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Timing of make up & hair trial
Sarah, 20 August, 2021 at 15:52

Hey everyone I am bored at work so working on my wedding timeline spreadsheet! I'm trying to be super organized and keep a timeline of what I need to have done and by when in the hopes of making the...

Elena, wednesday 25-Aug-21 3 223
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Changing your name by Deed Poll
MrsB-to-be, 9 April, 2013 at 23:01

After some advice... I'm getting married in 6 weeks and I intend to double barrel my surname, rather than take my H2B's surname on it's own. To do this I know I have to change my name by deed poll,...

Marcus, sunday 22-Aug-21 12 1,341
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Order of Service
Sarah, 17 August, 2021 at 09:34

Is it a thing for each guest to have their own order of service card on their seat or more standard to have a sign somewhere? I thought I would like to make my own order of service cards and attach an...

Sarah, friday 20-Aug-21 5 237
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Emerald Cut Engagement Rings
Moonbeam88, 9 September, 2015 at 20:03

Long story but after an issue with the diamond falling out of my ring I am having to have a new one. I want to get it from the original jewelers that my OH picked my original ring from and there are...

Danielle, thursday 19-Aug-21 6 1,643
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Show me your sparkle!!
Bektoria, 23 April, 2015 at 11:10

Ladies! Can you please post pictures of your ER, Carat, specs, finger size and where you acquired it from? I'm looking for inspiration, its a toss up between an emerald cut and a round brilliant cut....

Danielle, thursday 19-Aug-21 38 9,983
MrsMac2be
Feeling old and ugly following make-up trial :( *Now updated with Flashes*
MrsMac2be, 18 July, 2014 at 22:01

I had my 1st make-up trial yesterday and I looked like a sodding clown, with gold and black eyeshadow, eyeliner on my waterline which made my eyes look small and "piggy" together with bright orange...

BABA, thursday 5-Aug-21 28 3,936
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Asking for contributions towards honeymoon
vivalasvegas, 15 April, 2012 at 08:30

Hi everyone, my H2B and I would like to ask people to contribute towards our honeymoon, rather than buy us gifts, as a) we have lived together for years and have everything we need, and b) live...

Chloe, thursday 5-Aug-21 28 34,411
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Honeymoon fund instead of gift list - rude?
thedawnbringer, 29 January, 2014 at 17:50

Hi, I'm thinking of setting up a list on justthething. One of the pre-made things on there is a honeymoon fund where people can buy vouchers from £10 - £250 and it goes towards your honeymoon. I'd add...

Chloe, thursday 5-Aug-21 212 17,350 1
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Dry hire venue with late late licence for German/English Wedding
ExpensiveYellowBridesmaid57720, 3 October, 2019 at 11:25

Hi all, we are currently looking for a dry-hire / very flexible wedding location that allows us to host 120-130 guests. We would love a big country house that also has rooms to sleep. In Germany...

Nathalie, tuesday 3-Aug-21 1 285
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Registrars have finally come back to me!!!!! :-) :-) :-)
Sarah, 29 July, 2021 at 15:00

So happy right now!!! After 7 anxious weeks the registrars have finally called me and confirmed my ceremony time. Even though I put my request in at 4.30am two years to the day I didn't get / couldn't...

Sarah, monday 2-Aug-21 6 173
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Timings
Sarah, 29 July, 2021 at 16:42

How long is recommended to leave between my hair and makeup being finished and the car arriving? Is it ok to have an hour and a half where I can chill and have some final photos before the bridesmaid...

PhotographybyBillHad, friday 30-Jul-21 2 133
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i have decided wedding dresses are like Jeans!
Sarah, 28 July, 2021 at 11:03

So I hate Jean shopping as they either fit my waist and legs but not bum or fit bum but too loose on waist etc so I rarely shop for Jeans! I'm glad I (hopefully) will only ever need to buy 1 wedding...

Michelle, wednesday 28-Jul-21 6 152 1
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Where are you staying on the wedding night?
lucyjo, 9 January, 2017 at 14:02

Our venue doesn't offer accommodation so we're having to make our own plans for what to do on the night of the wedding. Just out of curiosity, quick show of hands.....are there any other brides doing...

gabrisweet, tuesday 27-Jul-21 10 1,670
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Can you add sparkle to a veil?
xlovebirdsx, 14 May, 2012 at 07:43

Ive ordered my veil, the ribbon edge matches the ribboning on my dress so I thought it was perfect, but Ive just realised that its plain and I would have loved a sparlky one! What can I do?

Denise, tuesday 27-Jul-21 1 754
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Fallen out with bridesmaid & family members 2 weeks before the wedding! Help!
Bets2015, 21 July, 2015 at 07:50

Hi ladies, feeling very upset and raw this morning as the fall out happened yesterday and I just don't know what to do. I have two bridesmaid - a very old friend from school and my cousin. My friend...

Andrea, thursday 22-Jul-21 23 3,546
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very nervous about telling parents we Don't want them to pay
Sarah, 9 July, 2021 at 15:56

I posted a couple of weeks ago about my dad blowing up and causing a massive scene at a meal out over a jug of gravy which cost £1 (something he does very regularly) my H2B was aware of how he is but...

