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Liver tumor & surgery (piece of string)
Lurker, 3 April, 2008 at 18:00

I was diagnosed with a hemangioma (8x6cm)in 2006 and have recently had to have a follow up ultrasound and it has grown (11x9cm and takes up almost the whole of my right lobe) however it is unusual for...

Jolden, tuesday 2-Sep-25 15 1,609
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Size 13 trousers?
KJB, 15 April, 2009 at 11:16

Having spent over 6 hours in the last 2 days trying on clothes, I conclude i am currently a size 13 in clothes, especially trousers. Can anyone recommend any 'generous' size 12 shops, or 'tight' size...

Alex, thursday 28-Aug-25 18 3,088
Nutella
Stepping off the property ladder. Would you?
Nutella, 13 April, 2013 at 11:41

Bear with me... So about a year ago, I took a job which requires me to commute from west london to north hampshire, it's about an 1/1.5hrs each way and involves a painful section of the M25. This...

Maximilian, wednesday 27-Aug-25 6 692
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Sleeping issues! Heavy breathing
Purplecake, 13 November, 2014 at 10:19

So although it sounds such a silly problem, it's really becoming a massive issue right now. My breathing is supposedly very heavy at night, not a snore, just very deep breathing. Apparently this has...

Katarina, wednesday 27-Aug-25 10 2,158
Hugo Brambles
How much room do you give when driving round a parked car?
Hugo Brambles, 27 August, 2009 at 09:49

OH always tells me off that I'm too close whenever I drive past a parked car. I do squeeze past I suppose partly as I have a tiny car, I'm on the road all day but mostly because I judge there to be...

Zack, wednesday 27-Aug-25 10 3,389
Beckstar
dog advice please... getting desperate.
Beckstar, 13 July, 2011 at 13:23

Has anyone got advice on how to handle a totally disobedient dog? We have been trying to train her but she’s a nightmare! She’s 5 and we’ve had her for a year. We got her from the RSPCA and her...

Pet, sunday 24-Aug-25 24 4,873
workinghard
Those who have done Cemap also financial advisers
workinghard, 2 May, 2008 at 12:30

1) I'm doing 2+3 in a couple of weeks (got all the study material yesterday). I know they allow 30 mins for each module of cemap 2 but can you move on if you're done before that? Trying to sneak it in...

Hannahbrown, wednesday 20-Aug-25 37 1,858
Mrs Cee
BMF fitness testing anyone been?
Mrs Cee, 28 July, 2009 at 11:48

Its BMF tonight and they are having fitness tests and I just wondered if anyone had been and is it as hardcore as it sounds, its only my 3rd session and I am slightly scared. It will be ok won't it...

Walter, wednesday 20-Aug-25 13 1,315
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Panto Characters
poochanna, 11 September, 2008 at 15:30

I'm helping to organise a charity ball for the "c-word" and the theme is Panto. I have to design each table around a character and my mind has gone blank. I have to potentially come up with 30, well...

Manu, tuesday 19-Aug-25 31 13,751
ATB
Boring question - how to make white clothes white again?
ATB, 20 March, 2014 at 14:29

My whites are mingy and grey. I always separate loads, but they just don't stay nice for long. I've tried oxy white stuff in with my washing powder but it's made no difference. Any other tips? I...

Maximilian, monday 18-Aug-25 13 15,844
Treacle tart
Do you believe?
Treacle tart, 1 April, 2008 at 20:35

I went to see a psychic a few years ago and then just before I got wed. I was quite sceptical and didnt know what to expect. It was all very weird. The first time was all about my mother - she passed...

Eliza, saturday 16-Aug-25 333 5,433
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Terminally ill mum - wedding not booked yet
Melissa, 17 March, 2025 at 13:00

My mum is terminally ill and has been in hospital for the past 5 weeks and it’s not looking like she will get out. I really don’t want to get married without her so I was wondering if there are...

Maximilian, friday 15-Aug-25 13 228
Knees
What was your school uniform?
Knees, 25 October, 2011 at 11:47

And did you like it? A few people mentioned in the sports thread what their uniform was. Years 7-11 had white or sky blue polo shirts with navy jumpers and black trousers or skirts. 6th form had white...

Frederick, wednesday 13-Aug-25 31 2,897
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Any accountants or people studying accountancy about?
Skittalie, 25 August, 2009 at 16:48

I'm looking at retraining to work in accountancy but I'm not sure which course would be the best for me to go for AAT, CIMA or ACCA and are those the main ones? As a background I have a law degree, a...

Ronald, sunday 10-Aug-25 8 3,440
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cooking Lasagne for 20 people
leb1976, 24 October, 2008 at 15:46

Help is needed. I have been given the task of cooking lasagne for 20 people for a hen weekend!!!!! I like to get things organised and prepared in plenty of time. Do you think a lasagne will be ok if...

John, sunday 10-Aug-25 12 14,455
Flowmojo
Coffee machines
Flowmojo, 9 October, 2012 at 14:20

So as of Saturday (yes, we are talking 4 days) Mr F has taken to drinking coffee and has requested a coffee machine for his birthday, specifically one that makes cappuccinos..yes im rolling my eyes at...

