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I've realised that deep down what I really want is to have a legal handfasting ceremony in the (hopefully rainy) woods at the bottom of my favourite mountains in Scotland along with our children and dog, then walk to the top for some awesome wedding...

I'm struggling to make this choice for a number of reasons. The wedding can't really be put off any longer, we've already delayed years because of pregnancy and covid and we want another baby now but want all the legal stuff in place this time, also...