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Vee Tee
Asthma sufferers/steroids
Vee Tee, 28 March, 2012 at 17:58

Does anyone suffer from quite bad asthma? My Oh does, and the poor lad was wheezing so badly at work yesterday that he had to call the doctor and make an appt with the asthma nurse for that day and...

Google, saturday 19-Jul-25 26 4,147
Emmark
Anyone had someone in to paint their exterior wooden windows?
Emmark, 5 June, 2009 at 10:03

My wooden windows are in much need of some painting on the exterior. I am going to be getting a few companies out to quote, but just wanted a rough idea of how much people have paid for there windows...

Trevorsharp, thursday 17-Jul-25 4 5,238
*Ducky*
If I like Mulberry handbags...
*Ducky*, 3 September, 2013 at 14:46

What other brands/shops/designers might I like? I have 3 Mulberrys, but only one I use ALL the time for work. It is a Mitzy Hobo, it's big and I can shove loads in - it is also discontinued. I also...

Rolando, thursday 17-Jul-25 37 2,681
Ali_G
Does anyone have a quick beef bourge-wotsit recipe
Ali_G, 11 December, 2012 at 10:51

Hubby wants beef bourgi-thingy for dinner tonight. We bought steaks 'cos I don't have the time to slow cook the beef. Does anyone have a recipe to do the bourgey quickly?

Zachariahson, wednesday 16-Jul-25 6 547
spacecadet_99
Can paint fumes make you ill like this?
spacecadet_99, 3 September, 2008 at 09:29

They're painting all the corridors and public areas at my work at the moment, yesterday they weren't painting that near my office but they left all their pots and brushes right outside so it still...

Kiri, monday 14-Jul-25 4 6,761
CornishBride89
Proposals - Expectations vs Reality
CornishBride89, 9 September, 2015 at 09:40

Not massively off topic, but was how your OH proposed how you imagined it to be? From watching all the movies, I had always thought of the down on one knee after a meal in a restaurant sort of thing....

Aristotle, sunday 13-Jul-25 25 3,096
*Funky*
Laser Lipo
*Funky*, 27 June, 2013 at 08:52

Has anyone tried laser lipo? I keep seeing groupon deals for it and with the wedding approaching if I get desperate to lose a inch or 2 nearer the time I'm thinking I might give it a try, I appreciate...

Andriy, sunday 13-Jul-25 8 987
Peaches
Interior designers ... need help with a bay window dressing
Peaches, 27 May, 2009 at 18:23

I've got a bay window in a property I'm about to let. It's on a busy main road with a path right outside. Ground floor. Before the fire it had nets and curtains and was used as a bedroom, but now I'm...

Joshua, friday 11-Jul-25 8 8,176
KB3
Hoisin duck sandwich filling
KB3, 26 June, 2009 at 12:58

I'm really into hoisin duck wraps at the minute but I'm spiendng a fortune on shop bought sandwichesI prefer to take packed lunch. Does anyone know if there is a ready made duck sandwich filler on the...

Umlex, wednesday 9-Jul-25 4 1,843
jojo2
Fence spraying
jojo2, 30 September, 2011 at 11:31

I attempted to paint one panel in my garden with a brush and it took a whole hour!! Has anyone used a Fence Sprayer and is there a technique you used to get even coverage?

Stephan, wednesday 9-Jul-25 3 290
SillyWrong
Driving lessons - drivers advice needed!
SillyWrong, 12 March, 2015 at 10:40

I'm such a twonk, I've managed to get to my mid thirties with my head buried firmly in the sand when it comes to driving! I learned back in 2005 and was technically good, I could control the car but I...

Stephan, wednesday 9-Jul-25 45 2,934
Vikster79
Writing Christmas cards to person who has just lost a loved one?
Vikster79, 13 December, 2011 at 10:24

I always feel so awkward writing a card when i cant write something "jolly" inside. What do you put in a card when someone has recently lost a loved one just before Christmas. Have been putting it...

Ethan, tuesday 8-Jul-25 4 30,766
Louise
Bridesmaid issues…
Louise, 25 March, 2025 at 12:25

I’ve found myself in a tricky situation where I’ve been hurt and let down by a bridesmaid. Bridesmaid A (one of them) is one of my oldest friends I’ve known for 20 years. Moved to Australia two years...

Robert, friday 4-Jul-25 1 45
Panjita
Mobile Phones
Panjita, 7 October, 2013 at 10:10

Can you remember what your first mobile phone looked like? I've just been discussing with my friend and found a photo online of my first ever mobile. Hilarious! It looks like an 80's walkie talkie!!!...

Fahad, thursday 3-Jul-25 43 6,852
C
Paypal, anyone used it for someone to pay them?
cherrybloom, 22 September, 2013 at 19:33

Hey OTs, I'm thinking of selling a few things from the wedding as I am a OM now #happy. Do you know how it works: Do they charge you for using it? how long it takes the payment to appear, also do you...

Erik, wednesday 2-Jul-25 7 873
Mr JK
Rhys Jones's killer's mum facing prison
Mr JK, 16 February, 2009 at 14:03

Eleven-year-old Rhys Jones's killer's mum has been found guilty of perverting the course of justice, and is almost certainly facing a custodial sentence. Which is fair enough - it's a completely...

