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Venue hunting advice/tips?
Mrs-c-to-be17, 3 March, 2014 at 08:35

Hi we're in the process of choosing a venue, at the moment I've just been looking online an forming a shortlist of places we like the look of. We want to start viewing them soon, I'm just wondering...

Bumble19, monday 3-Mar-14 483
slou90
Is it normal to arrange transport for the grooms parents ?
slou90, 2 March, 2014 at 17:53

So we have a super right budget - I am going venue in a borrowed vintage car with my step dad. My bridesmaids ( well 4 of them ) will be going in a family friends car which is lush with a bow on it....

mariannechuaphotogra, monday 3-Mar-14 11 1,787
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No children at our wedding
tohaveandtohold14, 24 February, 2014 at 21:52

Hey everyone, After much deliberation we've made the call on just inviting family children who are in the bridal /wedding party. That's two nephews and a young bridesmaid. We made the decision because...

slou90, sunday 2-Mar-14 58 5,722
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Seaside themed sweet buffet
, 17 February, 2014 at 16:32

Hey I need a little help. we are having a seaside themed sweet buffet. I'm thinking of having: haribo turtles haribo freaky fish shrimps jelly dolphins starfish sweets ice cream cones (either foamy or...

Fran @ Hitched, sunday 2-Mar-14 6 3,336
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Flowergirl hair style and accesories
Sooperdooper, 27 February, 2014 at 20:59

What are you or did you do with your flowergirls hair? Did they have little tiaras, or did you have something else? Inspiration needed.

Lemon Violet, sunday 2-Mar-14 4 2,325
I-go-by-many-names
Colours
I-go-by-many-names, 23 February, 2014 at 23:42

There's a woman at work who keeps asking me if I've decided on colours and has used the term 'palette.' I'm not very artistic and not sure where to start on choosing wedding colours- any tips? How did...

Cupcake26, sunday 2-Mar-14 18 3,303
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Offended my future sister in law already
ymaohyd, 28 February, 2014 at 10:49

Hey ladies I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I found out from my step daughter that my sister in law to be thinks I am mean for not having my OH's nieces as my bridesmaids. I was...

Erin8, sunday 2-Mar-14 11 3,092
cantwait2bmrsj
Lovely poem if having SIL to be as a bridesmaid
cantwait2bmrsj, 28 February, 2014 at 12:30

Hi, I just found a lovely poem for a thank you card if you're having your SIL to be as one of your bridesmaids so thought I'd share! "The day that I marry, our families will blend, you'll be my sister...

madmadammim, sunday 2-Mar-14 1 750
donnyette
anybody making their own bouquet and buttonholes?
donnyette, 1 March, 2014 at 16:33

I wonder if anybody has any advice on how to source and make real or artificial flowers to make our own bouquets and buttonholes. I have been dress shopoing and have fell in love with a dress £300...

MrsToffee, saturday 1-Mar-14 19 2,575
alabastamasta
Mobile hairdressers in Leamington - Any recommendations?
alabastamasta, 28 February, 2014 at 14:10

Hiya everyone, I've been chatting with my Chief Bridesmaid who is doing my hair and makeup, and have decided to get someone in to do all the BMs' and MOB's hair to help her out. Does anyone have any...

Jens Hand Crafted St, friday 28-Feb-14 3 769
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Hen Party - small gift ideas?
MOH to be, 28 February, 2014 at 14:24

Hi All, I have the task of planning my sisters hen and the day itself is sorted but i want to play a sort of game with her Nothing mean just a cheeky Q&A which im going to enlist the help of my...

Teal, friday 28-Feb-14 1 1,122
Elixia
I may have gotten the hairdresser fired :S
Elixia, 24 February, 2014 at 20:21

So tonight was my hair and makeup trail! I booked it after work so i could get it in on time and without too much travelling. Anyway, I got there and met the MUA we talked for a little bit and got...

Elixia, friday 28-Feb-14 20 2,584
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Dress loan from designer fees
Bumble19, 27 February, 2014 at 16:37

Hi all, I've had my eye on a dress which I really like on the internet and have contacted all the suppliers near me to ask if they stock it. Unfortunately none of them do but I have been offered that...

Bumble19, friday 28-Feb-14 10 1,701
mickeyandminnie
Church wedding - Choir
mickeyandminnie, 26 February, 2014 at 10:54

Hi All, Our parish doesn't have a worship group (apparently this is the new name for choir now days within the church) They have suggested that they can get an external choir group in for our wedding...

BrideCummins14, friday 28-Feb-14 8 1,557
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Ideas for sweet tables...but not sweets lol
hfraser87, 10 January, 2014 at 21:55

Hey everyone! So I'm looking for ideas on things to have in the evening. I want something like a sweet table...but not a sweet table haha as my close friend had one so want to be different. She also...

DaffodilWaves, thursday 27-Feb-14 24 3,109
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What happens after you give notice?
HundredMonkeys, 27 February, 2014 at 08:30

Hey all, So we gave notice at the end of January at a registry office in the place we live in. They said that the "16 days notice" period would start and then they would send confirmation to the...

miss pickle, thursday 27-Feb-14 11 10,572
Elixia
face lift in a bottle for mum - advise please :)
Elixia, 26 February, 2014 at 15:29

Ok, my mum had asked me to get her this: https://www.idealworld.tv/gb/Skineance_Fast_Lift_30ml_with_Applicator_Brush.aspx?p=1 she's says she'll give me the money back, its just she doesn't like buy...

