Discussions I've Participated In

Hi All, We're thinking of having a ceilidh for our evening reception but I have no idea how to go about choosing a ceilidh band! Any ideas? I wonder if anyone might be able to recommend a ceilidh band...

Morning all! So..... OH and I cannot decide on a first dance. We dont have a 'song' as such but the songs that remind us of each other aren't appropriate for a wedding first dance. We dont want...

Hi, I'm getting married for a second time in the near future and am wondering if it is OK to wear my kilt for my second wedding? here's the history on my kilt: It's my family Tartan, I originally...

Hello ladies ive been thinking about posting this for a couple of weeks now but have been too nervous, I don't like to admit how shallow I am, but I am extremely uncomfortable in my own skin. I know...

Hello, i'm having an April wedding, which unless we are lucky with the weather I envisage will be mostly indoors. We are also not wanting our wedding to be too formal, neither of our mum are wearing a...

How much would you spend on a wedding videographer? Does anyone have any recommendations for a videographer in Scotland?

Hi All So I have 4 BM's and so far I've paid for their dresses and shoes and am paying for their hair and makeup on the day. I've also got them a personalised robe each, a personalised charm bracelet...

Has anyone here got married in December or January and can suggest the best time of day for the ceremony? It'll be cold, but we'll want some outdoor photos, so don't want to lose light. But equally we...

My OH is dead set on not having a wedding video, I was feeling the same until I've seen a few friends ones over the last couple of weeks. I'm just not sure if it's worth having one? It seems to be...

Hi, Can anyone recommend someone for wedding videos in the Edinburgh area? Also, roughly how much is this on average? Thanks, Clare

My OH and I are having a very low key wedding, we are both in our 40s, its my second marriage and we are keeping everything low key. He got very emotional when we went to give notice, and is adamant...

I haven't seen a thread about this and wondered if people wanted to share thoughts? I freely admit I don't know lots about the issues, only bits and pieces I've seen on sites like Buzzfeed, but would...

I am the first to admit I am woefuly ignorant on most subjects- my brain only has capicity for corporate bullshit and prosecco nowerdays. It has come to my attention that Scotland may well vote to...

Has anyone ever won? Do you think they are worth it or a waste of time?

https://www.buzzfeed.com/krystieyandoli/terribly-sexist-comments-women-have-heard-at-work so c'mon, appall us. What sexist comments have you faced at work? I had a a manager make reference to the fact...

I need some ideas please hitchers... My OH's 30th bday is coming up and he is a self confessed nerd, its xmas eve so it quite often gets overlooked being right next to xmas. Also, with it being the...

So we've decided on NZ for our hols next year and wondered where would be best to fly to start the trip? I have logged all your really helpful replies from last time. Now just need to bottom out the...

Sorry for being a dunce but how do I pronounce this bit in bold below: corinthians 12:31 - 13:8 I'm doing a reading (confirmed now!) at my friend's wedding and I forgot to ask when we were at the...

Found out today that I have fully passed my PGDE, hurrah! ? Thank you all for your support and advice over the last year, I love my Otters! ❤️

Just had my last exam so I have now finished my degree! Feeling so happy as relieved but also a little nervous for the future as I don't have a job or further study lined up yet..

...bought my husband Camembert for his birthday. Thsi is weird, no? Also, it bloody stinks - my whole house smells like dirty feet. What's the weirdest present you have ever received?

I am spending today quietly agahst at my behaviour Saturday at a work wedding I went too. Highlights include me doing the splits (twice) and showing everyone my chuff, slut dropping with the the fm...

Personally I don't like it at all but I know there are some who think it's delicious! I want to get my Dad a really nice bottle as a thank you for the wedding but I have no idea where to start. I'm...

So...Otters, new and old...lurkers and active posters...roll up roll up for the getting to know you thread... A lot of us know eachother from our WP days...but with an influx of new faces on Hitched I...

Just a quick note to anyone thinking about going for laser tattoo removal or laser hair removal. Research the company VERY carefully. I was really naïve in that I thought the worst that could happen...

We have been living in a rented property since we got together but have just had an offer accepted on a house? Our flat was pretty much fully furnished so we dont have a lot to call our own! Sooo......

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I've just moved in with the OH which is about an hour away from my family/friends. I started a new job about a month ago. I talk to everyone there and they are nice, but as they have all been there a...

Any of us OTers have any to share? My mum used to work in the theatre and once tripped up over Jack Dee who was wandering around backstage (she is very tall and he is not, and I think they crashed on...

.... won't tell his parents he has a tattoo... seriously he's a grown man of 30 but won't wear short sleeved Ts this weekend as we are staying with them for 2 days and they don't know he has one on...

Hi all, I started going the gym and various classes last spring after years of doing nothing, it was going great I felt better in myself, lost a few pounds, had more energy. Then in October I had...