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Giving notice
Yasmin, 1 February, 2024 at 13:30

Hi All, I changed the spelling of my name via deed poll in 2018. I took 1 letter out of my name. Do I need to provide this evidence when giving notice of my marriage?

Tannu, thursday 10-Sep-26 5 79
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Boudoir photoshoot
Bridally, 19 May, 2015 at 15:45

Has anyone done (or thinking of doing) a boudoir photoshoot? I'd like to do one for a gift for my H2B but the prices seem extortionate if you want more than one or two images. Help!!

Mohsin, thursday 10-Sep-26 16 1,920
Becca
Healthcare workers - do you stay off for full 48hrs after D+V?
Becca, 3 August, 2009 at 20:15

If your colleagues really need you back at work, do you still wait out the full 48hrs after the last D or V before returning to work?

sahilverma3, thursday 10-Sep-26 12 9,624 1
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Wedding planning is a disaster
Katie, 17 June, 2025 at 09:23

He wants very traditional. I am totally the opposite. Zero overlap. It’s 16 months from now and I am either living in panic or dread. How do we reconcile totally different ideas.

A1223123, thursday 10-Sep-26 23 394
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Hair dye
Mrsswain2Beagin, 30 May, 2024 at 08:28

Hi, I'm renewing our vows in September and I'm wanting to have my hair dyed for it. How long in advance would be safe to do it so it still looks fresh on the day? TIA

Emma, thursday 10-Sep-26 5 157
pandorasbox
Anybody NOT having readings at their civil ceremony?
pandorasbox, 20 April, 2011 at 17:26

As part of my next research project (thanks for suggestions btw!) I am now looking into readings and vows. OH says he didn't imagine having any readings, he likes the idea of just the registrar...

Kimberly, thursday 10-Sep-26 30 6,073
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Neighbour with overgrown garden and a WWYD?
SAM83, 26 April, 2009 at 17:40

Our next door neighbour has a very overgrown and untidy garden. He probably last cut it about 3 years ago but never ever goes out there so it doesnt bother him. We are planning to put our house on the...

Ypumky, thursday 10-Sep-26 11 1,524
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Walking yourself down the aisle?
Sarah, 28 January, 2023 at 18:08

I have always intended to walk down the aisle by myself. My dad died in 2011, and so to me, there was never any other option. I’m a strong woman, very independent, and always have been. My sister got...

Priyanka, thursday 10-Sep-26 7 531
Elvira.
Murder, or tragic accident?
Elvira., 6 January, 2009 at 22:14

I have an interest in this story as I live in the area, and was talking to my best friend today about it. Her daughter was due to go to this party, but changed her mind at the last moment, but her...

Adam, thursday 10-Sep-26 27 7,102
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Worrying my boobs will 'crease' in my dress........
, 11 November, 2010 at 13:10

I dont know how to explain it but I have large-ish bazookers. Nothing huge but last night I tried on a corset top that I havent worn for some time and I remembered why..... it pushes my boobies up and...

sahilverma3, thursday 10-Sep-26 35 7,655
Lola-Belle
HELP! MY VENUE IS PLANNING TO START HUGE BUILDING WORKS ! [:(]
Lola-Belle, 8 June, 2011 at 12:33

I cant beleive it!! My dream venue has decided it is going to knock down an unused part of the hotel and build 157 new homes, then extend the back of the hotel! I've paid my deposit, there planning...

Ivan, thursday 10-Sep-26 17 1,738 1
Olatz
Wedding website personalisation.
Olatz, 9 January, 2026 at 16:27

Quick question. Is is possible to embed a map I have created in Hitched's wedding website?

Metka, wednesday 9-Sep-26 57 472
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Are parents allowed to withdraw their children from SATs?
Fimble, 16 April, 2009 at 12:27

I have a feeling SATs will be scrapped by the time this is relevant to me but just pondering... are parents allowed to say that they do not want their children to sit SATs? I know most teachers are...

Oliver, wednesday 9-Sep-26 22 5,679
Julesgirl
Making an offer on a house before you have sold your own.......
Julesgirl, 22 August, 2008 at 16:15

Do people actually do this? [clueless icon] Background: our place has been on the market for 2 weeks and has only had 2 viewings. We have found a house that we love and are keen not to lose it to...

Ankit, wednesday 9-Sep-26 31 31,620
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Hen weekend - Cheltenham?
SouthB2B, 28 November, 2010 at 19:31

Anyone know Cheltenham? Am considering it for my hen weekend. Looking for somewhere with good restaurants and a couple of great bars with late license, dancing and cocktails! I went to a ben weekend...

Adnan, wednesday 9-Sep-26 42 13,058
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How to remember loved ones at a wedding
, 25 November, 2012 at 21:39

Dear all, Bit of a weepy one I'm afraid! Getting married next September, and sadly neither of my parents will be there. Both have passed away due to cancer within the last 5 years and I really want to...

Adnan, wednesday 9-Sep-26 27 7,256
pinkandteal
No Smoking???
pinkandteal, 17 February, 2014 at 11:48

Hi all, bit controversial I fear, but is there a way I can say 'don't smoke here' without being mean or coming off as too judgemental??? The issue is our venue includes a conservatory and outdoor...

Marketing, wednesday 9-Sep-26 18 2,067
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BT: Wedding favours...for babies!!
Wife In Training, 6 August, 2014 at 10:44

There is a good chance we are going to have two newborns at our wedding, both under 6-8 weeks old. I don't want to leave them out when buying favours for the other children but genuinely don't know...

Lucas, wednesday 9-Sep-26 33 16,131
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hen night favours/thank yous
, 27 June, 2012 at 11:28

For my main hen night i went to spain with some friends and they each had goody bags, now im organising my uk hen night and so far on the list is around 25people, am i supposed to make favours and...

Lucas, wednesday 9-Sep-26 34 12,150
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Dietary Requirements - Hitched Wedding Website
Vicky, 13 September, 2023 at 13:03

Hiya Just wondering if there is a way for when guests RSVP they can add in any dietary requirements that will then show on the guest list? I can see that they can enter information will that then show...

Jelly, wednesday 9-Sep-26 30 1,092 1
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Top table
Mollie, 5 January, 2024 at 17:17

My finance and I have found a location we love but haven’t committed to booking a date as he is worried about the top table as unfortunately both of his parents have passed away and he doesn’t want...

Alex, wednesday 9-Sep-26 10 442
Amy
Where do i even start???
Amy, 16 December, 2025 at 13:57

Hiya everyone, I have just got engaged and have been thrown with so many questions. HELP! I don't even know where to start!! Any tips tricks or step by step of anything I should know?

Jelly, wednesday 9-Sep-26 33 244
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Mums on hen nights?
lotte_, 17 January, 2012 at 11:01

Is anyone inviting their Mum to their hen night? I'm not sure if it's the done thing. I'd rather not have mine there so I don't have to be on my best behaviour but I feel a bit bad as my sister and...

Lucas, wednesday 9-Sep-26 49 4,442
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Order of the day
Mrsmooretobe, 28 April, 2015 at 14:27

Hi ladies, With 11 days to go my mum has decided we should have OOTD for our ceremony! So my question is, what did those of you who had/are having one include in it? Did you go funny or serious? And...

Emma, wednesday 9-Sep-26 35 2,102

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