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Waiting for Registrar - Normal?
Catcher, 9 September, 2019 at 13:01

Our top 1 pick location only does 20 weddings a year and they are fully booked for 2020. Or were, but a cancellation came through for July. I am so excited!! ? I've just called the registrar to see if...

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Guests dropping out last minute
lucyjo, 7 May, 2017 at 22:46

Three weeks to go until the wedding and the nightmare of guests dropping out last minute has begun. Argh!! ?? I know there's absolutely nothing I can do about it, so it's pointless getting upset, but...

ExpensiveRedConfetti, monday 9-Sep-19 7 8,489
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2019 Wedding
MimiLouise88, 13 March, 2017 at 14:34

Hello, I'm new to the forum and also wedding planning as we are only recently engaged! I just wondered if anyone could point me in the direction of a 2019 brides thread, if one exists? Thank you! x ...

DanaGo, monday 9-Sep-19 125 20,576
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Whole weekend wedding
HappyBrownStationery11856, 1 September, 2019 at 09:51

Hi We are looking for a venue which has exclusive use, where we would have the venue for the whole weekend - perhaps for a small gathering on the Friday, overnight accommodation, ceremony and...

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Sister in Law INSISTS on being maid of honour
ExpensiveOrangeCakes50137, 2 September, 2019 at 21:11

I've read posts where the sister in law has wanted to be a bridesmaid but not one where she INSISTS on being maid of honour. This has never been discussed with me and my mother in law just announced...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, tuesday 3-Sep-19 971
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Albufeira hen do
Hayley9990, 31 August, 2019 at 21:39

Hi All,. Myself and my MOH have started gathering some ideas re a short break away to Portugal for my hen do. We want to stay in albufeira in a calm hotel but still be able to access the fun...

Hayley9990, saturday 31-Aug-19 334
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Running order for a 1pm wedding
ExpensiveBlueCakes45790, 21 August, 2019 at 23:09

Hi, I was hoping to get some advice. My venue had a running order and I was very happy to go along with this. However that was based on a 2pm Ceremony, the registrar could only do 1pm or 3pm on that...

Wedding Photography, saturday 31-Aug-19 1 952
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Registry office planning... HELP!!!
SunnyBlueCakes96864, 30 August, 2019 at 11:43

Hey!! I’m new on here I hope you all can help! planning on a registry office wedding and I have absolutely no idea where to start... can we still have bridesmaids? Flower girl? All that lark? what do...

LuxuriousBrownStatio, saturday 31-Aug-19 284
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Table centrepieces that don't involve flowers?
HollyHavisham, 30 June, 2019 at 23:35

Our budget for flowers isn't huge and although I have done plenty of research and got lots of quotes, and booked our florist, I am trying to save on the budget by not having flowers as centrepieces....

HappyBlueCars582, friday 30-Aug-19 5 1,057
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London Reception Venues??? Dry Hire? Or under 10k ?
janiejuju, 20 February, 2011 at 16:32

Hi Ladies, Desperately trying to find a venue in London for my reception. Preferably dry hire so I can choose the caterers etc. Looking for something under 5k for dry hire or my budget all in for the...

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No children at wedding (with one exception..) How to handle?
LuxuriousPurpleConfetti63413, 14 August, 2019 at 14:23

Hi all, in need of some advice/opinions. Currently planning an adult only wedding for next august. Reason being that I have a very large family so I have a lot of first cousins etc to accommodate. In...

SunnyYellowConfetti5, thursday 22-Aug-19 5 1,437
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Future SIL booked wedding less than 2 weeks before ours
RedheadBride1992, 20 August, 2019 at 18:16

So my future SIL got engaged last year and booked her wedding for 23rd May 2020. We got engaged after her and she our date for 20th June 2020. We originally wanted May but that was already taken by...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, thursday 22-Aug-19 1 977
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Friends that aren't bridesmaids
Penny2503, 21 August, 2019 at 21:50

I am asking my best friend of 10 years to be my bridesmaid which I'm happy with. We are only having a fairly small wedding and I don't have lots of friends, just a few close ones, therefore I think I...

Penny2503, wednesday 21-Aug-19 266
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Am I in the wrong here? :(
SunnyOrangeFlowers80954, 13 August, 2019 at 20:53

I recently got engaged and are planning an engagement party for family and friends. We are moving house currently and so want to keep it as cheap as possible! My MIL to be asked us what we are doing...

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Long Distance Relationship/Wedding???
ExpensiveIvoryDecor58467, 13 August, 2019 at 21:32

Hello, So me and my partner have been together 6 years and engaged for 2 years. We want to get married in 2021 as I want to be 21 years old when we get married. Anyway, we are currently in a long...

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77 Diamonds?
WinterBride14, 20 June, 2014 at 14:00

I just wondered if anyone had ever used this website, 77 Diamonds, at all? I'm looking for a diamond necklace for my birthday & this seems to have some real good prices on but would be interested...

