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*Kitty*
The bank sent H's new debit card to our old address and.....
*Kitty*, 28 August, 2009 at 01:15

Someone used it ? Im furious. We moved house over six months ago and actually went into our local branch on the day we moved to tell them. Ive phoned the bank and been on to the fraud dept who said...

Petter, thursday 7-May-26 11
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wedding venues in Hampshire
crofty_bride2b, 15 January, 2017 at 19:06

Hi all im new to the forums, first post! I'm looking forward to many discussions here. Can an anyone recommend or suggest any venues for wedding breakfast and evening do only in Hampshire. I live in...

Petter, thursday 7-May-26 7
hazyclaire
Music For A Church Wedding
hazyclaire, 6 July, 2012 at 21:05

Hi all We're getting married in a church, and while originally I was thinking of modern music for our wedding now I'm not sure that it will 'go' especially as we will be having hymns. So I'm thinking...

Petter, tuesday 5-May-26 10
hopefulmum2b
Passport name change/booking honeymoon in furture married name.....details and help needed
hopefulmum2b, 14 March, 2012 at 22:44

Hello Everyone wondering if you can help.....i want to book my honeymoon tonight and want to be in my married name when on honeymoon....when booking through thomson do i just input my name as my...

Petter, friday 24-Apr-26 12
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A new bridesmaid and asking a bridesmaid to step down
SunnyGoldHair613, 17 July, 2017 at 00:27

I've just asked an extra girl to be one of my bridesmaids. We didn't know each other when I first chosen my BMs but we've clicked so quickly and I can't imagine her not being up there with me for the...

Susan, tuesday 21-Apr-26 5
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Buying a second hand fridge freezer
Boop, 9 January, 2009 at 10:22

You may remember the saga of the new fridge freezer that didn't work in the run up to Christmas 2007 - I finally got them to agree to give me a new one instead of trying to mend the one that didn't...

Petter, sunday 19-Apr-26 8
New sofa is making me ill!
, 21 July, 2008 at 20:55

FFS! When is my luck going to change? My new sofa arrived a few weeks ago and the bloody this is making my H and I ill! I literally can hardly talk because my throat is so affected by the fumes coming...

Petter, sunday 19-Apr-26 12
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New York Weddings
LuxuriousGreenConfetti511, 16 March, 2016 at 20:59

Hello! Is anyone getting married in New York? We are eloping to city hall next year...I just wanted to know if anyone had any advice for us? Also, any recommendations for photographers out there? We...

Petter, friday 17-Apr-26 20
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Planning a Wedding When Family Member Diagnosed Terminally Ill
CristaMB, 16 May, 2014 at 17:49

Hello, I wonder if anyone can relate or offer advice. My father-in-law2B who lives abroad was diagnosed with a brain tumour 6 months ago. My fiance had proposed and in our minds we'd planned a short...

Petter, wednesday 15-Apr-26 24
Patricia
New to this
Patricia, 20 November, 2025 at 08:56

Planning our wedding.

Aldeen, thursday 30-Apr-26 6
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Grievance at work - experiences/advice ** poss BT**
casgup, 21 September, 2014 at 07:59

Morning all. Thought I'd start my Sunday by writing a cheery post about grievances at work. I'm wondering if any of yous have ever taken a grievance out at work? What were the outcomes? Do you feel it...

Petter, tuesday 14-Apr-26 15 1
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What to do for Hen Do new friendship group
Katrina, 22 April, 2024 at 16:20

Hey girls, I have been wondering what to do for my Hen. I have a new friendship group who I met last year. One of the girls asked me if she would be invited to the wedding if she comes to my hen. I...

Petter, friday 10-Apr-26 5
claire_91
Church wedding readings- help!
claire_91, 22 February, 2012 at 20:55

Hi everyone. Did you have readings at your wedding and if so what did you have? We're having a c of e wedding so have to have a biblical reading but I don't know what to have. All ideas religious and...

Petter, friday 10-Apr-26 14
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How Far in Advance did you Plan Your Hen?
Jessie_bride, 9 August, 2012 at 15:54

Hi, Looking for a bit of advice, another friend who is getting married in 2014 and having her hen do next summer has led to a few friends asking on the date of mine (I get married in August 2013) How...

Petter, friday 10-Apr-26 14
WickyWack
Wedding rings too tight?
WickyWack, 30 April, 2015 at 13:17

Hi all, i've noticed recently that I've been getting a bit of dry red skin underneath my rings and that they are looking a little tight, but still spin around on the finger. Anyone have the same? Do...

Petter, friday 10-Apr-26 8
Nik_Nak
Work colleagues - who to invite and who not to invite?!?
Nik_Nak, 8 May, 2011 at 15:40

Hi guys I've just joined Hitched today and read some really useful stuff on here - thanks for sharing!!! I just thought I'd post my first question(s) on here - please be nice :o) My invites are going...

