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Steelgoddess
Is fruit cake a necessity??
Steelgoddess, 4 December, 2009 at 20:35

My Mum is doing my wedding cake and shes under the impression that I HAVE to have fruit cake as some people like it, I bloody hate the stuff, understand not everyone likes chocolate or some people...

Steelgoddess, saturday 5-Dec-09 14 2,064
GeordieBarbie
Port with cheese...?
GeordieBarbie, 4 December, 2009 at 07:20

Another drink related question... We thought about serving port with the cheese course but unsure how many bottles we'd need. Any ideas? How much do we allow per person? I think it's usually served...

GeordieBarbie, saturday 5-Dec-09 9 1,452
spaceychick
wedding cakes with fairy lights
spaceychick, 3 December, 2009 at 11:05

Is anyone having a cake decorated with fairy lights? Please share your pics! Thanks ?

Steelgoddess, friday 4-Dec-09 6 16,989
GeordieBarbie
How many glassess of Champagne?
GeordieBarbie, 4 December, 2009 at 07:19

So, been fiddling with the budget and working out how many bottles of booze we need. Wine is easy - half a bottle per person. How much champagne for the drinks reception are you all budgeting? 2 glass...

GeordieBarbie, friday 4-Dec-09 9 5,099
GeordieBarbie
Calling cake makers and florists...
GeordieBarbie, 1 December, 2009 at 21:00

So, as mentioned, our Mam's our making the cakes and D's Mam is making it (1 fruit tier, 2 sponge tiers). I was planning a stacked cake but now more thinking about a tiered cake. Is one easy to do...

Catherines Cakes, thursday 3-Dec-09 7 2,995
Four-Little-Monkeys
Table Centres for Autumn Wedding
Four-Little-Monkeys, 3 December, 2009 at 14:25

We have decided to have a twig and leaf theme (H2Bs idea) for our autumn wedding next year and are trying to think of what we can do for table centres. We want something a little different but keeping...

Charlied, thursday 3-Dec-09 4 3,737
sparkles1984
Hen party goody bag ideas
sparkles1984, 1 November, 2009 at 19:24

Hey, was thinking of doing some hen party goody bags for my hens when we go. What would you put in them or expect the get if you had one. Was thinking of putting some sweets and whistles so far what...

sparkles1984, thursday 3-Dec-09 7 38,078
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Australian getting married in the UK. Is it possible?
paulshana, 1 December, 2009 at 00:26

Hi everyone I just got engaged to my Lincolnshire born and bred boyfriend. We both live in Australia but would like to get married in England and I'm not sure how to go about checking what...

nifer, thursday 3-Dec-09 11 15,909
Hugo Brambles
Alternative songs to walk down the aisle to
Hugo Brambles, 23 November, 2009 at 19:44

OH likes the Pachelbels Cannon in D thingie which I like, but has anyone got any alternative suggestions? I saw a programme on TV and think she walked in to Damian Rice The Blowers Daughter which I...

Nikki1888, wednesday 2-Dec-09 32 27,022
GeordieBarbie
Bride & Bridesmaid Iron on Transfers...?
GeordieBarbie, 1 December, 2009 at 20:34

Anyone bought any or used them? I found these on ebay - what do you think? They're £3 each and around 19cm x 9.cm. Was thinking of getting them for us to wear on the day of the wedding (will get a...

anglefish, wednesday 2-Dec-09 10 6,488
leni
Experiences of rain on your wedding day...
leni, 30 November, 2009 at 15:36

The wedding day is fast approaching (this saturday) and the forecast is very changable between no rain and lots of rain! So to prepare myself - what do I do if it rains? I'm gonna buy a couple of huge...

Peter, tuesday 1-Dec-09 13 4,110
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new years eve wedding
emmielou1983, 29 November, 2009 at 14:14

Hi we are looking for a venue for new years eve 2011 and we're not having any luck, we live in shoreham west sussex, has anyone any ideas Many thanks Emm

Weather Girl, tuesday 1-Dec-09 8 2,150
The BFG
Got myself a bargain!!!
The BFG, 1 December, 2009 at 11:49

I went to the florist today to pick up my mums flowers (its my mum and stepdad's 25th anniversary today) and i noticed they had a box of 'christmas decs' and 'all-sorts' 50p each or 5 for £2, well i...

3d jewellery, tuesday 1-Dec-09 5 763
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TV'S FOUR WEDDINGS - LOOKING FOR BRIDES!!!
Four Weddings, 30 November, 2009 at 14:40

ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED IN JANUARY OR FEBRUARY 2010? HAVE YOU ORGANISED YOUR DREAM ICE WEDDING? WOULD YOU LIKE TO WIN A LUXURY HONEYMOON? LIVING’S hit show ‘Four Weddings’ is back and we are looking...

Four Weddings, monday 30-Nov-09 353
CHELSEA GIRL
I've bought the dress!! Hmmm now I'm scared i've picked the wrong one!
CHELSEA GIRL, 28 November, 2009 at 19:27

Oh god! Hopefully this is just a normal wobble that many people have... or is it just me! So I must be the most indecisive person ever! Every decision is taking us ages to make. But re the dress I got...

CHELSEA GIRL, sunday 29-Nov-09 18 6,698
lizzyleek
First dance song?
lizzyleek, 22 November, 2009 at 23:41

OH wants every time we touch - Cascada (slow version) but I'm worried it's a bit too slow! And now trying to choose civil ceremony music!!! We were having a church ceremony so was pretty easy choosing...