Elixia, thursday 27-Feb-14 6 1,516
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How wide is your wedding ring? *Now with flashes*
MrsACF, 25 February, 2014 at 21:54

Have got some samples of potential wedding rings today from jeweller and struggling to decide on widths. I have quite small fingers and a 2mm band matches pretty well with my engagement ring. But when...

MrsACF, thursday 27-Feb-14 22 3,121
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Friendship fallout
tohaveandtohold14, 19 February, 2014 at 20:55

I have fallen out with a really close friend who I considered my best friend. We have known each other since we are 12 and are now 30 and although we moved away have never lost touch and for the last...

tohaveandtohold14, wednesday 26-Feb-14 11 3,431
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Pansy Potters in Newcastle upon Tyne
TaraS87, 26 February, 2014 at 22:15

Hi I just wondered if anyone had used or is planning on using pansy potters for their wedding flower arrangements? I booked Scott at Panay Potters last April and paid £100 deposit but haven't been...

TaraS87, wednesday 26-Feb-14 378
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Hen party help
Nicola_25, 26 February, 2014 at 12:26

I have decided on my hen party which is at bistro live. However it is over 18's and my younger sister is 17, I thought that I could get away with pretending she is 18 she looks older than me also she...

Nicola_25, wednesday 26-Feb-14 16 1,934
miss_winter14
sweetie/candy bar? mismatched jars?
miss_winter14, 17 January, 2014 at 15:34

Is anyone having their own sweetie/candy bar (by own i'm meaning not hired- totally DIY), and if so, do your jars match or are they eclectic? we're having a sweetie bar now (last min addition) and i'm...

Wedding Photography, wednesday 26-Feb-14 14 2,713
cinnamon009
Teenage bridesmaids - when to buy their dresses
cinnamon009, 17 February, 2014 at 12:05

I'm having a dilemma over the two teenage bridesmaid dresses. I've seen the perfect dresses, which they both like (which was an uphill battle with two teens!!) but I'm worried if I buy them now they...

NikkyBebe, wednesday 26-Feb-14 10 3,362
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Please can anybody advise on venues Gosfield hall?? or Down hall??
Mrs leach to be, 31 January, 2013 at 17:51

Hi Im hoping for loads of advice we are stuck between 2 venues we love for different reasons. Im wondering if anybody has any experience with these venues or ideally been to both?? x

BrideCummins14, wednesday 26-Feb-14 15 2,299
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How much are you spending on your centrepieces?
*CrazyCatLady*, 25 February, 2014 at 00:02

Hi all! So we've set the date for March 2015 and now we're all systems go! We found our dream venue which was slightly *ahem* over budget so are now trying to figure out how much we should be spending...

Wife In Training, tuesday 25-Feb-14 21 11,552
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Wedding Cake size?
loopy_linzi003, 25 February, 2014 at 20:13

Hi everyone, just looking for a little advice really. The venue have changed our package to now include our wedding cake, I have had some rough dimensions from the cake supplier and I can basically...

halechap, tuesday 25-Feb-14 4 1,185
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Page Boy Suits
, 1 July, 2011 at 17:16

Hi all, we are really struggling with what to dress our two boys in for the wedding! OH is wearing a grey suit with ivory waistcoat and cravat. BM, Usher and FIL2B are all wearing grey suits with...

ShropshireLass, tuesday 25-Feb-14 11 5,202
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Shrug/cardigan for adult bridesmaid
nemi, 25 February, 2014 at 13:05

I have an adult bridesmaid (approx size 8) who never usually wears dresses but had agreed to wear one for my big day. However she feels uncomforatable with the 'low cut' (although its not that low in...

Lady V, tuesday 25-Feb-14 956
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Can I unbridesmaid?
s0phaz, 24 February, 2014 at 23:14

I'm having doubts over one of my bridemaid choiices, i almost feel she's not really bothered, we were best friends at school and college, but rarely see each other thses days living quite far from...

s0phaz, tuesday 25-Feb-14 9 2,749
MrsHD2015
Flash your fishtail/mermaid style wedding dress
MrsHD2015, 22 February, 2014 at 13:41

It's a bit of an odd request but I am considering this style but would love to see it on some real brides first? ( I am sick of looking at the same stick thin bean pole models!)

Aykay, monday 24-Feb-14 16 3,673
fayef
What colour shoes and 'cardigan' for claret red dresses?
fayef, 24 February, 2014 at 13:38

Hi, I'm just looking for some advice on colours! My wedding colours are ivory and claret/burgundy red. My dress is ivory and I would like the bridesmaids to be in claret/burgundy colour dresses, but...

fayef, monday 24-Feb-14 5 4,558
MissKB
I've upset a bridesmaid, dont know what to do!
MissKB, 21 February, 2014 at 09:46

Hey guys, im in a bit of a situation now and could really do with some advice from fellow brides. My OH has his own opinion and it doesnt really help!! Bit of background. I'm getting married in June...

3d jewellery, monday 24-Feb-14 39 3,697

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