (admittedly stolen from BT)
LizBjk, 8 August, 2009 at 19:52

Do you have any? I have many. I am a wuss. Spiders. Not the skinny ones, but the proper spiders. Black ones. I can't do anything with them. Not even suck them up in the hoover. <shudder> The...

teenybash, monday 10-Aug-09 36
MrsB
What's your worst chore?
MrsB, 6 August, 2009 at 16:02

Just thinking as I pause in hanging up the washing. I hate hate hate hanging up socks on the line. they're so much sodding effort. a peg a sock. fiddly little gits. I also hhhhhhate unrolling my...

Campergirl, friday 7-Aug-09 56
P
Misconceptions about where you live
Pint&APie, 30 July, 2009 at 10:32

R-A's earlier comment "I see the parks and my Lido and the fab diversity and sense of community where other people see the gun crime and used syringes" got me thinking about how certain areas develop...

Abdul, thursday 6-Mar-25 173
H
Is this acceptable behaviour (child related)?
Headless Lois, 19 July, 2009 at 12:35

Your three year old needs to go to the toilet while you're out shopping. You are surrounded by bars/restaurants/coffee shops, but you go the nearest drain and he wees there. Is that normal? L xx

Knownowt, monday 20-Jul-09 57
Redbedhead
Gardeners - favourite garden things?
Redbedhead, 19 July, 2009 at 15:27

I am looking for a few little gardening things to get H for his birthday. Not expensive necessarily but something that is useful. Any suggestions? What is your 'must have'? I got him some secateurs...

Redbedhead, thursday 23-Jul-09 13
WelshTotty
Confirmed case of swine flu in my office
WelshTotty, 16 July, 2009 at 13:16

Great, just had an email from accomodation tell us that someone in the Jobcentre (we share a building) on the 1st floor (the floor we have our offices on and share the toilets with) has been confirmed...

Tulip O`Hare, thursday 16-Jul-09 19
Shiny
Can anyone recommend a sushi restaurant in central London please?
Shiny, 28 June, 2009 at 23:53

We don't really get sushi in the sticks and we both love it so I'd like to find somewhere to eat on weds lunch. We are staying near Russell Sq & will be getting the train to Kings Cross. Are Yo...

Shiny, sunday 5-Jul-09 13
catcat
Running gear for a chunkster like me...
catcat, 20 June, 2009 at 22:54

Need to do exercise.... but with a hussive chest am quite broad, and about a size 18 currently I am struggling to find any nice flattering and comfy sports clothes... would like something in...

catcat, monday 22-Jun-09 3
Tiger Style
Inspiration needed - Come dine with me challenge
Tiger Style, 16 June, 2009 at 16:23

In September my husband and I are spending a week with his parents in a cottage in Porthleven, Cornwall. As my husband and his parents used to live in Helston and we have had many holidays there as a...

Tiger Style, tuesday 16-Jun-09 10
Clairy
Farmer Giles
Clairy, 15 June, 2009 at 18:50

? How do you make them stoooop? ? Do they ever get better without surgery?

rufus, monday 15-Jun-09 3
Spring
Characters that used to scare you as a Child.
Spring, 14 June, 2009 at 22:02

For me is was the kiddy catcher out of chitty chitty bang bang. Sends shivers down my spine even now ? Did any scare you?

Stelly, wednesday 17-Jun-09 53
WelshTotty
What to do with a fledgling?
WelshTotty, 13 June, 2009 at 19:18

We have a stranded fledgling crow in our garden, he/she arrived this morning and is still in the garden now. I think his mum and dad are keeping an eye on him as there are two adult crows around and...

WelshTotty, saturday 13-Jun-09 7
Mr JK
Dress code: Business Retro
Mr JK, 11 June, 2009 at 14:12

WTF? ? I've just been invited to a party with the above dress code, and I haven't the faintest idea what it means. To complicate matters further, it's been organised by Hungarians (I'll be one of the...