Jack, monday 30-Jun-25 12 1,023
freb2reh
Legal eagles D36 to D37. Anyone know how long this may take?
freb2reh, 30 May, 2012 at 10:44

Ok, well finally my ex has submitted our D36 to the courts - it's onlt taken 4 years to get to this point! Do any of you legal eagles have any idea on the timescales involved before I get my D37? OH...

Ryan, monday 30-Jun-25 5 2,679
freckles87
I am... a volunteer Appropriate Adult. Ask me anything!
freckles87, 24 April, 2012 at 00:35

I do voluntary work as an Appropriate Adult. My day job is far less exciting! So, yeah, ask me anything!

Maximilian, thursday 26-Jun-25 21 6,125
Erin8
Anyone know a good hairdressers around the Chelmsford area?
Erin8, 2 January, 2014 at 23:16

I tried someone near where l live the other week and was very unimpressed -poor cut and a lame blow dry. I need a dye job soon as my grey seems to have got a lot lot worse after the highly stressful...

Jamesking, wednesday 18-Jun-25 13 3,278
Vanilla Pod
Going away present ideas for nephew.
Vanilla Pod, 30 August, 2012 at 17:31

As some of you already know my nephew is off to start university in America next week. Eeeek. Its come around so quickly. He is going on a football (soccer!) scholarship. I want to get him something...

Della, saturday 14-Jun-25 21 1,444
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Those who study from home...
NickyNooNaa, 23 September, 2008 at 17:02

How on earth do you keep motivated and actually do the work? Did you make a timetable or set yourself time aside? I'm struggling! I was planning on ditching my course and put it down to bad experience...

Malik, tuesday 10-Jun-25 7 907
flissy666
Ugg Fetish, anyone?
flissy666, 11 June, 2009 at 20:47

LOL! http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/west_yorkshire/8095635.stm Although, as a former resident of Leeds, I am slightly concerned that *I* may be one of his kinky victims ?

Oleksii Savchenko, monday 2-Jun-25 4 2,585
B
Would you grass up a benefits cheat?
, 16 September, 2013 at 17:07

Lets say you know for a fact that someone you are close to is defrauding the benefits system. Would you grass them up? Even if it might mean a jail sentence?

Amilia, saturday 31-May-25 47 4,074
DaffodilWaves
Braces for adults (teeth)
DaffodilWaves, 7 March, 2014 at 23:41

I had a fixed brace on my top teeth when I was young. As an adult, my wisdom teeth came through and pushed my lower teeth together, making some overlap. I've been having problems with one tooth,...

Ronald, wednesday 28-May-25 6 917
Doughnut
Crimewatch - Claudia Lawrence
Doughnut, 2 June, 2009 at 21:32

Is anyone watching? What do they mean about her relationships being "delicate and complicated"?

Anna, sunday 25-May-25 5 543
B
Not a happy bunny! charging £5 to post on Digital Spy forums.
bobbly1, 17 May, 2008 at 00:08

I went to register on the Digital Spy forums, and was waiting for my account to be verified so I could post when I was advised I would have to pay a one off £5 registration fee for the priveledge of...

Gracie, wednesday 21-May-25 7 1,178
L
Minibus hire
LeighB3, 20 April, 2015 at 13:07

Hi, I hope someone out there can help me I'm looking at hiring a minibus for my hen weekend and was just wondering if anyone has used a company before that they would recommend? We're travelling from...

Michael, wednesday 21-May-25 4 527
Pittabre
I hate tights
Pittabre, 26 October, 2014 at 13:27

I read the leggings thread, as I wear leggings under dresses and skirts as opposed to tights as I HATE tights. But round here it is treated as inappropriate to wear leggings under dresses. So I was...

Fahad, monday 19-May-25 17 3,318
pandorasbox
When did you/your kids stop saying 'mummy'?
pandorasbox, 18 September, 2013 at 16:36

Or 'daddy'? Just wondering. I have never really heard any of my school kids (11-16) say it but a mum spoke to me this week and during the course of the conversation said similar to "My son would...

Mosin, wednesday 14-May-25 35 3,487
Blackkat
Does anyone on hitched live in or know Aylesbury?
Blackkat, 12 June, 2009 at 18:42

My partner & I are up sticks & moving to Aylesbury in the summer. We're going up next weekend to look at rental properties. Can anyone give us advice of good areas to live in or areas to...

Jessie, wednesday 14-May-25 4 2,351
Scottishterrier
dental help
Scottishterrier, 6 August, 2009 at 14:17

This morning i had 15 teeth(all upper and 2 lower) removed and a new plate put in. when i woke up they told me all had gone well and to go back to my regular dentist in 2 days for a check over. have...

Duncan, sunday 4-May-25 11 756
S
What does it mean to “wear the pants” in a marriage?
SunnyBrownConfetti80630, 26 December, 2019 at 18:22

People put too much stock in this and usually use it as a derogatory comment. Generally it’s about who makes the decisions in the relationship and commonly you both do. Most of the time the husband...

Lucas, wednesday 30-Apr-25 2 1,475

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