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Hi there, I'm getting married in spring next year at an estate in Somerset. The wedding will be at a small church on the house grounds, and the wedding breakfast will be at the house. My mother-in-law...

Hi, I was hoping to get some advice. My venue had a running order and I was very happy to go along with this. However that was based on a 2pm Ceremony, the registrar could only do 1pm or 3pm on that...

Hi everyone - I am new to hitched, so please be gentle! I was just wondering whether anyone had any recommendations for venues in Kent. I want it to be a great day, but I do want to try and keep the...

I'm really struggling with the top table - does etiquette require the top table to be symmetrical? My parents are divorced and my father has remarried where my mother has not and her partner is unable...

Hello all Sat down with H2B to work out our budget for the wedding. Realistically we can't afford for me to spend more than £800 on a dress (with £200 for shoes and veil etc and any alterations the...

I have 4 bridesmaids inc a maid of honour, but im having a REALLY hard time with it all. Its been the hardest part of all the planning. My MOH wont reply in the group chat i set up to make it easier,...

Hi, Wondering if I could some opinions and inspiration! We are having an intimate wedding which only includes ourselves, our 2 girls, his best friend, my best friend and her little boy. The venue...

Hi We are looking for a venue which has exclusive use, where we would have the venue for the whole weekend - perhaps for a small gathering on the Friday, overnight accommodation, ceremony and...

I recently got engaged and are planning an engagement party for family and friends. We are moving house currently and so want to keep it as cheap as possible! My MIL to be asked us what we are doing...

Hello, So me and my partner have been together 6 years and engaged for 2 years. We want to get married in 2021 as I want to be 21 years old when we get married. Anyway, we are currently in a long...

My partner and I are recently engaged and not looking to marry until summer 2021 so we have plenty of time to save for our dream wedding. However, close family members (especially my mother) have been...

Hey all ?? So the groom has unequivocally decided he’s having navy blue for himself and his groomsman. Great right? Quick simple decision. Any bride would be thrilled!! errmmm... I hate blue!!!!!...

We could afford a DJ if we stretch our budget, but we both do not want to spend extra money on unneccessary things. (We are both frugal, especially H2B). We are hoping to come under our budget, you...

Hi everyone, I'm new here and need some advice. I don't have many friends and my hen do is going to consist of probably 10-12 people, all of whom I'm very close too - mostly family. I'm not really a...

Hi ladies I am looking for some advice!! My fiance and I have recently got engaged and are starting to plan an engagement party as we won't be getting married for a couple of years. My future mother...

The venue we've chosen has a maximum number of guests for the ceremony as 70. I have a small family, and once adding friends I only get to around 25 guests. However, my partners family is huge. He...

Hi all Pretty new here as we have recently got engaged and set a date of 6th June 2020 which would be 1 year on from the date we got engaged. Since then we have arranged and booked the church, venue,...

Hello! I’m after a little bit of advice. I’ve just started planning my wedding for next year having got engaged in June. I thought I’d love planning the wedding but it’s really getting me down. Ive...

Is anyone else not having a MOH, bridesmaids, best man etc? We are planning a pretty small wedding with only 30-40 guests and have decided that we don’t see the point in having “jobs” for people when...

Hi there, I am in my final stages of picking a venue in Italy!! I am obsessed with a long table for all the guests to be sat at for the wedding breakfast but I am confused on where the wedding party...

Hi there I'm in the early stages of wedding planning and we're trying to set a date. I work in a school so it needs to be outside term-time and there's a two week half term break in October -...

Help please!! We're getting married at York Registry Office on Wednesday 28 August at 1.30pm. It's a very small, intimate ceremony as I'm estranged from my family and OH is also having family...

We are getting married next June in a really small intimate wedding with just my 2 children and both sets of parents. We are having a big reception/party 3 days later with the rest of family and...

I’m getting married in Essex next year. I have tried a guy called Adam on Piano for during wedding breakfast and he sounds amazing but fully booked! what’s everyone having re music during wedding...

We got engaged 1 month ago and it feels like it has been a very stressful month trying to find a venue! I wanted a rustic barn but we have come to realise that with the barn venue hire starting at 5k...

Hi all, I am trying to make a decision about whether to offer drinks on our bus journey between our ceremony and reception venue. We have rented a vintage London bus to take us from registry office to...

Hello, I could really use some advice. We have put together a draft guest list for our big day, which is around 75 people. Now I understand it's etiquette to invite married couples, people who are...

Hi, I am looking for some suggestions and advice in relation to deciding my wedding party. I have two kids from a previous relationship who we want involved in the wedding party as it will be there...

We Hi everyone, Apologies at the top for the rambling.... My FH and I are in the early stages of planning a September 2020 wedding. With friends and family coming from 4 different continents and 6...

Myself and BF have been together for nearly 12 years and talked on and off about getting married - but we never do. I think he feels I don't want to as much as he does (not true). For the last couple...

Hello, I recently got engaged and my idea for our wedding would be to have a Friday to Sunday/Monday celebration, all staying in the same property. Does anyone know of any venues in the South of...

Hello! We are planning to ask guests for some money for our honeymoon, as we have all of the bits and bobs that would be on a traditional gift list. Does anyone have any experience in having or using...