Discussions from Planning

Has anyone been able to add menu options to the hitched wedding website RVSPs?

Hi My partner of 18 years has been battling a T4 malignant tumour in his oesophagus over the past year. Many rounds of chemo, infections, a full stomach removal and partial oesophagus removal later...

Ive been looking at places to go for a hen night out. I came across the Chicago Rock hen package which is called 'Last Fling Before the Ring' It got me thinking, its a common idea that the hen/stag is...

Hi, Has anyone come across or booked the band ‘The Vanquish’ for their wedding? Looks really good on YouTube and Facebook but any feedback from people who have used them would be much appreciated!...

Can anyone recommend any nice or funny poems or messages to write in a hen book? My mind is completely blank and I need some inspiration! ?

Who do people have their wedding insurance with?

Hey savvy savers 💸 Everyone’s talking Black Friday deals, but what about saving BIG on your wedding? Now’s the perfect time to book your vendors - don’t wait, they won’t last! 🖤 Where to find our...

Just wondering if brides to be have booked hair and make-up with the same person, or separately? Thanks

Hi all, due to budget reasons we are thinking of getting a cake from M&S, Waitrose or maybe Cloud Nine Cake Center. Howeverrrrr... we are staying in a hotel for two nights before the wedding. I am...

I had this question as well! It turns out, from me looking at your profile, that I think we may be getting married at the same venue! 🤍🤍 we’re March 2025 I’ve not met anyone with the same venue yet!

Hey ladies I was wondering if any of you ladies had a tick list or check list that you work towards. I am a super organised person, but unsure where to start with planning my wedding, could benefit...

Hi everyone - I'm wondering if anyone might have tips or ideas for some elegant but non floral centrepieces? I've never really loved cut flowers and find some of the smells overwhelming, and a bit...

Hi everyone, I'm getting married this month!!! We are in the final stages of paying everything off and I'm now working on bridesmaid gifts. On the morning I'm going to give my bridesmaids a gift bag...

Good Afternoon ladies ") I have a question there is a document that needs to be signed after we get married with our two witnesses also. Do I sign with my old signature? or with my new surname? I am...

Hi all, I’m getting married in March 2026, and wondering when would be the best time to send the Save the Dates? It’s so exciting so I feel as though I want to send them as soon as I can, but the...

Just wondered if there's a few who's in laws get involved in helping to pay or helping to plan, etc? My in-laws don't know anything, aren't paying for anything, don't ask about anything. I tried to...

Mr Ily and I are planning a trip to Hatton Garden this week to choose our wedding rings. Anyone have any recommendations?

Hi all! We’ve just ordered our save the dates and I now need to send over the wording we want on them. I don’t want to over do it or under do it. Can anyone give me advice of what should actually be...

Hi guys i am finally getting married, please suggest me a color combination of bride and groom

Anyone else having a very slow time of finding a venue due to venues not responding? It’s very frustrating as the ones I think are most suitable are the ones I’m desperate to hear back from, I’ve...

So my partner and | have just booked our cake maker for the big day, mainly because of the choice of flavours she offered! I'd love to know what you all picked for yours We've gone for 3 tiers - tier...

Hi there I would like to make my own biodegradable confetti but can't seem to find anywhere to buy this in sheets/ rolls does anyone know where to get this, also any idea where to get custom shaped...

Hi there, Really feeling disappointed right now. I'd booked a make-up artist called Claire-Elizabeth for a trial, but she didn't turn up, and didn't return my voicemail when I called to check what was...

Does anyone know how to export their guest email addresses ? I also need to somehow export their table plan I have made and the mean choices my guests have given?? Many thanks

As the title says, really. Also, if you're not invited with your fiance to their wedding, would it be appropriate to not invite a friend's husband and save the per head charge/space that way. Really...

I am trying to do my budget, and i have no idea how much flowers cost! I know its a broad question and i know it will vary according to location (im in west midlands) flower type etc. I'm having small...

Hi everyone, Has anyone used paper flowers or made their own at all? Fiancé and I really like the style of the origami flowers made out of books. I know you can buy them but we wanted to try and make...

Cant wait for my wedding!!!

Hi, I’m getting married at 2025 and having a civil ceremony with the ceremony and reception taking place at the same venue. Can anyone help with what I need to arrange for the ceremony? What’s usually...

Hi there, My partner and I really like the idea of a video and have been looking at companies who send you cameras for friends to film the day and they edit it. We are looking at this partly as some...