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Sparkly dance floor!
crazyhaley, 7 April, 2013 at 11:17

Hi is anybody else planning to have a sparkly dancefloor, really fancy having a white one with lights :-)

Mohsin, monday 8-Dec-25 24 2,810
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Nurses and wedding rings
, 26 September, 2012 at 19:15

I'm struggling to figure out what to do about my wedding ring. I can't flash because I'm on my phone, but I've flashed the rings before, if anyone can hunt it down on the engagement ring thread.. The...

Jolip, monday 8-Dec-25 40 13,360
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Short Wedding Dresses
mbunnage, 25 November, 2015 at 13:34

Hello everyone, I'm looking for short/tea length wedding dresses and its proving a bit difficult, I can find photos of some online, but hardly any of the stockists I've spoken too actually have any in...

Deveon, sunday 7-Dec-25 23 3,348
miss_winter14
soft background music for guest arrival?
miss_winter14, 3 March, 2015 at 17:00

You know by now, i'm useless with music- if they're not shouting and screaming, i'm not really there. well i need some soft background music to make a playlist for when guests are arriving to the...

Hjngfngfhgf, friday 5-Dec-25 29 6,864
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Wedding abroad
Tracey, 10 June, 2025 at 12:23

This is really far fetched, anyone planning a wedding in Egypt or Arab country? Losing sight of the important parts and not sure how to keep all guests happy!

Mailyza, friday 5-Dec-25 8 113
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Saving where it can't be touched!
BrideFeb2019, 23 August, 2017 at 23:54

I've been engaged over 2 years now, but just decided a date and started planning! One thing I'm concerned about is saving. I want to be able to see the money going up, but not touch it! Has anyone got...

Kuai, friday 5-Dec-25 4 1,718
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Guests' expectations food and drink wise at evening do?
SJ&J, 15 February, 2013 at 11:46

Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation to mine re their evening do and may have any tips/suggestions/reassurance!? We're on a very tight budget with only 20 or so close family for a...

Harry, thursday 4-Dec-25 10 2,857
Katy
What size cake for 100 guests in the evening?
Katy, 4 December, 2025 at 09:44

Hi, I am looking for an idea of what tier of cake would be enough for 60 day guests and 100 evening guests. I am currently thinking a 3-tier cake would be enough, but I'm not sure if I'd be better off...

Katy, thursday 4-Dec-25 9
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MOTHER OF THE GROOM HAS BROUGHT A CREAM DRESS BY THE SAME DESIGNER
Groom UK, 15 April, 2014 at 12:28

Hi, I'm the groom and this is my first ever forum post of any kind BUT I need some advice! My Fiancée saved up for a long time to buy a wedding dress from a rather special designer in ivory. Upon...

Victoria, thursday 4-Dec-25 74 14,977
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Early ceremony- all day wedding
SunnyGreenDiamonds532, 24 March, 2016 at 23:47

Hi Guys This is my first post so please be kind :-) Basically I am planning a (last minute) wedding for this summer in The Lakes on the August Bank Holiday Sunday- there's a surprising number of...

Andero, thursday 4-Dec-25 12 3,929
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nice keepsakes for bride on hen night?
JJJ, 24 September, 2009 at 17:29

Has anyone got any ideas of something nice i can do for the bride on her hen night? A surprise of some sort or a present / keepsake type thing? I was thinking of a book with 'tips for marriage' or...

Voocccie, wednesday 3-Dec-25 5 26,554
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Hangover kits!
LiverpoolB2B, 17 May, 2016 at 10:32

Hi Ladies! Im 17 days to go (OMG!!) and I'm just planning on putting together my hangover kits for the guests which will be placed on the bar during the evening reception! I wasn't going to do it but...

Wasif, wednesday 3-Dec-25 13 18,068 1
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Wedding gift - money
HappyBrownCakes385, 15 August, 2015 at 13:30

Many of our guests are asking if we will have a gift registry or gift list, we haven't yet sent out the invitations and don't want to offend our guests but rather then gifts, for those who insist on...

Kuai, monday 1-Dec-25 18 2,541
judeclarke
Men at a hen party?
judeclarke, 18 July, 2011 at 14:51

Is anyone else inviting male friends to their hen party? Or are you sticking to traditional 'girls only'? And would you go to a hen night (dinner & drinks) if you knew there would be a couple of...

Alexanderhiggins, monday 1-Dec-25 14 19,287
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Flowers between Christmas and New Year-eeekk!!!
laura28040, 17 February, 2012 at 23:18

Hello, I really need some advise! Our wedding is booked for the 29th December. I have been looking into florists, and apparantly ''no-one worth their salt'' would take on flowers over this time, as...

Jaxon, saturday 29-Nov-25 19 6,462
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Picnic?
Lannyx3, 2 February, 2014 at 21:47

So after 4 marvellously long years including buying a home and two beautiful children, my OH finally proposed on Xmas Eve! Wooop. We have chosen the venue and date 16th May 2016! The venue is an Old...

