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Ushers and Groomsmen
The future Mrs G, 11 March, 2014 at 21:22

Hi everyone, I'm a bit confused and looking for your help! Is it typical to have both groomsmen and ushers? We were planning to have 1 best man and 2 others that we had been calling ushers but from...

pammy67, tuesday 11-Mar-14 3 702
Lizzywills
Does groom have to wear same suit as ushers etc?
Lizzywills, 11 March, 2014 at 07:54

Hi We are having 6 boys age between 8 and 14, my brother who is giving me away and my OH's BIL in matching suits from a hire shop. My OH Wants a slim fit suit and was going to have it made for him in...

mooshy, tuesday 11-Mar-14 9 5,481
cinnamon009
Garter tossing?
cinnamon009, 11 March, 2014 at 14:01

So was just spending my lunch hour browsing on etsy and noticed that the garters come in pairs - one for tossing. So I googled it and it seems to be an American tradition of 'tossing' one of the...

sophiesofa, tuesday 11-Mar-14 15 2,357
Benjaminsmum
Debenhams wedding dress
Benjaminsmum, 10 March, 2014 at 19:52

Has anyone bought their wedding dress from Debenhams or a high street retailer? I've a lovely one in debenhams which I have actually bought although I still haven't decided on it yet. I will go to a...

Childhood-Sweet<3, tuesday 11-Mar-14 7 2,430
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Bridal hair, Leeds?
Mrstobe2014, 10 March, 2014 at 20:54

Hi there, I'm looking for a mobile hair stylist that can do my hair, my bridesmaids and the mother of the groom and nanna of the groom. They need to be based in Leeds, West Yorkshire as we would be...

Sezwest, tuesday 11-Mar-14 2 747
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Please please please help, looking for a venue for a dry hire wedding venue in Hampshire
macym, 11 March, 2014 at 05:41

Hi all, am new to this and hoping that someone can help. We're getting married in August 2015 and are looking for a dry hire wedding venue in Hampshire and maybe Surrey as we live in Southampton. At...

macym, tuesday 11-Mar-14 1,001
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The wedding recessional
fiffle, 10 March, 2014 at 21:28

Hello! I'm here again with yet another nugget of confusion and indecision ? My mother-in-law-to-be today mentioned to me about the recessional for after the wedding. For anyone like me who has no idea...

pammy67, monday 10-Mar-14 613
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tipping
Katty1234, 10 March, 2014 at 11:56

Hi guys! Does anyone know what the etiquette is for tipping suppliers (i.e band, other musicians, caterers) on the wedding day when you pay the balance? Obviously given that they provide good...

Hisgirl, monday 10-Mar-14 11 1,943
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sincerity 3761
suzannelewington, 10 March, 2014 at 14:35

Hi ladies. Just wondering if anyone has bought the above dress? Due to go dress shopping in two weeks. My friend dragged me in a shop before xmas and only tried two dresses on... this being one of...

suzannelewington, monday 10-Mar-14 4 1,026
daisymoo86
Clip Art Images ... where to find
daisymoo86, 10 March, 2014 at 11:03

Hi Does anyone know anyone who can create a 'clip art' image for you to use on invites etc. I've looked on google and not found what I am after, so wondered if anyone knew of someone who could make...

SillyWrong, monday 10-Mar-14 10 1,779
Love&Lavender
Veil Width
Love&Lavender, 6 March, 2014 at 09:30

Hi all, I am just about to order my veil from Pink Margaret and am unsure of what width to go for. I tried a veil on in the bridal shop that I loved, they told me it was Chapel length but didn't...

Love&Lavender, monday 10-Mar-14 10 1,753
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Bridesmaid Bonding...
, 8 March, 2014 at 22:04

Helloooo, So I have four adult bridesmaid all from different parts of my life so even though some of them may have met once or twice they don't really know each other at all. I was thinking about...

cantwait2bmrsj, saturday 8-Mar-14 2 577
DrBuffles
is this worth £600?
DrBuffles, 19 February, 2014 at 11:09

Whilst googling my venue to get inspiration I came across this image. I contacted the supplier for a quote and it's £600. They put it up and take it down for us. Do you think it's worth it? I'm...

ApricotTree, saturday 8-Mar-14 59 6,506
Mrs Rowan to be
HELP - Hen Do Stress
Mrs Rowan to be, 7 March, 2014 at 09:57

Is anyone else experiencing stressful hen do planning. I am getting to the point where i dont want one! My MOH is planning the hen do for me and running things past me before she books - problem is we...

MadamRed, saturday 8-Mar-14 18 3,261
Elixia
Getting married tomorrow!
Elixia, 6 March, 2014 at 06:39

I cant sleep, 1 because of excitement and the other because of a cold (sods law) so after 4 1/2 hous sleeps of sneezing i thought id get up pack the sweet buffet anx the house in ship shape for 8am...

Hoddy, saturday 8-Mar-14 37 3,138
MrsG_to_be
DIY Invitations - pocketfolds
MrsG_to_be, 6 March, 2014 at 12:33

Has anyone had any experience using pocketfolds for invitations - have you purchased them blank or even made them from scratch? I saw a tutorial online for making them from scratch using sheets of...