HappyYellowCakes1044, friday 16-Aug-19 3 1,765
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Help/Advice Choosing a Dress!
HappyPurpleBridesmaid10433, 6 June, 2019 at 10:48

Hi Everyone, I don't know if this is a little strange, or if anyone else has done it!? However i'm starting to get flustered trying to choose a dress and I would love some opinions from people out...

Busybrides, tuesday 13-Aug-19 7 1,613
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Dealing with family opinions?
megan894, 9 August, 2019 at 17:17

My partner and I are recently engaged and not looking to marry until summer 2021 so we have plenty of time to save for our dream wedding. However, close family members (especially my mother) have been...

megan894, monday 12-Aug-19 3 1,165
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Mother in law & guest list
ExpensiveGreenDiamonds48225, 7 August, 2019 at 17:45

Hi ladies I am looking for some advice!! My fiance and I have recently got engaged and are starting to plan an engagement party as we won't be getting married for a couple of years. My future mother...

LuxuriousGreenHair66, saturday 10-Aug-19 2 800
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Advice?
ThatsSoSasha, 29 July, 2019 at 11:59

My Fiance and i have been engaged for 3 years and are getting married in January. His sister got engaged shortly after us, has since had 2 children. We booked our wedding and let everyone aware over...

Weddingbee123, friday 2-Aug-19 1 841
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How to get music on to a cd!
thewanderingwebster, 20 August, 2014 at 15:25

We listen to all our music via spotify. The registry office needs our tracks burnt to a CD! Can you purchase individual tracks through iTunes and burn those to a cd? Any other suggestions?!

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Anyone having trouble with music during wedding breakfast?
RomanticGoldHair30256, 25 July, 2019 at 12:51

I’m getting married in Essex next year. I have tried a guy called Adam on Piano for during wedding breakfast and he sounds amazing but fully booked! what’s everyone having re music during wedding...

Mintyslippers, tuesday 30-Jul-19 6 908
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Chair cover prices?
Hoddy, 11 February, 2013 at 20:04

Hi everyone. Just wondering how much chair covers & sashes are costing everyone? I've been searching most of this evening for them but nowhere is showing prices, just asking 'email for more...

RomanticGreenDecor27, monday 22-Jul-19 13 11,509
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Registrar's Fees!
Red Baroness, 4 June, 2010 at 09:39

I have just looked on my local council's website and nearly had a heart attack! For 2011 the fees are £524, with an additional booking fee of £50! That's not including notices! It will have gone up...

SClarke2019, monday 15-Jul-19 32 10,232
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Confetti quantity
Fairy5, 12 July, 2019 at 16:09

Hi, I'm getting conflicting info on the quantity of confetti to order and wondered how much other people have ordered? Adam Apple say 1L fills 12 cones or 20 packets but I saw someone ordered 2L and...

Have_you_met_Mrs_Jon, saturday 13-Jul-19 491
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lookfantastic.com genuine website?
mocha, 5 April, 2011 at 13:56

I am feeling really worried as i placed an order with them for this weekend and then read negative reviews about items not being delivered and refund not being given! i placed the order last night -...

HappyIvoryFlowers756, friday 12-Jul-19 2 3,799
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which men in the wedding party should wear the same suits?
sweetlikechocolate, 26 May, 2014 at 11:45

Hi ya. I cant find any guidance on this anywhere and know that one of you lovely hitcheders will know the answer. I am trying to work out my budget for suits for the men in the bridal party (trying to...

Fairy5, friday 12-Jul-19 11 11,158
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simplebridesmaiddresses.co.uk
xoxoxo2017, 10 September, 2014 at 17:13

Has anyone used them? Cant find much details.... Loads of great reviews actually ON their site but I am always warey....

Mintyslippers, monday 1-Jul-19 7 3,252
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Mini bottles of alcohol
AngeliB, 15 August, 2009 at 23:15

Seem to be posting on here more and more for help as November approachs and I'm in panick mode!! argh Anyway.. Has anyone gone for mini bottles of alcohol for favours? I'm meeting with my reception...

LuxuriousPurpleBride, wednesday 26-Jun-19 15 19,676
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Wedding ring dilemma
GreenIvyRedBerries20, 26 May, 2019 at 20:33

Went shopping for wedding rings today. As anticipated my hubby to be managed to find a stunning ring pretty easily. For me on the other hand, its proven to be a much more difficult task. I have a...

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http://m.groupon.co.uk/deals/national-deal/gg-groupon-goods-global-gmb-h-7-43/60141021 bridal jewellery/bridesmaid bargain
LalaC1988, 8 April, 2015 at 10:53

Apologies for it being my title but saw this on Groupon and thought it might be a really nice bridesmaid gift or even bargain bridal jewellery I've ordered from there before and it was really nice...

RomanticBrownHair253, wednesday 12-Jun-19 3 977
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Glass hire options/prices/quantities 2019?
HappyOrangeCakes14231, 3 June, 2019 at 20:34

Can people recommend options for hiring glasses? Tesco stopped their glass hire service in March 2019. Waitrose said they had a free service but only allow 48 hour hire (which doesn't work for a...

Tractorette, wednesday 5-Jun-19 8,735

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