Michelle, tuesday 20-Jul-21 9 378
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Supplier's website has disappeared!! STRESSED
LC to be, 24 September, 2012 at 12:24

Well I went to send my wedding venue decorator an email today to confirm some information (we were meant to meet to run through where I wanted everything) and the email bounced back. Their website has...

Michelle, saturday 17-Jul-21 35 6,129
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Norwich/Norfolk wedding help!!!!!!
faeriemagick1983, 13 July, 2011 at 13:49

We've decided after years off putting it off to get married this November. We have a really small budget of £2000 (or less if possible!) and my OH doesn't want to get married in a church and I don't...

Aaron, saturday 17-Jul-21 5 3,426
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Grace loves lace dresses
, 25 November, 2013 at 13:06

Hi Has anyone ordered their dress from Grace Loves Lace? I've fallen in love with the Loren dress: http://graceloveslace.com.au/collections/loren-ivory/ I'm obviously very worried about buying a dress...

Kenna, friday 16-Jul-21 37 36,517
beccak
Cake stand help!
beccak, 31 July, 2014 at 10:02

Has anyone bought a 14 or 15" diameter round cake stand? I'm finding it impossible to find one! We're getting married at a 'self catering' venue, so they don't have one. My cake lady only had one of...

Jayden, friday 16-Jul-21 15 8,045
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Maid of Honour Issue
Chanelle, 13 July, 2021 at 16:26

HEY ALL 👋 Just wanted some advice regarding a problem I'm having with my maid of honour. I got engaged last christmas and in my excitement I asked my best friend to be my maid of honour and she...

Tee1, thursday 15-Jul-21 11 535
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Wedding Shoes
Blondie_bride, 6 September, 2017 at 21:40

Hi all, I am struggling choosing some wedding shoes and need a bit of inspiration, I thought it would be nice if everyone could share theirs too! So lets see those lovely shoes! xx

Littlemy, thursday 15-Jul-21 20 2,650
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I need to have my engagement ring resized but don't know where I can have it done??
KumariChang, 1 November, 2011 at 20:17

I have quite a small ring size (G-H) and when my fiance proposed to me he had already bought the engagement ring in the smallest size they offered which was a size J and even though it is a couple of...

Carolyn, wednesday 14-Jul-21 5 15,857
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Chat to Hitched Editor about your wedding planning
Sarah, 27 April, 2021 at 17:53

Hi all Hope you're well! I am looking to chat to brides and grooms about their wedding planning, to help inform our content strategy at Hitched. Whether you've just got engaged or your wedding date is...

Richard, monday 12-Jul-21 10 305
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reply slips/wedding food choices wording help wanted!
beckyakabetty, 13 September, 2008 at 14:48

I have a menu for the reception and need to tell guests the choices of food available also want to incorporate music requests, reply slip (eg if they are coming or not). Has anyone got any examples...

RaeCarini, saturday 10-Jul-21 5 3,446
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Bridesmaid Dresses for younger and older same style
Sarah, 6 July, 2021 at 09:42

Hey everyone, I am having 3 bridesmaids and struggling to find anywhere other than online from China which don't have great reviews where I could get 3 dresses of the same colour and style but that...

Sarah, thursday 8-Jul-21 5 130
The Little Jewellery Box
Anyone know the cost to resize rings?
The Little Jewellery Box, 4 November, 2011 at 13:25

Hi everyone, I'm on the forum occasionally as a hitched jewellery HIB. ? Basically, I'm an old married and have lost quite a lot of weight recently and my rings are too big. I need to get all three...

Carolyn, thursday 8-Jul-21 2 14,925
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take that milion love songs??
DTTB, 16 February, 2011 at 16:00

I put a music channel on there and it was a take that day, a million love songs came on and I danced with my wee boy 2 it coz I love the song,(lightbulb moment!) I know OH likes it 2, I would like it...

Leticia, thursday 8-Jul-21 5 2,240
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Mother of Groom Transport
Sarah, 5 July, 2021 at 14:58

Hey everyone, after discussing some transport plans with the MOG & FOG yesterday I realised I have no idea what vehicle / how the mother of groom gets to the ceremony? We have a camper van which...

Kayleigh, tuesday 6-Jul-21 2 253
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Last Minute help finding a cake
JayW, 26 August, 2011 at 08:52

Hello, Anyone who can recommend a wedding cake supplier on short notice, We are getting married within 3 weeks and we still need a wedding cake. We need an affordable cake as well. Please help Jay

Debbie, friday 2-Jul-21 14 4,563
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Refund Complaint - Yes or No?
ExpensivePinkDecor51060, 9 July, 2020 at 09:34

I'm not too sure if this is the right forum for this but i needed somewhere where i could put all my thoughts together. Sorry if this is a long one.......... We are due to be getting married in...

jonathan, tuesday 29-Jun-21 9 1,178
miss.understood
Anyone not inviting a brother or sister etc?
miss.understood, 31 January, 2011 at 19:07

Or is it just me? There is 6 years between my sister and I. We don't get on, but we will go to eachothers houses as i have 2 nephews at hers, and she has a nephew here. She has made it very clear to...

Michelle, saturday 26-Jun-21 27 16,521

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