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Oliver
Oliver

Upham, Hampshire · From January 2026

Happily married 🎉

1 March, 2026

97days 22hours

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Gemini_Bride
Photos of wedding on Facebook before evening guests arrive!
Gemini_Bride, 7 August, 2014 at 18:25

I am on my way to a wedding reception and as I am on the train on the way up from work I had a quick pop on Facebook. My news feed is full of photos posted by guests who are there all day of the...

Wallpapers, thursday 21-May-26 26
TrixieSaurus
Still no photos... how long did yours take?
TrixieSaurus, 30 September, 2016 at 13:23

Hi All, We've been super patient with our photographer, but other than the preview collage I posted (which took 3 weeks!) we haven't seen any photos yet. Wedding was 6 weeks ago now, and I'm beginning...

Oliver, monday 27-Apr-26 49
Becky
Website - photo
Becky, 2 May, 2024 at 21:32

Hello! I’m having trouble on our wedding website - we recently received some gorgeous pre wedding photos and I’d like to use one on our website but every time I save it comes out blurry! I’ve tried...

Oliver, monday 27-Apr-26 23 2
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Best Man's Speech Jokes for Next Door Neighbour
Mozster, 11 June, 2014 at 15:57

I'm the best man for my next door neighbour and I wondered if anyone had any neighbour jokes or anecdotes that I could use in my speech?

Oliver, wednesday 22-Apr-26 6
Anyone had/having a Blessing?
, 15 October, 2011 at 22:28

Hi everyone, bit of background to start with: H2B and I have both been married before, my mum and dad are divorced and do not get on, and we don't get on that well with H2B's mum. I also get really...

Oliver, wednesday 22-Apr-26 16
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table names for a Christmas or winter theme
Leanne86C, 21 March, 2014 at 16:00

Hi, I'm getting married at the end of November and we are stuck on table names, even something a little different would be good, we don't really want reindeers or carols though. We've got 9 tables...

Lia, saturday 23-May-26 14 1
Cheeky_pie
Film quotes as table names
Cheeky_pie, 5 June, 2011 at 09:07

Both myself and my OH are huge film buffs so i thought we could have famous film quotes from films as our table names we have 13 tables including the top table so below are a few I had thought of. If...

Tele-latino, 9 hours ago 31
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Editing Review
Sarah, 18 December, 2023 at 06:35

I’ve made a mistake on a review of a supplier I made and I can’t change it myself or get in contact with someone from Hitched to ask that they edit the post for me. It’s incredibly frustrating for...

Richard, wednesday 20-May-26 10
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Food options
Naomi, 29 June, 2025 at 18:23

The main reason I have set this website up is for easy RSVP & for guests to choose food requirements. I have spent so much time trying to find out a way to do it I think it would have been quicker...

Jamshed, tuesday 2-Jun-26 58
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Photographers raw images to edit
Sarah, 4 June, 2024 at 09:56

Hello We have just got our photos back from the photographer (we got mardied abroad and used local photographer over there) and we really didnt like the way they were editing our photos as they kept...

Henry, thursday 4-Jun-26 14
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Displaying photo of us growing up - ideas needed
robertson2b, 9 February, 2011 at 13:31

Hi At our wedding I would like to display some photos of both myself and OH growing up. The only idea I have currently is to display them on an iron heart board but I don't think this will be big...

Oliver, tuesday 21-Apr-26 15
Tara
Good kids entertainment (bonus if it entertains adults also)
Tara, 27 December, 2025 at 14:57

I have a handful of kids coming and want them to have fun. I’d feel better spending more money if the solution would entertain adults also. I haven’t been to many weddings and none with kids so I’m...

Mubashir, 6 hours ago 78 5
Little Madam
Welcome drink - to have or not to have - opinions please
Little Madam, 27 March, 2011 at 14:39

Our guest list is very wide and varied in terms of ages / types of people so we know a "standard" welcome drink won't work for us and would be wasted. We have planned to provide Afternoon tea on...

Oliver, saturday 28-Mar-26 25
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Engagement Photos
Amber, 11 September, 2025 at 00:25

Recently started planning mine and my other half’s wedding - however, I’m worried that because we don’t have any engagement photos, that I’m missing out on something. I was thinking about taking some...

Voocccie, tuesday 14-Apr-26 6
Dancing-Peanut
Photo Sharing
Dancing-Peanut, 22 January, 2020 at 15:17

Hi I am looking at ideas for guests to upload photos of the day. There are loads of apps - but most you have to take the photos through the app, and not just simply on the phone and then upload. Does...

