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Extra tables for evening guests
Wherts2b, 30 March, 2012 at 11:31

We are having 6 round tables for the wedding breakfast and the top table, but on the eveing we have potentially another 120 people coming and so the venue said they will get some extra tables made up...

2b_MrsB, friday 30-Mar-12 13 1,411
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Please HELP!! How do you have 3 people giving you away?????
zo-bud, 29 March, 2012 at 10:48

This is something that is causing me alot of stress and upset at the moment! Basically my initial senario was - I have a Dad, a step Dad and my grandad, and I made the initial decision of asking my...

Kyz23, friday 30-Mar-12 15 5,072
Fergo
Venue has dropped prices (dramatically) after contract has been signed!!!
Fergo, 28 March, 2012 at 16:24

I just went on my venue's website to have a nosey and have seen that they are offering wedding packages for this year and next year at a price which is much less than what I'm paying! If I booked the...

Peter, friday 30-Mar-12 33 3,266
germaki
Wedding breakfast-main and dessert??
germaki, 29 March, 2012 at 21:19

Hi everyone, It's been a while since i've posted but my Fiance and I have decided on a date-11th October 2013 (my late Father's birthday) and we're starting to look at what our budget will be. I've...

becomingmrsevans, friday 30-Mar-12 7 881
MrsMeldrew
Do side tiaras hurt??
MrsMeldrew, 28 March, 2012 at 15:21

Sounds like a daft question but do side tiaras dig in at the back of your ears? You know like a headband when you get that headache lol? i started thinking about it the other day and I remembered that...

3d jewellery, friday 30-Mar-12 21 3,661
snowboardgirl82
Venue twins please! South Farm in Cambridgeshire?
snowboardgirl82, 7 December, 2010 at 12:07

Hello lovely ladies here, I have just recently discovered the forum (although I signed up on hitched ages ago!) and hoping to find the venue twin for South Farm! It seems to be pretty popular venue so...

Nik_Nak, friday 30-Mar-12 33 5,209
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Letter shaped dishes for sweetie buffet?
orange201012, 29 March, 2012 at 07:32

I would like to use some letter shaped dishes like the ones below for my sweetie buffet, but I cant find anywhere in the UK that stocks them. There are loads in America but the shipping costs more...

sian-tiffany, thursday 29-Mar-12 6 5,222
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marquee flooring...help needed!!!
natsastar, 29 March, 2012 at 17:03

We are having a marquee on a field/massive bit of grass area and are struggling for the floor. the wedding is booked for the 15 june 2013 so not until next year but we are struggling for flooring. we...

natsastar, thursday 29-Mar-12 3 6,988
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another dress wobble - button and zip v's lace up back
, 29 March, 2012 at 15:51

Hiya everyone, Im havong an awful day! my mum is still awaiting a triple bypass and getting worse, by dad got rushed the hospital yesterday with his heart and is awaiting an op, ive fucked up an order...

HayleyMay, thursday 29-Mar-12 10 5,346
lady_lyla
BMs gift
lady_lyla, 29 March, 2012 at 10:19

Ok so this might make me sound like a massive tight-ar*e BUT... Last night I went to this work thing and won £100 Molton Brown vouchers - I've been looking on their site and found these (gift set of 4...

BatsGirl, thursday 29-Mar-12 18 1,334
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How many tealights!
Wherts2b, 29 March, 2012 at 13:28

For our centre piece we're having candelabras and 3 tea cups around the base. I wanted some tealights dotted around the tables too and not sure how many to buy for each table? I know there's tons of...

Mrs*W*2B, thursday 29-Mar-12 1 419
*Ducky*
Combs or side tiaras - which side?
*Ducky*, 28 March, 2012 at 11:40

Are there any rules hairdresses like to follow? The same side or opposite side as your parting? And finally, I normally always hold OH's hand with my right hand. So that means my left side is more...

RebeccaC, thursday 29-Mar-12 13 2,476
helenparki
Ebay wedding dress - my experience (share your own too!)
helenparki, 27 March, 2012 at 13:01

I just wanted to share my experience with other brides to be when to comes to buying copied wedding dresses from China off ebay as I’ve seen threads on here from ladies asking about dresses on ebay...

Emsypooh, thursday 29-Mar-12 20 13,246
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bring your own alcohol??...
natsastar, 28 March, 2012 at 23:08

We are having our wedding at a venue where we can chose what we want to do. my dad built most of the holiday cottages and we get to use the whole place for a long 3 day weekend. the problem me &...

Mrs*W*2B, thursday 29-Mar-12 4 6,667
mummymrs2b
How soon before the wedding do you book hen do?
mummymrs2b, 28 March, 2012 at 09:17

Getting married next April and a couple of people asked when I'm having the hen do... Answer is I've no idea! Is there a certain time your meant to go before the wedding or is it just whenever? When...

Blonde Viki, wednesday 28-Mar-12 24 2,314
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Joint Stag and Hen
BatsGirl, 28 March, 2012 at 11:20

So we're thinking we want a joint do. We've bene together 14 years and it seems a bit daft for us to have an enforced boys and girls night when all of our friends are joint (and I'd miss not having...