Jolden, saturday 29-Nov-25 12 3,034
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Shirts and cravats
Chedi, 29 September, 2012 at 22:51

Does anyone know what mens shirt do you get to wear with a cravat? I seem to find options for 'day shirts', 'standard collar', 'wing collar', 'swept back collar', 'marcella dress shirt', and 'jacobean...

Andriy, friday 28-Nov-25 2 5,274
Dani
Here's your checklist 101 ✅
Dani, 12 June, 2025 at 10:12

Keep your wedding planning stress-free and organised with the free wedding checklist tool from Hitched! In this video, we’ll walk you through how to use this essential tool to stay on top of every...

Fjama, friday 28-Nov-25 5 156
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Wedding music
Dododoan, 21 November, 2024 at 07:50

What song would you like to play at your wedding. For me it's Die With A Smile

Beatstar, friday 28-Nov-25 16 141
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Wedding dress shopping - should i visit a couple of shops in 1 day?
Josephine, 11 April, 2024 at 14:51

Hi, looking for some advice for fitting in my wedding dress shopping. I'm not getting married until summer 2025 so I know I've got time, but I have 2 young children so weekends are usually busy, and...

Joel, thursday 27-Nov-25 1 77
Aeron
Piano and guitar duo
Aeron, 13 September, 2023 at 14:16

Hi all, I’m getting married October next year in Carlise, we’d like a guitar and piano duet for ceremony and wedding breakfast. Does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks in advance😘

Sam, thursday 27-Nov-25 1 18
Ayla
Booking a register
Ayla, 10 January, 2024 at 18:02

So me and my partner have booked our venue, however we still don’t live together and planning on moving in with each by the end of the year. If we booked our appointment for the register office and...

Regina, thursday 27-Nov-25 5 129
fizzypop
Sunday Weddings...opinions?
fizzypop, 28 July, 2009 at 16:02

Hi, we've got to the stage where we are going to book our venue very soon. I have fallen in love with the Turkey Mill in Maidstone, after going to a wedding there recently, but they are all booked up...

Ct Gals, wednesday 26-Nov-25 30 14,651
colldel1981
Weddings at 'The Cavendish' Eastcote.
colldel1981, 31 January, 2011 at 17:09

Hi All, I'm thinking of booking my wedding reception here, Has anyone had there wedding here or been to a reception here? Thanks In advance xx

Jaxon, wednesday 26-Nov-25 9 4,444
amihohu
3-4 week honeymoon ideas
amihohu, 31 August, 2012 at 15:54

Afternoon lovely Hitchers! The Thailand honeymoon thread got me thinking. Hubby to be and I are hoping to have at least 3 weeks, potentially 4, for our honeymoon in December 2013, we would really like...

Jackson, tuesday 25-Nov-25 8 7,468
Going2theChapel
Help! Can you come up with a humorous expression of surprise starting with. Well,... ending in call me...
Going2theChapel, 15 March, 2013 at 13:18

For example, So far we have Well, Paint me green and call me a pickle. Slap me with bread and call me a sandwich. Fry me in butter and call me a catfish. Well, Butter my butt and call me a biscuit...

Alicia, monday 24-Nov-25 3 58,125
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Intimate wedding
Clare, 9 November, 2025 at 20:00

Help please. We are only wanting a small wedding (around 35 people) any recommendations in the Gloucestershire area for a small wedding that doesn’t break the bank please!

William, monday 24-Nov-25 2 20
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Engagement party gift?
LauraLtobe, 26 July, 2016 at 10:50

A work friend of mine is having an engagement party next weekend and I'm not sure if we're meant to get a gift. I've never been to an engagement party before and they're having it because they don't...

Andriy, friday 21-Nov-25 7 2,404
Georgia
Home made candles?
Georgia, 1 October, 2023 at 22:41

Hi, all! We are debating using candles on our tables. I’d really like them to have a scent (not too strong, just enough to be pleasant!) and go with our bud vases and eucalyptus foliage. Now, we’ve...

Ivan, friday 21-Nov-25 4 413
Jemima Renrut
Chair covers... buy or hire?
Jemima Renrut, 16 December, 2012 at 19:33

What would/did you do? We originally wasn't having chair covers, with them only being used during dinner we couldn't justify spending loads on 2 hours. However, since attending my cousins wedding OH...

John, thursday 20-Nov-25 13 4,316
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Presents for witnesses
bingowings, 28 August, 2011 at 21:22

Hi Should witnesses (at a reg office) receive thank you presents? I have organised everything myself (inc hen do) so I've got nothing to thank them for - only kidding, they have been supportive. I...

Edward, thursday 20-Nov-25 8 2,397
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Corona - June Wedding -Advice please
HappyGoldBridesmaid6285, 8 April, 2020 at 12:14

Hello! I am due to get married in June (20th in the UK). I wasn't really too worried about the Covid-19 pandemic affecting my wedding as I really thought that it would all be over and done by June! (I...

Ronaldeager, wednesday 19-Nov-25 4 1,087

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