Kaven, saturday 30-May-26 13
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Wedding photo app, for guests to upload their pictures too.
Tanya, 4 October, 2024 at 15:20

Hey everyone! I was thinking about using a photo app for my wedding so that guests can upload pictures taken at the event. I'd prefer to keep the photos private among those who attended. If anyone is...

Webster, yesterday at 08:48 126
Spamboule
Grammar help please
Spamboule, 23 October, 2008 at 18:06

Sorry if this is a bit WP related, but given the fact that many planners are uable to differentiate between your/you're etc I thought I'd be better off over here ? OH has written the menu for our...

Oliver, sunday 8-Mar-26 16
NikiST
Place name cards.... etiquette?
NikiST, 9 June, 2011 at 11:13

We're only having first names on the place name cards, we're also using people's shortened names, names they are more commonly knows as like "Tony" instead of Antony.. etc. So with that in mind, what...

Oliver, sunday 8-Mar-26 17
Name Places...Full name or first name only???
, 7 July, 2011 at 08:05

Hey ladies I tried to search on previous threads for this but Hitched doesn't seem to want to let me today!! I was just wondering what everyone is doing with regards to name places. Are you using...

Oliver, saturday 28-Feb-26 17
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Bridesmaid changing out of dress
Bride 2 Be 2015, 29 April, 2015 at 09:10

Is it the norm for bridesmaids to change out of their dresses in the evening? I've been to some weddings and seen this happen and others where they have kept them on all night... what are your...

Oliver, thursday 19-Feb-26 22
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Mother of the bride outfit change?
HilaryE, 18 June, 2014 at 23:12

After some opinions please. I haven't bought my outfit yet. Am caught trying to find something which is dressy enough for formal church wedding and sit down reception, but will also take me into the...

Oliver, thursday 19-Feb-26 25
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Adding Guests to Events on the Guest List planning tool
Matthew, 16 October, 2023 at 19:59

How do I add guests to new events that I create on the guestlist? I've added a new event for the evening, and want guests to RSVP when they use the website. But I can't seem to add them to the new...

Marketing, monday 18-May-26 49 1
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Flat shoes?
MrsPtoB, 25 June, 2017 at 11:53

Is anyone wearing flat shoes? I need some suggestions. People keep telling me that I must wear heels but I rarely wear heels and our wedding ceremony is at a castle with around 300 steps to go up and...

Oliver, thursday 29-Jan-26 6
Caitlin
Social media uploads on wedding day
Caitlin, 1 June, 2024 at 19:05

Hello girls Has anyone had to navigate through the fine line of guests posting pictures of you on social media on your wedding day?!! I don’t have a problem with people taking pictures together or of...

Misty, wednesday 20-May-26 59 1
*ginni of the lamp*
pun-tastic headlines for fairy tales - hitched brains needed
*ginni of the lamp*, 22 January, 2009 at 18:45

My daughter has to suggest some possible (tabloid style) newspaper headlines for the 3 little pigs, hansel and gretel and sleeping beauty. We've thought of two (all she needs, so she has the work done...

Oliver, tuesday 27-Jan-26 5
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Online Guest Photo Uploads
Carly, 19 June, 2024 at 18:55

I want to use a designated online guest photo upload platform so that all of my guests can add photos to the same place, has anybody used something like this and who did you use? I’m planning to put a...

Oliver, tuesday 27-Jan-26 10
Wuzzle
What was the best/most thoughtful wedding present you received?
Wuzzle, 6 January, 2009 at 12:05

My best friend is getting married in a few months and I am being her briedsmaid. I want to get them something really special as a present but am drawing a blank on ideas. She loves chocolate, so I was...

Seotraffic, tuesday 5-May-26 34
panda2011
Military Weddings
panda2011, 24 November, 2010 at 22:14

I'm sure I'm not the only Hitcher getting married to a man in uniform. What's everyone doing about uniforms/civvy clothes? My OH will wear his RAF uniform, as will his RAF mates. His brother will be...

Oliver, monday 26-Jan-26 60
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Honeymoon - straight after the wedding or wait????
Germanbride, 18 August, 2013 at 17:27

Hi all, we have been to the travel agent today to see what the options are with regards to our honeymoon. Now this is the second marriage for my OH so he is not too bothered for a typical honeymoon....

Oliver, monday 26-Jan-26 24
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Wedding regrets & being late
Alex, 28 May, 2025 at 08:04

It's been 1 and a half years since I got married, unfortunately I was 15 minutes late and 20 by the time I got down the aisle. I was so stressed, anxious and felt so bad. A number of things happened...

Batsaikhan, tuesday 28-Apr-26 13

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