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I-go-by-many-names
*Updated* OMs, how long did you wait for your video?
I-go-by-many-names, 26 September, 2015 at 10:36

In a week's time it will be exactly six months since our wedding and although we have a trailer, we don't have our video from our VOG. The contract says nothing about how long it takes but I remember...

Tidal Wave, tuesday 8-Dec-15 42 4,129
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Wedding in Venice, Italy 2015
Samantha_Kassol, 5 November, 2014 at 11:11

I am planning on getting married in Venice, Italy in September 2015... I think we are about 60 people... we want a religious ceremony and for the reception... I don't konw!! Please, has anyone got...

Faye_575, monday 7-Dec-15 5 2,070
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Dry Hire Venues or Lovely Pub with Function Room in South East London
hillem, 30 November, 2015 at 10:36

Hi Everyone, I am wondering if you can kindly help us. We are looking to hire either a dry hire venue or pub with a function room in SE London but we are coming up a little stuck. Our budget all in is...

AKWedding, monday 7-Dec-15 3 2,933
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What are your thoughts on our menu?
ExpensiveBrownDiamonds1257, 2 December, 2015 at 17:20

We are finally getting undeway with our menu planning! We are hosting a wedding weekend for our guests, so we have quite a few meals to plan. Thankfully the venue will be deciding the menu for the...

Karen84, monday 7-Dec-15 12 1,877
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HELP! Searching for a wedding venue around Leeds/Harrogate/York area with fireworks
Lisat87, 5 November, 2014 at 20:24

Hi all My fiance and I have been searching endlessly for a wedding venue in the Leeds/Harrogate/York area. We are yet to find one that suits all of our needs. We would like a venue that is quite...

Harriet253, saturday 5-Dec-15 9 1,991
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MrsFRtobe wedding report **very flash heavy!**
MrsFRtobe, 30 November, 2015 at 11:41

how we met We met online in feb 2014. I am 34 and he is 40 so we knew we didn't want or need to date for a long time, luckily we clicked and started discussing the prospect of engagement/marriage in...

jayannfernandez, friday 4-Dec-15 8 1,621
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Keeping maiden name at work
KJHC, 29 November, 2015 at 13:16

Has anyone taken their OH's surname, but kept maiden name for work? I've been grappling with this since we got engaged, as I do want to have the same surname as OH, but want to retain my name in some...

inovermyhead, thursday 3-Dec-15 10 1,724
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White or Caramel? Mori Lee Dress Dilema!
chaisinrainbows, 1 December, 2015 at 10:26

Good Morning everyone! I've been dress shopping for a few weeks now - I think I've finally found the one! It's Mori-Lee 2674. I've seen a few pictures of it around and it always looks better on real...

Wayne La, wednesday 2-Dec-15 6 2,495
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Alternatives to humanist ceremony?
ThirteenTenSeventeen, 4 September, 2015 at 06:59

Our wedding planning started off fun and exciting. Then it got stressful. It's now fun and exciting again! We've been struggling to find venues that can accommodate a Friday reception, so we've given...

Simply Ceremonies Uk, tuesday 1-Dec-15 12 3,413
katieJ2b
9 year old bridesmaid
katieJ2b, 30 November, 2015 at 14:23

Hi everyone, Me again! So I've turned my attention to what my girls will be wearing on the big day. I have three adults and my younger cousin, who will be 9 by the wedding next October. I didn't want...

Lapland2015, tuesday 1-Dec-15 19 4,252
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Ideas for Father/Daughter Mother/Son Dance
ExpensivePinkCars201, 29 November, 2015 at 18:24

The OH and I are thinking of doing a father/daughter mother/son dance after the first dance but we're stuck for song ideas! There are a few that would suit one or the other but we want to do it at the...

ExpensiveBrownDiamon, tuesday 1-Dec-15 8 1,619
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Am I being fussy? Seamstress has dogs!
RomanticIvoryDiamonds239, 28 November, 2015 at 12:52

I picked up my wedding dress just over a week ago. It needs quite a few alterations doing as I'm only 5 foot 1. The seamstress at the bridal shop I bought the dress from is leaving after 12 years so I...

Jayne E, monday 30-Nov-15 15 1,818
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Top Table Seating Dilemma.
Gemz85, 26 November, 2015 at 13:08

Hi all, Just looking for a few suggestions/ideas for Top Table, but first I need to explain the situation. Firstly, my parents are separated (not divorced) due to my dad having an affair. He is still...

Mrsjones2024, saturday 28-Nov-15 9 4,737
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Wedding Album Prices
Kilner, 23 November, 2015 at 16:18

Hi all I've been quoted £425 for a 10x10 album for 70 photos and £130 for a duplicate 6x6 album for parents. I know albums are expensive but is this about right? We wanted them before Christmas so...

Peter, thursday 26-Nov-15 18 9,734
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Justin Alexander 8799 sizing
Glasgowbride101, 2 November, 2015 at 14:20

I've just chosen the Justin Alexander style 8799 dress for our wedding next September. I am a UK size 12/14 and a G cup. The girl said I would need to order a size 18 which I was fine with as I've...

kay_, thursday 26-Nov-15 3 3,290
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Notice of Marriage
Miss-KEM, 25 November, 2015 at 16:29

Hello I have just made my appointment for me and OH to give our notice of marriage in a couple of weeks. I understand that whilst there they ask you questions. Just wondering if anyone could let me...

