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costs of a civil ceremony in a registry office vs venue?
laurenbird, 20 May, 2008 at 14:59

Im just dipping my toe into all this atm, but was wondering how much a civil ceremony would cost in a registry office? i would like it to be performed in a venue i have fallen for but its so...

Luna, tuesday 22-Jul-25 11 5,995
Emma
Catering
Emma, 7 January, 2025 at 22:58

Just wondering if anyone has used The Barn at Willerby inside catering? If so would you recommend. Not an outside company .

Eron, tuesday 22-Jul-25 2 44
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Disheartened by dress shopping, very upset
, 5 June, 2011 at 15:34

Sorry for the massive ramble I am no doubt going to go into, but I went to a bridal designer sale yesterday, had a horrible experience and am really upset and disheartened with dress shopping now. I'm...

Eric, monday 21-Jul-25 47 7,145
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Photographer Cost
MissBtoB, 29 June, 2015 at 20:49

Hi. We have just been quoted £2000 for photography. This is way over what I was thinking and had only wanted to spend £600 max. Please can someone tell me what a realistic cost would be. I'm now...

Punit, monday 21-Jul-25 38 8,069
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Other options other than registry office or church?
Grace, 20 July, 2025 at 10:56

Hi all, Recently engaged and in the early planning stages, my fiancé and I have agreed we don’t want to get married in a church so we then thought that perhaps a registry office may be our only other...

Grace, sunday 20-Jul-25 24
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Destination wedding in italy
Ines, 19 July, 2025 at 19:33

Hello everybody what about a destination wedding in Italy? We are planner based in amalfi cost and happy to give you some right tips. Write for any questions. Ines

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Sarah
Eloping with children
Sarah, 19 July, 2025 at 15:37

Hi! I am on the hunt for somewhere in the UK I can go Elope with my son. I have considered Gretna Green but is anyone aware of anywhere else that may be appropriate? My child will be around 6/7 by the...

Sarah, saturday 19-Jul-25 17
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Flower Names - for the tables??
Gillsy, 28 January, 2010 at 15:33

I've finally decided that I'll name the tables after spring flowers seen as we have a bit of a flower theme going on. Was going to name them from places around Lake Garda as thats where we got engaged...

Wania, saturday 19-Jul-25 6 11,570
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Up to 50% off in the app?! Now, that's a BIG deal 💜
Dani, 7 April, 2025 at 17:32

Hey everyone! Just wanted to pop in and shout about something that could really help if you're wedding planning right now... The Hitched app has a section just for deals from wedding vendors - we’re...

Oleksii Savchenko, friday 18-Jul-25 2 59
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Will your bridesmaids have bags on your wedding day?
Figaro82, 18 November, 2012 at 20:29

Hi Ladies, I'm going shoe shopping with my bridesmaids on Saturday and I was wondering if I should also get them matching bags for all their bits and pieces? Is anyone else doing this? My preference...

Fatima, thursday 17-Jul-25 16 16,399
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Dani, 17 July, 2025 at 16:59

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Service Charge on Venue cost
nicnol, 29 September, 2011 at 13:30

I have just paid my final invoice for the venue (woo hoo) and have now received an email back about gratuity on the night. It states that the old policy of adding 5% service charge to the final bill...

Alex, thursday 17-Jul-25 18 8,165
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Liability insurance for friends to play during reception
Tashyboomboom, 7 May, 2014 at 15:16

I've just been told that my two friends (who play the violin and the flute) who I've asked to play for an hour during the drinks reception for free as they are amateurs will now have to get liability...

Katrin, wednesday 16-Jul-25 7 2,295
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Help - Football Shirt Table Numbers
raucous1980, 14 April, 2011 at 13:57

Does anyone have any idea where I can get these from? I need Blackburn Rovers colours (navy & white) and I want a number and a Footballer's name on. I cannot find anywhere that does them even...

Kaflin, wednesday 16-Jul-25 3 2,286
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Opinions..... How much money to give as a gift at a wedding?
*Pugsley*, 1 July, 2013 at 17:22

Hi all, Just sitting here (wasting time at work) and got me thinking... If you're a guest at a wedding where they request money towards honeymoon etc etc, how much would you give? At recent weddings...

Jonad, wednesday 16-Jul-25 81 123,281
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teeth whitening?
Em1982, 21 February, 2011 at 10:03

I would like to do something with my teeth for my wedding day but dont want to pay the fortune that laser teeth whitening costs. my dentist said i can get something that costs £295 and they take a...

Kristenabbott, wednesday 16-Jul-25 22 11,136
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Card storage ideas needed
tash&ste, 16 April, 2015 at 13:30

Hi all. I need some inspiration (again!) What are you having for card and gift storage?