Wania, saturday 2-Aug-25 21 2,564
HeidiHole
Do you eat like a horse the week before your period?
HeidiHole, 5 February, 2009 at 13:47

I've been dieting the last couple of weeks and have done fairly well. However, this week I have had the appetite of a St Bernard, as if being bloated pre period isn't bad enough. I have no willpower...

Andrey, thursday 31-Jul-25 30 4,648
Nutella
Master bedroom interior design help!
Nutella, 10 December, 2013 at 22:03

? Hi everyone! Who fancies a interior design project? We are knocking down a partition wall in our house to make a nice big master bedroom for ourselves. It's basically going to be gutted though so...

Enricdusk, wednesday 30-Jul-25 29 2,332
Vee Tee
Asthma sufferers/steroids
Vee Tee, 28 March, 2012 at 17:58

Does anyone suffer from quite bad asthma? My Oh does, and the poor lad was wheezing so badly at work yesterday that he had to call the doctor and make an appt with the asthma nurse for that day and...

Google, saturday 19-Jul-25 26 4,147
*Ducky*
If I like Mulberry handbags...
*Ducky*, 3 September, 2013 at 14:46

What other brands/shops/designers might I like? I have 3 Mulberrys, but only one I use ALL the time for work. It is a Mitzy Hobo, it's big and I can shove loads in - it is also discontinued. I also...

Rolando, thursday 17-Jul-25 37 2,682
Ali_G
Does anyone have a quick beef bourge-wotsit recipe
Ali_G, 11 December, 2012 at 10:51

Hubby wants beef bourgi-thingy for dinner tonight. We bought steaks 'cos I don't have the time to slow cook the beef. Does anyone have a recipe to do the bourgey quickly?

Zachariahson, wednesday 16-Jul-25 6 547
spacecadet_99
Can paint fumes make you ill like this?
spacecadet_99, 3 September, 2008 at 09:29

They're painting all the corridors and public areas at my work at the moment, yesterday they weren't painting that near my office but they left all their pots and brushes right outside so it still...

Kiri, monday 14-Jul-25 4 6,762
CornishBride89
Proposals - Expectations vs Reality
CornishBride89, 9 September, 2015 at 09:40

Not massively off topic, but was how your OH proposed how you imagined it to be? From watching all the movies, I had always thought of the down on one knee after a meal in a restaurant sort of thing....

Aristotle, sunday 13-Jul-25 25 3,097
*Funky*
Laser Lipo
*Funky*, 27 June, 2013 at 08:52

Has anyone tried laser lipo? I keep seeing groupon deals for it and with the wedding approaching if I get desperate to lose a inch or 2 nearer the time I'm thinking I might give it a try, I appreciate...

Andriy, sunday 13-Jul-25 8 989
Peaches
Interior designers ... need help with a bay window dressing
Peaches, 27 May, 2009 at 18:23

I've got a bay window in a property I'm about to let. It's on a busy main road with a path right outside. Ground floor. Before the fire it had nets and curtains and was used as a bedroom, but now I'm...

Joshua, friday 11-Jul-25 8 8,179
KB3
Hoisin duck sandwich filling
KB3, 26 June, 2009 at 12:58

I'm really into hoisin duck wraps at the minute but I'm spiendng a fortune on shop bought sandwichesI prefer to take packed lunch. Does anyone know if there is a ready made duck sandwich filler on the...

Umlex, wednesday 9-Jul-25 4 1,843
jojo2
Fence spraying
jojo2, 30 September, 2011 at 11:31

I attempted to paint one panel in my garden with a brush and it took a whole hour!! Has anyone used a Fence Sprayer and is there a technique you used to get even coverage?

Stephan, wednesday 9-Jul-25 3 291
SillyWrong
Driving lessons - drivers advice needed!
SillyWrong, 12 March, 2015 at 10:40

I'm such a twonk, I've managed to get to my mid thirties with my head buried firmly in the sand when it comes to driving! I learned back in 2005 and was technically good, I could control the car but I...

Stephan, wednesday 9-Jul-25 45 2,936
Vikster79
Writing Christmas cards to person who has just lost a loved one?
Vikster79, 13 December, 2011 at 10:24

I always feel so awkward writing a card when i cant write something "jolly" inside. What do you put in a card when someone has recently lost a loved one just before Christmas. Have been putting it...

Ethan, tuesday 8-Jul-25 4 30,767
Louise
Bridesmaid issues…
Louise, 25 March, 2025 at 12:25

I’ve found myself in a tricky situation where I’ve been hurt and let down by a bridesmaid. Bridesmaid A (one of them) is one of my oldest friends I’ve known for 20 years. Moved to Australia two years...

Robert, friday 4-Jul-25 1 45
Panjita
Mobile Phones
Panjita, 7 October, 2013 at 10:10

Can you remember what your first mobile phone looked like? I've just been discussing with my friend and found a photo online of my first ever mobile. Hilarious! It looks like an 80's walkie talkie!!!...

Fahad, thursday 3-Jul-25 43 6,857
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Paypal, anyone used it for someone to pay them?
cherrybloom, 22 September, 2013 at 19:33

Hey OTs, I'm thinking of selling a few things from the wedding as I am a OM now #happy. Do you know how it works: Do they charge you for using it? how long it takes the payment to appear, also do you...

Erik, wednesday 2-Jul-25 7 875

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