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Are there any older brides out there.

tracy P, 8 July, 2012 at 17:01

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Hi, I was just wondering if there are any older brides to be out there, I am 46 and sometimes feel too old to be excited about the whole wedding day. I think I am worried that I could end up looking like mutton dressed as lamb or that I just look old. I have tried to minimise the service and...

Hi, I was just wondering if there are any older brides to be out there, I am 46 and sometimes feel too old to be excited about the whole wedding day. I think I am worried that I could end up looking like mutton dressed as lamb or that I just look old. I have tried to minimise the service and reception, but I still want to feel special on that day. Does anyone else feel like this?

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  • tinasharp
    Beginner February 2013
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    Thank you all and ImagineIt you look stunning, model figure..... Beautiful dress x

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  • ImagineIt
    Beginner December 2012
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    Thank you. It was the best day and I loved every minute of it. ?

    xxx

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  • alyj66
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    Ladies, you both looked amazing. Tina, I'm glad you had a wonderful day. Seeing your pics has made me smile so much, thank you for sharing.

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  • alyj66
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    Found it and looked at it, at last! I love your theme and your cake is out of this world, you've definitely put alot of thought into it lol So which dress have you decided on and yes, I remember commenting on the ones that you did try on. Can't wait to see all your bits together, how are the BM dresses coming on? You can always PM me if you lose the thread again!

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    Hello all,been off here for awhile. Congratulations to all the newly engaged ladies on this thread and wonderful pics from Tina and Imagine it- gorgeous dresses !

    Since my last post I have received my dress which is just being altered at the moment,and our rings arrived last week so I'll have to put some pics up soon (if I can work out how to do it,lol) Have ordered my wedding jewellery as well, just debating now on what to plonk on my head because all my jewellery is rose gold,which of course matches absolutely nothing (I like a challenge) Was thinking perhaps fresh flowers may be the way to go, I will be carrying a bunch of white singapore orchids so I'm sure the hairdresser can steal one or two and pop them into my hair ?

    Anyway once I get my dress back and my jewellery arrives, I will try to get some pics posted on here !

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  • alyj66
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    I love rose gold and I think that's what our wedding rings are going to be. Any cheeky flashes of the jewellery yet?

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    No,I tried to take pictures of our rings but they didn't come out well at all! Will get OH to do it on his camera,and try to post some up. Haven't received the necklace/earrings/bracelet set I've ordered yet,it's only gold plated but I doubt I'll be wearing it again after the wedding do, so hopefully it'll do the job...:-)

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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
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    That's a gorgeous dress Imagineit, I'd only fit one leg in that sort of style though lol!

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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
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    Just a bit! I've been planning for a year now lol! I went for this one but I'm having it made in champagne coloured organza & changing the neckline to sweetheart


    The bridesmaid dresses won't be started til the Summer. I've put a deposit on the material so know I've got that. She wants the rest of the money soon so she can buy the lining material. She'll have to wait because my venue want 25% of the balance next month! x

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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
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    Aw are you pleased with your dress? Fresh flowers in your hair will be lovely & solves your dilemma! I look forward to seeing pics x

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  • alyj66
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    Sarah, I love the dress and look forward to some snaps of that too. It's a bit panic inducing everyone wanting money all at the same time. We have the expensive deposits and bits to start this summer. I'm glad that I've had a long time to plan as all the small bits (that add up) have now been bought. I have the most beautiful pew ends lol

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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
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    Thanks hun. I'm going to order it this week & it'll take about 8 weeks to arrive so you'll have a while to wait! I feel like I've designed my own dress in a way ?

    The whole paying for things is super scary lol! I realised on Friday that I've screwed my figures up in a big way so I'm in a bit of a panic now. The OH's parents are contributing but I doubt it'll be as much as I need. Oh well, it'll work out ?

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    Ok, I hope I've done this correctly...Here is a picture of my engagement ring which is 9ct hammered rose gold with a half carat chocolate diamond, my wedding ring which is 9ct rose gold bark effect and OH's which is palladium 500 hammered comfort fit band. The wedding rings are from Albarose- half the price we could have paid elsewhere and so much choice on bands-you can choose the metal,style,width and finish,we were so pleased with them :-)





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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
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    They're gorgeous and so different! I've never seen a chocolate diamond!

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    Thank you-we both wanted something a bit different and came across pics of a choc diamond ring on the jewellers website, I liked the idea of it with rose gold so my OH had it made for me. I got to choose my diamond from a selection :-)

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  • alyj66
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    I think that I would be panicking too, I don't like surprises of that nature on a good day so I feel for you. I'm really looking forward to seeing your dress.

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  • alyj66
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    Almost edible it looks so good. I'm going to look at the website now as your rose gold wedding ring has definitely made me decide that it's what I want. I think I'm going for thin and shiny as I have a white gold engagement ring. Thanks for flashing!

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  • Selenalee69
    Beginner April 2013
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    Oh, you're welcome ! It was actually a Hitcher that recommended Albarose,so thanks to them :-)

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  • Lea
    Rockstar July 2023 Kent
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    Hi all,

    Reviving this thread to ask if there are any older brides here? I'll be 52 when I get married next summer. It's a first time for the both of us.

    Does anyone have tips for hair and makeup for older brides? I'll be hiring someone to do my hair but will be doing my own makeup.

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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Yes I was 46 when I got married to my now husband and had the worries of how I'd look in my dress because of age but was reassured by my bridesmaids that I'd be an awesome male bride regardless of my age and I'd look great in my dress and ballet flats. So my advice is basically don't worry about age your going to be stunning
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  • Lea
    Rockstar July 2023 Kent
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    Thank you. Where did you get married in Kent?

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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Your so very welcome and we got married in a church near our house. Surprised a religious place let me wear a dress and ballet flats as a man lol
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  • Lea
    Rockstar July 2023 Kent
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    I suppose some churches are more open minded than others. One CofE church I attended sometimes referred to God as Her.

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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Yeah I guess they are lol, oh wow that's pretty cool and good luck on your wedding day it'll be perfect
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  • Lea
    Rockstar July 2023 Kent
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    Thank you George. That's very kind. Did your wedding go as planned? I'm sure you had a fantastic day. Have you been on honeymoon yet?

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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Yeah it went perfectly, the wedding even helped me discover that I like wearing dresses and ballet flats as a man which I now do day to day and me and my husband are going on our honeymoon to New york summer next year
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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Oh thanks so much and oh ok will def check that place out as I'd love to be able to go out for a night in one of my dresses and ballet flats
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  • Lea
    Rockstar July 2023 Kent
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    OOps. Correction. I see that the venue has changed. No longer at the Minories but in Commercial Road E14. I think I will have to go soon again. Love to have a good dance.

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  • George
    Dedicated July 2023 Kent
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    Oh ok thanks for letting me know and yeah you def should go again and yeah so do i
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