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Paper plates vs china
, 23 February, 2014 at 18:25

Hello, after getting married abroad were having a uk reception in a barn with a BBQ buffet rather than sit flown meal. We're not having a table plan or anything as we want it casual. The caterers...

celticcurl, sunday 23-Feb-14 16 1,888
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Wedding rings ordered ! Tick !
CoopsJ68, 23 February, 2014 at 20:16

Another thing ticked off the list this weekend. Me and the OH went and ordered our rings yesterday. We had already been to the shop a couple of weeks ago to try them out and see what we really...

gpc1, sunday 23-Feb-14 426
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Bra to wear with mori lee 5103
MP, 23 February, 2014 at 14:37

Hi, has anyone bought the mori lee 5103 dress? It looks great and I would like to buy it but I am concerned about the bra. I believe it would probably require a strapless bra and what about the back?...

MP, sunday 23-Feb-14 7 3,743
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Where to buy sweets?
2014bride, 22 February, 2014 at 11:44

As the title says really. We are starting to think about getting sweets for or sweet table but not sure where to bulk buy from. Any suggestions? TIA xx

BarcaGirl25, sunday 23-Feb-14 7 1,381
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What song are you walking down the aisle to ....?
LYONS2BE, 12 February, 2014 at 20:46

We are really struggling to agree, up wants something up beat. We are having the best day of our life by American authors to walk out too, but struggling on walking down.

MrsG_to_be, sunday 23-Feb-14 25 4,535
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It's my hen day eve!!!!
Sooperdooper, 22 February, 2014 at 20:54

Yay, tomorrow I am off for a spa day!!! Totally self indulgent post, but I needed to share!! X

miss pickle, sunday 23-Feb-14 4 809
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Interview at the registry office
MrsB2015, 17 February, 2014 at 22:09

Hi all Has anyone had had to have a meeting at the registry office before giving notice? My OH is Canadian but has lived in the uk since he was 3 and his mum is British. They said we need to go for a...

IGB2B, saturday 22-Feb-14 5 4,886
Woody13
wearing red as a wedding guest?
Woody13, 22 February, 2014 at 10:22

My brother is getting married. His wedding is going to be quite a big affair. I have fallen in love with a red maxi dress. I don't want to offend anyone though, might it come across that I'm trying...

RLB, saturday 22-Feb-14 11 7,214
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Flip flop basket size help please
MrsB2015, 19 February, 2014 at 23:26

Hi girls. Managed to talk the OH into the flip flop basket idea. I have seen a basket on eBay which is perfect as our theme is red. The only problem is sizes. Don't know how many pairs will fit in the...

July2014 bride, saturday 22-Feb-14 1 1,181
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NICE dry hire/BYOB wedding venue SE England help!
carlandkirsty, 18 September, 2013 at 13:41

We are planning on getting married sometime in the first half of next year. We aren't fussy. We don't have a day or date in mind. All we want is to be able to bring in our own caterers and provide our...

FALR, saturday 22-Feb-14 28 23,170
DrBuffles
MOH keeps calling me a bridezilla
DrBuffles, 19 February, 2014 at 09:03

I don't want this to be a moany bridesmaid post but I'm getting a bit tired of my MOH calling me a bridezilla when I really don't think I am. I fully understand that not everyone thinks my wedding is...

memoriezz, saturday 22-Feb-14 23 2,722
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Tealights
loves-young-dream, 22 February, 2014 at 08:10

Where did you get your tealights from? I'm looking for some that'll last a while through the evening reception! Thanks

Teal, saturday 22-Feb-14 1 867
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Problems with our reception venue - advice appreciated!
reindeerman, 21 February, 2014 at 11:37

Hi all, Long-time lurker, first-time poster. We're having a lot of trouble with the venue we've found for our wedding reception, and we would be so grateful for any advice, suggestions or anecdotes...

Ohwhatatuesday, friday 21-Feb-14 23 4,322
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Registry Office asking for so much information
abimh87, 21 February, 2014 at 14:18

Hi Ladies, I am more of a 'reader' than a 'writer' on here, but I feel I need to vent and was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. We are getting married at a beautiful civil ceremony venue,...

Helenia, friday 21-Feb-14 8 1,473
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I've had enough :-(
Sarah5790, 21 February, 2014 at 14:22

This is more of a rant but if anyone could offer advise it would be appreciated I am feeling so down right now I'm beginning to wish we'd never planned this wedding I love him more than anything and...

sophiesofa, friday 21-Feb-14 13 1,968
mooshy
Evening invitations - work colleagues
mooshy, 21 February, 2014 at 00:25

My situation is this: I've worked in my current department for almost 5 years but next week I'm leaving to move to another department. There are a small handful of people I consider I have a close...

mooshy, friday 21-Feb-14 7 2,293
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London Venues with a difference! Help!!!
Emilyjane5, 19 February, 2014 at 14:17

Hi, Is there anyone getting married in a less than traditional venue in London? I found one near canary Wharf, which is an old light house. I fell in love with it straight away as I love the contrast...