Petter, wednesday 8-Apr-26 21
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HELP AND ADVICE FOR ANYONE PLANNING A MALLORCAN WEDDING
MrKeefe310815, 11 September, 2015 at 15:28

Hi there, I thought I would write this post more for information purposes for anyone getting married in Mallorca. My new wife and I just got married last week at Cap Rocat in Mallorca and planned the...

Petter, tuesday 7-Apr-26 16 1
Red Baroness
Calling All Grammar Experts
Red Baroness, 15 February, 2012 at 10:01

Apologies in advance for a fairly boring post, but, do you put a comma before the postcode in an address? I don't usually, but thought that either way is considered correct. Does it make a difference...

Petter, tuesday 7-Apr-26 13
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How much time off work are you taking for your wedding/honeymoon?
Laura_Reena, 30 December, 2012 at 22:30

So far I've booked off two days before and two weeks after but am considering booking more, if they'll let me see can have a longer honeymoon and/or spend time with relatives who are flying down/over...

Petter, friday 3-Apr-26 23
helenparki
Wedding Night Do / Evening Guests
helenparki, 14 September, 2011 at 21:38

We're having 50 people to our wedding during the day and then about another 60 people to the night do. I have a couple of questions...! Does each evening guest get a favour? Will the table get re-set...

Petter, wednesday 1-Apr-26 8
gingeremmie
How can I be sure my wedding isn't going to be naff?
gingeremmie, 28 February, 2016 at 15:56

We only have a limited budget, I guess I'm starting to feel the fear now. We have 2 pre-school children so v expensive childcare, so we don't have lots of spare cash to save for the wedding. It's less...

Petter, saturday 14-Mar-26 6
Lucy
Skylark country club administration
Lucy, 16 July, 2023 at 11:08

Anyone getting married there next year? Have you heard anything about your date from them yet? What are your thoughts with everything going on recently?

Harry, wednesday 25-Mar-26 8
Elliefunt
Newborn baby and wedding
Elliefunt, 15 June, 2015 at 21:58

Hi...so a couple of months ago DP and I were chatting about our wedding (in ten months time) and said that now would be really bad timing to have a baby. Not sure what made us have that conversation...

Petter, monday 9-Mar-26 10
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Help! Wedding cancellation deposit questions
RomanticBrownDecor177, 15 June, 2015 at 22:25

Hi all, i could really use some advice please! I booked and paid for a wedding venue last August to have our ceremony there in June 2016. Our entire correspondence in relation to the booking was via...

Petter, tuesday 3-Mar-26 20 1
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Cash Bar?
Gracef, 11 August, 2022 at 21:18

I’m just looking for some advice really. I was chatting to a member of the family about the wedding the other day and mentioned that it’s a cash bar. He was shocked and looked at me horrified and said...

Mahi, saturday 9-May-26 21 2
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Can you honeymoon straight after the wedding with your old passport?
morristobe, 10 January, 2013 at 08:51

Sorry ladies, this has probably been asked so many times. I am getting married on a Saturday and going abroad on my honeymoon on the Monday, is this still ok as it will be my maiden name? And am I...

Leoparker, friday 27-Feb-26 8
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When are you supposed to open wedding presents?
clarabella1972, 16 March, 2012 at 10:54

I've started getting wedding presents sent through the post. Am I supposed to open them now or on the day?

Petter, wednesday 25-Feb-26 10
Happyblueflowers7305
Feeling lonely because of wedding planning
Happyblueflowers7305, 26 September, 2019 at 22:55

Hey everyone , I’m fairly new here I joined up earlier this year when I got engaged but I’ve mostly been a reader rather than a writer of posts. I made the decision to write a post today in the hope...

Petter, saturday 21-Feb-26 4
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Planning
Amy, 27 August, 2023 at 08:05

Hi everyone new to planning. I was wondering if anyone could advise where to get a “reasonably” priced wedding cake in Aberdeen/shire. I have also been looking for somewhere that does silk flowers but...

Petter, friday 20-Feb-26 5
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Wedding booked the week before mine
Noonetoldmeaboutit, 4 February, 2012 at 19:05

Hi, I'm new to this but just looking for some opinions, my friend has just booked her wedding the week before mine, do you think I'm in the wrong to be a bit bothered about this? Thanks in advance! ...

Petter, monday 16-Feb-26 12
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Photographer - Lack of communication
Hannah&Andrew, 31 October, 2023 at 09:21

Hi everyone! After a bit of advice, we are getting married in September 2025 and have booked our photographer. However, we've realised that the photographer lacks communication. We have emailed and...

Sophie, tuesday 14-Apr-26 11
Arquard
Seating plans and the bride - which surname??
Arquard, 24 April, 2011 at 20:36

I've written our seating plan today and put my married surname down seeing as that will be my name by the time the seating plan is in use. However, I'm now worried that I should have put my maiden...

Petter, thursday 12-Feb-26 6

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