Fimble, thursday 11-Jun-09 12
Sunset21
What cars do you drive and would you recommend them?
Sunset21, 2 June, 2009 at 14:45

This is a very broad question but H and I have been looking at cars for ages and i'm bored and just want one now [stamp foot icon] He has rolls royce ideas but mini money. He won't have a base model,...

betty, wednesday 3-Jun-09 38
Hepburn
Verucca (yuk)
Hepburn, 29 May, 2009 at 10:38

I've been swimming for 2 weeks and have already got a verucca, I've not had one since I was at school but it's def a verucca ☹️ Popping to the chemist to get some treatment at lunch. But how do I...

rufus, friday 29-May-09 14
decibelle
Where would you be without Ikea?
decibelle, 23 May, 2009 at 09:46

I was looking round our house this morning and, after a trip to Ikea yesterday, it's really dawned on me how much we've relied upon it to furnish our home. From Ikea, we've bought: Hallway - rug...

fox-in-socks, saturday 23-May-09 28
Sare
Ridiculous school weight programme.
Sare, 23 May, 2009 at 10:06

I know there are a lot of overweight children out there. My eldest is about 9 pounds overweight, partially due to a medical problem and partially because he eats too much and exercises too little. If...

R-A, sunday 24-May-09 15
Clairy
Tell me about your sitting room
Clairy, 11 May, 2009 at 16:11

We live in a cottage - the original bit was built in 1850, but the vast majority of it is a modern extension, built 2007. So it is both period and contemporary, which makes decorating complicated! All...

July, tuesday 12-May-09 13
Zoay
So, from Mrs Magic's thread, how long before first meeting and marrying?
Zoay, 7 May, 2009 at 17:33

For us it was 20 months from the time we first met until we tied the knot. How about you?

Roobarb, monday 11-May-09 99
Clairy
Pre-Teen Son Advice
Clairy, 22 April, 2009 at 15:59

God. Give. Me Strength. Son (aged 12) has lost his shoe at school. A gang of lads in his year decided to do "a leg and a wing" and his shoe came off. Some others decided to throw it into a bush. Son...

Doughnut, wednesday 22-Apr-09 11
Iris
More nostalgia for 30 somethings
Iris, 21 April, 2009 at 10:25

The school play post reminded me of my primary school days. Did anyone else have the Clarks shoes which had a sort of moveable strap so they could be Mary Janes or sort of court shoeish? They were...

katybell, tuesday 21-Apr-09 28
hazel
The Hospital: C4
hazel, 14 April, 2009 at 21:10

It's going to be another corking programme. Teenage mums. This second one has done her homework - good on her!

Hyacinth, wednesday 15-Apr-09 47
S
Recommend me your dishwasher please
SAM83, 12 April, 2009 at 19:14

Between us and SIL we are buying my MIL one for her birthday but need would like some recommendations as we only have a slimline one and she wants a full size. Thanks

GailW, sunday 12-Apr-09 5
bettyb
Can anyone find this company?
bettyb, 24 March, 2009 at 18:03

I have had an email from a company called 'Harrison, White and Co' asking me to contact them and giving the phone number of ****. I have had a good google and cant find anything, other than a...

bettyb, tuesday 24-Mar-09 5
R-A
Anyone have a good banana bread recipe?
R-A, 6 March, 2009 at 18:35

As above. We have many brown bananas but Nigella's looks overly complicated and involves soaking fruit in booze overnight first... Preferably something with no added fruit/nuts, but I guess we could...

rufus, saturday 7-Mar-09 9
Clairy
How much alcohol do you drink?
Clairy, 2 March, 2009 at 14:32

I know we've done this several times before, but up until then I've been in denial and not willing to confront the amount I actually do drink. I don't think I have a *problem* but I know I drink way...

~~~liz~~~, tuesday 3-Mar-09 76
Peaches
Has Hitched changed again?
Peaches, 27 February, 2009 at 14:48

It's all gone very weird this end ?

Peaches, friday 27-Feb-09 4
penguin1977
Student Loan Question - for those who graduated late 90's!
penguin1977, 24 February, 2009 at 09:30

I graduated 10 years ago this year (to my horror!) and I STILL haven't had to start paying my student loan off yet as I haven't reached the threshold just yet in terms of gross monthly pay! (begs the...

Knownowt, tuesday 24-Feb-09 24

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