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Have the most amazing wedding day! Enjoy and good luck! Cant wait to see your flashes and report! Xx

Thought I would see what happens on OT nowerdays, it's so sad! Where is everyone?

Just wondered what happened with your house? We talked about renovations. Sorry I went quiet, it all got pretty stressful but I am pleased to say we moved in 2 weeks before Christmas!...

I earn a fairly low wage (£16k). Its not appalling by any means, I am just finding it tough saving for the wedding, the honeymoon and having a life in the meantime. I work in the legal sector and have...

What do they generally cost? how does it work and what do they do for their money? Might sound like a daft question but we're hoping to build an extension to the house we're buying and haven't done...

Most long time hitchers will know me as Brenda, Rainbow Florist. I officially reached retirement age a year last April and decided then that I would stop doing wedding flowers and look forward to a...

Hi everyone ? So I'm aware that this post may make me sound a little paranoid/crazy but I just feel like I need to vent my worries to people who don't know me and maybe get a little advice. Sorry if...

Just testing old user, seeing if profile still live

I am so upset, I went on this church trip and it seemed like the whole time I was there people were trying to avoid me and exclude me. They moved when I would sit next to them or they would choose...

So, let me just start by saying me and H2B are very grateful for my parents paying for the reception. Even though we can pay for it ourselves. However, it is now getting slightly unbearable. First the...

Hello guys! First time poster here...really hoping to get some reassurance! My partner and I are due to get married in June of next year. Yes, that's right, a whole 310 days away and I'm STILL...

Oh my goodness... Our wedding is next Sunday, we got an email from Our Vicar yesterday telling us not to panic when we see the church but they've had some scaffolding put up. More than she had...

I don't know whether this is the right place to post this but I didn't want to post it anywhere else and get happy planning people down. I don't feel like I can talk to anyone else because doing so...

Ok I need opinions please. I'm getting married in October and my fiancé and I have decided on a menu with 3 starters, 3 mains and 2 desserts for everyone to choose from. Starters and Mains have a...

Hi, I am currently struggling with whether I should just take my husband to be's name or be double barrelled? I have been toying with both but I am not sure what implications it would have down the...

My daughter and her bf have been invited to the Wedding Vow Renewal ceremony of someone she used to work with. She has asked me for ideas of what to get for a present and I am passing on that request...

Hi to give my guests 2 choices for each of the courses my hotel is charging £4 per course? For the guests that we are having this will work out over £1000! I don't feel right telling my guests what...

Hi, I am a member of hitched already, don't post much anymore and was never really on OT but created a new account for this question just in case. My husbands brother is due to get married next year,...

Many of our guests are asking if we will have a gift registry or gift list, we haven't yet sent out the invitations and don't want to offend our guests but rather then gifts, for those who insist on...

Hi, It's almost a year until we wed (21st) and today I went to visit the venue for the first time- really exciting. I'm having a bit of trouble with contact from my 5 bridesmaids. I set up a facebook...

Hi folks my first post in here i was hoping my first post would be more fun or joyful but unfortunately it's concerning a wedding coordinator has anybody had there wedding at Oaks hotel since December...

So we've had a few ups and downs with my mum and well as my OH's mum but really not sure how to tackle this one or if I'm being a bit over sensitive and unreasonable. I'm not a selfish person at all...

So Sunday we got back from a two week holiday and we had such a fab time! On the last day things started going a bit down hill. For what ever reason h2bs dad didn't take to my mums boyfriend ( which...

I was off work yesterday and decided to have a look at wedding shoes online. I'd always dreamt of having Jimmy Choos but to be honest, now I just want the shoes that I like the best, regardless of...

Hi All, As you can see from my countdown ticker, we have well over 3 years until our big day and although we haven't booked or paid for anything yet, my head knows the following:- When we will get...

Less than 2 weeks to go now and MIL2B has been taken into hospital. She went in on Friday and we have no idea how long she's going to be in there for at the moment. It's not life threatening but could...

Hi lovely hitched otters! I'm posting a link here to a petition that I've started thanks to a letter I received yesterday. I hope that you will all have a look and, if it means anything to you, please...

Background: She was always the curvier one of the group (only a size 16/18), but such a warm and funny person and always the life and soul! Then she decided to lose weight (which we were so proud...

Morning all, so last night I went to fat club and had regained the few pounds I had lost. I had a meltdown when I got home as I hate myself at the moment (nearly back at my heaviest) and can't seem to...

I am so easy going, and so un-confrontational, that I know for a fact people can walk all over me sometimes, and I generally let them. 'Can I do this at your wedding?' ... Sure, why not? 'Can I bring...