~Peanut~, wednesday 28-Mar-12 10 2,086
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Do You Eat Lamb - Food Choices HELP!!
, 27 March, 2012 at 18:59

Random question but I know I few people (not vegetarians either) who don't eat lamb. Is this a common thing? Lamb is our favourite and we were going to have it as the main course but would it be wiser...

Bev Downie, wednesday 28-Mar-12 45 4,899
ButterflyChild
does a wedding ring need to sit flush against engagement ring??
ButterflyChild, 28 March, 2012 at 04:27

Im in a bit of a pickle! I've been starting to look at wedding rings to try and get an idea of what it is I would like to have. I reckon I'll go for a plain white gold court band. But, my engagement...

ButterflyChild, wednesday 28-Mar-12 16 10,465
3d jewellery
Supermarket wedding flowers
3d jewellery, 28 March, 2012 at 07:50

I got a leaflet through the door as one of my local Morrisons has had a refit and put a florists in. I think if I was on a really tight budget I would give it serious consideration.

*Funky*, wednesday 28-Mar-12 11 7,803
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Would you buy an Ex Sample, or Second Hand wedding dress?
Shell2012, 27 March, 2012 at 17:51

Hi All Brides 2 Be, I am considering opening a Bridal Boutique offering Ex Sample and Second hand wedding dresses. And I am looking to find out whether there would be a demand for this kind of thing?...

DarkMoomin, tuesday 27-Mar-12 23 6,905
Pink Han-bag
I feel like I'm going mad, finding a wedding venue problems
Pink Han-bag, 27 March, 2012 at 11:48

My brain hurts from googling and thinking about everything We're looking to get married in the north west next spring. We've provisionally booked a couple of venues; Bartle Hall which is really lovely...

Pink Han-bag, tuesday 27-Mar-12 21 2,661
cford09
How much is everyone paying / budgeting for flowers?
cford09, 26 March, 2012 at 21:51

Flowers are pretty much our last of the 'big' things to organise and, as with most things, I'm not sure what I should be looking at price wise. We need my bouquet, 2 BM handtieds, 2 flower girl...

HayleyMay, tuesday 27-Mar-12 22 7,267
warlycarly
Lillies?
warlycarly, 25 March, 2012 at 02:43

is anyone having lillies as their flowers? i have just seen a beautiful bouquet with lillies, but im not sure if they are appropriate for weddings, i have always thought of them as a funeral flower......

RebeccaC, monday 26-Mar-12 14 1,711
pandorasbox
Most OTT wedding idea?
pandorasbox, 25 March, 2012 at 18:03

Not had one of these threads for a while and seen some bizarre stuff lately. One was that a bride and groom demand all their guests dress up for the full day (and evening) in leis and grass skirts for...

butterflystar, monday 26-Mar-12 10 2,183
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Hairdresser for Afro Caribbean/Mixed Raced Hair
soon-to-be-Mrs-King, 20 March, 2012 at 15:05

One of my bridesmaids was going to do my hair for the wedding but we are now thinking that it is just not going to be practical because of timings on the day and we do not want to rush and get all...

Bride123, monday 26-Mar-12 11 8,208
KateyP
Jam Jars
KateyP, 18 March, 2012 at 20:41

Time to clear my house of the 140 jam jars I collected for my wedding!...

KateyP, monday 26-Mar-12 7 3,268
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Cambridgeshire bride-to-be - venue suggestions please!
orione16, 23 March, 2012 at 12:59

Hi. My name's Emma and my fiance is Paul. We have a four-y-o son called Tommy. We are looking at getting married in August 2013. We live in Wisbech and do not want to have to travel miles to a venue....

*Nursey*, monday 26-Mar-12 7 1,069
DarkMoomin
Ceremony Seating?
DarkMoomin, 25 March, 2012 at 20:32

Hi All, Not sure if this is a bit of a random problem or not! We have decided we want to reserve seats for specific people in the front few rows of the ceremony. In part this is because we were at a...

DarkMoomin, sunday 25-Mar-12 3 3,627
warlycarly
WOOHOO! We have FINALLY agreed on a first dance song...
warlycarly, 21 March, 2012 at 23:43

After a lot of nagging to get OH to find a song he likes, and me having to sit and listen to all of them and the listen to the words, we have finally decided on Amy Winehouse - Will you still love me...

50's pin up bride, sunday 25-Mar-12 56 9,357
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father of the groom suit!?
chocolatepickle, 24 March, 2012 at 10:06

When we hired our mens suits because we wanted 5 we got a 6th free, so offered for the father of the groom to hire a suit for the occasion. Well unexpected to me, having left it with the groom to sort...

2b_MrsB, sunday 25-Mar-12 12 3,582
eeyoring
Hair and Make up Costs
eeyoring, 11 March, 2012 at 12:07

Oh my word its expensive! So far all quotes are coming in way above what I can afford. To have me and my bridesmaids hair and make up done is looking at about £800 - £1000 and thats without a trial...

eeyoring, saturday 24-Mar-12 19 2,051
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Advice Needed - Church Wedding Notice Period
amanda66, 23 March, 2012 at 19:54

Hi Ladies, I'm new here so be gentle with me ha-ha. Ok so we have found out we are getting some unexpected money that we have decided to use to get married. We've had confirmation that it should be...

amanda66, saturday 24-Mar-12 4 1,825

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