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Hi ladies, Just wondering what you are all getting your new husbands for Christmas? I would like to get mine something special with it being our first as Mr & Mrs, but I'm finding it so hard!!...

I'm in pieces. My Mum's cancer has just massively accelerated and she is coming home later today for final care. She isn;t going to make it to our wedding in August and so ill that she couldn't get...

Is anyone doing anything unusual for their top table? Like a lot of people, mine and OH's family set-up is complicated, so the traditional parents/best man/bridesmaid etc arrangement just won't work...

Hi all, I am wondering if anyone has asked for a discount on their wedding venue? We are trying to keep our budget really tight so am I being cheeky by asking or have many of you asked for a discount...

So I thought I had it all planned out. As you may know we've provisionally booked the venue and were having the more traditional wedding breakfast for 50 people followed by a big party (both our...

Out of interest, at what point in planning your wedding have you found that it gets stressful? I have really enjoyed each stage so far, but I do find that the parents and inlaws are all very set on...

Hi all! This is my first post here, got engaged on September 17th and going straight into planning as I really want to get married in October/November next year. On Sunday we are going to see a venue...

Hi All, We've been super patient with our photographer, but other than the preview collage I posted (which took 3 weeks!) we haven't seen any photos yet. Wedding was 6 weeks ago now, and I'm beginning...

When we've been planning our wedding we decided against any readings as nothing we saw seemed to fit us! Everything seemed a bit overly sentimental and soppy which is not like us at all! I've read...

Hello you lovely lot! So I have a bit of a dilemma about what to do when it comes to inviting people from work. The people I would invite are on the maybe list at the moment because I'm very backwards...

Evening I detest flowers, so we aren't having any flowers. This has left me with two decoration areas that I really need help with. The first is the hotel doesn't provide decor for the table at the...

Hi all Me and h2b are planning our wedding for next year and I need a little advice. We have decided that we do not want a fuss so are only having our 3 girls and parents there but we are not telling...

I need your help. My fiancé and I have set our wedding date for August next year, however fiancé has a brain tumour and had it operated on early August, then had a brain infection and had 2 seizures....

We've only got a few kids coming to our wedding reception and I know they will mostly have phones/tablets etc but I want to put together a couple of little bags just to keep them entertained during...

Hi, So this may seem really silly but back in July we gave notice for our marriage which isn't until May 2017. The part where we give our occupation I sort of embellished a little to make it sound...

Im in need of a bit of help. When did you give your bridesmaids, mother of bride/ groom their gifts? ive made gift bags for each of them with keepsake bits and things they can wear on the day. O I...

Hiya, do you have to let the registrar know which songs you are wanting to be played, for the walking down isle, signing & walking out? I thought I'd read somewhere that we did, but now I can't...

My fiance and I currently live in 2 different boroughs - does anyone know if we have to register intent at both boroughs? And do we both have to go to each borough, if so? I've looked online at...

We have booked our venue and it's 40 minutes from my house I know it's not far for day guests but is it too far for our evening guests? Would you travel up to an hour for a reception? Thank you

I found this little quiz online today about decorum and etiquette according to Debretts, the go to agency for such matters. https://www.buzzfeed.com/tabathaleggett/how-good-are-your-wedding-manners I...

After a discussion with one of my best friend about a recent wedding, I am wondering who you are all providing buttonholes for? Seems to be a mixed response to this.

It's a question I've thought about a lot during my wedding planning. We've had one venue reject us because we were too small a party and they wouldn't be able to have another wedding on the same day...

With literally just over three months left, I have been knuckling down and started looking at cake. Holy undercrackers Batman! I was expecting £150 - £200ish tops to feed around 60 people. Everywhere...

Me and my half have finally decided on our first dance (finally) "grow old with me" by Tom Odell. We are trying to find a clean version or a radio edit but seem to be struggling. Can anyone help with...

Hi guys We arent having flowers so need an alternative idea for what to put at the front on the table where the register sits so it looks nice for the photos. I have tried to google and all that comes...