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Inspired by the (possible troll) thread on 'upset bride to be'... Approx how much is your wedding costing, and how are you paying for it? Ours is going to come in at around £11-12k. My (v generous)...

So the shoes are a little tight ! I have them in a shoe stretcher so fingers crossed they give a bit and I intend to wear them in, in the weeks prior to the wedding but I can so see my feet will end...

We're going to see the venue on Wednesday to go through the final details, I have a few things to ask them but I want to get as comprehensive a list as possible. Any suggestions?

Morning all I get married on Saturday and I think we're just about there but have one burning question!! I have a train on my dress (relatively long) that definately will swish along as I walk. When...

Hiya I am looking for some help with wedding venue's. I live in Aberdeen, and I am looking for a venue that is nearby ( i would travel upto about an hour ). The type of venue im looking for is a...

At what point did you all send out your invites and did you do STD's? My OH says his friends have been asking about the invitations, puzzled as to why they havent got any yet. I am sending them out at...

Hey Ladies A friend of mine from work said that this was a good place to start from a planning perspective. We have most of the details pinned down now but the tricky part is how to phrase th invites,...

Just tried our wedding menu. Lovely! Originally we were going to offer people the choice of battered fish and chips, chicken and chips, and a vegetarian option. Tonight we tried the chicken and fish...

Hi all, Can anyone recommend a good DJ in the Shropshire/West Midlands area? Thanks?

Hi people, I want to know what do you think of pre wedding photography? It is quite costly..but why some people do it anyway? This is seems like a new trend. How much is the average cost of this...

Hi, We're having approximately 70-80 day guests and about 30-40 extra evening guests. I keep saying to people we're having quite a small wedding because I'm used to going to weddings with around...

Hi all, I am having trouble with my wedding dress order....basically, I ordered my dress yesterday and the shop ordered me a bridal size 14 which they say is a retail size 12 and this seems outrageous...

Hi all, I can't decide on what cake flavour to have. H2B wants mini individual cakes with 3 different flavours. He normally likes vanilla but he doesnt want that. I was thinking of having red velvet...

We might look over Xmas, approx 8 months before. Is that too early or does it not matter? I'm just worried on one hand I won't find something easily, and on other hand I'm worried about ordering...

I do apologise but i need a good rant!!!! Getting married 16/11/13 and have just confirmed venues and what we are having etc, i asked my bridesmaids a couple of months ago to be part of our day. I...

Didya? Didya? Why? Why not?

What are your thoughts on matching Kilts? Do you think they need to match? My fiance's tartan is the Ross Modern Hunting, the best man has a bright red one and the usher a black, deep grey and purple...

How do I set a realistic wedding bydget? There is only one wage in the house and we hope to get wed 31st October 2015.

This question is for a friend, shes getting married 30th June 2013, has already sent save the date but doesnt know when to send the actual invites! x

My OH has just had another run in with his parents about the outfits the ushers are wearing. My OH is Scottish and is wearing a kilt - however, his ushers are all English but he wants them to wear...

I've seen so many sweet buffets featured on real weddings recently - so I wanted to get your views on whether or not you're going to feature a sweet buffet at your own forthcoming wedding reception?...

Not booked a date yet but wanting to get married April 2015 as I have always dreamed of a spring cath kidston type theme wedding. I don't know how I could wait this long!!! I am thinking of september...

What is tradition? Do they all wear the same colour cravats or does the groom wear a different colour? x

There's been no arguments, it's just been very interesting to read. I shall start. 1) Friends is rubbish 2) Waving the flag of St George doesn't make me racist. 3) Child benefit should be stopped...

My wedding co-ordinator has just emailed to remind me that my menu should be decided by our meeting next week. So ladies, what would your choices be? We menu will be set, no choices on the day (I have...

I am trying to decide where to buy mine from, where did you buy yours?

Hi everyone. I was discussing favours with my better half earlier and during the conversation I said I had thought everyone should have one and my H2B said it should only be woman and further to this...

I know they're lovely, really I do, but I hate when most of the front page is good luck threads. It makes it very difficult to notice proper threads that you want to read/answer. Could they not be in...

I'm struggling to decide on a colour scheme, everything I choose I change my mind. I want to buy something so I can stick to it, however it cant be the bridesmaid dresses as one is pregnant so don't...

My fiance's best friend is getting married next week and as the time is getting closer we are hearing more and more details. There are only 6 people involved in the wedding and the couple are spending...

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