DJ Hire, friday 21-Feb-14 20 6,214
bluebubbins
Hair accessories
bluebubbins, 20 February, 2014 at 18:39

Hello! I'm looking at buying some bridal combs but I'm having a problem finding shops where I can go in and look at them. I'm reluctan to buy online in case I don't like them. I'm based in Yorkshire...

F&GBride, thursday 20-Feb-14 514
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The Cookie Thief – by Valerie Cox - This poem shows how sometimes things are not allways what we think they are.
spain202, 20 February, 2014 at 14:42

Hi Ladies, I love this poem (excuses the punctuation as I have copied it from internet), its by Valerie Cox and its called The Cookie thief. Thought it may make you smile. To quote mark Twain -' The...

Trish2014, thursday 20-Feb-14 4 1,159
Ohwhatatuesday
I'm officially a loser
Ohwhatatuesday, 19 February, 2014 at 19:19

I bought these crisps today just because they go out of date on our wedding date and I got excited. I'm not even going to eat them. This wedding has made me mushy!

AuntieBJ, thursday 20-Feb-14 25 2,136
Barnett2015
Altar ideas for a barn wedding
Barnett2015, 20 February, 2014 at 11:33

Hello wedding lovers! I am usually lurker and tend to read on my lunch break and don't usually join in BUT i am getting married April 2015 at East Riddlesdon Hall. Because of the size of OH's family...

Fcheeks, thursday 20-Feb-14 9 2,621
BrideCummins14
Disposable cameras
BrideCummins14, 19 February, 2014 at 14:54

Hi ladies, H2B wants disposable cameras on the tables at the wedding, any idea where we can get some cheap - looked on ebay best I can get is £.50 a camera, thought I'd ask on here as you ladies...

BrideCummins14, thursday 20-Feb-14 9 1,512
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help with a "ceremony only" venue please!! :(
dawnx16, 18 February, 2014 at 12:20

Hi all, me and my fiance are Chinese and found the perfect restaurant in London for the wedding breakfast Chinese style. Unfortunately it's very hard to find a venue in London or in the surrounding...

dawnx16, wednesday 19-Feb-14 5 1,558
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Home Bargains
babybl00, 18 February, 2014 at 17:05

Firstly, apologies for any typo's- I am on my phone. Just popped into Home Bargains & they are selling diamante edged mirror plates for £!.99 for small, £3.49 for medium & £4.99 for large....

babybl00, wednesday 19-Feb-14 5 3,406
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Gift List wording help please
machollie85, 13 January, 2014 at 14:51

Can anyone help please: I have looked over poems but none really say what we want it to say. We don't want a gift list as don't anything we would rather have the cash to use towards things. NOT VERY...

AuntieBJ, wednesday 19-Feb-14 15 4,112
beccak
Is a patterend/striped tie ok for the groom?
beccak, 16 February, 2014 at 22:42

My fiance hasn't shown much interest in his outfit so far so I'm trying to move things along a bit by showing him some possibilities. For background, our wedding is going to be in September at a big...

beccak, tuesday 18-Feb-14 5 3,829
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Hen Night - Male life drawing
JaneMcP, 14 February, 2014 at 13:50

Hi there Has anyone had any experience of male life drawing for a hen party? I've heard good and bad reviews - some people saying it was just a bit of naughty fun and very tame, other people saying it...

Lady V, tuesday 18-Feb-14 6 2,146
Chucklevision
Hertfordshire brides
Chucklevision, 13 February, 2014 at 22:19

Hi all, I'm a relative newbie to the site so apologies if this a rehash of a previous website. Me & H2B are looking to get married March 2015 and are struggling to find a venue we both like. We...

Peter, tuesday 18-Feb-14 15 2,353
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I have ordered my wedding dress from China ....
LYONS2BE, 17 February, 2014 at 19:09

And now I am nervous as hell reading all the posts, on here. The feedback is great for the buyer, but still nervous.

bliss_balloons, tuesday 18-Feb-14 11 3,522
Mrs B to be :o)
Feeding your photographer and toastmaster
Mrs B to be :o), 17 February, 2014 at 12:57

I know this is a really random question but are any of you including your photographer and toastmaster in your number of meals needed on your big day? It will be another £150 (£75 per head) for us. I...

Jes22, tuesday 18-Feb-14 17 2,625
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Hate my bridesmaid dresses...
jo-jo1983, 17 February, 2014 at 19:40

So was all excited as got a call to say the bridesmaid dresses are in . Went with my mum and 2 bridesmaids today and i HATE them. Didn't like them as soon as i saw them hanging up and then when they...

jo-jo1983, monday 17-Feb-14 2 1,502
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Castle hotel Tamworth
conway13, 17 February, 2014 at 19:01

Hi has anyone ever had their wedding reception at the castle hotel tamworth. H ow did you find it, how did you manage parking their as im a bit concerned about guests who have cars parking as the...

conway13, monday 17-Feb-14 593

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