Myprepaid, tuesday 15-Jul-25 18 2,703
Dani
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Alternatives to chair sashes!
HappyYellowDiamonds675, 27 July, 2017 at 21:15

Hi!! I'm in need of help please! I'm looking for some ideas on how to decorate my chair at the reception. I havent got a large budget either. My reception is a small traditional pub with all the beams...

James, monday 14-Jul-25 4 1,449
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Glitzy Secrets - in a quandry over accessories
mrs2b2013, 19 June, 2012 at 07:59

Hello everyone, this is my gfirst post in a long time and i really need some advice. I love the accessories that Glitzy secrets currently have but I dont know whether what i want will be too OTT. I...

Stephen, sunday 13-Jul-25 15 2,744
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Small wedding - Seating plan
WelshSam, 27 November, 2013 at 13:28

I'm having a small wedding 27 max and I've been thinking as it's such a small wedding I probably won't be needing an official seating plan to show my guests where they'll be sitting.... I will be...

Dan, sunday 13-Jul-25 12 8,625
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Getting "legally" married before the big day.
Adsco, 25 September, 2014 at 18:14

Hi all, I was just wondering what people's opinions are on getting the legal side and the paperwork out the way before the big day? Is this a normal thing to do? The thing is, we have our hearts set...

Calina, saturday 12-Jul-25 16 10,125
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Civil wedding
Taiye, 29 June, 2025 at 00:04

Hi, I'm new here🥺 I'm doing my civil wedding in September or October this year, I'm looking for a venue for our intimate reception and a planner in Bournemouth, and whilst feeling overwhelmed about...

Brian159james, friday 11-Jul-25 2 48
amandam
Getting Rings blessed
amandam, 14 June, 2008 at 18:24

I've been married just over 3 years now and me and H both have had to get new wedding rings ? Mine was stolen and his cracked and hes got to have it remade He suggested getting them both blessed by...

Robert, thursday 10-Jul-25 2 6,091
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Is 12 o clock too early??
hellsbells78, 6 June, 2009 at 16:24

Am having a little stress...the church is booked for 12..but then someone said to me that was too early for me and my 3 bms to have hair and make up done?. Has anyone else out there got married at...

VittoCheri, wednesday 9-Jul-25 10 4,222
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Order of service - yes or no?
Flowerfairy, 19 July, 2009 at 14:39

Hi all, Do you think that order of service is necessary? I’m trying to think back to friends Weddings and I’m sure they didn’t have them. Can’t decide whether to go for it or not? We're having a...

Kiri, wednesday 9-Jul-25 6 402
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FREE Wedding Photographer (looking to build up my wedding photography portfolio)
LuxuriousBrownStationery65387, 14 January, 2018 at 14:29

Hi there! I'm looking to build up my wedding photography portfolio and looking to shoot your wedding/engagement shoot for FREE. I'm not a cowboy looking to screw things up at the last minute - you'd...

Tasha, tuesday 8-Jul-25 4 2,151
MrsMac2be
Honeymoon Clothes?
MrsMac2be, 10 February, 2011 at 12:26

I already have 3 really pretty maxi dresses that I bought last year for my holidays, which will be coming on HM with us, I am looking for more dresses to wear and have just bought this from e-bay......

Perwyn, tuesday 8-Jul-25 19 5,335
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writing on a pebble
hanrh, 7 August, 2012 at 14:23

Hi all, I would like all of my guests to leave messages on a pebble much like the image below. Any ideas what sort of pen/paint could be used for this? Thank you Hannah xx

Robert, tuesday 8-Jul-25 5 1,794
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Writing your own vows
Maldives2013, 29 October, 2013 at 10:33

Hello, Has anyone on here written or going to write their own vows? We both really want to do this, but i am a tad nervous and have no clue what to write, how long they should be etc. I have had a...

Ethan, tuesday 8-Jul-25 4 1,310
Jessica
Photographer 13th September
Jessica, 8 July, 2025 at 08:33

Hi, I am looking for a photographer for 13th September for a vow renewal in malvern Only need about an hour as a small ceremony, but like to capture the moment.

Jessica, tuesday 8-Jul-25 17
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Nails - Gel Overlays or Biosculpting??
BrideMrsT2B, 12 March, 2011 at 17:48

Hi Ladies, Need some nail help please. My natural nails are quite short, don't usually grow over the end of my fingertip IYKWIM so I normally go for acrylic nail extensions. The only thing is the nail...

Faysal, monday 7-Jul-25 13 22,075 1

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