LorraineHull, thursday 26-Nov-15 7 1,058
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Mumford & Sons Instrumental...
NoMoore, 24 November, 2015 at 20:50

I'm trying to decide what to walk down the aisle to. ive told OH I'll be piped in but actually I'm planning to have the bridesmaids piped in and walk down myself to a song (if we can get it to work,...

Jayne E, thursday 26-Nov-15 10 2,306
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Can I afford a Maggie Sottero dress?
Jade the Bride, 18 January, 2015 at 18:23

I have been doing some virtual wedding dress shopping and have fallen in love with quite a few Maggie Sottero dresses. I have set a budget of £1000 for my dress, but I can't find any up to date prices...

SunnyGoldDecor363, wednesday 25-Nov-15 22 6,140
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charity shop in Leeds with wedding dress dept!
katiepoppycat, 24 November, 2015 at 14:25

Hello ladies, I'm a longtime (since Feb!) lurker but don;t post very often. However I wanted to share this with you. I was in Garforth in Leeds today and noticed that St Gemma's Hospice have a shop on...

Paula @ Ollievision, tuesday 24-Nov-15 1 1,774
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Finding a hair and makeup artist
IceBlue, 23 November, 2015 at 12:10

Hi all, So the wedding isn't until next next December but I haven't yet found a hair and make up artist(s) and I'm starting to panic. How do I go about finding one? I've seen a couple at wedding fairs...

Tidal Wave, tuesday 24-Nov-15 5 455
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Afternoon tea
Jade1990, 17 November, 2015 at 20:11

Hi all Has anyone had/having/been to a wedding where afternoon tea was served as the wedding breakfast meal? I want informal and relaxed but don't want our wedding to resemble a kids tea party lol My...

Scottish_Sarah, monday 23-Nov-15 12 3,072
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Has anyone else ever made MAJOR changes to their wedding plans and lost deposits?
heavenly_elephant, 23 February, 2015 at 18:43

Helloooo! I'm just wondering if anyone else has ever made a major change in wedding planning that incurred deposit losses? I'm feeling like a proper numpty and need consoling lol! I'm reeling over the...

Daisy Bell, monday 23-Nov-15 14 4,318
Rosegoldsparkle
Engagement ring being resized!
Rosegoldsparkle, 13 November, 2015 at 11:11

Hi everyone! I had to take my ring to be resized the other day and I feel so wierd without it even though I'd had it in for less than a week! Originally the jeweller said it would be 2 weeks, but...

Pink Sparkle, sunday 22-Nov-15 7 1,961
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Essex brides please help
MrsMerritt2Be, 26 September, 2015 at 20:59

Hi were getting married at Langton House, Hornchurch, Essex. Now I am on the hunt for a wedding reception. I am happy for a nice hotel, or a nice venue without accommodation but can't seem to find...

RomanticYellowCars44, sunday 22-Nov-15 4 977
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Wedding Dress stress!
RomanticIvoryDiamonds239, 20 November, 2015 at 18:57

Hi everyone I picked up my wedding dress today, which I had ordered back in May, from a bridal store in Leeds. It is the Ronald Joyce Regina 68005 which is available in 3 lengths. I was shocked to...

Little_MrsA2B, sunday 22-Nov-15 6 896
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Small Dry hire/self-catering wedding venue London
JDubz, 19 November, 2015 at 13:29

Hey all, I am looking for a medium sized wedding venue (50 - 65 people) that will let us self-cater and doesn't charge corkage in/around London. Can anyone help? It would be easier if I wasn't so...

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Tails and tea length?
, 20 November, 2015 at 07:15

Hi I have bought a tea length dress and we are wanting to book his suit hire in and we decided on tails but nowhere can I find a bride and groom combo to match. Everyone seems to be all vintage when...

Wedding Photography, friday 20-Nov-15 4 987
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Last few bits and bobs to go!
Choods87, 17 November, 2015 at 10:08

Hi Ladies, Two months after our wedding we still have some last bits and bobs to get rid of, especially as Christmas is nearly upon us and I don't have the space to hide presents!! Let me know if you...

Choods87, friday 20-Nov-15 15 1,811
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Cut off/shorten a long train?
reilly2b, 18 November, 2015 at 19:10

Hi, My dress is gorgeous, but it does have a very long train. Now, thinking about the practicalities of the day, I think it is too long. I am getting married in a church but then a reception in a barn...

reilly2b, thursday 19-Nov-15 13 9,050
Mrslh2b
Potential hen do clashes
Mrslh2b, 18 November, 2015 at 11:33

Just wanted some opinions on the following situation…. So 2 of my friends are getting married next year (as well as me) – my best friend is getting married end of June, I’m getting married August 1st...

Mrslh2b, thursday 19-Nov-15 17 2,189
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Hair and Make up - When to book
Tidal Wave, 11 November, 2015 at 18:17

Thought I'd be super organised tonight, and starting to cross a few things of the list, however - hair and make up, I know I want the same person/company to do both, but I keep reading really...

Juliet Cunnington (M, tuesday 17-Nov-15 20 7,754
Lapland2015
Buying a camera advice please - northern lights specifically
Lapland2015, 16 November, 2015 at 15:23

My partner has done a few photography courses when he was in the military and did a few bits and pieces for them so has a fair amount of knowledge about cameras but is by all means no expert! I am now...

Lapland2015, tuesday 17-Nov-15 7 1,010

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