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Meeting suppliers before booking
MrsW2017, 8 February, 2016 at 22:56

Generally, are you meeting your suppliers before booking them? We met our florist in person before we booked her but otherwise we've only had phone conversations with most of them. Do you think it...

Anna Zofka Photograp, wednesday 10-Feb-16 11 1,404
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Ceremony Only Venue, Buckinghamshire
RomanticPurpleCakes495, 7 February, 2016 at 17:20

Hi Can anyone suggest a ceremony only venue in the Buckinghamshire area? I'm thinking of a marquee or village hall venue so we can do it ourselves as we've both been married before. Not sure we want a...

TrixieSaurus, wednesday 10-Feb-16 2 1,123
Arpee
DIY Bar Ideas
Arpee, 9 February, 2016 at 14:27

Our venue is totally DIY and we have to do everything ourselves or hire the relevant people. We would like to have a cash bar in the evening, and asked the pub down the road to run one for us (they...

ExpensivePinkCars201, wednesday 10-Feb-16 5 1,362
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Moss Bros Sale on for anyone wanting to buy suits
Tidal Wave, 1 February, 2016 at 12:47

I know there have been a couple of threads on the hire/buy and where to get them from, but I've had to order my bridesman suit from there today (Next didn't stock his size) And they're having a...

Tidal Wave, tuesday 9-Feb-16 6 1,283
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Flowers for mum of bride/groom
Julie48, 8 February, 2016 at 11:18

Hi Girls Firstly please don't judge me as being ungrateful. OH and I are paying for our own wedding, its going to be a very small informal one with only about 30 guests. My concern is do we have to...

Mrsjones2024, monday 8-Feb-16 7 9,404
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Transport for guests
Miss-KEM, 7 February, 2016 at 16:24

Our ceremony and reception are at different venues. Ceremony venue is about 15 minutes by car from where we live. Then ceremony to reception is about 5 minutes by car. I have arranged a car to take OH...

Jayne E, monday 8-Feb-16 12 2,518
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Best man wants to ruin my stag do
Benaal87, 3 August, 2015 at 16:55

Hey all, I'm getting married on 29th August and my stag do is this coming Friday. I had everything planned pretty much, because the best man was a bit slow on the uptake. I'm of a more traditional...

RomanticRedDiamonds5, monday 8-Feb-16 7 4,755
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Asking guests to pay for their own meal the night before the wedding?
Galbear, 6 February, 2016 at 08:45

As the post title suggests, we are having a meal the night before our wedding after the rehearsal and inviting bridal party and close family. We are leaving it up to them whether or not they want to...

Arpee, monday 8-Feb-16 5 3,007
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Flowers! (Argh!) Cost.....!
LiverpoolB2B, 5 February, 2016 at 12:29

Hi All, I know this is probably been asked a million times but I'm trying to work out what I'm going to be looking at to spend on my flowers. I've paid a nominal deposit to a lady who is very well...

Mrsjones2024, sunday 7-Feb-16 9 1,737
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Anxiety!
Daffodil2017, 3 February, 2016 at 13:21

Now that I can officially say we're getting married "next year" I decided it's time to start properly organising things. We don't have a lot of money so it seems important to plan things with plenty...

Little_MrsA2B, saturday 6-Feb-16 11 1,802
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Boudoir photography
Gismo, 27 January, 2015 at 15:58

For those of you who have done this did you wear your actual wedding underwear? Any hints or tips would be welcome x

warmheartedmama, saturday 6-Feb-16 6 1,846
Justkeepswimming
Personal/funny cake toppers
Justkeepswimming, 2 February, 2016 at 19:38

Anyone having these and if so where are you getting them from and how much? I'd love to get a little bride and groom that reflect our personalities but they are surprisingly hard to find. Have looked...

lavenderblue, saturday 6-Feb-16 14 3,225
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Wedding cheese cake
Miss-KEM, 3 February, 2016 at 20:03

I'm a big cheese fan and have been considering getting a wedding cheese cake (the savoury variety) I don't want to spend a lot as our proper wedding cake is quite expensive and was just wondering if...

Justkeepswimming, friday 5-Feb-16 8 1,249
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Bridal Make Up - Airbase?
SunnyPinkConfetti513, 4 February, 2016 at 13:32

Hi I hope that someone can help. I am getting marred in August and, whilst most things are starting to come together, I need to book someone to do my make up. The only make up I wear is mascara, and...

SunnyPinkConfetti513, friday 5-Feb-16 8 2,213
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Cancelling a wedding supplier
BOYGETSWED, 2 February, 2016 at 15:19

My partner and I are getting increasing stressed by one of our wedding suppliers due to their lack of contact. We have messaged, emailed and all sorts trying to get updates on our stationary and...

NathalieSB, friday 5-Feb-16 4 2,089
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Winter Wedding ~ Yay or Nay?
poppymarble, 4 February, 2016 at 17:12

Hi everyone, We got engaged on NYE this year, so are looking to get married in 2018, but can't settle on a rough date. I don't want to wait nearly 3 years to actually get married, so we are looking at...

