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Cosmopolitan
Dieting to fit into wedding dress
Cosmopolitan, 22 March, 2009 at 08:05

We've just confirmed our date and I want to order my dress now! I saw a dress years ago in a magazine and always said I would have that when I got married. Anyway, I popped into a local Bridal shop on...

Kim, tuesday 15-Feb-22 19 2,275
Soon2bMrsCB
Wedding Venues in kent with Hog Roast
Soon2bMrsCB, 11 September, 2012 at 15:20

Hi all Im new to this forum but am trying to plan my wedding, the only thing my h2b has asked for is if we can have a hog roast, we live in Dover so any ideas of any venues near by would be a great...

Erma, wednesday 9-Feb-22 4 1,438
Kayleigh
Evening invitations
Kayleigh, 1 February, 2022 at 21:24

So I plan to send save the dates 12months before then my formal invitations 6months before .... But what about evening only invites? Are people planning to send them at the same time as their day...

Hannah, tuesday 8-Feb-22 8 234 1
Jumbly Girl
Londoners - fitness question!
Jumbly Girl, 21 October, 2009 at 12:29

Calling fellow Londoner brides, In attempt to get in shape ahead of our wedding, I finally bitten the bullet and decided to start doing some exercise. Can anyone suggest any walk-in/pay-per-class...

Smithzane, tuesday 8-Feb-22 21 1,788
maidenheadgirl
Sweet cart/buffet Ideas and if possible a flash
maidenheadgirl, 19 June, 2012 at 14:56

Our evening buffet is not going to feature dessert so I thought a chocolate fountain or Sweetie cart would be ideal for folks with a sweet tooth. I have a friend who has a proper catering size...

Yousef, monday 7-Feb-22 13 15,663
JellyBellyBride
Do I walk in with the fur stole on or off??
JellyBellyBride, 20 August, 2014 at 16:33

While I was daydreaming about how I see the wedding going earlier today (as you do, when you're meant to be working!) I wondered if I should walk in wearing my fur stole (faux, might I add). I've got...

Jane, thursday 3-Feb-22 8 2,231
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Village hall decoration
Trollhammeran, 27 September, 2017 at 07:01

Hi. We're having our reception in the local village hall and looking for some decoration ideas. We were planning on having the dj out of the way on the stage, maybe hang some lights down in front but...

Mats, saturday 29-Jan-22 5 1,035
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What title are you going to use if you're not changing your surname?
HappyGoldCars770, 26 March, 2017 at 18:12

My partner and I are getting married in May and for a variety of reasons, I'm not intending to change my surname. I'm just wondering what other people who've chosen not to change their name have...

Grab, monday 24-Jan-22 8 1,308
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Woodland venues
ExpensiveIvoryDiamonds634, 16 September, 2016 at 20:30

Hi! I've got a dream of getting married in some woodlands, and then going to a reception maybe in a converted barn or somewhere with shelter, electricity etc! So we are all warm and dry should the...

RomanticOrangeConfet, thursday 20-Jan-22 7 1,119
SecretSquirrel123
Where did you get your Flower Girl dresses?
SecretSquirrel123, 7 May, 2012 at 10:06

Hi All, I'm having a nightmare trying to find flower girl dresses I saw some beautiful ones in Monsoon and before I knew it they were sold out - I'm kicking myself for not buying them there and then!...

Ruralinner, monday 17-Jan-22 44 16,169
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DIY decorations/props
rusticbride90, 7 February, 2016 at 16:11

Hi has anyone made or upcycled any larger props for their wedding? I bought this set of vintage wooden ladders from ebay and was planning on upcycling them but I have no idea how or where to start......

Isabella, friday 14-Jan-22 6 1,981
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Unusual Wedding Food
OneHartOrTwo, 12 May, 2016 at 11:24

Hi all, I was wondering if I could pick some brains about less traditional wedding foods. MOB and H2B are both very fussy and only really eat traditional English foods but I wonder if guest would...

Aliza, monday 10-Jan-22 21 5,535
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Venue Ideas Needed! - Self Catered
LuxuriousIvoryDiamonds60209, 3 October, 2019 at 23:03

My fiance and i are really struggling to find a wedding venue in and around Manchester, open to being further up north (Blackburn, Burnley etc) that will allow external caterers to cater for our...

LuxuriousIvoryDiamon, friday 7-Jan-22 4 524
MadamRed
Need honest opinions - am I being unreasonable?
MadamRed, 5 September, 2016 at 20:27

Ok, so long story short I have fertility issues. We've been TTC for 3 years and are going to try IVF just before/after the wedding (having to plan dates carefully for reasons I won't bore you all...

Faruk, tuesday 28-Dec-21 15 3,007
mrsbaillie2b
PREGNANT!!!!!
mrsbaillie2b, 20 August, 2008 at 10:08

Good morning all, i discovered last week that i am pregnant!!!!! yaaaayyy i am very happy about this but the baby is due 3 months before the wedding!! so i am unsure weather to postpone or not????

Faruk, tuesday 28-Dec-21 21 1,825
Elliefunt
Newborn baby and wedding
Elliefunt, 15 June, 2015 at 21:58

Hi...so a couple of months ago DP and I were chatting about our wedding (in ten months time) and said that now would be really bad timing to have a baby. Not sure what made us have that conversation...

