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Wedding Magician
sophieoakesrogers, 8 August, 2011 at 12:38

Hi all! Wondered if anyone could help... We are considering getting a wedding magician to entertain our guests in between various events during the day. Iv had one recommendation that looks really...

CharlotteSmith5, wednesday 30-May-12 17 2,816
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Marquee options in Hertfordshire?
beho9, 28 May, 2012 at 13:17

Hi all! We got engaged last month and are still umming and aahing about when/where to get married. I put up a post before about venues in Hertfordshire and got loads of great responses, but I think...

beho9, wednesday 30-May-12 17 3,830
teapotty
Who sits on top table?
teapotty, 28 May, 2012 at 15:21

Are you all having a top table? Who are you having on it? We both have complicated families so need advice on this one! Thanks

Vanilla Pod, tuesday 29-May-12 23 4,112
before40
mega-child friendly venue in Sth London / Surrey needed!
before40, 28 May, 2012 at 15:16

New to all this - all newly engaged and smiley My other half & I have children, most of our friends have young children and we have teensy families so really it's going to be a big friends get...

Brian Parkes LSWPP (, tuesday 29-May-12 6 2,372
anothermrsjones
OH on his stag do
anothermrsjones, 25 May, 2012 at 10:38

So my OH has just gone on his stag. They flew out to Amsterdam at 6 this morning and got picked up by a coach with strippers to take them to a hotel. Just got a text saying "well that was awkward at...

anothermrsjones, tuesday 29-May-12 21 2,573
Blonde Viki
Small rant re MOB and MOG outfits!
Blonde Viki, 24 May, 2012 at 20:24

I'm not even going to ask 'am I being unreasonable' because I know I probably am! Plus I know that this isn't the most important of things to get my knickers in twist about so I'll probably just have...

Blonde Viki, monday 28-May-12 20 2,407
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Table name ideas for a wedding in a brewery
BreweryBride, 28 May, 2012 at 11:35

Hi I'm getting married in November at an old brewery and I'm really struggling to come up with table names other than the obvious different types of beer. Does anyone have any ideas. I was thinking...

Peter, monday 28-May-12 13 3,800
HappyAnnie
Hen do help!
HappyAnnie, 28 May, 2012 at 17:35

Wondering if anyone can help! I'm in the process of arranging my best friends hen do? She arranged mine and it was amazing, so much thought had gone into it, I want to do just as good a job for her....

xlovebirdsx, monday 28-May-12 5 836
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Crawling out of the woodwork
, 26 May, 2012 at 18:34

How many have you had, of people that are not even close friends, suddenly re-emerging into your life as you are getting married and they feel they should get an invite? Me and my CBM were friendly...

anothermrsjones, monday 28-May-12 12 2,450
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Informal/barn type venues in West Yorkshire
candystripednic, 27 May, 2012 at 22:41

Hi all My partner and I are looking to get married next spring (ish!) but are having real trouble finding a venue we like... the problem is that we don't want a very traditional wedding, and we don't...

greenbean, monday 28-May-12 8 6,797
BadgerBeetle
Things to ask the Vicar?!
BadgerBeetle, 27 May, 2012 at 21:09

?! We have just spoken to our very lovely Vicar, and arranged to see him in a month or so. What do I need to ask him?! So far, all I've got on my list is: 1. How much does the church cost? (we FORGOT...

Catx1606, monday 28-May-12 10 810
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Can I grow taller after 21?
ikyujkg, 28 May, 2012 at 01:57

i am 23 and i stand 5'6.I am average height but I want to be at least 5'8.Lately, I have been working out intensely than ever.I work out Mon-Wed with situps and Thur- Friday I do weight lifting.Ever...

ikyujkg, monday 28-May-12 61
HLT
Who walks down the aisle first?
HLT, 25 May, 2012 at 09:57

I always thought the bride walked down first with her father, followed by the bridesmaids, but my recent research seems to be showing the opposite! Whats "on trend"?!!

eeyoring, sunday 27-May-12 34 3,625
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Can't shake this feeling that I've forgotten something....
kittypuss85, 26 May, 2012 at 22:34

So we changed all our wedding plans and are now getting married July 8th instead of September 29th. Rapid change in everything, and now it's only 6 WEEKS away!!!!!!!! I keep going through it all......

Tizzie, sunday 27-May-12 6 1,297
MrsT-tobe
Entertainment during wedding breakfast....
MrsT-tobe, 25 May, 2012 at 20:23

Hiya, Just wondered what everyone was having for entertainment during their wedding breakfast?

Enjayee, saturday 26-May-12 12 3,877
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Should I swim in ocean after losing virginity?
ryrtfh, 26 May, 2012 at 09:40

I know it's a weird question but I am getting married next month and my fiance and I are both virgins. Our first time will be on our wedding night and we are leaving for our honeymoon in Florida the...

2b_MrsB, saturday 26-May-12 8 3,982
kyanya
Chief bridesmaid/Maid of Honour/just bridesmaids - what did you decide?
kyanya, 25 May, 2012 at 07:41

The other post about how you asked your bridesmaids got me thinking - are you all having a chief BM or MoH? I can't decide - I think I know which BM I would pick for the special role if I was having...