InkedDoll, friday 5-Feb-16 9 1,736
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Scottish_Sarah, thursday 4-Feb-16 14 1,825
Lapland2015
**Lapland2015 wedding report!**
Lapland2015, 14 January, 2016 at 15:30

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Lapland2015, thursday 4-Feb-16 27 3,204
Justkeepswimming
Online bridesmaid dresses
Justkeepswimming, 18 January, 2016 at 20:43

Have any of you bought your BM dresses online and were you pleased with the quality? Has anyone had any experience with DESSY, Queenie bridesmaid or DressLongBridal on ETSY? its a bit risky buying...

RachD90, wednesday 3-Feb-16 26 3,338
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Wedding Website Recommendations
Miss-b, 2 February, 2016 at 11:56

Hi Ladies, as the title says, I'm looking for a recommendation for a wedding website. Ideally want a free, easy to use one! Thanks

samwillow, wednesday 3-Feb-16 8 1,873
Justkeepswimming
Suit etiquette, who wears them?
Justkeepswimming, 2 February, 2016 at 19:35

We are about to embark on suit shopping. Just wanted some advice on what is the norm regarding who wears the same suits. Obviously groom and best man (or men in our case), and ushers? And father of...

Pooba, wednesday 3-Feb-16 6 5,138
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My Bridesmaid Dress has arrived!!
rach_217, 1 February, 2016 at 15:39

I am so excited, literally beaming from ear to ear! For anyone who doesn't know I decided to order my bridesmaid dresses from a Chinese supplier on Etsy "DressLongBridal". I wanted the multiway...

The Little Jewellery, wednesday 3-Feb-16 8 1,380
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Any Bristol Brides out there?
HappyRedConfetti467, 31 January, 2016 at 16:07

Hello, Not sure I am putting this in the right place! But just wanted to see if there were any Bristol brides out there? I am having a serious stress about finding a decent not expensive reception...

TinaBeana, tuesday 2-Feb-16 7 1,339
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PP - Massive argument with my mum
MrsLBtoB, 1 February, 2016 at 14:37

Sorry ladies just a bit of a vent and a rant.... My H2B and I got engaged in Dec 2014 and have been planning ever since, we get marries in 3.5 months now. Since day 1 my mum has said how much...

Jayne E, tuesday 2-Feb-16 6 1,459
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Hen party abroad gift bags?
2016bridetobe, 1 February, 2016 at 20:39

Hi ladies. I am lucky enough to be taking over 20 girls abroad for my hen party. They've all spent a fortune to be there and I am completely grateful. I'd love to give them a lovely gift each but...

Jayne E, monday 1-Feb-16 3 1,975
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no control over my wedding?
RomanticGoldFlowers496, 28 January, 2016 at 18:37

I recently got engaged so have started planning my wedding but have noticed i don't have much choice. My bridesmaids are pretty much decided for me (my two sisters and three nieces) but i would rather...

Scottish_Sarah, monday 1-Feb-16 22 2,750
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Groomsmen suits???
HappyBrownDiamonds179, 26 January, 2016 at 02:51

Has anyone got any recommendations on the best place to hire groomsmen suits? I am looking for 4....

LauraLtobe, sunday 31-Jan-16 12 1,422
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Asking Mum to walk me down the isle..
Sept2017Bride, 26 January, 2016 at 12:25

Hi, i'm new to this and just wondering if anyone can advise at what point to officially ask my Mum to walk me down the isle please?

038813m, sunday 31-Jan-16 3 751
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Disposable Cameras
Miss-b, 25 January, 2016 at 11:41

Hi All, What are your thoughts on disposable cameras on tables at the wedding reception and then dotted about? Is it a bit done, boring, naff, 90's? I quite like the idea as I had thought about buying...

poppymarble, saturday 30-Jan-16 13 3,616
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Fairy lights
FutureMrsMarshall, 28 January, 2016 at 15:13

Calling all diy brides... I have a barn venue with some nice outside space, a courtyard and a garden, which I want to decorate with fairy lights. Can I do this myself or would it be best to hire a...

JennyPackhamBride, saturday 30-Jan-16 7 2,401
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Wedding music for walking in and out
Julie48, 28 January, 2016 at 10:33

Hi Girls I would love to have the following: Ed Sheeran - Thinking out loud Take That - either Rule the World or Greatest Day Not sure which way round to have them as yet but what do you think? (our...

Neil Gratton Photogr, saturday 30-Jan-16 10 3,598
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DIY-ing the dress
sydneysays, 4 December, 2015 at 14:02

Hello! New person here. 14th May 2016 bride...we have most of the main stuff sorted including venues, catering, band and suits...I have my dress but am doing some reasonably major alterations myself....

Jayne E, friday 29-Jan-16 7 2,221

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