Faruk, tuesday 28-Dec-21 9 6,958
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Newborns on the table plan?
Wife In Training, 6 November, 2014 at 20:23

Hi all, We will have two newborns at our wedding (between 2 and 8 weeks old). Do we need to include them on the table plan? We've got toddlers coming who will be on the table plan as they require...

Faruk, tuesday 28-Dec-21 11 4,490
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Flowers between Christmas and New Year-eeekk!!!
laura28040, 17 February, 2012 at 23:18

Hello, I really need some advise! Our wedding is booked for the 29th December. I have been looking into florists, and apparantly ''no-one worth their salt'' would take on flowers over this time, as...

Seirah, tuesday 28-Dec-21 18 6,131
Twigz22
Pregnant Bridesmaid Dress ASAP
Twigz22, 18 January, 2017 at 16:17

Ive just been told my bridesmaid will be half way through their pregnancy by the time my wedding comes in 2 months and still need to get bridesmaid dresses. Can anyone suggest maternity bridesmaid...

wamyood, friday 24-Dec-21 3 790
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Getting married in 4 weeks and just found out i'm 19 weeks pregnant
LuxuriousOrangeCakes868, 27 July, 2017 at 16:50

I've been planning my wedding for the last 6 months. I have not been planning on getting pregnant! However the pill failed me and i've just found out i'm 19 weeks pregnant, 4 weeks before i get...

Faruk, thursday 23-Dec-21 4 1,797
YellowDiamond
Am I the most selfish bride in the world?!
YellowDiamond, 25 October, 2015 at 10:26

Hello! im really looking for advice - and before you read any further please know I'm aware of how terrible and selfish and downright awful I'm about to sound, but it's really stressing me out! as a...

Faruk, thursday 23-Dec-21 12 2,117
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Pregnant - Would You Postpone?
, 25 January, 2012 at 15:05

Not planned at all and a complete shock considering previous circumstances (we have 2 year old twins through IVF). Only found out yesterday and guess I am around 5.5 weeks which will make me 19 weeks...

Faruk, thursday 23-Dec-21 17 4,215
cat26
I have an uninterested bridesmaid issue - need some advice
cat26, 23 January, 2009 at 18:32

☹️ I don't know where to start really and this issue is really getting me down, any advice welcomed! I have two bridesmaids (school friend and home friend) my school friend I knew had some personal...

Debbie, tuesday 21-Dec-21 6 1,550
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Wedding supplier review?
ExpensiveGoldCars649, 30 May, 2018 at 15:56

All Is this an approriate / acceptable place to publicise a very negative experience we had with a wedding supplier e.g. a hair and make up artist that did not show up or make any communication on the...

Gary, tuesday 21-Dec-21 3 1,166
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How did you find your florist?
RomanticPurpleBridesmaid38829, 22 February, 2018 at 20:25

Hi giys! My weddings not til next year but I’m already starting to freak out about the florist. Where did you look to find yours? And what did you look for? I feel like there’s a lot of florists in my...

Simon, wednesday 15-Dec-21 10 1,680
Sarah
Covid Postponement + Mental Health: Have You Been Affected?
Sarah, 30 November, 2020 at 10:58

Hi there We are looking to speak to brides and grooms whose mental health has been impacted by postponing their wedding and Covid. If you feel your mental health has been affected and you would like...

Anthony, wednesday 8-Dec-21 173 1
Lucy
Win Exciting Prizes with the Hitched Advent Calendar!
Lucy, 1 December, 2021 at 10:18

Happy 1st December! The countdown to Christmas is well and truly on and here at Hitched we have some seriously exciting news to get you in the festive spirit - our very own Hitched advent calendar !...

Lucy, wednesday 1-Dec-21 155
NorthernLights
Wedding Venues in Derbyshire Heeelllpp.
NorthernLights, 7 March, 2016 at 11:19

Hi Guys, Right at the start of our wedding planning and need some help! We're looking for a venue, my parents would like us to get married in Derbyshire which is totally cool.... However, My partner...

Knockerdown, tuesday 30-Nov-21 10 1,320
Red Baroness
Guest Books - How Many Pages?
Red Baroness, 29 May, 2012 at 14:10

I'm going to put together a photobook, with blank pages, of images from our pre wedding shoot for our guest book. I know some of you have done similar things. How many blank pages for writing on do...

Katies, saturday 27-Nov-21 1 602
chicken82
teeth whitening
chicken82, 19 February, 2009 at 15:26

My dentist quoted me £200 for teeth whitening today - and i cant afford it. So, i could either get a home kit or her suggestion was to go to the hygenist who can give them a fab clean up for £45 (she...

ashleysummer, friday 19-Nov-21 7 1,086
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How long to hear back from registrars?
Sarah, 5 July, 2021 at 10:28

Hey everyone, I am in Worcestershire and have to book registrar via an online enquiry form on the councils website which I did one month ago...still not heard anything back from them. Anyone else had...

Laura, friday 19-Nov-21 33 2,054 1
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Money gifts acceptable in Scotland? How do you ask? How much on average?
RomanticBrownDiamonds829, 9 May, 2017 at 00:40

Hello ladies, This question might be strange, I hope not. My fiancé is Scottish and he tells me there it's not customary for family or guests to give money gifts at weddings. In Spain, weddings cost...

Byron, friday 12-Nov-21 9 6,050

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