Chedi, friday 25-May-12 15 2,709
amihohu
bbq/hog roast experience
amihohu, 24 May, 2012 at 10:41

Hello! I'm after peoples experiences with BBQ/Hog roasts/hot buffets for the main meal at a reception. The problem is, our guest list looks to be about 100 for the day, and although we'd love a sit...

Brian Parkes LSWPP (, friday 25-May-12 38 7,017
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Would it be awkward to have an 'unofficial' bridesmaid?
kingfisher1923, 24 May, 2012 at 10:24

Hi there I'd be really grateful for any thoughts or experiences you may have to share about this! I'm trying to decide what to do re bridesmaids. I'm veering towards not having any official 'dressed...

kingfisher1923, friday 25-May-12 22 5,441
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Church wedding?
Sabriel, 24 May, 2012 at 08:44

Hi all, I know there was a post on church weddings a while back, but I was hoping there were some updates. We want to get married in a church that isn't in our parish. When I spoke to the vicar, she...

porkchop, thursday 24-May-12 13 1,285
Purple Pixie
I need help with our dessert table
Purple Pixie, 22 May, 2012 at 12:27

Good afternoon everyone, hope you're all well. I could do with some advice and suggestions regarding our dessert table. I would absolutely LOVE to have something like these: I just don't know where to...

MAG2FMC, thursday 24-May-12 10 5,466
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tissue paper pom poms ?
, 24 May, 2012 at 07:50

Well i love them i have to be honest, but what i cant weigh up is , is it worth it? for my venue they will only be outside in the trees. so if the weather is bad it will be all my hours of hardwork...

Nicalf08, thursday 24-May-12 2 291
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Mantilla Hair Combs - Help!
, 23 May, 2012 at 14:16

Hi Girls I'm looking for a mantilla hair comb for my hair for my wedding (my dress is a bit flamenco style) and I have definitely decided I want a hair comb rather than the old 'flower behind the ear'...

swampy1901, wednesday 23-May-12 5 1,691
cake lady
Buttonholes vs corsages?? I'm confused!
cake lady, 23 May, 2012 at 12:11

Hi. Think this is me being a bit daft but do different members of the wedding party need different buttonholes? I assumed, until I started looking into it, that everyone who was having a buttonhole...

SarahThompson, wednesday 23-May-12 8 3,129
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Hello... and oh dear!
Amber2013, 21 May, 2012 at 09:55

Hi All I have been lurking for a while, but finally taken the plunge and joined My OH and I are planning to get married next year, although we havent set a firm date yet - we are trying to save up as...

RachTN25, wednesday 23-May-12 28 3,146
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Fairy Lights Hire Glasgow
MAG2FMC, 8 January, 2012 at 22:20

Hello! Has anyone hired and had set up fairy lights in the Glasgow area? We are looking to create something like this (scroll about 2/3 down at this link:...

MAG2FMC, wednesday 23-May-12 5 2,389
clarksuz
Wedding dress cost
clarksuz, 22 May, 2012 at 21:01

Hi, Does anyone know how much the Donna Lee wedding dress 'Cinders' costs? The nearest stockist to me is an hour away so will take the trip to go and see is as I like the look of it, but their sample...

xlovebirdsx, tuesday 22-May-12 1 435
Puddycat
Strap Marks !!
Puddycat, 22 May, 2012 at 17:12

So now that the sun has finally come out to play? how many people are going to be living in strapless tops ?

Mrs_imp, tuesday 22-May-12 13 2,008
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ARGH - Wedding Dress Nightmare
JuliaC, 12 January, 2012 at 09:52

I'm am having an absolute nightmare trying to source 'the one'! I have decided that I definitely want a Mori Lee dress and I have found my perfect dress. I have contacted all my local (Wiltshire and...

hev54, tuesday 22-May-12 25 4,443
kyanya
Church weddings - what's your connection to your chuch? And how far's your reception venue from your church?
kyanya, 21 May, 2012 at 16:25

We're in the process of planning our wedding, which was originally going to be a civil ceremony as I'm not particularly religious and my parents have supported my decision to not get married in a...

Bride to be Becky fr, tuesday 22-May-12 34 3,598
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Ceremony music - indie/rock song suggestions needed!
OrdinaryGirl, 22 May, 2012 at 19:34

I'm really struggling to find songs for my ceremony. Well, actually I'm not struggling but OH rejects pretty much everything I suggest as being "too cheesy" - even though my suggestions have all been...

OrdinaryGirl, tuesday 22-May-12 1 1,720
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How is everyone making their Order of Service sheets?
Nicalf08, 22 May, 2012 at 08:32

Flashes welcome. Anyone just going for simple white paper? We've typed ours up into an A5 booklet on the computer but I don't know how I actually want it to look when it comes out ie. what paper/card,...

Jesusluiz, tuesday 22-May-12 11 8,119

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