Cache13, friday 7-Mar-14 16 2,317
donnyette
booking registrar
donnyette, 26 October, 2013 at 17:16

Advice needed. It will cost us an extra 50 quid to book our registrar over a year in advance. But im worried that if I leave it to the year mark they will only have rubbish times left. Also do we need...

Civil Ceremonies, friday 7-Mar-14 26 3,193
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Pre-loved, Vera Wang!
LiverpoolB2B, 6 March, 2014 at 18:28

Hi ladies! I'm having such a dress dilemma & I've never even tried on a dress! (Yet!) I've always had 'the dress' pictured in my head & I've always loved Vera Wang's designs. So I 'stumbled'...

meandmrjones2014, friday 7-Mar-14 15 3,645
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Bridesmaid dress shopping Manchester trafford centre
rrivers, 7 March, 2014 at 09:24

I want to get through as many places as possible in the shortest possible time. Does anyone have tips tips of where to start :-)

rrivers, friday 7-Mar-14 5 3,643
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DIY Wedding Invitations... Glue Issues
emmalynch, 5 March, 2014 at 21:23

Hi All I have decided to make my own wedding invitations which has worked out cheaper. I don't know what glue i should use to stick the information bit to the card itself. I tried Pritt Stick buts its...

Jens Hand Crafted St, thursday 6-Mar-14 7 5,502
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help!! can't find a band.
conway13, 5 March, 2014 at 14:04

Hi ladies, i really cannot find a band i like or a band within my budget. I've been looking for weeks, i have emailed a couple of bands but have had no response. I really don't know what to do and i...

Sarah MC1, wednesday 5-Mar-14 4 1,137
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Venue booking nerves!
Jayla, 5 March, 2014 at 16:09

So after much thought, discussion and number crunching we have decided on a venue! Argh!!! Very excited, but also nervous. We've got to make an appointment to confirm and pay the deposit. I absolutely...

DaffodilWaves, wednesday 5-Mar-14 7 1,890
IGB2B
Charity Favours
IGB2B, 4 March, 2014 at 21:01

After lots and lots of thinking about favours, I've decided to get charity favours. Is anyone else going down this route? I'm just getting simple ones from Macmillan Cancer. They are little seed packs...

goldpants, wednesday 5-Mar-14 9 3,046
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Top table problems
Kerry29, 3 March, 2014 at 14:07

Hi, I have a problem with if we should have my Dad's fiancée (so my soon to be step mum) on the top table. The back story is my Mum died about 2 and a half years ago. My dad started seeing his fiancée...

MrsFitt2B, wednesday 5-Mar-14 10 2,555
daisymoo86
Wedding Venues in the East Midlands **Any More Advice??**
daisymoo86, 15 January, 2014 at 11:45

Hi Everyone Does anyone have any wedding venue suggestions for the East Midlands? We live in Derby, but would consider further afield, Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire and Leicestershire. Any...

MrsG_to_be, tuesday 4-Mar-14 19 3,552
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Affordable wedding venues Cambridgeshire / Bedfordshire / Hertfordshire
HappyPurpleCakes106, 3 March, 2014 at 18:04

Hi everyone! My partner and I are looking to wed in June 2016! We are struggling to find an affordable wedding venue (looking for a civil ceremony, so would like somewhere where we can get married...

Ali_G, tuesday 4-Mar-14 7 3,409
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inviting guests to the church but not to the wedding breakfast but then to evening reception
Samanthajones90, 3 March, 2014 at 20:44

Me and my fiance are getting married in a large church so we want as many as our friends and family to join us for the special moment of us saying i do. The problem is for our wedding breakfast we...

Samanthajones90, tuesday 4-Mar-14 19 8,796 1
meandmrjones2014
my son's wedding photo album
meandmrjones2014, 3 March, 2014 at 19:45

Our wedding is in three weeeks my mum got an "our daughters wedding" photo album for christmas, does anyone know where i would get a MY SONS WEDDING album as my OH mum is on her own??

miss pickle, monday 3-Mar-14 4 2,751
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Berrow Court - Edgbaston
lucy_x, 16 March, 2012 at 18:03

Hi Everyone We recently went to veiw Berrow Court in Edgbaston/Birmingham and really love the venue itself, but have notcied the is quite a few bad reviews on the place and have been told by a friend...

DaffodilWaves, monday 3-Mar-14 10 7,635
Fcheeks
Personalised wedding beer labels help!
Fcheeks, 2 March, 2014 at 18:02

Hi everyone, hoping for some help from fellow brides to be! Out of the goodness of their hearts, a friend of my MIL has offered to make our wedding favours for us, home brewed beer! Had our tasting...

Fcheeks, monday 3-Mar-14 10 2,452
flowersinherhair
50 days to go flash!
flowersinherhair, 2 March, 2014 at 12:15

Make yourself a brew cause it's a long one! Venue - Reception room. Ceremony room. Outside by the lake. Outside the venue. My dress. My bouquet inspiration. Bridesmaid dresses. Bridesmaid bouquets...

BarcaGirl25, monday 3-Mar-14 33 3,084
ShropshireLass
Bridal March vs Canon in D
ShropshireLass, 3 March, 2014 at 13:02

I thought I'd made my mind up about my entrance music but apparently not... Initailly I said I'd have the traditional 'here comes the bride' as it's a church wedding & for us, it wouldn't be right...

ShropshireLass, monday 3-Mar-14 7 3,089

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