Spangler, friday 27-Nov-09 27 6,152
HatTrick
Florist's help please (vase related)
HatTrick, 25 November, 2009 at 13:14

I'm having huge cocktail galss style vases, my family are doing the flowers. How do I hide the oasis? I don't want it to be seen through the clear glass. TIA

HatTrick, wednesday 25-Nov-09 12 2,087
J
HELP AND ADVICE WANTED - ELLIS BRIDAL RANGE STYLE NO 11054
joharrison70, 24 November, 2009 at 15:19

Hi Am posting this in the hope that someone can help me, as you can see from the title, I am a larger size bride, have tried on quite a few dresses now, all different styles, but although quite nice...

joharrison70, wednesday 25-Nov-09 12 6,201
K
Sri Lanka - Single status affidavit
kimbo1, 23 November, 2009 at 19:01

Hi Has anyone any help they can offer with a single status affidavit for Sri Lanka, travel company won't/can't provide a template and local sollicitors are reluctant to draw documents up , or if they...

kimbo1, monday 23-Nov-09 1 1,544
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Scottish Wedding Venues - Exclusive Use
Nenz, 21 November, 2009 at 14:59

Hi all I was wondering if you can help. We just got engaged and have our hearts set on getting married in Scotland. We would really like a winter wedding in 2011 for appprox 55 guests. We want to hire...

kaz9274, monday 23-Nov-09 14 7,879
sparkles1984
Poems and readings for civil weddings
sparkles1984, 21 November, 2009 at 15:50

Hiya, going to try and have 2 readings in the service, one that my sister doesnt know about which is her partners Downs brother doing a reading and also my OH sister. Does anyone have any readings, a...

sparkles1984, sunday 22-Nov-09 10 9,644
Four-Little-Monkeys
RAYLIA BRIDESMAID DRESSES
Four-Little-Monkeys, 22 November, 2009 at 16:04

Does anyone know how much Raylia Bridesmaids Dresses are? This is the dress we are thinking of having (the red one) as I have decided not to go ahead with having the bridesmaid dresses made.

bethanw, sunday 22-Nov-09 5 1,457
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Do all wedding Dresses come up small
esser1, 22 November, 2009 at 13:28

Do all wedding Dresses come up small? Im a size 18-20 but the dress is a size 22 that i have ordered does that seem normal? I know it can also be altered two sizes smaller if i loose weight it just...

Paris09, sunday 22-Nov-09 12 13,131
Houdini
Full names or known by names on placecards?
Houdini, 19 November, 2009 at 14:55

I know this is stoopid and one of them pointless things that really doesn't matter. I know that. And I know on the day I won't care, nor will anyone else. So am just after opinions. But I have found...

Finesse (HIB), saturday 21-Nov-09 28 5,619
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Wedding Date: July versus September
minniep, 19 November, 2009 at 21:37

Hello all, I'm a newbie here, hello! Got engaged about a month ago and my fiance and I have been looking at venues etc this week. All very exciting. We're pretty decided on the reception venue and we...

minniep, friday 20-Nov-09 13 6,521
Hugo Brambles
Do you ever take your engagement ring off?
Hugo Brambles, 18 November, 2009 at 16:02

I've only had it a month or so and its so scratched I can't believe it. It was a lot of money, I'm gutted. Is it because I never take it off? Should I be taking it off? It's even scrated on the top of...

Mrs S*, friday 20-Nov-09 49 5,961
1Lucie
Girls (and any boys) what colour schemes are you having?
1Lucie, 19 November, 2009 at 15:06

I think the question is in title! Add pics if you have them! I'm thinking lime green, bright pink and of course ivory! Something like this...

Sherrie H, friday 20-Nov-09 18 2,274
shoegal01
Is this a nice touch or totally tw@tty and twee?
shoegal01, 17 November, 2009 at 12:49

I am thinking of putting the meaning of peoples names on their place cards. for example - Laura - Laura means to wear the victorious crown, prize; it also means leader of the group. It comes from...

laineywhu, wednesday 18-Nov-09 54 3,319
Mitzi50
How long did you give people to RSVP?
Mitzi50, 18 November, 2009 at 12:14

Im just finishing of my invites and wondered how long to leave people to RSVP? I want to set a date and write it on the invite so I can get organised (im a spreadsheet lady - I have one for...

laineywhu, wednesday 18-Nov-09 14 30,838
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Marquee venues essex/east london
Terri Newman, 17 August, 2008 at 21:28

PLease help if you can! Found a Church and have set a date (18/07/09) but not a reception venue....... Looked around lots and lots and found venues which are too pricey, too far away (worried about...

lesley innes, tuesday 17-Nov-09 4 3,712
Hugo Brambles
Gahhhh....what can I do I for my hen night?!
Hugo Brambles, 15 November, 2009 at 08:23

I'm going to have a meal for all my friends and family so that's that sorted but I want to do something for the day/overnight/weekend for just me and my 4 best friends. I'm struggling to think of...

belindacoles, tuesday 17-Nov-09 9 4,151
belindacoles
Wedding on a Thursday?
belindacoles, 16 November, 2009 at 12:05

For those of you that have booked a wedding on a Thursday, how have you found your guests have reacted and what are your attendance numbers like? I am considering a Thursday wedding as it would cut...

HatTrick, tuesday 17-Nov-09 26 3,553

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