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ValerieF
Ideas for wedding reception activities?!
ValerieF, 8 May, 2013 at 13:46

Hi there! My man and I have been searching everywhere for fun and unique ideas for our wedding reception. Both our families are kind of crazy (in a good way) and we want them to celebrate with us by...

Newmoongirl, monday 13-May-13 11 4,569
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Hate chair covers - alternatives?!!
, 13 May, 2013 at 17:22

So, I was never a fan of the bright white/lyrca chair covers and sahes etc, but I don't particularly like the chairs at my venue, they are very old and a bit tatty. So what is the alternative?! I have...

Newmoongirl, monday 13-May-13 8 9,176
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Cufflinks, Are you buying them for all your groomsmen?
BrogstarBride, 13 May, 2013 at 17:21

At the start of planning my wedding I had all these bright ideas about personalised socks for the men (which i have got ages ago) and cufflinks but now im at the point where im thinking seriously is...

Kjay, monday 13-May-13 6 1,005
Icklefee
MUA in Northamptonshire
Icklefee, 13 May, 2013 at 11:19

Can anyone recommend a MUA in my area? I'm going to use my own hairdresser on the day so just need someone to fill in the wrinkles and hide the bags please.

Juliet Cunnington (M, monday 13-May-13 7 1,092
MrsSkinner2be
No contract from photographer
MrsSkinner2be, 13 May, 2013 at 08:19

So our photographer is all booked and I asked if he had a contract and his response was that he doesn't have a contract as such but he is happy to write anything we like down on an email as it is...

MrsSkinner2be, monday 13-May-13 28 2,888
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Essex based MUA...
NC53, 10 May, 2013 at 19:06

Hi lovelies Is anyone able to recommend any Essex based makeup artists? Preferrably one that uses airbrush makeup :-) Thanks! x

artisanwedding.co.uk, monday 13-May-13 8 1,038
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Vivienne Westwood Melissa heart shoes
xxExcitedbridexx, 30 April, 2013 at 09:10

Hi all Only registered last night and I'm already on my second post!! I have my heart set on wearing Vivienne Westwood Melissa heart shoes for my wedding but have only just found out they are no...

xxExcitedbridexx, sunday 12-May-13 27 11,843
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afternoon tea.menu... what do you think
sarah321, 12 May, 2013 at 18:24

Sandwiches apple and stilton hummus and pepper cream cheese and cucumber ham mustard and rocket coronation chicken scones jam.cream and strawberries cakes carrot cake chicolate brownies feuit tartlets...

sarah321, sunday 12-May-13 9 2,473
2013_Bride_
Father Of Groom - Bridal Suit?
2013_Bride_, 12 May, 2013 at 09:07

Hi, Traditionally are you meant to put the father of the groom in a bridal party suit? We are fully intending to but I just wanted to check that was actually quite normal? Thanks

2013_Bride_, sunday 12-May-13 7 1,705
ValerieF
How much are you spending on alcohol at the wedding?
ValerieF, 9 May, 2013 at 15:31

Hello ladies ? How much are you guys planning on spending for alcohol at the reception? Are you having an open bar.....and what good alternatives are there to having one? we're having about 100...

dollydimple88, sunday 12-May-13 33 20,391
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Father of the bride suit....who pays?
mckenna1980, 11 May, 2013 at 15:04

Hi in February we decided to get married after 10 yrs together THIS AUGUST! this doesn't leave a lot of time to pay for it but we have reasons for wanting to do it so quickly. We thought cost would be...

Sandysounds, sunday 12-May-13 7 6,663
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poems for MOTB
Harry:), 11 May, 2013 at 22:49

Hi everyone, Was wondering if anyone could help me please, I was searching the web the other night and was looking on the forums and came across a message that was posted regarding a poem written for...

*Funky*, sunday 12-May-13 1 558
*Mini*
How many times have you been engaged?
*Mini*, 3 May, 2013 at 20:43

Inspired by a conversation I had- is this your first time of being engaged? If so how far did you get with planning last time? Would you carry anything forwards from the last time or us this a totally...

gippdeer, saturday 11-May-13 70 5,406
Elixia
when did bacon sarnies become so popular?
Elixia, 4 April, 2013 at 23:00

At eveninng does/receptions that is. Odd question but I've been wrecking my noodle about it all day! i need closure!

Dizzygal, saturday 11-May-13 48 4,651
NicolaT88
Engagement Photos
NicolaT88, 9 May, 2013 at 18:44

Hi Ladies, Me and OH are really keen to get some nice photos of us and thought it would be the perfect time to get our engagement photos done. Can anyone recommend a company in Berkshire that would be...

Nick Griffiths, friday 10-May-13 7 1,438
2013_Bride_
What are you looking forward to about being married? :)
2013_Bride_, 9 May, 2013 at 19:50

I cannot wait to call OH my HUSBAND and have that married status!!! Plus I can't wait for our spare cash to not be spent on the wedding and to be able to start spending it elsewhere! What are you...

Amaranth, friday 10-May-13 34 2,834
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Wedding ring - designing your own
louisahebden, 10 July, 2010 at 17:43

Hi everyone Can anyone recommend a wedding ring maker in Hatton Garden, London? We have a fairly good idea of the rings we'd like to have so would like to design our own, which would be white gold and...

Liona, friday 10-May-13 14 4,284
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Flower Girl Wands
MrsI2Be, 4 May, 2013 at 19:48

My gorgeous god daughter is going to be my flower girl. She is 2 and a half. I am really struggling with what I want her to have to hold. Think I want her to have a little wand. Has anyone got any...

Knees, wednesday 8-May-13 14 9,871
MrsSkinner2be
Can a dress be lengthened?
MrsSkinner2be, 7 May, 2013 at 14:14

I'm hoping to buy my dress from a girl and it is going to be really close as to wether its long enough for me - I'm going to be wearing flat shoes. Can dresses be lengthened? It is a satin dress

MrsSkinner2be, wednesday 8-May-13 5 19,511
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How to Revive a Vintage umbrella??
robynbobbins, 8 May, 2013 at 12:15

Hi everyone, I'm looking for advice on how to clean and revive a vintage umbrella. I'm hoping to use one of my Grandmother's old umbrellas as a parasol on W-day, but it has been stuck in the loft for...

robynbobbins, wednesday 8-May-13 822
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How much to spend on catering??
pandapops101, 6 June, 2012 at 21:33

Evening I'm finding it really hard to know what is a reasonable price to pay a caterer. I know I don't want to spend (and can't afford to spend) more than £30 per person on a 3 course wedding...

AmnesiaCustard, wednesday 8-May-13 10 11,675
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white or ivory place cards?
midlandsbride2013, 6 May, 2013 at 22:05

I have a small decision to make ( OH bless him not really bothered by this small detail!)regarding place names for the wedding breakfast. Our invites are on ivory card, but the reception table linen...

MrsI2Be, tuesday 7-May-13 6 2,670
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Ipod wedding
Chocobo, 6 May, 2013 at 22:02

Hello guys, I love music, i mean i LOVE music its what im all about, but i have been thinking why should i pay £600 for a simple DJ set up? I was looking into the idea of having a IPOD wedding but...

Sandysounds, tuesday 7-May-13 17 4,060
MrsStobe13
Help..my bridesmaid 'unfriended' me?
MrsStobe13, 2 May, 2013 at 09:29

Hey all..This sounds really petty but I just discovered this morning that one of my bridesmaids has 'unfriended' me on Facebook. I know my brother (chief bridesman) sent a message around to all of...

MOMB, tuesday 7-May-13 40 5,978
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Wedding Flowers... how much should i budget???
Beefzoid, 6 May, 2013 at 20:54

Just sorting out my spreadsheet and wanted a realistic 'budget' for flowers. im popping into a few florist near where i work to get a few quotes, but wanted an idea of how much im looking at before...

INeverThought, tuesday 7-May-13 11 8,726
KarenJane
WINE!!!!!
KarenJane, 6 May, 2013 at 15:18

Hi All - Need to get my wine sorted for the tables pretty soon and was wondering if anyone knew of the best deals around at the moment? I'm looking at about 60 bottles of wine half red and half white....

*gnashers*, monday 6-May-13 19 4,204
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Advice needed - Bridesmaid dresses
sharples, 15 January, 2012 at 12:51

Hi everyone! I'm getting married on 1st June (not long to go) and am having difficultly knowing what to do about the bridesmaid dresses. I'm having three adult bridesmaid and my dilemma is that out of...

Cariss1, monday 6-May-13 9 2,629
2b_MrsB
which toast for which speaker ??
2b_MrsB, 3 May, 2013 at 09:03

Hi everyone. I know this is a what ever they want to do question but traditionally who makes which toast ? Am I right in thinking that - Best Man - toasts the bridesmaid FOB - toasts the Bride &...

Mark Sapsford M.C, monday 6-May-13 6 1,620
RockabillyBaker
Festival themed wedding
RockabillyBaker, 30 April, 2013 at 21:21

Hi, My fiance and I have decided to do our wedding with a festival theme so invitations like festival posters, order of service with ribbon lanyards and name each table after a music festival - head...

princess_tink, monday 6-May-13 18 4,566
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Centrepiece size help!
Shirelley, 4 May, 2013 at 15:43

Pulling my hair out ladies, was wondering what size of goldfish bowl/vase/bucket would look ok on my tables. They are standard round tables that seat 8. Dont want them looking too small, or too big...

Marilyn, monday 6-May-13 3 841
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Wooden peg people cake topper...
NC53, 5 May, 2013 at 08:57

Hey guys I really want personalised wooden peg people for my cake topper but am struggling to find a UK seller. I've found a fantastic one on Etsy but they're based in US and delivery isn't cheap,...

Tiny-Tiggs, sunday 5-May-13 6 6,499
supersarah86
HELP PLEASE WITH HEN DO TOPS
supersarah86, 3 April, 2013 at 12:51

Hi i am really stuck for ideas for the names to put on our hen do tops, i'd like them to be quite naughty! our names are - Sarah Megan Hayley Justine Rachel Rachel Rachel (yes 3 rachels!!!) Sarah...

Daisy j, sunday 5-May-13 14 3,296

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